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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What's peoples biggest turn offs when it comes to the opposing person I was going to say sex but let's keep this LGBT viable too.

For me its hands you gotta have nice hands that can be a deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cockyness... confidence is a major turn on but when it goes to far just no....

Also people who are just plain mean to other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find arrogance a major turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find arrogance a major turn off. "

People who are mean and nasty to those they deem weaker. I hate that .

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

Eggs.

If I see a woman eating an egg I just couldn't imagine myself kissing her.

What I don't know won't hurt me but if I see it then it's a big eewwwww.

As you can probably tell, eggs revolt me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Dirty finger and toe nails and guys that don’t wash and smell nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dirty finger and toe nails and guys that don’t wash and smell nice"

Absolutely Gross

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Who they have met before.

Its a short list, but if you met someone on it, then it shrinks my dick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What's peoples biggest turn offs when it comes to the opposing person I was going to say sex but let's keep this LGBT viable too.

For me its hands you gotta have nice hands that can be a deal breaker. "

Interesting, hands for me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh and men pretending to be wemon.. Hate that, makes coffee awkward

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I find arrogance a major turn off.

People who are mean and nasty to those they deem weaker. I hate that ."

I actually fully agree with this one your spot on that's a major turn off

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By *he MickMan
over a year ago

southside

Clingyness

Major No No

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Eggs.

If I see a woman eating an egg I just couldn't imagine myself kissing her.

What I don't know won't hurt me but if I see it then it's a big eewwwww.

As you can probably tell, eggs revolt me."
I know vegetarians that wont kiss people after eating meat so yeah I can see why that would bother you if you hate eggs

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Mind game. Say what you mean don't play games.

Also bad hygiene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mind game. Say what you mean don't play games.

Also bad hygiene."

Mind games I really hate.....

Bad hygiene just should go without having to be said . Like yuk..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dirty finger and toe nails"

Just on this subject I'm an ultra clean freak but also 0retty much a mechanic so my hands are always clean but stained. Does that count as been dirty? Because I can assure you I've scrubbed my hands till they've bled before to clean them..... (Same question for all trades it's just part of the job)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Mind game. Say what you mean don't play games.

Also bad hygiene.

Mind games I really hate.....

Bad hygiene just should go without having to be said . Like yuk.. "

yeah it's why I didnt mention it with the original post. I'm assuming bad hygiene turns anyone off. nothing worse than someone who isnt clean just think of what there bits are like yuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dirty finger and toe nails

Just on this subject I'm an ultra clean freak but also 0retty much a mechanic so my hands are always clean but stained. Does that count as been dirty? Because I can assure you I've scrubbed my hands till they've bled before to clean them..... (Same question for all trades it's just part of the job) "

As you said thats stained not dirty. Big difference there.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

Arrogance, rudeness and meanness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously they need to be clean but someone that cant be themselves..personality is a big turn on for myself

"Dont trust everything you see even salt looks like sugar "

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Confidence is good but if you're up yourself then c ya.

Narrow minded or racist would also be turn offs.

Unwilling to try new things in the bedroom, if we got that far, unless you already have a broad repertoire

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By *crumtasticMan
over a year ago

D14

Snapchat filter pictures. We're adults not children...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Eggs.

If I see a woman eating an egg I just couldn't imagine myself kissing her.

What I don't know won't hurt me but if I see it then it's a big eewwwww.

As you can probably tell, eggs revolt me."

Hahaha I remember your first question:"Do you eat eggs?" And my answer "no, im vegan"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liers

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

[Removed by poster at 05/09/19 23:08:19]

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Mind game. Say what you mean don't play games.

Also bad hygiene.

Mind games I really hate.....

Bad hygiene just should go without having to be said . Like yuk.. "

You'd think that

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

Body hair for herself.

For me it’s photoshop and the manipulation of it. If a guy posted a pic of a 9inch cock or a six pack and didnt have either he would be slaughtered on her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 05/09/19 23:13:05]"
I'm sure some do I met a girl or two over the years with bad hygiene it ain't nice popping your head down there to a messy unclean area let's just say there was no follow through

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mind game. Say what you mean don't play games.

