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"Not a full on relationship but a loose one. No love feelings just a respect for each other. To spend the odd weekend away and see & do things together. Fyi ... sex is a given. Is there any men on this interested in the concept or is it just sex your after? Yes I know it's a sex site but I feel Fab caters for all. Any thoughts ..." I would be very interested in this concept and you have put into words something that I have thought about quite a bit. | |||
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"Not a full on relationship but a loose one. No love feelings just a respect for each other. To spend the odd weekend away and see & do things together. Fyi ... sex is a given. Is there any men on this interested in the concept or is it just sex your after? Yes I know it's a sex site but I feel Fab caters for all. Any thoughts ..." They are probably here but in the minority. Guys are usually the non shampoo equivalent of “Wash & Go”. And youre asking for some sort of emotional depth too from the male of the species. Are you crazy..? | |||
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"Not a full on relationship but a loose one. No love feelings just a respect for each other. To spend the odd weekend away and see & do things together. Fyi ... sex is a given. Is there any men on this interested in the concept or is it just sex your after? Yes I know it's a sex site but I feel Fab caters for all. Any thoughts ..." I personally wouldn’t want it, I would want to meet someone regularly but not on these terms. Just my preference but I am sure they are people that would. | |||
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"Folks, its a dangerous road to go down. When you spend more time with someone of the opposite sex that you like and are attracted to, feelings are inevitable. Boundaries are set with FWB or FB, but starting to spend prolonged time together? The biggest concern would be if one starts to have feelings and the other doesn't. And that rarely ends well. Not saying its impossible, just that its extremely difficult to carry off successfully because then you have branched in to doing “real life” couple stuff, and you start to think “Awww this is nice...”" Surely the potential pay off is better than the danger... ya know when both people think awww this is nice | |||
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"Folks, its a dangerous road to go down. When you spend more time with someone of the opposite sex that you like and are attracted to, feelings are inevitable. Boundaries are set with FWB or FB, but starting to spend prolonged time together? The biggest concern would be if one starts to have feelings and the other doesn't. And that rarely ends well. Not saying its impossible, just that its extremely difficult to carry off successfully because then you have branched in to doing “real life” couple stuff, and you start to think “Awww this is nice...” Surely the potential pay off is better than the danger... ya know when both people think awww this is nice" | |||
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"Folks, its a dangerous road to go down. When you spend more time with someone of the opposite sex that you like and are attracted to, feelings are inevitable. Boundaries are set with FWB or FB, but starting to spend prolonged time together? The biggest concern would be if one starts to have feelings and the other doesn't. And that rarely ends well. Not saying its impossible, just that its extremely difficult to carry off successfully because then you have branched in to doing “real life” couple stuff, and you start to think “Awww this is nice...”" Couldn't say it better! | |||
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"Folks, its a dangerous road to go down. When you spend more time with someone of the opposite sex that you like and are attracted to, feelings are inevitable. Boundaries are set with FWB or FB, but starting to spend prolonged time together? The biggest concern would be if one starts to have feelings and the other doesn't. And that rarely ends well. Not saying its impossible, just that its extremely difficult to carry off successfully because then you have branched in to doing “real life” couple stuff, and you start to think “Awww this is nice...” Couldn't say it better!" Been there twice and this exactly, you also share personal stuff and end up knowing everything about each other even family related things, it gets really personal really quickly and once you go there turning back only ends 1 way | |||
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"Folks, its a dangerous road to go down. When you spend more time with someone of the opposite sex that you like and are attracted to, feelings are inevitable. Boundaries are set with FWB or FB, but starting to spend prolonged time together? The biggest concern would be if one starts to have feelings and the other doesn't. And that rarely ends well. Not saying its impossible, just that its extremely difficult to carry off successfully because then you have branched in to doing “real life” couple stuff, and you start to think “Awww this is nice...” Couldn't say it better! Been there twice and this exactly, you also share personal stuff and end up knowing everything about each other even family related things, it gets really personal really quickly and once you go there turning back only ends 1 way " Obviously it doesn't if people have met and formed relationships on here. It goes bad if both parties are not on the same page and not being honest with each other but if you're grown ups about it shouldn't have end badly. | |||
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"Folks, its a dangerous road to go down. When you spend more time with someone of the opposite sex that you like and are attracted to, feelings are inevitable. Boundaries are set with FWB or FB, but starting to spend prolonged time together? The biggest concern would be if one starts to have feelings and the other doesn't. And that rarely ends well. Not saying its impossible, just that its extremely difficult to carry off successfully because then you have branched in to doing “real life” couple stuff, and you start to think “Awww this is nice...” Couldn't say it better! Been there twice and this exactly, you also share personal stuff and end up knowing everything about each other even family related things, it gets really personal really quickly and once you go there turning back only ends 1 way " Have to agree. Spending time in the company of someone you like enough to fuck, can lead to emotional entanglement. If both parties are aware of the other also being with others, then it's less of a problem, in my experience. Still risky and any emotions should be discussed openly, so both parties are aware and can deal with accordingly This is from experience, not supposition. | |||
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"It happens, and especially with people into kink as trust is required. Hard to give control to a person they don't know or trust. I've had friends who have become FB and FWB over the years then back to just friends. But have also lost friends when feelings had developed and weren't reciprocated. That all comes down to the strength of the friendship. Sex is always better when it's repeat meets as you discover more about the person and their body, what turns them on and each little sweet spot. Which cannot be done on a single meet. Plus it's always nice to be able to socialize with them rather than have that awkwardness at times. I've gone to FWB birthdays, gone over and done bits of DIY for them around the house, and have even gone out for drinks and meals together. Once both people know where they stand it can work, and yes an emotional connection can and will be formed but I don't see that as a negative, as that mental bond and knowing each other's likes and dislikes, just leads to more mind blowing sex. " | |||
