FabSwingers.com forum: Is irish fab fake news

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m just throwing this out there I see the Irish section has 1000’s of members but how many really want to meet to swing?

Has It become for most just a fantasy now and fab has become a place to chat really, indulge the fantasy and look at each other’s pics without any deep down real intention of meeting anyone?

It just seems that out of the 1000’s members a very very small amount actual meet at socials etc and even a smaller amount actually swing?

Hence the query 999 profiles can’t be fake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol go back to your tent pal the drink has hit you hard at EP buddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

1st was an outdoor meet in the Wicklow mountains a near me one off phone. Well verified etc couple followed the directions walked down wooded path to be met by naked guy with boxers round his angles wanking at me!!!

2nd booked a hotel paid the fee well verified chatting all week sat in the bar and waited and waited message them to be blocked on up side had a good few drinks and a nice room for the night

3rd turned up at an agreed address again well verified met at door by fella invited in to be told sorry my wife !!’ had to work nights u fancy a beer we watch some porn and have a wank together.

After all that I gave up and have cam fun mostly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1st was an outdoor meet in the Wicklow mountains a near me one off phone. Well verified etc couple followed the directions walked down wooded path to be met by naked guy with boxers round his angles wanking at me!!!

2nd booked a hotel paid the fee well verified chatting all week sat in the bar and waited and waited message them to be blocked on up side had a good few drinks and a nice room for the night

3rd turned up at an agreed address again well verified met at door by fella invited in to be told sorry my wife !!’ had to work nights u fancy a beer we watch some porn and have a wank together.

After all that I gave up and have cam fun mostly"

That pretty much sucks for those experiences dude....and not the good kind!

It's tough to keep trying for a meet after that but just gotta stay with it if you want to meet there's people that will and are nice, fun people. Maybe try find a lady instead of couples, or even try go to a Social to meet women/couples...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2nd booked a hotel paid the fee well verified chatting all week sat in the bar and waited and waited message them to be blocked on up side had a good few drinks and a nice room for the night

3rd turned up at an agreed address again well verified met at door by fella invited in to be told sorry my wife !!’ had to work nights u fancy a beer we watch some porn and have a wank together.

After all that I gave up and have cam fun mostly"

Pity you had them exp....

But for me it’s defo to meet can’t stand time wasters or fake people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't bother with the social scene, we do meet people for sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shock!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get fed up with the people not reading my profile.

As I do say I can't accommodate and just looking around Belfast.

Being asked for a meet from someone with no photos who just joined 5 minutes ago . And wanting me to drive 2hrs 30 minutes away from me just to give him a blowjob. But I get the 2hr30 drive home again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2nd booked a hotel paid the fee well verified chatting all week sat in the bar and waited and waited message them to be blocked on up side had a good few drinks and a nice room for the night

3rd turned up at an agreed address again well verified met at door by fella invited in to be told sorry my wife !!’ had to work nights u fancy a beer we watch some porn and have a wank together.

After all that I gave up and have cam fun mostly"

Hahahahahahaha, this is fab in a nutshell hahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Well Casey wish you luck hope you have fun maybe restore my faith in this swinging lark

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Have you considered the possibility that they just don't fancy you wifewanted?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I meet off here as well. I also chat on the forum and chat rooms. But ye I meet I would think that is why the majority are on here.

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By *angero3aMan
over a year ago

swords

yes hard to know .on here a while hard to meet any couple will not meet if not ver can only get ver if meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m no oil painting but see tread after 3 agreed meet ups and being let down and tricked I don’t think it’s just down to looks as I’ve had some great cam fun with couples who obviously liked what they saw as did I.

My point is more a general query are people really here to meet or indulge a fantasy and look at pics?

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Yes many people are really here to meet. Many take breaks though. We are on a break as Mrs _ilthynights is pregnant for example. Many are very picky. Many can only meet occasionally due to babysitting etc.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

Many have a life, activities, family and friends outside fab. For example I meet when I get the time which in reality is only every two or three months.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

3rd turned up at an agreed address again well verified met at door by fella invited in to be told sorry my wife !!’ had to work nights u fancy a beer we watch some porn and have a wank together. "

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PRICELESS!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes all funny now looking back the most unlucky guy on fab

re-reading them it’s mad u couldn’t make it up. Be glad to hear anyone else’s priceless meet excuses

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

It happens.

I've been stood up, been ghosted on the day of the meet and also had some meets too.

But the real question is what did you do in meet 1 and 3? You never said if you stayed or left.

Also seriously you went to meet a random stranger in the woods? Couple or not are you crazy? Got to think safe.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thor’s meet one was just on here naive and excited I thought the whole idea of verifications was just that to prove people where real. I was told they both there looking to meet now as explained it was a near me thing on the phone. Yes I bolted out of there and never looked back thinking afterwards how stupid I was and dangerous

3rd time again I believed verifications was chatting etc so all was good plus they give me home address etc so assumed all was fine. Went into living room then to be told wife was working nights etc. I just said ah mate that’s my bad luck tried to make a joke out of it with him and small talk about meets etc as I was backing out towards front door. I think he knew as he was laughing as he opened the door. Into the car and away.

I now cam to ensure it’s a couple before arranging anything as verifications mean nothing on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Also seriously you went to meet a random stranger in the woods? Couple or not are you crazy? Got to think safe. "

Good point..thinking of a very recent documentary and how a lady lost her life in those circumstances..Have fun ladies and gents but do take care with online connections..xxx

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

"Thor’s meet one was just on here naive and excited I thought the whole idea of verifications was just that to prove people where real. I was told they both there looking to meet now as explained it was a near me thing on the phone. Yes I bolted out of there and never looked back thinking afterwards how stupid I was and dangerous

I now cam to ensure it’s a couple before arranging anything as verifications mean nothing on here"

Ah yeah understandable. And it's good you're being more cautious. Can never be too careful both male and female. Like about 10 minutes ago I got a mail that just said "where do you live" no interaction before this mail.

yeah no thank you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I now cam to ensure it’s a couple before arranging anything as verifications mean nothing on here"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thor u 100% I’ve learned the hard way no pics no chat if chat then cam to verify if not good luck most don’t agree to cam even without faces so few meet opportunities but sick of being messed about.

I don’t cam to see faces just to make sure it is really a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thor u 100% I’ve learned the hard way no pics no chat if chat then cam to verify if not good luck most don’t agree to cam even without faces so few meet opportunities but sick of being messed about.

I don’t cam to see faces just to make sure it is really a couple"

There's always going to be fakes and time wasters.. we've started to ask for a quick video call after we exchange a few messages so we can all see each other. There's no reason for someone to say no to it, it takes no time at all and if they do we move on.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

There are people who meet, but when it's convenient for them. People have jobs, families and other commitments that take priority over swinging. Like many, I simply say 'not meeting' when I know I don't really have the free time to meet. It saves everyone getting frustrated by cancelled or postponed plans if my circumstances change at short notice. I don't lead people on, and I expect the same courtesy from others.

You've been unfortunate in your choices OP. If I'd had your run of luck I'd probably be asking myself 'what's the point in even trying?', and that's exactly why a few bad apples can ruin it for everyone else. Because bad experiences put people off... Genuine people who do want to meet, and who do make the effort of turning up. This wasn't a case of people 'not clicking' on a meet and deciding not to take things any further... This was the OP being deliberately duped and/or disrespected by people who were not what they claimed to be.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

3couple you 100% right no difference a quick cam to verify and easier than running all over town for a wasted no show blind date

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahh thanks tryst yes finally someone gets the intention of the original post question. Good luck on fab hope you have fun and don’t get messed about

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