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Penis size does it matter or does technique count aswell

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I have always wondered what's womens take on this. Does size make a huge difference when it comes to it and if so what size would you define as well endowed. Me myself I wouldn't consider myself well endowed but I'm also not lacking either lol I'm slightly above average.

I have never had issues when it comes to pleasing a woman. However I have always been curious to what's womens opinion on the subject as I see a lot on here state well endowed on their profiles as a requirement.

Curiosity is getting the better of me here but like I said above I have had no issues with mine thus far so I do think technique counts for a lot as my technique is spot on not to toot my own horn lol.

Lastly for the guys that want to put some input in have you ever had issues with the size of your penis affecting your performance or boosting it in anyway?

Looking forward to hearing everyone's take on this as I am sure it will be a nicely debated topic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s wise to remember that a large percentage of women need other stimulation than penis in vagina in order to climax . The size of your appendage doesn’t matter much , as long as it gives you pleasure .porn has conditioned men into thinking they need a massive cock and that women will be able to orgasm from it almost instantaneously , that of course is a total myth .

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think it’s wise to remember that a large percentage of women need other stimulation than penis in vagina in order to climax . The size of your appendage doesn’t matter much , as long as it gives you pleasure .porn has conditioned men into thinking they need a massive cock and that women will be able to orgasm from it almost instantaneously , that of course is a total myth ."

That's a fantastic reply to be honest like I said I'm curious it was never a issue to me and I never really was worried about just seen a lot of women on here state it so I wondered.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I think it’s wise to remember that a large percentage of women need other stimulation than penis in vagina in order to climax . The size of your appendage doesn’t matter much , as long as it gives you pleasure .porn has conditioned men into thinking they need a massive cock and that women will be able to orgasm from it almost instantaneously , that of course is a total myth .

That's a fantastic reply to be honest like I said I'm curious it was never a issue to me and I never really was worried about just seen a lot of women on here state it so I wondered."

Methinks the fabber doth protest too much

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Not all women like big. I've been turned down for being too big, even though but don't think it's anything gigantic. I always just laugh it off.

Penis isn't everything. You have to be able to stimulate a woman's mind as well as her body. A woman's body (the same as a man's) is full of erogenous zones,apart from the obvious ones. You just have to find them. Half of the fun is finding them, each person is different you just have to explore their body to find them.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

CAT - Coital Alignment Technique is an almost guaranteed position for orgasm for both, almost regardless of size.

Staying power for him is the only issue in this regard.

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Over 9in is a waste to me can’t get it all in

Men with smaller sized penis tend to put more effort in to licking

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Over 9in is a waste to me can’t get it all in

Men with smaller sized penis tend to put more effort in to licking "

Not always true .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think of two wemon together that can please each other in every way.. Dont think of your cock as a weapon of mass destruction, think off it as a tool thats not always needed, but when called apon will do the job to the best of its ability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bigger the better...it will tell me what I can handle and what I can't

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Mine is perfect in every way. And by god I know how to use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine is perfect in every way. And by god I know how to use it "

Prove it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv 9inchs I get it in the whole way ,, but if I put half it in and go like a rabbit I notice the women love it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv 9inchs I get it in the whole way ,, but if I put half it in and go like a rabbit I notice the women love it "

Obviously not the women on here

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Over 9in is a waste to me can’t get it all in

Men with smaller sized penis tend to put more effort in to licking "

Licky licky makes em sticky

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By *kblueeyesCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Over 9in is a waste to me can’t get it all in

Men with smaller sized penis tend to put more effort in to licking

Licky licky makes em sticky"

Lol

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood


"Mine is perfect in every way. And by god I know how to use it

Prove it "

How ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv 9inchs I get it in the whole way ,, but if I put half it in and go like a rabbit I notice the women love it

Obviously not the women on here "

I don’t live on this site

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Growing up, I thought that I was small

...but told am a good size

and am creative with it

So lads,

...a large package is just a load of bollox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv 9inchs I get it in the whole way ,, but if I put half it in and go like a rabbit I notice the women love it

Obviously not the women on here

I don’t live on this site "

But your posting an biggin yourself up on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Iv 9inchs I get it in the whole way ,, but if I put half it in and go like a rabbit I notice the women love it

Obviously not the women on here

I don’t live on this site

But your posting an biggin yourself up on this site "

No somebody said 9 inch won’t fit in I was making the point it does but women like it a bit smaller cause u notice they like it better when it’s halfway in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once you have a tongue and at least2 fingers most women are satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you have a tongue and at least2 fingers most women are satisfied "

Taking notes!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you have a tongue and at least2 fingers most women are satisfied

Taking notes!! "
with your2 fingers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like them huge x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s wise to remember that a large percentage of women need other stimulation than penis in vagina in order to climax . The size of your appendage doesn’t matter much , as long as it gives you pleasure .porn has conditioned men into thinking they need a massive cock and that women will be able to orgasm from it almost instantaneously , that of course is a total myth ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think it’s wise to remember that a large percentage of women need other stimulation than penis in vagina in order to climax . The size of your appendage doesn’t matter much , as long as it gives you pleasure .porn has conditioned men into thinking they need a massive cock and that women will be able to orgasm from it almost instantaneously , that of course is a total myth ."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dammit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you have a tongue and at least2 fingers most women are satisfied "
dammit I lost mine only one I have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have always wondered what's womens take on this. Does size make a huge difference when it comes to it and if so what size would you define as well endowed. Me myself I wouldn't consider myself well endowed but I'm also not lacking either lol I'm slightly above average.

