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"Do guys read womens profiles on here or do they just see a picture and say oh yeah I'll have a bit of that. I like the guy to at least make an effort and read what my profile says before automatically messaging the copy and paste messages they send all women. " I’d say most just see a pussy on a profile and then just mail. Most women it seems get hundreds of mails a day and can’t reply to everyone. If I was mailing you, after reading your profile, I’d say something along the lines of, I don’t want your kik but would prefer to meet for a coffee rather than have a load of tennis mail and I’m glad you don’t want to meet half the site coz I’d prefer to meet someone that’s unique and would like to put a bit of effort and time into us, providing we have a ‘connection’ that so many on here talk about. Apart from that, your profile doesn’t really tell me much about you, the person. So how would that mail float your goat P? | |||
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"Some do, some dont. Some will read them and then ignore whats written there... That goes for women and couples too though probably not as much. Just block and move on. Use your filters to reduce the anount of crazy" Thank you x | |||
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" I’d say most just see a pussy on a profile and then just mail. Most women it seems get hundreds of mails a day and can’t reply to everyone. If I was mailing you, after reading your profile, I’d say something along the lines of, I don’t want your kik but would prefer to meet for a coffee rather than have a load of tennis mail and I’m glad you don’t want to meet half the site coz I’d prefer to meet someone that’s unique and would like to put a bit of effort and time into us, providing we have a ‘connection’ that so many on here talk about. Apart from that, your profile doesn’t really tell me much about you, the person. So how would that mail float your goat P?" Ha a man that reads a profile.. Well I'm an open book anything someone wants to know about me only needs to have to ask me. | |||
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" I’d say most just see a pussy on a profile and then just mail. Most women it seems get hundreds of mails a day and can’t reply to everyone. If I was mailing you, after reading your profile, I’d say something along the lines of, I don’t want your kik but would prefer to meet for a coffee rather than have a load of tennis mail and I’m glad you don’t want to meet half the site coz I’d prefer to meet someone that’s unique and would like to put a bit of effort and time into us, providing we have a ‘connection’ that so many on here talk about. Apart from that, your profile doesn’t really tell me much about you, the person. So how would that mail float your goat P? Ha a man that reads a profile.. Well I'm an open book anything someone wants to know about me only needs to have to ask me. " Well I shall ask a few questions so. | |||
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" Well I shall ask a few questions so. Ask away " may I clone you | |||
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" Well I shall ask a few questions so. Ask away may I clone you " Which one of us me or him ha ha | |||
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" Well I shall ask a few questions so. Ask away may I clone you " Don't let him!! He'll turn you into a sheep | |||
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" I’d say most just see a pussy on a profile and then just mail. Most women it seems get hundreds of mails a day and can’t reply to everyone. If I was mailing you, after reading your profile, I’d say something along the lines of, I don’t want your kik but would prefer to meet for a coffee rather than have a load of tennis mail and I’m glad you don’t want to meet half the site coz I’d prefer to meet someone that’s unique and would like to put a bit of effort and time into us, providing we have a ‘connection’ that so many on here talk about. Apart from that, your profile doesn’t really tell me much about you, the person. So how would that mail float your goat P? Ha a man that reads a profile.. Well I'm an open book anything someone wants to know about me only needs to have to ask me. " Can you pm me your cc card details expiray date and security code please | |||
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" Well I shall ask a few questions so. Ask away may I clone you Which one of us me or him ha ha " Must be you Miss P, I’m too unique for any of that. | |||
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" Well I shall ask a few questions so. Ask away may I clone you Which one of us me or him ha ha " lol the lady of the house ofcourse | |||
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"I just look at the pictures " With a magnifying glass.. | |||
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"I just look at the pictures With a magnifying glass.. " naw I've them fancy jam jars now I'd see a midge on a donkeys arse a,mile away | |||
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" Can you pm me your cc card details expiray date and security code please " Just did I hope you got them. Happy Shopping | |||
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"I'll read profiles and make reference to it so they know I made the effort, still don't get a reply though.....there's that violin noise again, what's that all about....!!!? " Ha ha I don't know I never hear violins | |||
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"I just look at the pictures With a magnifying glass.. " Not at all necessary here | |||
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"I always read profiles. 90% of the time I'll read it before looking at the pictures. I don't mail first anyway but, when. I'm mailed I'll always have a read before replying to see a little insight into the person (if they have their profile filled out) before replying." So if you like what you see you don't mail the person | |||
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"I always read profiles. 90% of the time I'll read it before looking at the pictures. I don't mail first anyway but, when. I'm mailed I'll always have a read before replying to see a little insight into the person (if they have their profile filled out) before replying. So if you like what you see you don't mail the person " I always reply to mails. | |||
