FabSwingers.com mobile

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Ireland

First self imposed Fab rule you broke

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We all joined Fab and had our own set of rules. What was the first rule you broke and why?

Mine was always a social first. Got carried away and said feck it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met an unverified guy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy "

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *at3232Woman
over a year ago

the moon

Fell for someone.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Gave my number to someone

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now. "

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door."

His loss, what a tube. Sorry that it happened

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door."

He was a a pure arse hole

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Gave my number to someone"

Bad idea. It turned nasty I take it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fell for someone."

Oh no I can imagine how you felt. Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door.

His loss, what a tube. Sorry that it happened "

His loss have seen him a few times since and all I can think of is why did I agree to meet him in first place

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a woman without seeing a face pic first..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door.

His loss, what a tube. Sorry that it happened

His loss have seen him a few times since and all I can think of is why did I agree to meet him in first place "

How does he act when you see him

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door.

His loss, what a tube. Sorry that it happened

His loss have seen him a few times since and all I can think of is why did I agree to meet him in first place

How does he act when you see him"

Doesn't recognize me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door."

Fuck! He's such a dick

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door.

His loss, what a tube. Sorry that it happened

His loss have seen him a few times since and all I can think of is why did I agree to meet him in first place

How does he act when you see him

Doesn't recognize me"

I kniw it's childish but I'd be tempted to trip the bastard

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door.

Fuck! He's such a dick"

Sounds like he was dragged up..no fucking manners..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door.

His loss, what a tube. Sorry that it happened

His loss have seen him a few times since and all I can think of is why did I agree to meet him in first place

How does he act when you see him

Doesn't recognize me

I kniw it's childish but I'd be tempted to trip the bastard "

He was out running one evening I drove by, imaging me serving for him, skinny runt couldn't even see him lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door.

His loss, what a tube. Sorry that it happened

His loss have seen him a few times since and all I can think of is why did I agree to meet him in first place

How does he act when you see him

Doesn't recognize me

I kniw it's childish but I'd be tempted to trip the bastard

He was out running one evening I drove by, imaging me serving for him, skinny runt couldn't even see him lol"

My kind of woman lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door.

His loss, what a tube. Sorry that it happened

His loss have seen him a few times since and all I can think of is why did I agree to meet him in first place

How does he act when you see him

Doesn't recognize me

I kniw it's childish but I'd be tempted to trip the bastard

He was out running one evening I drove by, imaging me serving for him, skinny runt couldn't even see him lol"

Lmao had that thought myself a few times

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So no stories on broken rules then

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So no stories on broken rules then"

Ya the lads haven't mentioned any have they

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *at3232Woman
over a year ago

the moon


"Fell for someone.

Oh no I can imagine how you felt. Xx"

Was great. But ended badly

Another broken heart...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't been on long enough to break any rules yet, no meets or socials, not even many messages back. Probably sending a second message after saying I wouldn't

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive broken so many of the initial rules I set, no phone number was probably the first

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive broken so many of the initial rules I set, no phone number was probably the first"

It's a hard call on giving the number out especially if u chat for a while

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive broken so many of the initial rules I set, no phone number was probably the first

It's a hard call on giving the number out especially if u chat for a while"

I give mine out pretty easily now tbh....I was just a bit paranoid at the start

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Gave my number to someone

Bad idea. It turned nasty I take it. "

Something like that yup.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive broken so many of the initial rules I set, no phone number was probably the first

It's a hard call on giving the number out especially if u chat for a while

I give mine out pretty easily now tbh....I was just a bit paranoid at the start"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"So no stories on broken rules then

Ya the lads haven't mentioned any have they "

We have .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive broken so many of the initial rules I set, no phone number was probably the first

It's a hard call on giving the number out especially if u chat for a while"

No its not!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive broken so many of the initial rules I set, no phone number was probably the first

It's a hard call on giving the number out especially if u chat for a while

No its not! "

Maybe for some but I dont give mine out. Plenty other apps to contact a person on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Considering getting a number just for Fab

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ive broken so many of the initial rules I set, no phone number was probably the first"

That's one I would never break but different circumstances and all that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive broken so many of the initial rules I set, no phone number was probably the first

It's a hard call on giving the number out especially if u chat for a while

No its not!

