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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’ve been getting with the same girl a few times over the last while but everytime she gives me a blowjob it just isn’t great how do I tell her to do something different without offending her or what should I say to her? I am really appreciative of them so don’t want to come across as a dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk to her the best sex comes when people arent to proud to listen to what their partners wants or likes.

Communicating what you like ismt a critisisim of the other person just make sure thats clear.

If she is on fab maybe give her the heads up this thread is here

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Talking to her might help especially if she is a regular. Maybe point out what you like more than what she's doing wrong. I'd prefer to be told if I wasn't doing something right and the guy was bored. Lol

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Giving her pointers... telling her what you like and dont ... and tell her to look up bad girls bible...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Talking to her might help especially if she is a regular. Maybe point out what you like more than what she's doing wrong. I'd prefer to be told if I wasn't doing something right and the guy was bored. Lol "

Yeah that is a good way of putting things! Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she on here?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Giving her pointers... telling her what you like and dont ... and tell her to look up bad girls bible... "

Oh I’ll suggest that! Thanks

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Without her knowing what you like of course she's not going to know. Communication is key, what works for one doesn't work for everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a chat and ask if you can improve on anything I'm sure your not shit hot either and then have a chat about what makes yous both happy.

It takes two baby

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By *attooYouMan
over a year ago

just about northside

Guy 1 to Guy 2: "Describe your worst blow-job".

Guy 2 to Guy 1: "Fucking brilliant!"

Q: is there another kind?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d rather someone say to me if they want something different. Just even give some direction as it’s happening. I quite like being told what to do!

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Tell her straight that u love whas t she's doing but she's going to have to improve her technic if she's going to continue to give u bj's

Simples really

Pointers are always good as bash says a little direction can help and if she's appericiative of it you never know it may open another avenue of sexy fun for u both

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

What posters said above. Don't be shy of giving some directions, the only way of getting to a higher level.

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I think you can definitely communicate with someone about this without being a dick, as long as you frame it as "I love it when you xyz" or "I'd love it if you abc" instead of "ur BJs are boring".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell her keep practising till you cum

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Sit down and have a chat with her....

Or.....

Slap her in the face with your cock, jerk it up and down, and tell her what to fucking do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her is her sister any better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexting. Having the conversation in the moment can ruin the energy and could make her feel insecure. In my experience, it's better to initiate some sexting and tell her exactly what you want her to do. Chances are she'll be delighted to have some instructions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

While she's sucking your cock direct her. Move your cock around, fuck her mouth, make suggestions, I love it when you do x y and z.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Change positions too for her to perform in ...there are different positions a lady can be in to perform orally...and even if you think your oral is boring atm..always pay the lady compliments..always ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair the girl.. I assume she doesn't have a dick.. not all us girls do ! Lol

In her defence..and my experience giving head loads of guys like different ways of giving head.. she may have been told by previous guys she was olympian deep throater and could make them orgasm on demand..

People appreciate the truth and I'm hopeful if you were eating her pussy like an all you can eat buffet but she wanted you to treat it like a michelin star meal that you'd oblige .

Things are often misconstued in the heat of the moment so if you can say it to her in a vanilla way I'm sure she will be admire your honesty.

Wishing you lots of good head x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Communication is the answer, talking to each other...be honest and open and the sex will improve, Is your good Lady happy with your technique when you`re performing oral for her? Hope things work out for you both..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had my fair share of depression brought on by some circumstances, it's horrle, talking to people is great. But the best thing that happened for me is I came to the conclusion that what was getting me down I couldn't change ,and if you can change it, there's not point getting down. You need to find the root of the problem, that's the only way you can break it.

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

watch porn with her, and if you like the look of something just say that looks nice, and maybe she might see something aswell

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