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" I always reply to mails. " Just don't make the first initial move.. I couldn't make the first move I wouldn't know where to start | |||
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" I always reply to mails. Just don't make the first initial move.. I couldn't make the first move I wouldn't know where to start" lol. You just talk your own advice and read over their profile and mail them with a few bits from their profile that tickles your fancy. | |||
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" I always reply to mails. Just don't make the first initial move.. I couldn't make the first move I wouldn't know where to start" just say hi hardy | |||
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"I'll read profiles and make reference to it so they know I made the effort, still don't get a reply though.....there's that violin noise again, what's that all about....!!!? Ha ha I don't know I never hear violins " I bet you hear a whole Orchestra playing the Jaws Theme Pratically, when your on the hunt....! Ha | |||
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" I bet you hear a whole Orchestra playing the Jaws Theme Pratically, when your on the hunt....! Ha " I don't hunt I let them come to me ha ha | |||
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" I bet you hear a whole Orchestra playing the Jaws Theme Pratically, when your on the hunt....! Ha I don't hunt I let them come to me ha ha " Ohhhh and Ambush Predator!!! You lot are the most dangerous ones.... they never see you coming (pun not intended) | |||
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" I always reply to mails. Just don't make the first initial move.. I couldn't make the first move I wouldn't know where to start" Now you know how most single guys feel. I don't mail because I'm sure ladies have enough guys mailing. If something about me or my profile takes a lady's fancy all she's got to do is take that first step. I don't bite, unless asked to. | |||
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" I always reply to mails. Just don't make the first initial move.. I couldn't make the first move I wouldn't know where to start Now you know how most single guys feel. I don't mail because I'm sure ladies have enough guys mailing. If something about me or my profile takes a lady's fancy all she's got to do is take that first step. I don't bite, unless asked to. " Sounds like you lie in wait like Practically Thor! Hope yous aren't into eachother, yas night NEVER meet!!? ha | |||
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" Sounds like you lie in wait like Practically Thor! Hope yous aren't into eachother, yas night NEVER meet!!? ha" Ha ha | |||
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"Do guys read womens profiles on here or do they just see a picture and say oh yeah I'll have a bit of that. I like the guy to at least make an effort and read what my profile says before automatically messaging the copy and paste messages they send all women. " Yes but from a guys point ya get fed up of getting no reply and just get lazy about it Me I like reading the profiles gives me a clue as to who I am mailing | |||
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" Yes but from a guys point ya get fed up of getting no reply and just get lazy about it Me I like reading the profiles gives me a clue as to who I am mailing" Yes but if those guys put a bit of effort in, in the first place and read the profiles then they might get a reply | |||
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" Yes but from a guys point ya get fed up of getting no reply and just get lazy about it Me I like reading the profiles gives me a clue as to who I am mailing Yes but if those guys put a bit of effort in, in the first place and read the profiles then they might get a reply " Can I make a suggestion? Try putting some stuff you like or are interested in on your profile. Reading it there its all what you dont like or dont want, not much for the type of guys that do read profiles and mail decent openers to go off.... you might just be putting off the type of people you want. | |||
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" Can I make a suggestion? Try putting some stuff you like or are interested in on your profile. Reading it there its all what you dont like or dont want, not much for the type of guys that do read profiles and mail decent openers to go off.... you might just be putting off the type of people you want. " Thanks x | |||
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"Do guys read womens profiles on here or do they just see a picture and say oh yeah I'll have a bit of that. I like the guy to at least make an effort and read what my profile says before automatically messaging the copy and paste messages they send all women. " Yes ....the picture is what takes me in ....and then I read the profile before I message .....never copy and paste | |||
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"Wait.. What's a profile? " Its that pesky T&C's page you have to click through before you can send your dick pic | |||
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"Wait.. What's a profile? Its that pesky T&C's page you have to click through before you can send your dick pic" Ah but sure nobody ever reads that stuff, do they? | |||
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"Wait.. What's a profile? Its that pesky T&C's page you have to click through before you can send your dick pic Ah but sure nobody ever reads that stuff, do they? " Nah.... sure whats the worst China can do with my image rights | |||
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"Wait.. What's a profile? Its that pesky T&C's page you have to click through before you can send your dick pic Ah but sure nobody ever reads that stuff, do they? Nah.... sure whats the worst China can do with my image rights " Who knows? I think we should try and find out. Do the Chinese have short schlongs too? I'm talking about the men now.. | |||
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"Wait.. What's a profile? " Something you need to work on lol | |||