Maybe for some but I dont give mine out. Plenty other apps to contact a person on"

That's what I meant, I've never seen any reason to give someone my number here.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive broken so many of the initial rules I set, no phone number was probably the first

That's one I would never break but different circumstances and all that"

I used to meet a guy for over a year on here he never had my phone number lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Ive broken so many of the initial rules I set, no phone number was probably the first

It's a hard call on giving the number out especially if u chat for a while

No its not!

Maybe for some but I dont give mine out. Plenty other apps to contact a person on

That's what I meant, I've never seen any reason to give someone my number here. "

Mine was because she turned out to be a friend of a friend of mine.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only rule I have for fab- no public photos of my genitals.

It's still sacred and unbroken

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door.

His loss, what a tube. Sorry that it happened

His loss have seen him a few times since and all I can think of is why did I agree to meet him in first place

How does he act when you see him

Doesn't recognize me

I kniw it's childish but I'd be tempted to trip the bastard

He was out running one evening I drove by, imaging me serving for him, skinny runt couldn't even see him lol"

No puddles you could have driven through. Don't let it bother you as its a reflection of him and his manners rather than you.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only rule I have for fab- no public photos of my genitals.

It's still sacred and unbroken "

Same no private ones either

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only rule I have for fab- no public photos of my genitals.

It's still sacred and unbroken "

The rule not the genital right?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Sent face pics never thought i would but dangeris exciting

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sent face pics never thought i would but dangeris exciting"

Oh won't do that but you are very photogenic lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Glad u think so will accept one pm from u .lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only rule I have for fab- no public photos of my genitals.

It's still sacred and unbroken

Same no private ones either"

Mines only very private - only ones, who already seen the foof in real life may get a snap

No friends only or anything of the sort

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only rule I have for fab- no public photos of my genitals.

It's still sacred and unbroken

Same no private ones either

Mines only very private - only ones, who already seen the foof in real life may get a snap

No friends only or anything of the sort "

I've never taken a pic of it lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only rule I have for fab- no public photos of my genitals.

It's still sacred and unbroken

Same no private ones either

Mines only very private - only ones, who already seen the foof in real life may get a snap

No friends only or anything of the sort "

It's a good policy in fairness.

But you must have broken some of your rules. Go on tell lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oody500Man
over a year ago

Bray


"We all joined Fab and had our own set of rules. What was the first rule you broke and why?

Mine was always a social first. Got carried away and said feck it "

yes I've done the same myself

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only rule I have for fab- no public photos of my genitals.

It's still sacred and unbroken

Same no private ones either

Mines only very private - only ones, who already seen the foof in real life may get a snap

No friends only or anything of the sort

It's a good policy in fairness.

But you must have broken some of your rules. Go on tell lol"

That was literally the only rule...

I know myself to act on different moods, so what one day may sound crazy and horrible, next day will be a turn on, so no point in setting any rules

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all joined Fab and had our own set of rules. What was the first rule you broke and why?

Mine was always a social first. Got carried away and said feck it yes I've done the same myself "

I never found men too bothered about the social first rule lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I never put up a cock pic, but am often tempted.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *andomCaptainMan
over a year ago

Roscommon

Never to meet anyone too close to home... as in within 1.5km

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Met some one outside our age limit

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I never put up a cock pic, but am often tempted. "

I was the same about private pics but then said why not. If I am here might as well be all in.

Not as a profile though but I do like to view if chatting

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met some one outside our age limit "

Good?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only rule I have for fab- no public photos of my genitals.

It's still sacred and unbroken

Same no private ones either

Mines only very private - only ones, who already seen the foof in real life may get a snap

No friends only or anything of the sort

It's a good policy in fairness.

But you must have broken some of your rules. Go on tell lol

That was literally the only rule...

I know myself to act on different moods, so what one day may sound crazy and horrible, next day will be a turn on, so no point in setting any rules "

Fair play for knowing what you want and like. I had notions was only looking for x and not like the other deviants on here (sorry) but now

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Emmm haven't really broke rules as such but definitely don't give out your private number especially if its connected to your social media apps.. grand cheap phone I got which I can give out the number an have kik its my fabulous phone as I call it. And its not connected to my private life whats so ever. So lesson learnt there could be a tip for others I guess

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting involved with a married woman when I was still a single on here years ago. Worse thing I ever did

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

If anything I think I've just increased my number of rules over the years as a result of bad or uncomfortable experiences

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elfastblondMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Sending a face pic

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Playing on first meet........

