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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!"

Obviously you're speaking from experience of such a situation ,..tbh with you. It's a very good question...but from my own experience with seeing and observing a lot of ..won't say all of..younger guys in everyday situations there is a huge amount of arrogance and lack of manners and respect that just drips off them ..they actually think that there's no one like them...and they treat people they way they do and think it's ok to do so ..but like " Rocky " said .." ain't nothing hits harder than life ".. something that they too will discover...

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!"

So the lady is 49. Your profile says you're looking for couples.

You're on the forum's saying you're being disrespected by younger guys.

What do you expect???

You reap what you sow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv been out in bars in cork city recently with women iv know for years.. certain lads my age and younger these days cant take rejection and are very disrespectful when shot down iv often had to step in..

What mind frame lads be in at all these days is beyond

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I blame the parents

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are flexible for Gods sake! We have, as we said, experienced some amazing MMF and it occurred to us that a lot of gorgeous guys on Fab would do so much better if they were simply good guys? No?

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"We are flexible for Gods sake! We have, as we said, experienced some amazing MMF and it occurred to us that a lot of gorgeous guys on Fab would do so much better if they were simply good guys? No? "

Maybe you would too if you were honest about what you're looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I blame the parents "

You cant blame parents they can only do so much thats not fair 1 bit bud

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!

So the lady is 49. Your profile says you're looking for couples.

You're on the forum's saying you're being disrespected by younger guys.

What do you expect???

You reap what you sow "

Their profile says looking for couples, ladies and males. And clearly states what they are looking for. Have I missed a piece of this thread? I don't understand where the aggressive response here.

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By *at3232Woman
over a year ago

the moon


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!

So the lady is 49. Your profile says you're looking for couples.

You're on the forum's saying you're being disrespected by younger guys.

What do you expect???

You reap what you sow "

Did you read kandoo full profile?

Single makes are mentioned!

You just proved the point they were making!!

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By *at3232Woman
over a year ago

the moon


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!

So the lady is 49. Your profile says you're looking for couples.

You're on the forum's saying you're being disrespected by younger guys.

What do you expect???

You reap what you sow

Their profile says looking for couples, ladies and males. And clearly states what they are looking for. Have I missed a piece of this thread? I don't understand where the aggressive response here. "

Agreed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their profile does say coupkes, but when you read the full profile single guys & girls are included. As for MMF that could have been while they were having fun with a couple.

The OP was simply passing an observation about some younger single guys they had met.

Surely a guy should be thrilled a couple met him, rathet than the guy thinking the coupke owed him for meeting them.

With that attitude you will not go far on Fab

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!

So the lady is 49. Your profile says you're looking for couples.

You're on the forum's saying you're being disrespected by younger guys.

What do you expect???

You reap what you sow

Their profile says looking for couples, ladies and males. And clearly states what they are looking for. Have I missed a piece of this thread? I don't understand where the aggressive response here. "

I noticed that too. Profiles aren't contracts. Maybe the respondant has issues. Plenty on here get all hissy. No need for the level of aggression aimed at the OP. At least this shows its not just young guys who are disrespectful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are flexible for Gods sake! We have, as we said, experienced some amazing MMF and it occurred to us that a lot of gorgeous guys on Fab would do so much better if they were simply good guys? No?

Maybe you would too if you were honest about what you're looking for. "

Aw did op turn you down? Would explain why your here making yourself look like a knob picking at them for something they clearly say in their profile

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim

Respect and manners go a long way regardless what age you are

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is an online issue rather than an age thing.

A chunk of people act like.dicks because they are hidden behind a screen no matter what age

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By *aughtyglintWoman
over a year ago

Any


"I think this is an online issue rather than an age thing.

A chunk of people act like.dicks because they are hidden behind a screen no matter what age"

Totally agree. Keyboard warriors. Some of the really nasty ones are much older.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!

So the lady is 49. Your profile says you're looking for couples.

You're on the forum's saying you're being disrespected by younger guys.

What do you expect???

You reap what you sow

Their profile says looking for couples, ladies and males. And clearly states what they are looking for. Have I missed a piece of this thread? I don't understand where the aggressive response here.

I noticed that too. Profiles aren't contracts. Maybe the respondant has issues. Plenty on here get all hissy. No need for the level of aggression aimed at the OP. At least this shows its not just young guys who are disrespectful.