I have never had issues when it comes to pleasing a woman. However I have always been curious to what's womens opinion on the subject as I see a lot on here state well endowed on their profiles as a requirement.

Curiosity is getting the better of me here but like I said above I have had no issues with mine thus far so I do think technique counts for a lot as my technique is spot on not to toot my own horn lol.

Lastly for the guys that want to put some input in have you ever had issues with the size of your penis affecting your performance or boosting it in anyway?

Looking forward to hearing everyone's take on this as I am sure it will be a nicely debated topic."

Doctors differ... every lady l think has a preference for what suits them...some want huge thick cock ..others less huge ... depends too if the lady is into anal... suppose the bottom line is being able to use it and have the stamina to satisfy.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Once you have a tongue and at least2 fingers most women are satisfied "

Yeaayy!

I qualify for something, at last

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By *ocketman99Man
over a year ago

fermanagh

Horses for courses! Everyone is different embrace their talents - not short comings. (No pun intended)

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By *ocketman99Man
over a year ago

fermanagh

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I have a big cock, that means I do not even have to make the woman cum, I can just fuck her and she will ask for more, even if she has to finish herself off.

Extra stimulation, and trying to make a woman cum is stuff for small dick men.

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

As a shy teen all those years ago

I always thought I was small .

I'm average in size.

But over the years I've never had any complaints

And for me it's all to the attraction and connection.

And of course lots of foreplay and oral too

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

As a very shy teen, with no education about my developing body, I became very embarrassed about my growing penis. To me, it was simply too big. I've overcome that and am very proud of my pride and joy. However, I've found that most of the women I've been with have found it uncomfortably large. Certainly, a petite woman can't relax into enjoyment with it inside here. But, again, large or small, it's how you use it that matters most, along with the personality attached to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a very shy teen, with no education about my developing body, I became very embarrassed about my growing penis. To me, it was simply too big. I've overcome that and am very proud of my pride and joy. However, I've found that most of the women I've been with have found it uncomfortably large. Certainly, a petite woman can't relax into enjoyment with it inside here. But, again, large or small, it's how you use it that matters most, along with the personality attached to it. "

I too have struggled with the size of my mighty member

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah no I'd say pretty much average here if not a tad below.. but who gives a shite it does the job(well for me anyway) and there are plenty ways to please a partner...or at least plenty partners who can be pleased other ways.

You will get people who have a strong preference for size and there is a cock out there for them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you have a tongue and at least2 fingers most women are satisfied

Taking notes!! with your2 fingers"

With all of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once you have a tongue and at least2 fingers most women are satisfied "

2 fingers wouldnt do it for me ,, i like a man with a big cock and knows how to use it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better a rock hard average cock than a massive one with no oomph! This is also on the basis that the owner knows how to use it along with all his other body parts

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Better a rock hard average cock than a massive one with no oomph! This is also on the basis that the owner knows how to use it along with all his other body parts "

I would say yes to this but I'm conflicted, some people say I have a big dick, I think it's average.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Better a rock hard average cock than a massive one with no oomph! This is also on the basis that the owner knows how to use it along with all his other body parts

I would say yes to this but I'm conflicted, some people say I have a big dick, I think it's average. "

Same. Then again I don't be going around looking at other cocks to judge

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By *elboy505Man
over a year ago

west dublin

Mines big enough to Fill a Pram

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By *ehallMan
over a year ago

dublin 24

Well put and said

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By *ehallMan
over a year ago

dublin 24

;-)

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood


"Mines big enough to Fill a Pram "

Hope that prams empty !!.

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By *ehallMan
over a year ago

dublin 24

Looks like women dont really have big preferences so your big cock is just as good as an average cock from my experience women just hate a guy whos only interested in dumping his muck and then think he a super stud because of his 9inch cock lol

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

You can have a big cock. But if you're just as big of a cock personality wise. It makes no odds.

