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By *ltmtvts OP   Man
over a year ago

south

Me and a close lady friend have discussed fucking in front of others at a sex club/cinema. We are both new to this scene and we want to be watched only basically..

How does it tend to work? People keep there distance until told otherwise or have to be told to keep there distance.. ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put some porn on ur tv at home ^ invite some people around to watch you...much better than going to an adult cinema..safe, controllable & clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been in to Glamworld a few times, yet to see any Couples or Women, but I go in the morning/early afternoon so my timing might just be wrong.

Anyway, there's always a few guys there, all either gay/bi. I sit and watch the straight porn on the tv, a lot approach me and stand looking at me, I don't have my cock on show so they usually get the gist that I'm not looking for men, and move on. Some try chat, ask if I want fun or whatever, a polite no thanks seems to work and again they move on. Some try touch me, or try grab for my crotch.. a hand up saying no seems to work there too. When the guys there are playing with each other, the others flock to them, but it seems most are respectful and take no for an answer. However I have seen a couple of guys have to give stern no's to older gents who try it on with them, seen one storm off. I feel that if a couple go in they may be surrounded very quickly, but if you set out rules like just say "no touching" or something, I'm sure the guys would back off, maybe wank looking at you? And there is always a lockable booth with a window to go into if you prefer that. Personally if I saw you, I'd try sit near and watch, wait for an invitation to touch/join in, and of there was none, I'd probably masturbate watching you. I'd be happy to go along with you and watch, or watch somewhere else private. Message me if interested, and enjoy otherwise

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By *ltmtvts OP   Man
over a year ago

south

Thanks for the advice guys.

I guess most will be respectful of your gestures but it only takes one to ruin the experience..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went in a few years back with a guy from here. Most were respectful bar two. The first kept trying to shove his hands where they shouldn't be, shouting directions and shoving p0ppers in our faces. The other when I was finished with the bloke I came with grabbed me and demanded a blowjob. They were soundly chewed out by everyone but has put me off going back sadly as it would work for some bucket list play with Jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I went in a few years back with a guy from here. Most were respectful bar two. The first kept trying to shove his hands where they shouldn't be, shouting directions and shoving p0ppers in our faces. The other when I was finished with the bloke I came with grabbed me and demanded a blowjob. They were soundly chewed out by everyone but has put me off going back sadly as it would work for some bucket list play with Jay "

Chewed out? Surely they should have thrown out on their arse. Mrs has been talking about someone watching us recently. It's the kind of thing you described that is putting me off it a bit, some people have no respect for boundaries

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

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By *ilthyNightsCouple
over a year ago

East / North, Cork

Wanting to be watched is exhibitionism. Wanting to watch is voyeurism. Trying this at a non-organised event like in a sex cinema will likely be problematic. People in there are less aware of appropriate behavior and will likely take liberties. In a sex club (where there is an entry policy) people are more aware of the rules and there are staff who will take a dim view on uninvited touching. Also you could organise an event in a private location and invite someone who you trust to be in crowd control, in case any other invitees get handsy.

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By *urlyloverMan
over a year ago

n Ireland

Best place is at home.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who the fuck would want to go into a sex cinema after reading this.

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By *ltmtvts OP   Man
over a year ago

south

Sex cinema is definitely out reading this and thank you all for opinions and wisdom..

we are going to Amsterdam in sept and will seem out a sex club there for our first dabble...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hear Amsterdam is a whole lot better lol. As for here, I'd say get chatting on the site, find someone trustworthy and invite them somewhere private like a hotel room or something. Set out your rules together and have them watch you in comfort and safety

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who the fuck would want to go into a sex cinema after reading this. "

Same as that

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By *heoldhippyMan
over a year ago

Midleton


"I've been in to Glamworld a few times, yet to see any Couples or Women, but I go in the morning/early afternoon so my timing might just be wrong.

Anyway, there's always a few guys there, all either gay/bi. I sit and watch the straight porn on the tv, a lot approach me and stand looking at me, I don't have my cock on show so they usually get the gist that I'm not looking for men, and move on. Some try chat, ask if I want fun or whatever, a polite no thanks seems to work and again they move on. Some try touch me, or try grab for my crotch.. a hand up saying no seems to work there too. When the guys there are playing with each other, the others flock to them, but it seems most are respectful and take no for an answer. However I have seen a couple of guys have to give stern no's to older gents who try it on with them, seen one storm off. I feel that if a couple go in they may be surrounded very quickly, but if you set out rules like just say "no touching" or something, I'm sure the guys would back off, maybe wank looking at you? And there is always a lockable booth with a window to go into if you prefer that. Personally if I saw you, I'd try sit near and watch, wait for an invitation to touch/join in, and of there was none, I'd probably masturbate watching you. I'd be happy to go along with you and watch, or watch somewhere else private. Message me if interested, and enjoy otherwise "

Well, you could always come down to the People's republic and try out our city cinema.

There may be a small prob with guys crowding but , for the most part , limits are respected. PM if you want to organise something.

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