"

Personally I find that men over 40 throw their toys out of a pram way more often than 26 year olds....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The site is full of them, it ruins it for the rest of us. If she is not interested just move on! Simlpes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!

So the lady is 49. Your profile says you're looking for couples.

You're on the forum's saying you're being disrespected by younger guys.

What do you expect???

You reap what you sow "
What has the womans age got to do with it? This post makes no sense.

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By *rishgstarMan
over a year ago

the neighbourhood


"Respect and manners go a long way regardless what age you are

"

This guy knows not all the youngers are rude

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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago

Barrow in Furness


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!

So the lady is 49. Your profile says you're looking for couples.

You're on the forum's saying you're being disrespected by younger guys.

What do you expect???

You reap what you sow

Their profile says looking for couples, ladies and males. And clearly states what they are looking for. Have I missed a piece of this thread? I don't understand where the aggressive response here.

Agreed"

Same here, sounds like the person has read the profile to what they wanted or assumed rather than reading what is actually there.

A profile is a synopsis of the person to allow you to see if you are interested in or if they maybe interested in you if you make contact with them.

It is not the sum total just a snap shot.

Again some people maybe don't handle rejection well.

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By *ucky24Man
over a year ago

Barrow in Furness


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!

So the lady is 49. Your profile says you're looking for couples.

You're on the forum's saying you're being disrespected by younger guys.

What do you expect???

You reap what you sow What has the womans age got to do with it? This post makes no sense."

Exactly, someone reads it the way they what it to read rather than how it really is.

I was told good manners cost nothing but are priceless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading through the comments I find it very funny as me personally I'm always both respectful and manners are always used.

So out of pure curiosity after sending a lady a polite mail what she never read

I just for the sheer craic and totally out of caricature sent her an abusive rude mail WOW surprise surprise she read it and replied straight away a week later we met for coffee rest is history aS they say.

So you explain that one

Oh yes she did explain

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Reading through the comments I find it very funny as me personally I'm always both respectful and manners are always used.

So out of pure curiosity after sending a lady a polite mail what she never read

I just for the sheer craic and totally out of caricature sent her an abusive rude mail WOW surprise surprise she read it and replied straight away a week later we met for coffee rest is history aS they say.

So you explain that one

Oh yes she did explain "

Simple explanation, it only happened in your fantasy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't think manners and respect are limited to ages and everyone is different. Not fussed on the generalisation that younger guys are disrespectful but obviously that's what's happened on the main here.

Not hard to be nice and respectful when chatting or even if it's a no, just a polite thanks for the reply. Good manners aren't hard to carry and someone mentioned them being priceless too are so right.

The anonymity here allows people unfortunately, to think they can do anything including treating people how they wouldn't if it was in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!"

Agreed 100%. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!

So the lady is 49. Your profile says you're looking for couples.

You're on the forum's saying you're being disrespected by younger guys.

What do you expect???

You reap what you sow What has the womans age got to do with it? This post makes no sense.

Exactly, someone reads it the way they what it to read rather than how it really is.

I was told good manners cost nothing but are priceless"

Looked at profile. Read profile synopsis...looking couples (no mention on anything more, so I immediately skipped reading over the rest of profile as there's no need.

Everyone on here needs to chill and try and see things from other perspectives more I'd say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading through the comments I find it very funny as me personally I'm always both respectful and manners are always used.

So out of pure curiosity after sending a lady a polite mail what she never read

I just for the sheer craic and totally out of caricature sent her an abusive rude mail WOW surprise surprise she read it and replied straight away a week later we met for coffee rest is history aS they say.

So you explain that one

Oh yes she did explain

Simple explanation, it only happened in your fantasy "

Oh no trust me it did actually happen oh and believe me I do know that sort of thing is strictly a one off

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I think all y'all need to do a group hug.

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!"

Respect indeed to your profile pic Mrs. Kandoo!

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre


"As we like MMF on occasion and have been lucky to meet a few wonderful young men who are respectful, discreet and gorgeous, we were wondering why so many younger guys seem to think arrogance is ok?? Women prefer a real guy. A guy who is genuine, decent, intelligent and respectful. Being Hot helps too!

Chill out bad boys and you’ll do a lot better !!"

Not to sure why ye would expect fab “life” to to different to real “life” and again it’s a few spoiling it for the many

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