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When is to many a turn off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you view a profile Does a lot of verifications (14) mean you wouldn't meet someone or do you find it a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you view a profile Does a lot of verifications (14) mean you wouldn't meet someone or do you find it a turn off.

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Verifications doesn’t necessarily mean the person has had sex with all of those people some can be from meeting socially. They aside it is a sex site the purpose is to meet people for that so can’t really be judged on it.

Plus not everyone shows their veris or only show a select few so the number may not be s true reflection either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you view a profile Does a lot of verifications (14) mean you wouldn't meet someone or do you find it a turn off.

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Ah you will always have people it puts off (they normally have "not here to meet half the site" disclaimer on their profile).

Some people will be put off by who you have met for what ever reason.

Basically someone somewhere will always find something a turn off.

You just have to accept your ot for them, dont chanage how you use the sote for someone else, you obvioualy dont have an issue getting meets

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

This ^^^,plus some people have been here for years and may have accumulated way more verifications than someone here for say 8 months depending on how active they are .In the end it's up to oneself to decide if a profile is for them regardless of verifications .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True - some could be coffee meets verifications others could be met at a party but didn’t play just chatted to them there

You could get a few verifications there and not even have fun

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


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(they normally have "not here to meet half the site" disclaimer on their profile).

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...and often when you check out that persons verifications, they seemed happy enough to meet the other half of the site

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think people see a number and don't take time to maybe read them just judged on that number

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By *6bikerMan
over a year ago

Manchester

It's an interesting one though. A number of women say they will not meet you if you've been with any BBW, or anyone over 50, or even with any other women who have a lot of veris! It's especially common to see women who won't meet if you've been with tv/ts. I really don't see why it matters whom you've been with in the past. Can someone explain this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's an interesting one though. A number of women say they will not meet you if you've been with any BBW, or anyone over 50, or even with any other women who have a lot of veris! It's especially common to see women who won't meet if you've been with tv/ts. I really don't see why it matters whom you've been with in the past. Can someone explain this? "

No one needs to explain it to you its each persons preference just accept it and move on

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"When you view a profile Does a lot of verifications (14) mean you wouldn't meet someone or do you find it a turn off.

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Fourteen isn’t a “lot”.

It just shows you’re genuine.

Don’t waste energy on things you can’t change

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By *obshortMan
over a year ago

Cork

A lot on here will tell you not to give them a verification. For whatever reason ?? So is the number of Verifications really of any use. Other than to show that they are genuine and will turn up when they arrange to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you view a profile Does a lot of verifications (14) mean you wouldn't meet someone or do you find it a turn off.

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We don't look at the amount of veris at all. It is more what they say about the person important. But we are all different and can have different views on the topic, xx

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Some people use “too many veris ” as a gentle excuse not to meet someone they’re not interested in..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Some people use “too many veris ” as a gentle excuse not to meet someone they’re not interested in..

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I think this is very true indeed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be happy with one

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I never considered 14 as a lot.... hmm in that case I just came to realise that I slept with half the site.

Anyhow imo peeps with number issues should work on their open-mindedness. Also veri figures can be very deceptive, most people on here have a life outsite fab but also many delete their profile just to rejoin with a blank sheet one.

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By *6bikerMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Excuse not to meet yes, but this is stated on profiles before you even bother to send a message!

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By *aughtyglintWoman
over a year ago

Any

Read the veri’s If you’re bothered by the number to see if they are social or play

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Read the veri’s If you’re bothered by the number to see if they are social or play"

Mine are mostly social and a party

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By *aughtyglintWoman
over a year ago

Any


"Read the veri’s If you’re bothered by the number to see if they are social or play

Mine are mostly social and a party "

Mine are nearly all social but each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't bother me at all but I have gotten messages like that before... God you have met alot of people blah blah blah.... Our verifications are a mix of everything and we are here a long time. If they don't like it that's their problem.

Mrs

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare


"Wouldn't bother me at all but I have gotten messages like that before... God you have met alot of people blah blah blah.... Our verifications are a mix of everything and we are here a long time. If they don't like it that's their problem.

Mrs "

Our thoughts exactly, we have lots from parties we hosted and were actually to busy with hosting to be playing so although there is lots of veris we haven't went through the whole site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Excuse not to meet yes, but this is stated on profiles before you even bother to send a message! "

So it saves them and the person considering sending a message the bother of it... whats the issue?

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

It good to see the verification it makes u full more relaxed there actually real and meeting ppl and ive learnt that not all verification are sexual meets..

So there actually good to have it up to the individual how they wish to show them

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I don't really care.

Verifications are meant to be proof gou are who you say you are.

Funny that on a swinger site people got turned off about the number of verifications...

I display all my verifications...i attend parties and go to clubs so i meet tens of people on a night out.

It is a honour to get a verification from them.

If that's an issue for some... Well... Next... We are not into the same things so let's all save time

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out


"When you view a profile Does a lot of verifications (14) mean you wouldn't meet someone or do you find it a turn off.

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14 is not a lot verifications so don't worry about it

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city

I dont understand the repeat socially meets eg met this person at a party last night then again met this person again and again and again and again at the party. Why the need for all the same verifications I seriously dont understand it.

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city

Ps OP you actually have more than 14 you only have 14 published

Verified by 17 people, newest 1 month ago

13 fem. 4 cpl. By 21 meet.

Technically you have had 21 meets and verifeid by 17 people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think too many is a turn off, I think how often is... especially when they aren’t socials. But many on here are just trying to up the notches

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ps OP you actually have more than 14 you only have 14 published

Verified by 17 people, newest 1 month ago

13 fem. 4 cpl. By 21 meet.

Technically you have had 21 meets and verifeid by 17 people "

Oh thanks for that never noticed them others. Taught I got away with it but your quite the detective lol

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