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By *ottie00 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Ok, I'm not on here that long compared to many of you but how would you feel if some guy that joined the site in the last few hours propositioned you with a very crude 1 liner?

I politely declined as I always do in certain circumstances and receive replies thanking me for the respectful response, but this newbie wouldn't let go and was incredibly disrespectful to me, I had no reason to deserve what he said. I told him consider yourself reported and I did not deserve what he said to me.

I'm not a soft touch, it takes a lot to rattle my cage but this disrespect was uncalled for.

He then apologized by saying he was very d*unk.

If you're that much fun with a few drinks on you then find another site to play on as no woman deserves that disrespect, and I know most women on here wouldn't put up with it and certainly the men I know on here would never speak to a woman the way he spoke to me.

Sorry, rant over but just ticked me off royally!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just adjust your filters and in the case of that pr**k..block him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What did he say,ah go on..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keyboard warrior, and sooo brave.

You were right to report him.

Twats make it harder on the rest of us

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By *ottie00 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Just adjust your filters and in the case of that pr**k..block him."
Oh I have done, thanks

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By *ottie00 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Keyboard warrior, and sooo brave.

You were right to report him.

Twats make it harder on the rest of us "

I know and that's what really bugs me tbh

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

No offence OP but it appears that you didn't Block in time.

Would have saved some grief.

Nobody should be disrespectful in any sense on jere.

If they are, one reprimand and admonish yourself. If you don't, then Block.

If the user has been personal or particularly hateful, report to Admin.

I believe that if Admin receive more than 2 reports about an individual, they delete them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Internet anonymity makes some people into monsters, or lets the inner monster out..!

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By *heklangsCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Ok, I'm not on here that long compared to many of you but how would you feel if some guy that joined the site in the last few hours propositioned you with a very crude 1 liner?

I politely declined as I always do in certain circumstances and receive replies thanking me for the respectful response, but this newbie wouldn't let go and was incredibly disrespectful to me, I had no reason to deserve what he said. I told him consider yourself reported and I did not deserve what he said to me.

I'm not a soft touch, it takes a lot to rattle my cage but this disrespect was uncalled for.

He then apologized by saying he was very d*unk.

If you're that much fun with a few drinks on you then find another site to play on as no woman deserves that disrespect, and I know most women on here wouldn't put up with it and certainly the men I know on here would never speak to a woman the way he spoke to me.

Sorry, rant over but just ticked me off royally!!!!"

We had a guy like that last week. He sent us a message saying. Bring the Mrs over now, I want a fuck.

We declined politely. And he replied. Go fuck off then.

Charming manners from some people.

We are glad that we have made some lovely people on here.

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By *ottie00 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"No offence OP but it appears that you didn't Block in time.

Would have saved some grief.

Nobody should be disrespectful in any sense on jere.

If they are, one reprimand and admonish yourself. If you don't, then Block.

If the user has been personal or particularly hateful, report to Admin.

I believe that if Admin receive more than 2 reports about an individual, they delete them."

You're totally right, my own fault but I was trying to be respectful and give him the benefit of the doubt...my bad, but was still no call for his attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry to hear this happened, im sure its off putting to say the least, manners cost nothing

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By *ottie00 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Ok, I'm not on here that long compared to many of you but how would you feel if some guy that joined the site in the last few hours propositioned you with a very crude 1 liner?

I politely declined as I always do in certain circumstances and receive replies thanking me for the respectful response, but this newbie wouldn't let go and was incredibly disrespectful to me, I had no reason to deserve what he said. I told him consider yourself reported and I did not deserve what he said to me.

I'm not a soft touch, it takes a lot to rattle my cage but this disrespect was uncalled for.

He then apologized by saying he was very d*unk.

If you're that much fun with a few drinks on you then find another site to play on as no woman deserves that disrespect, and I know most women on here wouldn't put up with it and certainly the men I know on here would never speak to a woman the way he spoke to me.

Sorry, rant over but just ticked me off royally!!!!