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"If anything I think I've just increased my number of rules over the years as a result of bad or uncomfortable experiences "

Yes I'm with you on that one. Rules were added on my fab journey learning from mistakes. Also most rules allow exceptions, there's only one that doesn't: always listen to your gut feeling.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anything I think I've just increased my number of rules over the years as a result of bad or uncomfortable experiences

Yes I'm with you on that one. Rules were added on my fab journey learning from mistakes. Also most rules allow exceptions, there's only one that doesn't: always listen to your gut feeling. "

Exactly this

Your gut is telling ya something for a reason

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

I went significantly lower (21) than the age limit I had set(30) Best experience(s) ever..

he can claim the title of cougar maker..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Our only rule we have broken is mixing fab life and real life by adding friends from swinging onto other social media. But to be fair we only add people we know well who are good friends.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door."

His taste is obviously up his arse so Steph

A massive loss for him

You're a beauty inside and out

Tina

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city

Booking a hotel an getting stung with a bill for a no show meet. So dont do hotel meets no more

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aughtyTippcplCouple
over a year ago

Nearby

We've broken a few

Tina

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

My age range rule. Broke it a few times and only once was it a bad call. Still prefer to stay within my set range though. I'm not convinced that younger guys are actually attracted to me or ticking the fantasy fucket list.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door.

His taste is obviously up his arse so Steph

A massive loss for him

You're a beauty inside and out

Tina "

Ah thanks Tina hope all good with you xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door."

what an arsehole was he blind

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I've always said no social without chatting for at least a few weeks so that I'm sure we both have similar interests and are compatible and no play without a social.

First social meet was 2 weeks after joining fab and 1 week after first chatting to the lady.

Play meet was arranged within a week and was a disaster due to her unreasonable demands.

Therefore original rules have been reinforced since and stuck to so as to avoid that happening again.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door.what an arsehole was he blind "

What he said.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"My age range rule. Broke it a few times and only once was it a bad call. Still prefer to stay within my set range though. I'm not convinced that younger guys are actually attracted to me or ticking the fantasy fucket list."

I'd say in your case that meeting you is their fantasy fucket list.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

My upper age range rule and my not meeting married men rule simultaneously.

And it was definitely a good decision

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"My age range rule. Broke it a few times and only once was it a bad call. Still prefer to stay within my set range though. I'm not convinced that younger guys are actually attracted to me or ticking the fantasy fucket list.

I'd say in your case that meeting you is their fantasy fucket list."

Well that reinforces my age range rule. Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"My age range rule. Broke it a few times and only once was it a bad call. Still prefer to stay within my set range though. I'm not convinced that younger guys are actually attracted to me or ticking the fantasy fucket list.

I'd say in your case that meeting you is their fantasy fucket list.

Well that reinforces my age range rule. Lol"

Lol I fall inside your age range rule but I don't tick a few of your other boxes so I might as well be 39 or 61.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"My age range rule. Broke it a few times and only once was it a bad call. Still prefer to stay within my set range though. I'm not convinced that younger guys are actually attracted to me or ticking the fantasy fucket list.

I'd say in your case that meeting you is their fantasy fucket list.

Well that reinforces my age range rule. Lol

Lol I fall inside your age range rule but I don't tick a few of your other boxes so I might as well be 39 or 61. "

The attractive box being one of them. So no loss to you. Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"My age range rule. Broke it a few times and only once was it a bad call. Still prefer to stay within my set range though. I'm not convinced that younger guys are actually attracted to me or ticking the fantasy fucket list.

I'd say in your case that meeting you is their fantasy fucket list.

Well that reinforces my age range rule. Lol

Lol I fall inside your age range rule but I don't tick a few of your other boxes so I might as well be 39 or 61.

The attractive box being one of them. So no loss to you. Lol"

Well I didn't think I was that ugly but I guess I was wrong.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"My age range rule. Broke it a few times and only once was it a bad call. Still prefer to stay within my set range though. I'm not convinced that younger guys are actually attracted to me or ticking the fantasy fucket list.

I'd say in your case that meeting you is their fantasy fucket list.

Well that reinforces my age range rule. Lol

Lol I fall inside your age range rule but I don't tick a few of your other boxes so I might as well be 39 or 61.

