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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok...I'll mention the usual...work on your photos. A few more clear pics will aid your cause..

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By *rash26775Man
over a year ago

all over

The struggle is real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?"
it's all fluke doesn't matter what you do lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?it's all fluke doesn't matter what you do lol"

Roll the dice..see where they fall?

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

The way this thread started I thought this was fabaholics anonymous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?"

.. getting meet verified mostly just increases the amount of ladies you can Message as most will only allow meet verified guys to message ,it does not mean that it makes getting meets themselves easier...not by a long shot ...

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

You better try get another verification soon, and I am not joking about here, if you do not get a grip on the situation you might be on here in 2 years without another meet.

This is actually what happened me.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

That green tick means f all.

You still gotta put the same effort in as getting the first one.

It ain't a metaphorical key to all the ladies knickers

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?"

Would you like to meet her again..?... Repeat meets are always better.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?"

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier? "

Now thats a womans response if ive ever seen one. Bet you love drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

Now thats a womans response if ive ever seen one. Bet you love drama "

Not to come over all white knight here. But knowing her it's the last thing she looks for.

How you make that leap is beyond me but there you go. Wonder if that sort of attitude has led to the month long "dry spell"?

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

Now thats a womans response if ive ever seen one. Bet you love drama "

Not really helping your cause there!!!

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

Now thats a womans response if ive ever seen one. Bet you love drama "

But it's an honest response.

Need a shovel for that hole you're digging

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

Now thats a womans response if ive ever seen one. Bet you love drama "

Did you leave out the part on your BDSM.org survey about being a dick?

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By *s LollyWoman
over a year ago

The pub then supermacs ...

Ive a few verfies and haven't met anyone in mts.....vetfies mean nothing on here......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive a few verfies and haven't met anyone in mts.....vetfies mean nothing on here......"

I disagree. Verifications are a start to try to figure out a person/couple.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

Now thats a womans response if ive ever seen one. Bet you love drama "

It was a genuine question based on your post. Sometimes it can just come across that the veri is more important than the meet itself. There are plenty of newbies who start threads asking people to meet them and verify them just in order to get verified, and sometimes people will oblige.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

Now thats a womans response if ive ever seen one. Bet you love drama "

I think I have cracked the mystery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier? "

Amazing how cynicism creeps into a lot of ladies responses. You really must have a poor view of men if that's how you read what he said. Considering he's really just quoting what most women and a few men say on the forums, he's found out that some stuff that is assumed is just repeated bs.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

Amazing how cynicism creeps into a lot of ladies responses. You really must have a poor view of men if that's how you read what he said. Considering he's really just quoting what most women and a few men say on the forums, he's found out that some stuff that is assumed is just repeated bs."

Still don't think his response will help him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?"

Its not easier. You have to be patient. Then try to go for M&G socials.

Im here almost a year and from my perspective OP your profile, messages must be very interesting to catch woman's eye

Im not looking for new meets, have hidden veris & pics and still get invitations for social and fun meets. Maybe change your approach? Be more active on forums?

I know from my experience that being sexy isnt the only factor women are looking for in men Be yourself, nice and funny! Im more into personality than how the person look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

Amazing how cynicism creeps into a lot of ladies responses. You really must have a poor view of men if that's how you read what he said. Considering he's really just quoting what most women and a few men say on the forums, he's found out that some stuff that is assumed is just repeated bs.

Still don't think his response will help him. "

That may be so or may not. There's a lot of luck needed on here. Timing has a lot to do with it amongst many other factors. Sometimes there is no explanation either but most forumites seem to know all the answers and newbies sometimes will take these on board as the Holy Grail. Maybe many of the expectations are less to do with the innocence but more to do with poor advice. Just my thoughts and may have no truth at all either.

Maybe people need to be more careful about giving blanket advice. It's usually more subjective than not in my experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

Amazing how cynicism creeps into a lot of ladies responses. You really must have a poor view of men if that's how you read what he said. Considering he's really just quoting what most women and a few men say on the forums, he's found out that some stuff that is assumed is just repeated bs.

Still don't think his response will help him.

That may be so or may not. There's a lot of luck needed on here. Timing has a lot to do with it amongst many other factors. Sometimes there is no explanation either but most forumites seem to know all the answers and newbies sometimes will take these on board as the Holy Grail. Maybe many of the expectations are less to do with the innocence but more to do with poor advice. Just my thoughts and may have no truth at all either.

Maybe people need to be more careful about giving blanket advice. It's usually more subjective than not in my experience. "

I think the blanket advice of take good pics, get involved in socials/chat rooms/forum, update profile bios and not being a dick( I think thats most of the usuals) are all pretty solid and when followed will hugely improve most peoples chances of meeting when followed.

I dont think luck plays a bigger part than the person and how they present themselves

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By *oft_sexy_sweetWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

Now thats a womans response if ive ever seen one. Bet you love drama

I think I have cracked the mystery "

Bingo - attitude is everything and women can smell a closet misogynist a mile off. Best profile in the world won't help you if you don't actually like women as people.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

Amazing how cynicism creeps into a lot of ladies responses. You really must have a poor view of men if that's how you read what he said. Considering he's really just quoting what most women and a few men say on the forums, he's found out that some stuff that is assumed is just repeated bs.

Still don't think his response will help him.

That may be so or may not. There's a lot of luck needed on here. Timing has a lot to do with it amongst many other factors. Sometimes there is no explanation either but most forumites seem to know all the answers and newbies sometimes will take these on board as the Holy Grail. Maybe many of the expectations are less to do with the innocence but more to do with poor advice. Just my thoughts and may have no truth at all either.

Maybe people need to be more careful about giving blanket advice. It's usually more subjective than not in my experience. "

What has that to do with my comment on his response? Or were you addressing another comment?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Its been over a month since my first meet. I thought getting meet verified was meant to make things easier?

Is that why you met her? To make things easier?

Amazing how cynicism creeps into a lot of ladies responses. You really must have a poor view of men if that's how you read what he said. Considering he's really just quoting what most women and a few men say on the forums, he's found out that some stuff that is assumed is just repeated bs.

Still don't think his response will help him.

That may be so or may not. There's a lot of luck needed on here. Timing has a lot to do with it amongst many other factors. Sometimes there is no explanation either but most forumites seem to know all the answers and newbies sometimes will take these on board as the Holy Grail. Maybe many of the expectations are less to do with the innocence but more to do with poor advice. Just my thoughts and may have no truth at all either.

Maybe people need to be more careful about giving blanket advice. It's usually more subjective than not in my experience.

What has that to do with my comment on his response? Or were you addressing another comment?"

You responded to mine and so my first sentence was a reply. The rest is continuing with my previous remark.

Not everything said in the forums is personal but I see how sometimes it can be taken that way. Many people are quite defensive and so can personalise things unintended to be personalised.

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