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By *rsquik OP   Woman
over a year ago

Drogheda

Anyone else get really annoyed when they see posts such as "no fat chicks" or "good looking people only".... like I'm not saying that people shouldn't post their preferences or be choosy on the site.... but come on there are better ways of saying what you are into surely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else get really annoyed when they see posts such as "no fat chicks" or "good looking people only".... like I'm not saying that people shouldn't post their preferences or be choosy on the site.... but come on there are better ways of saying what you are into surely! "

Just move on past them profiles everyone Has preferences some are just a bit more polite about it.

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By *ysteryman2009Man
over a year ago

Ireland


"Anyone else get really annoyed when they see posts such as "no fat chicks" or "good looking people only".... like I'm not saying that people shouldn't post their preferences or be choosy on the site.... but come on there are better ways of saying what you are into surely! "

Anyone that would post ... no fat chicks or good looking people are ignorant and lack intelligence.

Manners go a long way.

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"Anyone else get really annoyed when they see posts such as "no fat chicks" or "good looking people only".... like I'm not saying that people shouldn't post their preferences or be choosy on the site.... but come on there are better ways of saying what you are into surely! "

Makes it easier to out the asswipes

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

It's like well hung (do they mean a turkey) or vwe (volts wagon echo)??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice to think people could phrase their preferences withbout using insulting language but its the internet and people dont have to use their names or faces so the dicks will act dickish.

At least you know in advance and can avoid them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like well hung (do they mean a turkey) or vwe (volts wagon echo)??"

So that's what vwe means

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny


"It's like well hung (do they mean a turkey) or vwe (volts wagon echo)??

So that's what vwe means "

Yup step its either that or very wobbly elephant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's like well hung (do they mean a turkey) or vwe (volts wagon echo)??

So that's what vwe means

Yup step its either that or very wobbly elephant"

I like elephants

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny


"It's like well hung (do they mean a turkey) or vwe (volts wagon echo)??

So that's what vwe means

Yup step its either that or very wobbly elephant

I like elephants"

You like elephants and batman..... Batephants or eleman

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Anyone else get really annoyed when they see posts such as "no fat chicks" or "good looking people only".... like I'm not saying that people shouldn't post their preferences or be choosy on the site.... but come on there are better ways of saying what you are into surely! "

Can't say I get annoyed as such. I simply use it as a vetting tool. I have no issue with preferences but fat and good looking are subjective terms so who knows what is fat or good looking to them. However the type of language used says more about them and It would guide me to the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Preferences are preferences no matter how they are phrased few like it when we are excluded as a result especially if we thought there may have been a chase of even chatting beforehand.

For me it makes little difference as it excludes me either way it may be said. Since I'd not be meeting them and most likely avoid them at a social too it has no bearing at all for me.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah should try be positive and not negative about what you want.

Like "athletic girls preferred" vs "no overweight girls".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love putting notes on profiles from updates - some people don’t realise that you copy and paste what they have written.

Gives us an idea of the person even before correspondence progresses.

We also copy and paste the positive ones too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would I get annoyed, they're doing everyone a favour by showing their true colours from the start instead of hiding them under a facade of politeness and respect as many others do...

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

I should really put it on our profile, its my preference after all

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By *rsquik OP   Woman
over a year ago

Drogheda

My point also though.... dont go complaining about it being so hard to get a meet when all you say in your description is "no fat chicks please". The only thing that this tells people about you is you are a ****.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"My point also though.... dont go complaining about it being so hard to get a meet when all you say in your description is "no fat chicks please". The only thing that this tells people about you is you are a ****. "
Well thats true.. but sure you are gonna get that. I havent had the misfortune of seeing it on a profile before.

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By *rsquik OP   Woman
over a year ago

Drogheda


"Yeah should try be positive and not negative about what you want.

Like "athletic girls preferred" vs "no overweight girls"."

Exactly... say what you do want rather than what you dont!!

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By *rsquik OP   Woman
over a year ago

Drogheda


"My point also though.... dont go complaining about it being so hard to get a meet when all you say in your description is "no fat chicks please". The only thing that this tells people about you is you are a ****. Well thats true.. but sure you are gonna get that. I havent had the misfortune of seeing it on a profile before. "

Seen it this evening on a profile and then seen something similar posted as a status tonight!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone on here should have a letters and numbers that describes there body shape and looks, is I'd be fffl 14 meaning fat fucker from Lucan 14stone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It doesn't matter the worst thing is when they said that dont like tan people =/

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab."

Got called a fooking dog, a fat cu#t and topped it off with "the state of ur saggy tits". And a cam veri saying he was a gent from a cury lady. Go figure! Block and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab.

Got called a fooking dog, a fat cu#t and topped it off with "the state of ur saggy tits". And a cam veri saying he was a gent from a cury lady. Go figure! Block and move on. "

I assume you can report a mail like that?

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland


"Anyone else get really annoyed when they see posts such as "no fat chicks" or "good looking people only".... like I'm not saying that people shouldn't post their preferences or be choosy on the site.... but come on there are better ways of saying what you are into surely! "

Doesn't annoy us at all,as some have said it's another great way of filtering out people that just wouldn't interest us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab.

