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By *trawberryCutie OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

So I've been on fab A few years. I've loved almost every min of it. But I really want someone that I can come home to or someone that can come home to me someone that I can hug someone I can share my day with but I've no idea how to find that person. My question is been on fab does it help or hinder you ???

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim

Hi not sure a lot of guys here would not date a fabber

But happy to meet for sex or whatever

It should do neither in my book

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been on fab A few years. I've loved almost every min of it. But I really want someone that I can come home to or someone that can come home to me someone that I can hug someone I can share my day with but I've no idea how to find that person. My question is been on fab does it help or hinder you ???"

That's a really tough question ..one could be extremely lucky that by being on here they could find someone that they really do click with and it's taken to a level neither thought would happen but then again this being the site it is the odds are stacked against that happening because maybe those here don't want to be involved in a relationship ,as in they're not here for a relationship ,they're here to fuck ,so l would think if this was a roulette table l'd say hinder would be the answer, simply because it is the type of site it is.. most ..if not all..just want NSA and don't want the drama that may occur if a lady started to " get feelings " for a guy...they'd go on dating sites ...so for me ..my opinion ,for what it's worth would say hinder..but am sure there are fabbers here that met and took it to the next level too but l would think thats a very rare happening in proportion to the amount of people on here .but would be totally thrilled for you if it happened ...but as you say you've been here a few years and it hasn't happened yet but maybe that was because you didn't want it to happen in that time and now you do ..so l do wish you the very best in for what you seek ..here on this site or wherever .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say that if you've been on fab a few years and haven't met anyone interested in a relationship with you, then you need to look elsewhere. A lot of men here seem to divide women into two camps, ones they would fuck and ones they would bring home to mammy, they don't seem to understand that women who like sex can also make good long-term partners. Best of luck

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

Me and my ex met through swinging and were together for 6 years so it can't happen. Started as just sex, then there were nights we just hung out watched movies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been on fab A few years. I've loved almost every min of it. But I really want someone that I can come home to or someone that can come home to me someone that I can hug someone I can share my day with but I've no idea how to find that person. My question is been on fab does it help or hinder you ???"
set up a pof account and you'll find someone for yourself there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say that if you've been on fab a few years and haven't met anyone interested in a relationship with you, then you need to look elsewhere. A lot of men here seem to divide women into two camps, ones they would fuck and ones they would bring home to mammy, they don't seem to understand that women who like sex can also make good long-term partners. Best of luck "

This without a shadow of doubt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on Fab is something you choose for yourself so it can only help. Because at the emd of the day do you want to date someone who is going to judge you for exploring your sexuality?

Fab isnt for everyone which is fair but if you being on here or having been on here previously is going to be a problem for a potential partner then I would suggest they are not a good match for you

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

You might find that someone on here OP. It happens! But don't look at everyone you meet as potentially being the one... If it happens, it happens.

As Shorty previously said, you need to find someone who won't judge you for being on here, because relationships are built on trust, so you'll need to be open and honest with your new partner about being or having been a swinger. That's not something you want to hide and have it somehow blow up further down the line.

One more thing... If you do find someone on here, take a break from Fab, both of you, and get to know each other properly, without distractions. Same with dating sites if you use them. Appreciate that you've found someone like-minded and explore them fully... There will always be time to come back to Fab and start a new adventure together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been on fab A few years. I've loved almost every min of it. But I really want someone that I can come home to or someone that can come home to me someone that I can hug someone I can share my day with but I've no idea how to find that person. My question is been on fab does it help or hinder you ???"

I'd say try other dating sites - I recommend OK Cupid - but be upfront about swinging. I met my boyfriend on that site and we both found out pretty early on that we each had a single profile on here. We're still together over two years later and super happy. So it definitely can happen OP. Just maybe try looking elsewhere for the dating aspect but be honest about what you like to get up to!

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By *squaredCouple
over a year ago

Dublin/westmeath/kildare

I know couples who meet on fab.

I know couples that met on pof & were here too at same tome, had laugh about it.

Id add it to your fab profile, 'open to more than nsa with right person'. You dont have much text on profile.

1 couple started out as a 'couple'for parties as its cheaper going as couple & with spending more time together they realised common ground etc & it progressed. They didnt only see the sex mad person u see at parties but also the persons day to day side

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been on fab A few years. I've loved almost every min of it. But I really want someone that I can come home to or someone that can come home to me someone that I can hug someone I can share my day with but I've no idea how to find that person. My question is been on fab does it help or hinder you ???"

