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Birth of a Hotwife

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By *etergemma OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Hi,

I just wanted to post this here, its Gemma's description of her first proper Hotwife experience. I would like to think that it might help some of the single lads on here realize that you don't need to be scared or nervous to do this but also show that it can be an incredibly erotic experience for not just the couple but also for you and maybe show how valued the reliable/sane single men are here after all.

Also, for couples considering this, I hope it can show you that it can be an amazing experience for you. Its probably the best thing we have ever done on the scene.

I posted the first two paragraphs below, I didn't want to post a link as it might get removed, so the rest is available on the EnvyNights Website.

Thanks,

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Hotwifing ....

Settling into the Swinging scene in Ireland, we ran some meet and greets and we were regulars at the swinging club in Dublin and occasionally Cork. We had made a name for ourselves for the social side of swinging. A place I was far more comfortable in then actually swinging. We went to some up market swinging events but generally only played together in the end.

Fast forward to August 2018 and a conversation at our kitchen table about one half of another couple. She's gorgeous and petite and flirty and genuinely lovely. Someone my hubby was definitely interested in and so I told him he could have free reign there, no issues, carte blanche for a solo meet should he wish to. I'm not a jealous person in that I'm not jealous OF anyone or their possessions or their looks etc.. but I have come to realise I'm quite insecure when it comes to my husband meeting on his own but that's ok, it's not for everyone. He is far more comfortable with the idea of it and I think to be honest it stems from guys having these fantasies about their wives or girlfriends for a long time before raising it as a scenario with you..................

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I read the blog post and just loved it! Well written, funny and sexy!

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

Very interesting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Excellent post, very well written!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great read guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for sharing op, really honest and very helpful some possibly don't realise that this is something couples go through as a journey, and it was thoroughly rewarding to read yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And not one word about cheese sticks great read I'm gonna have to find me one of these hot wife thingys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best thing weve ever done to date! We can thank your gorgeous wife for the idea !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't find it

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By *ireannCplCouple
over a year ago

Suburbs

Excellent post Sexies,

you both have so fulfilled one of our fantasies and it's a venture we have embraced with open arms and legs..lol. We understand that it doesn't suit all couples and people on the scene, but because of our work and family commitments we find it hard to arrange to be off together for a normal husband/wife date not to mind a swing meet. So we have taken to hotwife and (is the word) stag meets which we both have enjoyed. The fun for us is the pre-meet nerves and the "reclaim"..

Really can't wait to catch up again soon with you PeterGemma..

Lots of love xxx

EireCpl

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

Only thing we haven't done is me out with a guy on my own, hubby is happy enough I find it difficult though have had plenty of snogging and gropes but always stop there, it is def on the cards though, and like you I get a bit jealous of him as we used to be full swap but he prefers seeing me or even knowing what I am at or intending to be xxx

Stacey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great article! Great read!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great read and hats off, it may be a fantasy for a lot men, but you'll find the majority will never carry it out.. So good for you

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By *ubberNumbersCouple
over a year ago

dublin

Great article. Can't wait to show herself

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By *aidbare5Couple
over a year ago

down the road

Good stuff guys. It just shows how every fantasy can be made a reality once you know how to cut through the time wasters.

See you both soon hopefully.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Such a good read Gemma, you're a fantastic writer! X

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By *mazingTimesMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Nice post Gemma.

Having helped a few couples/hot wives with that fantasy, I can confirm that once all parties have the due respect for each other, it can be a truly enjoying experience for all involved.

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By *ittyMissKittyWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Great post Gemma . Very well written and worded

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By *obLMan
over a year ago

south dub

Very intresting post and well writen. Would love to get into this some day sounded super sexy

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

I've really enjoyed quite a few hotwife meets the vast majority with the husband participating. They are without doubt amongst the best sexual experiences....the sexual tension and energy in the room is normally out of this world. Thanks Gemma for sharing your experiences and the journey as to how you got there. Makes for very interesting reading and hopefully will give other couples the courage to give it a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't find it "

Me neither

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By *amien88Man
over a year ago

wicklow

Find it very hard to find hot wife....still on my bucket list I'm afraid

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"I can't find it

Me neither "

It in the latest news section

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By *etergemma OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Excellent post Sexies,

you both have so fulfilled one of our fantasies and it's a venture we have embraced with open arms and legs..lol. We understand that it doesn't suit all couples and people on the scene, but because of our work and family commitments we find it hard to arrange to be off together for a normal husband/wife date not to mind a swing meet. So we have taken to hotwife and (is the word) stag meets which we both have enjoyed. The fun for us is the pre-meet nerves and the "reclaim"..

