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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dunno how to word this seen it on a profile today and it got me wondering.

We are only here for fun but only temporarily just to spice things up noting crazy. (Okay fair enough I get that)

So it sort of put a question in my head us swingers is it a temporarily thing as in will you throw the towel in after a while.

I have met swingers an their swinging since they where in their 20s and now aged in their 70s. And still going lol good on them.

Would you stay here for the drive right to the end. Or is it something just temporary and fulfil the things you wanted or experience etc.

Probably a stupid topic.

Another words would you be still here or like to be here wen ya hit the OAP stages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think I could go back to vanilla life...probably leave for a bit but most likely I'll come back

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I dont think I could go back to vanilla life...probably leave for a bit but most likely I'll come back "
see this is the thing it really put a question inside me thats just me personally I cant answer it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially when we dipped our toes many years ago we thought it was something we would try and do for a while and stop but it didn't happen like that. For many until they get into the lifestyle probably think ack let's try it for a while but many stay, take breaks etc but never really stop being swingers. Others try it and leave and never return

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Initially when we dipped our toes many years ago we thought it was something we would try and do for a while and stop but it didn't happen like that. For many until they get into the lifestyle probably think ack let's try it for a while but many stay, take breaks etc but never really stop being swingers. Others try it and leave and never return "
thats very good reply actually yeah theres people who come and go and those that try it and its not for them an never return. Like one couple I know in the uk is in their 70s and swinging since their in their 20s thats like a decade all through their marriage id say thats pretty impressive. Could I see myself that long swinging I doubt it tbh.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

If it's in your genes you can't abandon it. Simple as that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would happily give up this life style if I meet someone who would do what I want in the bedroom and keep my satisfied. But he would probably need to be batman or thor or some hero of some sort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it's in your genes you can't abandon it. Simple as that. "

yea i fully agree with that, once you get a taste for it! thats it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once the geanie is out of the bottle there’s no going back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We happily dip in and out of the scene as and when we fancy it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s something I’ve put on pause if life has gotten in the way but I can’t stay away it’s almost part of who I am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is this is not a swinger website! If you look at the whole...

Thousand and thousands of single guys. Some women who dabble in it but just while their single etc etc.

It's just a hook up site.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

I've been in the scene for 15 years

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"If it's in your genes you can't abandon it. Simple as that. "

Exactly some of us where born for for it

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

It's something I do when it fits in and around my life. I don't try to fit my life around it. Right now it doesn't fit and making any kind of plan to meet is pointless. I have a few commitment-free weeks coming up in the Autumn though and am looking forward to attending a few events and reconnecting with some friends on both sides of Irish Sea the during that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The crack could be 90....then again she could delete and rejoin at 39

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both know several people both singles and couples that stopped swinging and never looked back. As for ourselves we have always said when it stops being fun we will stop. Some let their lives revolve around the scene and that to us is a little sad even going as far to forsake their own flesh and blood for swinging.

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By *iablo73Couple
over a year ago

Southside

It's like The hotel California ' you can check out any time you like but you can never leave"

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan


"It's like The hotel California ' you can check out any time you like but you can never leave" "

That arse though...

Wait, what? Did you say something? Droooooolll

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's like The hotel California ' you can check out any time you like but you can never leave" "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's like The hotel California ' you can check out any time you like but you can never leave"

That arse though...

Wait, what? Did you say something? Droooooolll "
settle pettle Ahem I agree

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By *omDubCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cork

We wouldn’t be able to go back to vanilla life tbh, this is way too fun and we love our meets badly haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been in the scene for 15 years "

hi, could you send me a pm, was looking to pick your brain about something.

cheers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've been in the scene for 15 years

hi, could you send me a pm, was looking to pick your brain about something.

cheers."

@ _cottybear74 cheers

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