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"Do guys read womens profiles on here or do they just see a picture and say oh yeah I'll have a bit of that. I like the guy to at least make an effort and read what my profile says before automatically messaging the copy and paste messages they send all women. " Hey OP. I still have my single girl's profile from before coupling up, its hidden right now but the amount of mail I get from people when its briefly unhidden is unreal! People who clearly can't read or write, it's ridiculous. I'd say tighten your filters, Fab is a lawless place at the best of times | |||
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" Hey OP. I still have my single girl's profile from before coupling up, its hidden right now but the amount of mail I get from people when its briefly unhidden is unreal! People who clearly can't read or write, it's ridiculous. I'd say tighten your filters, Fab is a lawless place at the best of times" Yeah I've done so now thanks x | |||
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"Many don't read... My profile repeatedly states that I'm not meeting, but I get a couple of hundred meet requests each day. However, I can't really quantify how many do read my profile, as they don't contact me " Yeah it's crazy the amount of messages people send if they only read the profile it would prevent them coming onto the forums complaining that they don't get replies from women they message | |||
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"Do guys read womens profiles on here or do they just see a picture and say oh yeah I'll have a bit of that. I like the guy to at least make an effort and read what my profile says before automatically messaging the copy and paste messages they send all women. " No they don't read and some just skim it. 6 times I've put I dont cam and at least twice a day im asked to cam on kik. And this morning I get a message and he points out that he read 6 times I like to cam and how I'm ideal to try out his new screen. . The mind boggles it really does. How do you notice i say it 6 Times and not see the don't . I wish we could sensor words like cam babe hun which in turn blocks the message from sending Rant over | |||
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" No they don't read and some just skim it. 6 times I've put I dont cam and at least twice a day im asked to cam on kik. And this morning I get a message and he points out that he read 6 times I like to cam and how I'm ideal to try out his new screen. . The mind boggles it really does. How do you notice i say it 6 Times and not see the don't . I wish we could sensor words like cam babe hun which in turn blocks the message from sending Rant over" Sometimes i think guys do it to try get the woman so pissed off she will message him back even if it's to see jog on.. | |||
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" No they don't read and some just skim it. 6 times I've put I dont cam and at least twice a day im asked to cam on kik. And this morning I get a message and he points out that he read 6 times I like to cam and how I'm ideal to try out his new screen. . The mind boggles it really does. How do you notice i say it 6 Times and not see the don't . I wish we could sensor words like cam babe hun which in turn blocks the message from sending Rant over Sometimes i think guys do it to try get the woman so pissed off she will message him back even if it's to see jog on.. " I don't reply I just delete all that reference camming even the joke cam messages too cos I simply can't be arsed in replying back at this stage | |||
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" No they don't read and some just skim it. 6 times I've put I dont cam and at least twice a day im asked to cam on kik. And this morning I get a message and he points out that he read 6 times I like to cam and how I'm ideal to try out his new screen. . The mind boggles it really does. How do you notice i say it 6 Times and not see the don't . I wish we could sensor words like cam babe hun which in turn blocks the message from sending Rant over Sometimes i think guys do it to try get the woman so pissed off she will message him back even if it's to see jog on.. I don't reply I just delete all that reference camming even the joke cam messages too cos I simply can't be arsed in replying back at this stage " So ignorant | |||
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"Do guys read womens profiles on here or do they just see a picture and say oh yeah I'll have a bit of that. I like the guy to at least make an effort and read what my profile says before automatically messaging the copy and paste messages they send all women. " I've read your loads I remember submitting my application form too.. | |||
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"But. Do you sometimes arse? " On special occasions | |||
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" No they don't read and some just skim it. 6 times I've put I dont cam and at least twice a day im asked to cam on kik. And this morning I get a message and he points out that he read 6 times I like to cam and how I'm ideal to try out his new screen. . The mind boggles it really does. How do you notice i say it 6 Times and not see the don't . I wish we could sensor words like cam babe hun which in turn blocks the message from sending Rant over Sometimes i think guys do it to try get the woman so pissed off she will message him back even if it's to see jog on.. I don't reply I just delete all that reference camming even the joke cam messages too cos I simply can't be arsed in replying back at this stage So ignorant " You secretly love my ignorance go on admit it | |||
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"Maybe he meant cum...... Damn auto correct." That auto correct causes so much damn unwanted trouble all the time feck sake | |||
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" I've read your loads I remember submitting my application form too.. " Oh yeah I remember you are actually on My to Do list ha ha | |||
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"Maybe he meant cum...... Damn auto correct. That auto correct causes so much damn unwanted trouble all the time feck sake " It's sure ducking does. | |||