The attractive box being one of them. So no loss to you. Lol

Well I didn't think I was that ugly but I guess I was wrong. "

I was referring to mine, not yours.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smooth move

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Fall for someone too much.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"My age range rule. Broke it a few times and only once was it a bad call. Still prefer to stay within my set range though. I'm not convinced that younger guys are actually attracted to me or ticking the fantasy fucket list.

I'd say in your case that meeting you is their fantasy fucket list.

Well that reinforces my age range rule. Lol

Lol I fall inside your age range rule but I don't tick a few of your other boxes so I might as well be 39 or 61.

The attractive box being one of them. So no loss to you. Lol

Well I didn't think I was that ugly but I guess I was wrong.

I was referring to mine, not yours. "

Apologies. I don't wear Rosered tinted glasses and yet I see a very attractive Dub. You need a new mirror m'lady.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"My age range rule. Broke it a few times and only once was it a bad call. Still prefer to stay within my set range though. I'm not convinced that younger guys are actually attracted to me or ticking the fantasy fucket list.

I'd say in your case that meeting you is their fantasy fucket list.

Well that reinforces my age range rule. Lol

Lol I fall inside your age range rule but I don't tick a few of your other boxes so I might as well be 39 or 61.

The attractive box being one of them. So no loss to you. Lol

Well I didn't think I was that ugly but I guess I was wrong.

I was referring to mine, not yours.

Apologies. I don't wear Rosered tinted glasses and yet I see a very attractive Dub. You need a new mirror m'lady. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.

I've just broken my first rule.. Gave in to temptation.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Booking a hotel an getting stung with a bill for a no show meet. So dont do hotel meets no more "

Ouch could not blame you there

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Arranged an overnighter with a guy I met very briefly 2 years previously. Bad gut feeling the day before and on the 3 hour train journey but ignored it.

Big mistake lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Arranged an overnighter with a guy I met very briefly 2 years previously. Bad gut feeling the day before and on the 3 hour train journey but ignored it.

Big mistake lol

"

Oh no 3 hours! Where you tempted to use the who's near button lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We Never set a rule .

To be honest and not judging any one , when reading a profile with half a page of rules .

Won’t pass the second line and skip to next .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"We Never set a rule .

To be honest and not judging any one , when reading a profile with half a page of rules .

Won’t pass the second line and skip to next .

"

Your profile says you will only meet as a couple. That's a rule.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We Never set a rule .

To be honest and not judging any one , when reading a profile with half a page of rules .

Won’t pass the second line and skip to next .

Your profile says you will only meet as a couple. That's a rule. "

Didn’t know that’s a rule !!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"We Never set a rule .

To be honest and not judging any one , when reading a profile with half a page of rules .

Won’t pass the second line and skip to next .

Your profile says you will only meet as a couple. That's a rule.

Didn’t know that’s a rule !!"

It's your own rule that you have set for yourselves which is perfectly fine but that's what the thread is about. You are telling others that you don't meet as singles and op was asking if anyone had ever broken their own self imposed rules.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We Never set a rule .

To be honest and not judging any one , when reading a profile with half a page of rules .

Won’t pass the second line and skip to next .

Your profile says you will only meet as a couple. That's a rule.

Didn’t know that’s a rule !!

It's your own rule that you have set for yourselves which is perfectly fine but that's what the thread is about. You are telling others that you don't meet as singles and op was asking if anyone had ever broken their own self imposed rules."

Apologies for reading it wrong !!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *arkedMan
over a year ago

Trim


"Apologies. I don't wear Rosered tinted glasses and yet I see a very attractive Dub. You need a new mirror m'lady. "

I 100% agree with this.

Not only do you look great but from reading your responses (excluding your personal 'put down's) you come across as intelligent as well and for me at least, that's an attractive trait.

Shame I'm more than what most would consider 'more than a bit' outside your catchment area...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Apologies. I don't wear Rosered tinted glasses and yet I see a very attractive Dub. You need a new mirror m'lady.

I 100% agree with this.

Not only do you look great but from reading your responses (excluding your personal 'put down's) you come across as intelligent as well and for me at least, that's an attractive trait.

Shame I'm more than what most would consider 'more than a bit' outside your catchment area... "

but I didn't put myself down. I was making a joke at a previous post. But thank you anyway.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Arranged an overnighter with a guy I met very briefly 2 years previously. Bad gut feeling the day before and on the 3 hour train journey but ignored it.