Really can't wait to catch up again soon with you PeterGemma..

Lots of love xxx

EireCpl "

Only cause you two are such rides. It was an amazing experience for me but glad i could help.

Get up to dublin soon Ffs

Pete x

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I would be very nervous chatting to a very hot lady cos i would be afraid i would be way out of her league .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

That was a great read. Wondering will there be more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't find it

Me neither

It in the latest news section"

Still cant find it

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"I can't find it

Me neither

It in the latest news section

Still cant find it "

I pmd you

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I remember aranging a 3sum for a lady friend and watching her give the other guya bj was the most erotic thing ever . Its a pity he did not fuck her cos i wanted to see that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I can't find it

Me neither

It in the latest news section

Still cant find it

I pmd you "

Thank you, found it and omg...loved it

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Great read and very interesting indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem"

I think there’s plenty of well verified, reliable guys out there. You just have to look hard enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem

I think there’s plenty of well verified, reliable guys out there. You just have to look hard enough "

I have

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By *etergemma OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem

I think there’s plenty of well verified, reliable guys out there. You just have to look hard enough "
I beg to differ Mike, they are rare enough

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem

I think there’s plenty of well verified, reliable guys out there. You just have to look hard enough I beg to differ Mike, they are rare enough "
I know quite a few that are reliable and that I've met before on meets. Feel free to PM me if your stuck for names.

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By *etergemma OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem

I think there’s plenty of well verified, reliable guys out there. You just have to look hard enough I beg to differ Mike, they are rare enough I know quite a few that are reliable and that I've met before on meets. Feel free to PM me if your stuck for names."
Well if thats the case, they shouldnt have a p_oblem showing interest in the next social we attend..

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By *etergemma OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"That was a great read. Wondering will there be more "

There are a few chapters to be fair

Xx

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By *etergemma OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Thanks so much for the wonderful feedback guys and gals. Yis are a bunch of rides

Gem x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow amazing. Pity a list of reliable hot guys can't be put together for us single womem

I think there’s plenty of well verified, reliable guys out there. You just have to look hard enough I beg to differ Mike, they are rare enough I know quite a few that are reliable and that I've met before on meets. Feel free to PM me if your stuck for names."

Can send a few my way

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

Absolutely loved reading it Gemma, sure gave me fanny flutters

I hope you continue on your hotwife journey and write loads more xx

Sam x

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By *vasohotCouple
over a year ago

passionville

Bravo guys

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

An enjoyable, worthwhile read. Cheers folks

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By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

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What an excellent insight into the making of a hot Wife. Thanks for sharing Gem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for sharing x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very good inter interesting read

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By *etergemma OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"What an excellent insight into the making of a hot Wife. Thanks for sharing Gem "
When are we gonna get to see you sexy feckers again??

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By *etergemma OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

For anyone unable to find the link just add “.ie” to envynights

Thanks for all the wonderful messages.

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By *kcoupleCouple
over a year ago

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"What an excellent insight into the making of a hot Wife. Thanks for sharing Gem When are we gonna get to see you sexy feckers again?? "

I swear to god we are gagging to get back at it but one little p_oblem is holding us back. Trust me we are laying plans to get over this hurdle .

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By *etergemma OP   Couple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"What an excellent insight into the making of a hot Wife. Thanks for sharing Gem When are we gonna get to see you sexy feckers again??

I swear to god we are gagging to get back at it but one little p_oblem is holding us back. Trust me we are laying plans to get over this hurdle . "
Excellent

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By *yesgreenMan
over a year ago

north and south


"What an excellent insight into the making of a hot Wife. Thanks for sharing Gem When are we gonna get to see you sexy feckers again??

I swear to god we are gagging to get back at it but one little p_oblem is holding us back. Trust me we are laying plans to get over this hurdle . Excellent "

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