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" No they don't read and some just skim it. 6 times I've put I dont cam and at least twice a day im asked to cam on kik. And this morning I get a message and he points out that he read 6 times I like to cam and how I'm ideal to try out his new screen. . The mind boggles it really does. How do you notice i say it 6 Times and not see the don't . I wish we could sensor words like cam babe hun which in turn blocks the message from sending Rant over Sometimes i think guys do it to try get the woman so pissed off she will message him back even if it's to see jog on.. I don't reply I just delete all that reference camming even the joke cam messages too cos I simply can't be arsed in replying back at this stage So ignorant You secretly love my ignorance go on admit it " We go back too far now to possess any kind of hate for you | |||
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" I've read your loads I remember submitting my application form too.. Oh yeah I remember you are actually on My to Do list ha ha " I'm waiting..patiently | |||
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"Do guys read womens profiles on here or do they just see a picture and say oh yeah I'll have a bit of that. I like the guy to at least make an effort and read what my profile says before automatically messaging the copy and paste messages they send all women. " -------------- Sure, why would we read women's profiles here with all those big multi-syllabic words that you use? Also chances are you're looking for a Jamie Dornan lookalike with Channing Tatum's body, yada, yada... so we skip all that nonsense and get straight down to business Lastly we all don't "cut and paste" Case in point "My message template says "Hi, I'm looking for a slim/athletic/curvy lady" and I choose the appropriate one and delete the other two ...so yes, my messages are fresh and new Hope that clarifies! | |||
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" Sure, why would we read women's profiles here with all those big multi-syllabic words that you use? Also chances are you're looking for a Jamie Dornan lookalike with Channing Tatum's body, yada, yada... so we skip all that nonsense and get straight down to business Lastly we all don't "cut and paste" Case in point "My message template says "Hi, I'm looking for a slim/athletic/curvy lady" and I choose the appropriate one and delete the other two ...so yes, my messages are fresh and new Hope that clarifies! " Oh yeah that clarifies it for me thanks tho for you input I'm so much wiser now | |||
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"Going by the messages I get daily I would say no, the majority don’t read the profile at all. " Well at least I'm not to only one that notices that | |||
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" Sure, why would we read women's profiles here with all those big multi-syllabic words that you use? Also chances are you're looking for a Jamie Dornan lookalike with Channing Tatum's body, yada, yada... so we skip all that nonsense and get straight down to business Lastly we all don't "cut and paste" Case in point "My message template says "Hi, I'm looking for a slim/athletic/curvy lady" and I choose the appropriate one and delete the other two ...so yes, my messages are fresh and new Hope that clarifies! Oh yeah that clarifies it for me thanks tho for you input I'm so much wiser now " ------------------- No probs Op Am just here to help ...One Fabber at a time | |||
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"Sad to see the OP no longer on the site " I forgot to add use own pics to my advice opps | |||
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"Who was that? " Practically Perfect fake it seems | |||
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"Who was that? Practically Perfect fake it seems " Why do you think that? | |||
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"Sad to see the OP no longer on the site I forgot to add use own pics to my advice opps" This | |||
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"Seriously, what is it about Fabbers asking a question on the forums ...before deciding to jump the site??? Lesson to be learned here... DON"T ASK NO QUESTIONS " For some it leads to interaction which leads to google image searches which leads to unlos... | |||
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"Seriously, what is it about Fabbers asking a question on the forums ...before deciding to jump the site??? Lesson to be learned here... DON"T ASK NO QUESTIONS For some it leads to interaction which leads to google image searches which leads to unlos..." My interactions and photos usually lead to others going Unlos... | |||
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"Seriously, what is it about Fabbers asking a question on the forums ...before deciding to jump the site??? Lesson to be learned here... DON"T ASK NO QUESTIONS For some it leads to interaction which leads to google image searches which leads to unlos... My interactions and photos usually lead to others going Unlos... " That's because they can't compete | |||
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"I just look at the pictures " Well Holy Moly, of course the Fermanagh man would | |||
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"Seriously, what is it about Fabbers asking a question on the forums ...before deciding to jump the site??? Lesson to be learned here... DON"T ASK NO QUESTIONS For some it leads to interaction which leads to google image searches which leads to unlos... My interactions and photos usually lead to others going Unlos... That's because they can't compete " You're so smooth I can't believe you're not butter | |||
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"Seriously, what is it about Fabbers asking a question on the forums ...before deciding to jump the site??? Lesson to be learned here... DON"T ASK NO QUESTIONS For some it leads to interaction which leads to google image searches which leads to unlos... My interactions and photos usually lead to others going Unlos... That's because they can't compete You're so smooth I can't believe you're not butter " More of a smooth cheese | |||
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