We had a guy like that last week. He sent us a message saying. Bring the Mrs over now, I want a fuck.

We declined politely. And he replied. Go fuck off then.

Charming manners from some people.

We are glad that we have made some lovely people on here.

"

It's the one or two "charmers" that kill it for so many.

One bad apple....but he won't spoil the good ones

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Ok, I'm not on here that long compared to many of you but how would you feel if some guy that joined the site in the last few hours propositioned you with a very crude 1 liner?

I politely declined as I always do in certain circumstances and receive replies thanking me for the respectful response, but this newbie wouldn't let go and was incredibly disrespectful to me, I had no reason to deserve what he said. I told him consider yourself reported and I did not deserve what he said to me.

I'm not a soft touch, it takes a lot to rattle my cage but this disrespect was uncalled for.

He then apologized by saying he was very d*unk.

If you're that much fun with a few drinks on you then find another site to play on as no woman deserves that disrespect, and I know most women on here wouldn't put up with it and certainly the men I know on here would never speak to a woman the way he spoke to me.

Sorry, rant over but just ticked me off royally!!!!

We had a guy like that last week. He sent us a message saying. Bring the Mrs over now, I want a fuck.

We declined politely. And he replied. Go fuck off then.

Charming manners from some people.

We are glad that we have made some lovely people on here.

It's the one or two "charmers" that kill it for so many.

One bad apple....but he won't spoil the good ones"

So many apples look good on the outside but are rotten at the core

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By *ottie00 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Sorry to hear this happened, im sure its off putting to say the least, manners cost nothing "

Thank you, a little off putting only, tomorrow is a new day, manners are a beautiful attribute.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"No offence OP but it appears that you didn't Block in time.

Would have saved some grief.

Nobody should be disrespectful in any sense on jere.

If they are, one reprimand and admonish yourself. If you don't, then Block.

If the user has been personal or particularly hateful, report to Admin.

I believe that if Admin receive more than 2 reports about an individual, they delete them.

You're totally right, my own fault but I was trying to be respectful and give him the benefit of the doubt...my bad, but was still no call for his attitude. "

Lesson learnt.

One chance at Redemption, then failure equals Block

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By *ottie00 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Ok, I'm not on here that long compared to many of you but how would you feel if some guy that joined the site in the last few hours propositioned you with a very crude 1 liner?

I politely declined as I always do in certain circumstances and receive replies thanking me for the respectful response, but this newbie wouldn't let go and was incredibly disrespectful to me, I had no reason to deserve what he said. I told him consider yourself reported and I did not deserve what he said to me.

I'm not a soft touch, it takes a lot to rattle my cage but this disrespect was uncalled for.

He then apologized by saying he was very d*unk.

If you're that much fun with a few drinks on you then find another site to play on as no woman deserves that disrespect, and I know most women on here wouldn't put up with it and certainly the men I know on here would never speak to a woman the way he spoke to me.

Sorry, rant over but just ticked me off royally!!!!

We had a guy like that last week. He sent us a message saying. Bring the Mrs over now, I want a fuck.

We declined politely. And he replied. Go fuck off then.

Charming manners from some people.

We are glad that we have made some lovely people on here.

It's the one or two "charmers" that kill it for so many.

One bad apple....but he won't spoil the good ones

So many apples look good on the outside but are rotten at the core "

So very true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I am sorry to hear this has happened to you. But dont be surprised if you get a forum band for this post as I have posted something similar before and I got a 48hr ban. Which sucks because you are only highlighting a serious issue

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By *ottie00 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"OP I am sorry to hear this has happened to you. But dont be surprised if you get a forum band for this post as I have posted something similar before and I got a 48hr ban. Which sucks because you are only highlighting a serious issue "

Thanks so much for the heads up, shame if they do as you said only highlighting the issue of new people and their attitude, but hey, if admin do ban me I will take it on the chin. That will be 2 lessons I have learned tonight lol. Thanks again

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