FabSwingers.com forum: What am I doing wrong?

By *ay_Dub OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

So, here’s the deal! I’ve been on this for a while and have been trying to meet people and have fun and make new friends! However very few people respond to me!

I get it that I’m a single male and thus not the most in demand, that’s perfectly cool and it comes with the territory! I’m reaching out for advice from the wonderful people of the forum as to what about my profile or if I’ve messaged you, what approach I may be able to change!

I’m a nice guy who’s here for the same thing everyone else is and just want to meet people and have a bit of fun along the way!

So forum! Tell me what you think.... and be honest! Happy fabbing!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get cam verified or meet verified even if only a social meet. Often people post offering social meet in Dublin to help people get veris.

Plenty here only looking to meet single guys, profile fine other than pic of female, ur single does the person know their pic on fab

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Your profile picture would be one issue. It's not of you. Most people I would feel wouldn't be interested in seeing another woman you've been with.

Could be wrong. But i seen the picture there though it was a female or couples account. Haven't clicked into your profile yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking mainly to photograph others? Or meet for play? Your profile doesnt male it very clear...

Also your avatar is of some random woman sure your cock makes a cameo but you really need.to be the focus of your own profile pic

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Yeah profile looks ok just what I said about the picture would be what I could see wrong.

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By *ay_Dub OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Some quick and helpful replies....! Photo changed! Now that it’s mentioned, I hadn’t even considered the fact it looks like a couples profile!

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By *ay_Dub OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Maybe both! Take pics and get involved, ill see what I can do to make it more clear but that’s a fair point

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

"Some quick and helpful replies....! Photo changed! Now that it’s mentioned, I hadn’t even considered the fact it looks like a couples profile! "

And also a quick change on your part. Actually nice to see someone take on advice as so many don't.

Hopefully you'll get sorted soon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some quick and helpful replies....! Photo changed! Now that it’s mentioned, I hadn’t even considered the fact it looks like a couples profile! "

Nice to see someone actually take advice and change things. Keep chatting on forums someone bound to catch ur eye or vice versa

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By *thena400Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

“Late night fun” makes it sound as if you’d only be looking for fast booty calls, or that you’d be sneaking around. Not that everyone minds this, but some do. Also, “erotic photographer” would make me run, as I don’t trust anyone with a camera near me...who knows where photos end up, as evidenced by your previous profile photo.

Clarify what you’re offering and what you’re after, and definitely get verified.

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By *ay_Dub OP Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Some excellent advice there actually! Hadn’t thought of it like that! I’ll make edits now as suggested!

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