Also bad hygiene.

Mind games I really hate.....

Bad hygiene just should go without having to be said . Like yuk..

You'd think that "

..this ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 05/09/19 23:13:05]I'm sure some do I met a girl or two over the years with bad hygiene it ain't nice popping your head down there to a messy unclean area let's just say there was no follow through "

dont blame you

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"[Removed by poster at 05/09/19 23:13:05]I'm sure some do I met a girl or two over the years with bad hygiene it ain't nice popping your head down there to a messy unclean area let's just say there was no follow through "

Yup. *Pass the sick bag please, I'm having a flash back*

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Arrogance and poor hygine but in particular bad teeth

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 05/09/19 23:13:05]I'm sure some do I met a girl or two over the years with bad hygiene it ain't nice popping your head down there to a messy unclean area let's just say there was no follow through

dont blame you"
yeah there is limits like dont get me wrong if your clean at the start of the encounter and become less so during it that's part of the fun but to start off physically unclean that's just rotten

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Women with moustaches- sort yourselves out

Smokers.... unless you are so gorgeous that I couldn’t possibly say no - give up

Greasy hair - wash it ffs

Personal hygiene - goes without saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The personal hygiene thing ya.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do like confidence also but someone who is full of themself is a real turn off or thinks they are above others, a profile says a lot and you would be surprised how many come across that way just from reading their profile.

If I see any mention of drug use on a profile also puts me right off, each to their own and all that but not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Toes.. You could be the most beautiful woman on the world but if the feet are not on fleek I'm done. Fuck I'm shallow

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Overfamiliarity... Including the use of pet names by random strangers.

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By *pachebluiMan
over a year ago

letterkenny

Arrogance

Especially from the " cliques " on the forums.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Eggs.

If I see a woman eating an egg I just couldn't imagine myself kissing her.

What I don't know won't hurt me but if I see it then it's a big eewwwww.

As you can probably tell, eggs revolt me.

Hahaha I remember your first question:"Do you eat eggs?" And my answer "no, im vegan" "

I was so happy to hear that answer.

I knew then we'd get on just fine

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Nail biting and as a consequence the look of the fingers and nails, just utterly off putting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Gossips and people with grudges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Vulgarity

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Vulgarity "

Unless as a display of power

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Vulgarity

Unless as a display of power "

Not getting this reference is also a turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Vulgarity

Unless as a display of power "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mime artists .. Biggest. Turnoff. Ever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignorance and arrogance, lack of manners, and people taking advantage of others are all major turn offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mime artists .. Biggest. Turnoff. Ever. "
Im guessing you were trapped in a box of some sort once upon a time?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mime artists .. Biggest. Turnoff. Ever. Im guessing you were trapped in a box of some sort once upon a time? "

I just think they should Learn the Words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who think their time is worth more than mine. My pet hate on Fab the amount of people that have cancelled last minute or just not show up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said already, but cockyness has to be up there, non pushy and ye I get that hands thing aswell.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Vulgarity

Unless as a display of power "

That's fucking hostile

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Just hope people get the quote joke there

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford


"Just hope people get the quote joke there "

If they don't then they go on the block list

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Bad hygiene, unwashed, smelly people. They do exist. Yugh.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

Bad hygiene, unwashed, smelly people. They do exist. Yugh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bad hygiene, unwashed, smelly people. They do exist. Yugh. "

Sure do..

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

As most have already said, bad hygiene. Had a bad experience once and vowed after, always a social first.

Also a turn off is when people don't look like they do in their pictures.

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Also, another turn off is (excessive) body hair on women. I'm not saying that women don't have a right to have body hair of they so choose, but for me it's just a personal preference. When they have too much hair down below, I'm sorry but it just reminds me of a beard and I can't focus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with you 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fanny farts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought it was a giving that people showered before a meet for thrim and what not!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shower and trim is a must but some just dont even bother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As above really; poor hygiene, unclean fingernails, bad smells, arrogance and a lack of conversational chemistry. With the latter, if I get chatting to a woman I'm desperately attracted to and there's no craic in the chit chat, it's never gonna make it to a meet.

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