Big mistake lol

Oh no 3 hours! Where you tempted to use the who's near button lol"

I never even thought about that tbh. And that would just have been meeting another stranger. Lets just say it was a long night and I hardly slept though not because I was having fun. Lol

Never again. Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ive broken so many of the initial rules I set, no phone number was probably the first"

So what's your number

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have said I would not bring anyone into my house and I have!!!

Wont give out ny number I have.

Fucked on the first meet I have.

Actually I dont think I have set a rule I haven't broke

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Broken a few of my initial rules but all worked out well

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Arranged an overnighter with a guy I met very briefly 2 years previously. Bad gut feeling the day before and on the 3 hour train journey but ignored it.

Big mistake lol

Oh no 3 hours! Where you tempted to use the who's near button lol

I never even thought about that tbh. And that would just have been meeting another stranger. Lets just say it was a long night and I hardly slept though not because I was having fun. Lol

Never again. Lol"

I get you but I would have looked out of curiosity lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

Used "see who's near" for a random hookup with a guy before we checked out of a hotel once. Worked out quite well.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

No meeting local to home

No one outside my age bracket

Meeting guys

Blocking

Not replying to messages

Meeting smokers

Being people to mine

All broken..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elfastblondMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"No meeting local to home

No one outside my age bracket

Meeting guys

Blocking

Not replying to messages

Meeting smokers

Being people to mine

All broken.. "

What rules have you kept? Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I broke my golden rule... not to `fall` for a meet. It hit me right out of the blue late last yr when I discovered I had strong feelings for him, I was like a love sick teenager TRUTH. I had met him a few times but I knew I couldn't meet him again it was the only way to deal with it or I would have fallen deeper.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rules are made to broken

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I broke my golden rule... not to `fall` for a meet. It hit me right out of the blue late last yr when I discovered I had strong feelings for him, I was like a love sick teenager TRUTH. I had met him a few times but I knew I couldn't meet him again it was the only way to deal with it or I would have fallen deeper. "

It must have been hard for you to not meet him again.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I broke my golden rule... not to `fall` for a meet. It hit me right out of the blue late last yr when I discovered I had strong feelings for him, I was like a love sick teenager TRUTH. I had met him a few times but I knew I couldn't meet him again it was the only way to deal with it or I would have fallen deeper.

It was very hard but I knew I couldn't cos I was setting myself up for a broken heart LOL yep !!! Took me a few wks to recover tbh

It must have been hard for you to not meet him again.

"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Yes its dangerous territory. You build up a trust an friendship after awhile .depends on your situ i suppose .feelings can get strong

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes its dangerous territory. You build up a trust an friendship after awhile .depends on your situ i suppose .feelings can get strong "

Yes, it hit me out of the blue though. I so wasn't expecting it, I fell big-time !!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Every ave any regrets bout not seeing where it would ave led ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Every ave any regrets bout not seeing where it would ave led ??"

He still asks to see me imagine, there's a big age gap so it wouldn't lead to anything, it's just a pity I fell for him

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

when I came across the site I said I'm never joining.. here I am

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"when I came across the site I said I'm never joining.. here I am "

Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always said I sould not do local... buf I still found myself actively seeking local fun to home.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rive for 5Man
over a year ago

NORTH DUBLIN

rules are made to be broken ????

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elle de SoirWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Fucked without social meet ... turned out to be my best ever meet. We’re married now

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Fucked without social meet ... turned out to be my best ever meet. We’re married now "

Just goes to show some rules are made to be broken

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inkywife1981Couple
over a year ago

A town near you

Our main rule was no one to close to home as we live in a small rural area.

We ended up meeting someone who live a couple of miles down the road but it worked out well

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ecentguy321Man
over a year ago

nearby

We’re supposed to have rules???

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Feel for a guy got hurt big time

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rules are made to be broken

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Met an unverified guy

By the sad face not a good move I take it.

I met an unverified guy best move ever one of my best meets here and a good friend now.

Definitely not he walked into coffee shop looked me up and down says "your not for me " turned on his heels and walked straight back out the door."

Omg! How rude!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *exydoctorsCouple
over a year ago

Galway/Clare

We started with small rules. I (male) found it tricky at first so we brought in more rules. Now we have no rules!!

I think of it as the rules spontaneously evolving rather than breaking them ??

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *ichelleanddaveCouple
over a year ago

blanchardstown

Let him take her bareback

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top