I guess it depends on the kind of person you want to settle down with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met dee here three years ago. been together since. have a good life together so people do meet and fall for each other here. as for site try ok cupid or one of them. Pof is another option but heard it's not as good as it use to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been on fab A few years. I've loved almost every min of it. But I really want someone that I can come home to or someone that can come home to me someone that I can hug someone I can share my day with but I've no idea how to find that person. My question is been on fab does it help or hinder you ???"

It may be an old fashioned view and very out of date but I still think men divide women into two categories ones you marry and ones you have sex with but will not bring home to Mammy or introduce to all your friends.

On fab its mostly the sex and leave type. Regardless of what they say most are married or in relationships anyway. While not impossible to meet some one here if it has not happened for you by now maybe look at other avenues and dating sites.

Hope you find what you are looking for.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"So I've been on fab A few years. I've loved almost every min of it. But I really want someone that I can come home to or someone that can come home to me someone that I can hug someone I can share my day with but I've no idea how to find that person. My question is been on fab does it help or hinder you ???

It may be an old fashioned view and very out of date but I still think men divide women into two categories ones you marry and ones you have sex with but will not bring home to Mammy or introduce to all your friends.

On fab its mostly the sex and leave type. Regardless of what they say most are married or in relationships anyway. While not impossible to meet some one here if it has not happened for you by now maybe look at other avenues and dating sites.

Hope you find what you are looking for. "

Have to disagree with that. No matter where you meet a person once you click and get on there's no reason why you wouldn't bring them home to meet family or friends. I've done so in the past.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So I've been on fab A few years. I've loved almost every min of it. But I really want someone that I can come home to or someone that can come home to me someone that I can hug someone I can share my day with but I've no idea how to find that person. My question is been on fab does it help or hinder you ???

It may be an old fashioned view and very out of date but I still think men divide women into two categories ones you marry and ones you have sex with but will not bring home to Mammy or introduce to all your friends.

On fab its mostly the sex and leave type. Regardless of what they say most are married or in relationships anyway. While not impossible to meet some one here if it has not happened for you by now maybe look at other avenues and dating sites.

Hope you find what you are looking for.

Have to disagree with that. No matter where you meet a person once you click and get on there's no reason why you wouldn't bring them home to meet family or friends. I've done so in the past. "

Good to hear and I agree.

I should have said some men but I still stand by my opinion. You should see the comments here on refusal that some men send. They are certainly are not enlightened. Also most single guys on chatting are either married or attached. As I am but then I am not looking for a relationship.

In my opinion while it could happen here the OP is best looking looking at other avenues as well.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"So I've been on fab A few years. I've loved almost every min of it. But I really want someone that I can come home to or someone that can come home to me someone that I can hug someone I can share my day with but I've no idea how to find that person. My question is been on fab does it help or hinder you ???

It may be an old fashioned view and very out of date but I still think men divide women into two categories ones you marry and ones you have sex with but will not bring home to Mammy or introduce to all your friends.

On fab its mostly the sex and leave type. Regardless of what they say most are married or in relationships anyway. While not impossible to meet some one here if it has not happened for you by now maybe look at other avenues and dating sites.

Hope you find what you are looking for.

Have to disagree with that. No matter where you meet a person once you click and get on there's no reason why you wouldn't bring them home to meet family or friends. I've done so in the past.

Good to hear and I agree.

I should have said some men but I still stand by my opinion. You should see the comments here on refusal that some men send. They are certainly are not enlightened. Also most single guys on chatting are either married or attached. As I am but then I am not looking for a relationship.

In my opinion while it could happen here the OP is best looking looking at other avenues as well."

Guess I'm one of the rare ones . Rejection is part and parcel of iit. If they act badly from that it speaks volumes of the type of pperson they are.

But I agree other Avenues may be best.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hi not sure a lot of guys here would not date a fabber

But happy to meet for sex or whatever

It should do neither in my book "

I'd date a fabber

I have in the past for a while

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe try away from fab and keep sex at a distance for as long as possible. If after that you still both enjoy each others company then you may have found a cuddle buddy lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Going to the right pubs is a better way of meeting people. The late night conversations and cuddles are a must for me too. I would hate not to have that. Hope you find mr right

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there

I met hubby on an other site 11 years ago, became fuck buddies then opened a joint profile, soon got serious lived together for near a year, then got married happily now near 10 years had few breaks from here but stayed happy kept profile just incase

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By *addubMan
over a year ago

dublin. 12

Not sure on this one but as I have started to think the same way I wonder what the ladies from fab think ?. Would it be a long term exclusive relationship or would they prefer to continue exploring fab ?. On a personal note if I Did find a woman that wanted to come home to me every night & leave the fab world behind I think it would be hard at first but with good communication it could work out.

Strawberry make the tea.

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