Got called a fooking dog, a fat cu#t and topped it off with "the state of ur saggy tits". And a cam veri saying he was a gent from a cury lady. Go figure! Block and move on. "

Only a gent when he gets what he wants. Nasty piece of work. I came across only a few of these thank god. I just block and move on as they are not worth thinking about.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab.

Got called a fooking dog, a fat cu#t and topped it off with "the state of ur saggy tits". And a cam veri saying he was a gent from a cury lady. Go figure! Block and move on.

I assume you can report a mail like that?"

Only got it last night. Reported it but he's still there, I think. Anyway only words at the end of the day and not something I let get to me.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab.

Got called a fooking dog, a fat cu#t and topped it off with "the state of ur saggy tits". And a cam veri saying he was a gent from a cury lady. Go figure! Block and move on.

Only a gent when he gets what he wants. Nasty piece of work. I came across only a few of these thank god. I just block and move on as they are not worth thinking about. "

Exactly.

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By *jdubliMan
over a year ago

Perth


"Anyone else get really annoyed when they see posts such as "no fat chicks" or "good looking people only".... like I'm not saying that people shouldn't post their preferences or be choosy on the site.... but come on there are better ways of saying what you are into surely!

Can't say I get annoyed as such. I simply use it as a vetting tool. I have no issue with preferences but fat and good looking are subjective terms so who knows what is fat or good looking to them. However the type of language used says more about them and It would guide me to the block button. "

Exactly

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway


"At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab.

Got called a fooking dog, a fat cu#t and topped it off with "the state of ur saggy tits". And a cam veri saying he was a gent from a cury lady. Go figure! Block and move on.

I assume you can report a mail like that?

Only got it last night. Reported it but he's still there, I think. Anyway only words at the end of the day and not something I let get to me. "

Did you let the woman that verified him know? If it was me I’d want to know so I could block him and remove my veri

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Anyone else get really annoyed when they see posts such as "no fat chicks" or "good looking people only".... like I'm not saying that people shouldn't post their preferences or be choosy on the site.... but come on there are better ways of saying what you are into surely! "

Nope.... But I do laugh when people who have stuff like that on their profiles mail me anyway asking to meet.... I mean... Have you seen my pics???!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab."

I got a lovely one from a female last week calling me pig in lipstick, an ugly gee bag cunt, and saying that a gastric band wouldn't do me any harm. I'm thinking of having it embroidered on a cushion cover... What do you think?

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab.

Got called a fooking dog, a fat cu#t and topped it off with "the state of ur saggy tits". And a cam veri saying he was a gent from a cury lady. Go figure! Block and move on.

I assume you can report a mail like that?

Only got it last night. Reported it but he's still there, I think. Anyway only words at the end of the day and not something I let get to me.

Did you let the woman that verified him know? If it was me I’d want to know so I could block him and remove my veri"

Not really my style to honest. She may really like him and he was probably a gent with her.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab.

Got called a fooking dog, a fat cu#t and topped it off with "the state of ur saggy tits". And a cam veri saying he was a gent from a cury lady. Go figure! Block and move on.

I assume you can report a mail like that?

Only got it last night. Reported it but he's still there, I think. Anyway only words at the end of the day and not something I let get to me.

Did you let the woman that verified him know? If it was me I’d want to know so I could block him and remove my veri

Not really my style to honest. She may really like him and he was probably a gent with her. "

Or.. he just got his much needed cam veri and never spoke to her again.... Damn this place brings out the cynic in me sometimes...

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab.

Got called a fooking dog, a fat cu#t and topped it off with "the state of ur saggy tits". And a cam veri saying he was a gent from a cury lady. Go figure! Block and move on.

I assume you can report a mail like that?

Only got it last night. Reported it but he's still there, I think. Anyway only words at the end of the day and not something I let get to me.

Did you let the woman that verified him know? If it was me I’d want to know so I could block him and remove my veri

Not really my style to honest. She may really like him and he was probably a gent with her.

Or.. he just got his much needed cam veri and never spoke to her again.... Damn this place brings out the cynic in me sometimes... "

Or she gives me an ear full for poking my nose in her business.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab.

Got called a fooking dog, a fat cu#t and topped it off with "the state of ur saggy tits". And a cam veri saying he was a gent from a cury lady. Go figure! Block and move on. "

Already blocked. Some people on here have some high expectations of themselves and are nice when it suits. Ain't a single thing wrong with your body.

But sure cowards will be cowards and hide behind their screen or behind a fake profile. I'd love to see them try say it in person.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"At least you didn't get a mail like me last week. Telling me I'm too fat to be on Fab.

I got a lovely one from a female last week calling me pig in lipstick, an ugly gee bag cunt, and saying that a gastric band wouldn't do me any harm. I'm thinking of having it embroidered on a cushion cover... What do you think? "

Be great on a T-shirt. You'll always get some like that on sites. But it's their uglyness coming through and a diet can't change that in them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone else get really annoyed when they see posts such as "no fat chicks" or "good looking people only".... like I'm not saying that people shouldn't post their preferences or be choosy on the site.... but come on there are better ways of saying what you are into surely! "
there is a name for people who put that up it's arseholes

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Yeah should try be positive and not negative about what you want.

Like "athletic girls preferred" vs "no overweight girls"."

Yes state what you want not what you dont. Sounds much kinder.

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