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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Ever think somebody is out of your league or do u just think, fuck it what have I to loose, I'll chance it anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely do, stops me messaging people all the time

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, if I'm interested in someone, I will message them

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city


"Ever think somebody is out of your league or do u just think, fuck it what have I to loose, I'll chance it anyway "
theres no such thing as leagues in my opinion, you only see 1% of a person by there looks ,I think.A gorgeous super model or the woman at Tesco checkout, i think fundemently they all want the same.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"No, if I'm interested in someone, I will message them "

This.

There is noone out if my league on fab (yeah, i’m an arrogant prick)

There are however practicalities of messaging someone who obviously attracts a lot of attention. If you feel that someone will never see your message due to volume in their inbox, why bother..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a few times .got brave and mailed the first mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have a few times .got brave and mailed the first mail"

So have I

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I wouldn't say I think people are out of my league but sometimes you can get a gauge for what type of person someone goes for and if I don't fit I don't bother.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in the lower leagues but it doesn't stop me for trying to get to the Majors!!!

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city


"Definitely do, stops me messaging people all the time

Mrs "
any man on here would be lucky to be with you,you msg who you want ,otherwise you'll never get it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never not messaged someone because I thought they were too good for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I have never not messaged someone because I thought they were too good for me."

Same. But I don't message many first anyway.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Always.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not that they were too good for me, but I would have not messaged thinking I wasn’t what they were looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For sure. I sometimes perv on their veris and see what kind of woman they go for

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I don't think looking at what someone is into and not messaging is the same as thinking they are too good for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think looking at what someone is into and not messaging is the same as thinking they are too good for you. "

100% plenty people I see and something on their profile that will make me think nope we will not gel.

But completely different to seeing someone and thinking they will never go for.little ol me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I liked a profile and was motivated I’d mail. By motivated I mean something piqued my interest, not just pretty photos. I’d mail and pay a compliment and if they feel they’re outta my league and don’t respond, well it’s just as well to kill it quick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever think somebody is out of your league or do u just think, fuck it what have I to loose, I'll chance it anyway "

No. I never send mail first. Exception is for forums threads

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By *rsquikWoman
over a year ago

Drogheda


"Ever think somebody is out of your league or do u just think, fuck it what have I to loose, I'll chance it anyway "

Definitely!! Depends on the mood if I will say fuck it and message anyway!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message anyway and get no reply lol the joys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever think somebody is out of your league or do u just think, fuck it what have I to loose, I'll chance it anyway "

Normally I don't message first but have received mail and wondered was that meant for me. So yeah sometimes I do think that they are out of my league. I clap my hands and go thank god for Fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever think somebody is out of your league or do u just think, fuck it what have I to loose, I'll chance it anyway "

Ofcourse, but then you get your personality across and her standards drop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever think somebody is out of your league or do u just think, fuck it what have I to loose, I'll chance it anyway

Ofcourse, but then you get your personality across and her standards drop

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I'm all about charming them with my personality and wit. Suckers.

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By *exybabe1Woman
over a year ago

xxx

It wouldn’t stop me, they can only say no and then there’s plenty more on the hot list to try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It wouldn’t stop me, they can only say no and then there’s plenty more on the hot list to try! "

Ask away there, but I can't promise anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever think somebody is out of your league or do u just think, fuck it what have I to loose, I'll chance it anyway "

Back to the topic at hand, how did it go? Did you get to rap your willy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ever think somebody is out of your league or do u just think, fuck it what have I to loose, I'll chance it anyway "

No I’m shy I might wink but if no reply I think I’m out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep all the time I don't have the balls to make the 1st move

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If i like someone, ill take a chance an mail, "faint heart never won...." and all that.

You make your own luck, so no harm in emailing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep all the time I don't have the balls to make the 1st move "

Same here..im a coward lol..x

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Guess I'm doing wrong by not mailing first .

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By *ale4U2Man
over a year ago

Nearby

Yup ... it's got to a point now that I tend only to msg someone if they have a question as their status. Most ladies I find unattainable otherwise. Sad but true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger yes but now no. I guess with age comes a different viewpoint

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only messages I've sent usually to do with a forum post. As for out of my league I read a profile and verifications which can give indication of women they go for. If I don't fit the type. I move on.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny


"Ever think somebody is out of your league or do u just think, fuck it what have I to loose, I'll chance it anyway "

Happened to me at a swinger party, and was shocked when she approached me about playing.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't think in leagues.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Yep all the time I don't have the balls to make the 1st move

Same here..im a coward lol..x"

Same, unless it's forum banter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im not young or tall, dark & handsome...so i look at the profiles, read the veris and see if they have posted in forums... then if i feel i have even a slight chance I will compose that 1st ( & normally) message and cross my fingers...this may not be the premier league but but its harder score here than in a soccer game

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've mailed a few guys whose pics I've liked and really thought they were out of my league on here. The same with answering some messages I get as well. To be honest we usually end up chatting at the very least and you realise most are just normal people with seriously hot pics lol

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

All the time

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

No one is out of my league. I’ve had meets with drop dead gorgeous women. If anything, I’m out of their league !!!!!. I message them. Their loss if they don’t reply

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By *ornyxbbwCouple
over a year ago

Monaghan

Most of the time tbh especially when the pics are fit and athletic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you don't ask, you don't get. Nobody should feel that anyone is out of their league. Is this why my in box is empty?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think all the profiles I fancy are out of my league, whether it's their pics or the experience they have that make me feel that way I don't know

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