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By *ifeisforliving2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

waterford

Just received a msg from a lady to say she's can't call to me ,just a bare hour's notice ,something has come up,sorry .

Feeling so disappointed now ,I was so looking fwd to meeting her.

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

It happens. Poor form to cancel so late however, there could be a genuine reason.

I'm sure your next planned meet will be a success!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All part and parcel of fab, everyone has a life outside meeting people for sex, and that's assuming it was a bona fide arrangement by a genuine person in the first place, which many aren't

Chalk it down, move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Least you got a message an not left hanging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Least you got a message an not left hanging "

There is that

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere


"Least you got a message an not left hanging "

This

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By *ifeisforliving2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

waterford


"It happens. Poor form to cancel so late however, there could be a genuine reason.

I'm sure your next planned meet will be a success! "

Thanks ,I'm sure she had a good reason ,but was very vague & hadn't replied to me about another meet .

I was so looking fwd to it & now I'm left gagging!

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By *ollinrock77Man
over a year ago

mullingar

At least she let you know I often drove miles for no shows .

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

As Casey said, chalk it down & move on. Ya be grand!

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By *ifeisforliving2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

waterford

Well at least the house is spotless now !!!

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Well at least the house is spotless now !!! "

That's always a plus

I had it happen 5 minutes before they were due to arrive.

Hopefully they'll get in contact to reschedule.

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin

Possibly a genuine reason to cancel, it can happen.

More likely cold feet,but what can you do.

We've had similar late cancellations, and one charming couple ,verified, who just stopped chatting a couple of hours before we were to meet.We were scrubbed up, and shaved....everywhere lol.

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By *ifeisforliving2016 OP   Man
over a year ago

waterford


"Possibly a genuine reason to cancel, it can happen.

More likely cold feet,but what can you do.

We've had similar late cancellations, and one charming couple ,verified, who just stopped chatting a couple of hours before we were to meet.We were scrubbed up, and shaved....everywhere lol.

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Well at least ye could have fun together !

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By *ackandsashaCouple
over a year ago

West Dublin


"Possibly a genuine reason to cancel, it can happen.

More likely cold feet,but what can you do.

We've had similar late cancellations, and one charming couple ,verified, who just stopped chatting a couple of hours before we were to meet.We were scrubbed up, and shaved....everywhere lol.

Well at least ye could have fun together !"

True,lol,we did. But still hugely disappointing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It happens. Poor form to cancel so late however, there could be a genuine reason.

I'm sure your next planned meet will be a success!

Thanks ,I'm sure she had a good reason ,but was very vague & hadn't replied to me about another meet .

I was so looking fwd to it & now I'm left gagging! "

She met me instead, she was an almighty ride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It sucks but move on.

I've had a few friends who have been on pof on and off for years. All day the same thing... And that's the mount of people who not only cancel last meeting but with some serious lie like "my sister was rushed to hospital" is a joke lol.

It's a running gag at this point. 9/10 sick family relative. Always one hour before you're meant to meet lol.

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"It happens. Poor form to cancel so late however, there could be a genuine reason.

I'm sure your next planned meet will be a success!

Thanks ,I'm sure she had a good reason ,but was very vague & hadn't replied to me about another meet .

I was so looking fwd to it & now I'm left gagging! "

If she's had to cancel at the last minute, it's likely something has cropped up (a family situation or maybe work) and is dealing with that... She might not even be in the right frame of mind to be thinking about rescheduling right now. Don't bother her, let her deal with whatever is going on and she'll likely be happy to get back to you and make it up to you when she can. Annoy her while she's trying to deal with a serious situation and you may end up alienating her (I'm not saying you are... Just cut her a little slack ). I know I've ended up blocking someone in the past because they kept hounding me to reschedule after I'd told them I'd had a sudden bereavement.. They even kikked me dick pics as I was on my way to the funeral 2 days later... That was the last straw. We had gotten on really well beforehand and I'd been looking forward to meeting him (I was just as disappointed initially that we weren't meeting), but that kind of selfish, thoughtless behaviour just because he was horny and frustrated soon turned things sour and put me off meeting him ever.

People do have to cancel for good reason, and as someone else said... Whatever she's dealing with, at least she had the decency to cancel and let you know.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Never give up. Better luck next time.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

I once got a cancellation text from a couple as I was getting into the taxi to go to their place.

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By *ombikerMan
over a year ago

the right side of the river

Well at least you did not have a hotel booked or you had not driven for a couple of hours, has happened a few times to me and I have had life throw a spanner in the works on me also and had to cancel, if they disappeared off fab then it was probably someone just being a time waster but if they keep in contact they are probably genuine

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By *ewitched1Woman
over a year ago

Close to you


"It happens. Poor form to cancel so late however, there could be a genuine reason.

I'm sure your next planned meet will be a success!

Thanks ,I'm sure she had a good reason ,but was very vague & hadn't replied to me about another meet .

I was so looking fwd to it & now I'm left gagging!

If she's had to cancel at the last minute, it's likely something has cropped up (a family situation or maybe work) and is dealing with that... She might not even be in the right frame of mind to be thinking about rescheduling right now. Don't bother her, let her deal with whatever is going on and she'll likely be happy to get back to you and make it up to you when she can. Annoy her while she's trying to deal with a serious situation and you may end up alienating her (I'm not saying you are... Just cut her a little slack ). I know I've ended up blocking someone in the past because they kept hounding me to reschedule after I'd told them I'd had a sudden bereavement.. They even kikked me dick pics as I was on my way to the funeral 2 days later... That was the last straw. We had gotten on really well beforehand and I'd been looking forward to meeting him (I was just as disappointed initially that we weren't meeting), but that kind of selfish, thoughtless behaviour just because he was horny and frustrated soon turned things sour and put me off meeting him ever.

People do have to cancel for good reason, and as someone else said... Whatever she's dealing with, at least she had the decency to cancel and let you know. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To he fair is it right airing ur laundry here she might take offence to it if she's here too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To he fair is it right airing ur laundry here she might take offence to it if she's here too "

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