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By *atmite1970Man
over a year ago

Galway


"Over 9in is a waste to me can’t get it all in

Men with smaller sized penis tend to put more effort in to licking "

Hi, I don't agree with that. I have a 9 inch cock but don't expect the size of my cock to be the only way to please a woman, I love giving oral and feeling a woman cum multiple times on my face and also pleasing its lots of other ways. Size is not everything but from my experience it sure helps when you know how to please and how use your cock

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By *weet threesome wifeCouple
over a year ago

somewhere out there


"Over 9in is a waste to me can’t get it all in

Men with smaller sized penis tend to put more effort in to licking

Hi, I don't agree with that. I have a 9 inch cock but don't expect the size of my cock to be the only way to please a woman, I love giving oral and feeling a woman cum multiple times on my face and also pleasing its lots of other ways. Size is not everything but from my experience it sure helps when you know how to please and how use your cock "

Yep this, good use and not abuse! some guys just want to try hurt rather than give pleasure to feed ego, but then I have read some profiles where the female wants pounded and hurt, each to their own I guess

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By *adylover321Man
over a year ago

navan

I certainly wouldn’t say no too another inch not too greedy am a grower not a shower which can be embarrassing

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

It's more about how big a dick it's attached too....

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By *adylover321Man
over a year ago

navan


"It's more about how big a dick it's attached too.... "
im only 5’8

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's more about how big a dick it's attached too.... "

If this was a competition for best answer you would have easily won it that had me in knots laughing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Better a rock hard average cock than a massive one with no oomph! This is also on the basis that the owner knows how to use it along with all his other body parts "

Oh I fully agree with the been able to use it correctly would be more of a advantage than just having a large one. Thank god I know how to use mine and thank god it's normal sized haha. I'm proud of mine he has worked wonders for me before

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Over 9in is a waste to me can’t get it all in

Men with smaller sized penis tend to put more effort in to licking "

Love the brutal honesty haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not the size of the liner it's more the motion of the ocean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I like a good girth penis if it's 9inch and thin it does nothing for me, I like 8inch and thick after all the oral play

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By *adylover321Man
over a year ago

navan


"It's more about how big a dick it's attached too....

If this was a competition for best answer you would have easily won it that had me in knots laughing"
haha thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here's another thread for the "well my cock is 3 feet long, but that's only just above average" lads.

The truth is - it matters to some women. It doesn't matter to others. But the vaaaaast majority aren't into guys who are obsessed with their own cocks.

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

I'd prefer average with good technique over big and no skills any day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Here's another thread for the "well my cock is 3 feet long, but that's only just above average" lads.

The truth is - it matters to some women. It doesn't matter to others. But the vaaaaast majority aren't into guys who are obsessed with their own cocks. "

You given hope to a nation of ordinary joes

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

I'm not a size queen. I like one that fits me nicely, recovers quickly and most importantly... is attached to someone I fancy. And yes... There is such a thing as too big or too small.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"I'm not a size queen. I like one that fits me nicely, recovers quickly and most importantly... is attached to someone I fancy. And yes... There is such a thing as too big or too small. "

Should start calling you Goldy Locks

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I'm not a size queen. I like one that fits me nicely, recovers quickly and most importantly... is attached to someone I fancy. And yes... There is such a thing as too big or too small.

Should start calling you Goldy Locks "

juuuuuust right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size does matter. I prefer average to big cocks.

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk

From personal experience, its very hard to do quickies unless we were dirty chatting beforehand. Bigger isnt actually better for men anyway. So much hassle lol. Its also very easy to notice in public and thats just embarressing. All i can say is, be proud of what you have, no 2 penises are the same lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Here's another thread for the "well my cock is 3 feet long, but that's only just above average" lads.

The truth is - it matters to some women. It doesn't matter to others. But the vaaaaast majority aren't into guys who are obsessed with their own cocks. "

Lol mine is in no way well endowed. Mu curiosity came from the amount of women that specify VWE on their profiles as a requirement. Personally mine does me fine but in no way am I VWE. I just use what I have very well and so far it's done me right lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Size matters to me, but that’s a personal preference, however it’s who it’s attached to that’s the most important thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Question for the size Queens. What is classed as big? Above 6 inches or is it 8+. I think id probably be in the average group size

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Question for the size Queens. What is classed as big? Above 6 inches or is it 8+. I think id probably be in the average group size "

8+

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a bit dyslexic when it comes to measurements, but I know by the look and feel of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m a bit dyslexic when it comes to measurements, but I know by the look and feel of it "

would you take a look aT mine and maybe have a feel? Just for educational purposes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I'm average and it gets rock hard

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

I think a lot of people don’t actually know what 6” looks like. There’s a lot of people claiming they have 8” cocks when in reality they don’t. This is why I’m an advocate of the sky remote pics...it’s handy to have a frame of reference

Personally, size doesn’t matter to me although I suppose if it was very small there could be issues...everything can be worked around though

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Size doesn't really matter too big and it can be uncomfortable. And I'd prefer a guy to know what he is doing than worry about his dick size if I'm honest.

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By *ornyandwellhungMan
over a year ago

belfast


"I’m a bit dyslexic when it comes to measurements, but I know by the look and feel of it "

I think you are right, it’s the feel of it that matters. Anyone for a feel?

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