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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just got offered a significant amount of mount of money for a meet. I don't know whether to be chuffed or insulted

I would never except and part of me feels degraded by the offer. But the other half of me is flattered and excited by it.

Thoughts?

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I'll double it!

Only messin'

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

People offer me money to suck my dick all the time.

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city

Ha I once got offered 1500 for me to attend a wedding with him. He actually sent me a photo of his invitation and the cash lol. And this guy had a fair few verifications. All because I am slightly different in religion wise thats why he wanted me emmmm no thanks

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Tell him to mail me could do with some extra cash for Christmas . I'll give you a finders fee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people find a kink in it!

Personally the idea of a submission to total stranger where "you just have to do the job" turns me on. Only on a mental level though as I could never see myself providing any bedroom service to anyone.

Some character offered me 12k last Christmas eve. He got deleted and blocked.

I do sometimes wonder what if...

On a second thought being an independent human being, who has a career, secure income and not having rely on anyone or anything but myself, being in charge of my own life and choices turns me on more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people find a kink in it!

Personally the idea of a submission to total stranger where "you just have to do the job" turns me on. Only on a mental level though as I could never see myself providing any bedroom service to anyone.

Some character offered me 12k last Christmas eve. He got deleted and blocked.

I do sometimes wonder what if...

On a second thought being an independent human being, who has a career, secure income and not having rely on anyone or anything but myself, being in charge of my own life and choices turns me on more "

Could you argue that having all those choices and deciding to do it is even more empowering....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people find a kink in it!

Personally the idea of a submission to total stranger where "you just have to do the job" turns me on. Only on a mental level though as I could never see myself providing any bedroom service to anyone.

Some character offered me 12k last Christmas eve. He got deleted and blocked.

I do sometimes wonder what if...

On a second thought being an independent human being, who has a career, secure income and not having rely on anyone or anything but myself, being in charge of my own life and choices turns me on more

Could you argue that having all those choices and deciding to do it is even more empowering....?

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It's more empowering to choose the hard way not the easy way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people find a kink in it!

Personally the idea of a submission to total stranger where "you just have to do the job" turns me on. Only on a mental level though as I could never see myself providing any bedroom service to anyone.

Some character offered me 12k last Christmas eve. He got deleted and blocked.

I do sometimes wonder what if...

On a second thought being an independent human being, who has a career, secure income and not having rely on anyone or anything but myself, being in charge of my own life and choices turns me on more

Could you argue that having all those choices and deciding to do it is even more empowering....?

"

By all means I'm not ritch and do help my family as much as I can, so that kind of money would make a big difference.

People say that money is power. It is in a way right, and yes, it is empowering to be in a position to be able to decline the offer which is most likely to be fake, but also which most would most likely would find a way to accept.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

I messaged someone yesterday morning about a meet and they said it would be £95. I reported it yet they are still here today, still online. Happens all the time . Still see 5 or 6 on the site that I have previously reported . The evidence is in their message to me . Nothing is ever done . Rant over

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some people find a kink in it!

Personally the idea of a submission to total stranger where "you just have to do the job" turns me on. Only on a mental level though as I could never see myself providing any bedroom service to anyone.

Some character offered me 12k last Christmas eve. He got deleted and blocked.

I do sometimes wonder what if...

On a second thought being an independent human being, who has a career, secure income and not having rely on anyone or anything but myself, being in charge of my own life and choices turns me on more

Could you argue that having all those choices and deciding to do it is even more empowering....?

By all means I'm not ritch and do help my family as much as I can, so that kind of money would make a big difference.

People say that money is power. It is in a way right, and yes, it is empowering to be in a position to be able to decline the offer which is most likely to be fake, but also which most would most likely would find a way to accept. "

Lol..truly inspiring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to pay ladies for their panties - it’s the thrill of the meet I find a turn on

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Sure charging women on Fab for my services has become my sole source of income...

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast


"Some character offered me 12k last Christmas eve. He got deleted and blocked. "

£12k? He can fuck me for that!!!!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I've been offered money, I've been offered all inclusive holidays with spending money, I've been offered Louboutins.... I'm not for sale.

Besides which, I'm quite possibly the least materialistic person you could ever meet... I really don't care much for 'things', unless they have some sentimental value to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been offered anything!! My fab stock price is clearly wayyyyy down

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

how much did the person value at

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin


"I messaged someone yesterday morning about a meet and they said it would be £95. I reported it yet they are still here today, still online. Happens all the time . Still see 5 or 6 on the site that I have previously reported . The evidence is in their message to me . Nothing is ever done . Rant over

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exactly i reported people and still here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got offered a significant amount of mount of money for a meet. I don't know whether to be chuffed or insulted

I would never except and part of me feels degraded by the offer. But the other half of me is flattered and excited by it.

Thoughts?"

I think a certain portion of men think all women can be bought in some fashion or another. I dont know ifs an insult as they are willing to use hard earned cash to enjoy time with you. I d take it as a odd but still realistic compliment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never been offered anything!! My fab stock price is clearly wayyyyy down "

Most likely after reading this some man will now offer you some money lol.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Never been offered anything!! My fab stock price is clearly wayyyyy down "

It's something that only ever seems to happen to me on my single profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I usually take those offers with a pinch of salt desperate men who will say or do anything for a meet. It's unlikely they will result in payment.

Mind you I had one gentlemen offer me 150e to smell my feet. When I politely declined he graciously offered to take care of my horniness for free. I did laugh the check of him lol.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I just got offered a significant amount of mount of money for a meet. I don't know whether to be chuffed or insulted

I would never except and part of me feels degraded by the offer. But the other half of me is flattered and excited by it.

Thoughts?

I think a certain portion of men think all women can be bought in some fashion or another. I dont know ifs an insult as they are willing to use hard earned cash to enjoy time with you. I d take it as a odd but still realistic compliment. "

It does raise an interesting question though. One for the ladies maybe more so than men... If you were on a dating site and someone asked you out to dinner, you probably wouldn't think about it beyond 'do I want to have dinner with him or not?', but if someone on Fab were to ask, would you feel it might put you under obligation in their eyes? That they might have a quid pro quo expectation?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Some character offered me 12k last Christmas eve. He got deleted and blocked.

£12k? He can fuck me for that!!!!"

Hmm just from a logistical point of view, how would you go on exchanging this sum without being messed around?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"Some character offered me 12k last Christmas eve. He got deleted and blocked.

£12k? He can fuck me for that!!!!

Hmm just from a logistical point of view, how would you go on exchanging this sum without being messed around? "

Bring your pump.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Oh for fuck sake. Pimp not pump.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Asking for and offering money is against site rules.

Reports to admin are always checked

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Here is an explanation from Admin from another thread on how they deal with reports.

******Just a quick note. If people report others and we can verify that they have broken site rules, we always take action (either a first and final warning, partially suspended account, fully suspended, mixture of the above).

Every single report sent via the REPORT link is reviewed. Clearly it's not in our interests to have people on here who are bad for the site. Equally we need to verify what has been reported and be fair to those who have been reported.

Admin

PS. we never provide feedback on what has happened. It's just not practical given that we get 100s of reports a day.

Here is what the page says after a report has been submitted:

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