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"Not a full on relationship but a loose one. No love feelings just a respect for each other. To spend the odd weekend away and see & do things together. Fyi ... sex is a given. Is there any men on this interested in the concept or is it just sex your after? Yes I know it's a sex site but I feel Fab caters for all. Any thoughts ... They are probably here but in the minority. Guys are usually the non shampoo equivalent of “Wash & Go”. And youre asking for some sort of emotional depth too from the male of the species. Are you crazy..? " Stranger things have happened lol | |||
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"It happens, and especially with people into kink as trust is required. Hard to give control to a person they don't know or trust. I've had friends who have become FB and FWB over the years then back to just friends. But have also lost friends when feelings had developed and weren't reciprocated. That all comes down to the strength of the friendship. Sex is always better when it's repeat meets as you discover more about the person and their body, what turns them on and each little sweet spot. Which cannot be done on a single meet. Plus it's always nice to be able to socialize with them rather than have that awkwardness at times. I've gone to FWB birthdays, gone over and done bits of DIY for them around the house, and have even gone out for drinks and meals together. Once both people know where they stand it can work, and yes an emotional connection can and will be formed but I don't see that as a negative, as that mental bond and knowing each other's likes and dislikes, just leads to more mind blowing sex. " Yep this I want lol especially the diy stuff | |||
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"It happens, and especially with people into kink as trust is required. Hard to give control to a person they don't know or trust. I've had friends who have become FB and FWB over the years then back to just friends. But have also lost friends when feelings had developed and weren't reciprocated. That all comes down to the strength of the friendship. Sex is always better when it's repeat meets as you discover more about the person and their body, what turns them on and each little sweet spot. Which cannot be done on a single meet. Plus it's always nice to be able to socialize with them rather than have that awkwardness at times. I've gone to FWB birthdays, gone over and done bits of DIY for them around the house, and have even gone out for drinks and meals together. Once both people know where they stand it can work, and yes an emotional connection can and will be formed but I don't see that as a negative, as that mental bond and knowing each other's likes and dislikes, just leads to more mind blowing sex. Yep this I want lol especially the diy stuff " I'm good at screwing and banging stuff against the wall. | |||
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"This is all coming down to a new type of arrangement that's somewhere between FWB and full blown relationship. Like FWB on steroids. " Pmsl | |||
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"This is all coming down to a new type of arrangement that's somewhere between FWB and full blown relationship. Like FWB on steroids. " BFFWB? | |||
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"It's hard enough to find a guy that will stick around for a cuddle after sex lol. I'd to meet someone regularly with no boundaries as such but no expectations towards a relationship." Same could be said about women. Not all women like to cuddle. I love a good cuddle and spoon afterwards, but some women don't. | |||
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"It's hard enough to find a guy that will stick around for a cuddle after sex lol. I'd to meet someone regularly with no boundaries as such but no expectations towards a relationship. Same could be said about women. Not all women like to cuddle. I love a good cuddle and spoon afterwards, but some women don't." Terminology could be your issue. “Cuddle and Spoon” sounds like “Egg and spoon”, so maybe when you suggest it the woman is thinking youre all energised and want to do some sort of race while they just want to relax after sex. Maybe just suggest one at a time and see how it goes. | |||
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"It's hard enough to find a guy that will stick around for a cuddle after sex lol. I'd to meet someone regularly with no boundaries as such but no expectations towards a relationship. Same could be said about women. Not all women like to cuddle. I love a good cuddle and spoon afterwards, but some women don't. Terminology could be your issue. “Cuddle and Spoon” sounds like “Egg and spoon”, so maybe when you suggest it the woman is thinking youre all energised and want to do some sort of race while they just want to relax after sex. Maybe just suggest one at a time and see how it goes. " Well Cuddle or spooning. I was replying to the comment above mine which stated men don't want to do these things. But cool take it up like you like | |||
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"People meet and pair up here all the time. Feelings are not a problem it's how you manage them that can cause issues. If both parties engage in open and honest comunication then issues arising can be addressed and resolved. You just to be grown ups. " | |||
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"Not a full on relationship but a loose one. No love feelings just a respect for each other. To spend the odd weekend away and see & do things together. Fyi ... sex is a given. Is there any men on this interested in the concept or is it just sex your after? Yes I know it's a sex site but I feel Fab caters for all. Any thoughts ..." wish I could fine a guy who interested in this myself | |||
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"It's hard enough to find a guy that will stick around for a cuddle after sex lol. I'd to meet someone regularly with no boundaries as such but no expectations towards a relationship." I'd prefer a bowl of soup to a cuddle if it were on offer tbh...! Having said that however, my next relationship will be with a swinger. Can't be dealing with all this monogamous lark which is assosciated with 'regular relationships tbh... Too restrictive.. Will only marry a swinger... single line please ladies..no pushin'!! | |||
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"Folks, its a dangerous road to go down. When you spend more time with someone of the opposite sex that you like and are attracted to, feelings are inevitable. Boundaries are set with FWB or FB, but starting to spend prolonged time together? The biggest concern would be if one starts to have feelings and the other doesn't. And that rarely ends well. Not saying its impossible, just that its extremely difficult to carry off successfully because then you have branched in to doing “real life” couple stuff, and you start to think “Awww this is nice...”" Best answer so far haha! | |||
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"It's hard enough to find a guy that will stick around for a cuddle after sex lol. I'd to meet someone regularly with no boundaries as such but no expectations towards a relationship. Same could be said about women. Not all women like to cuddle. I love a good cuddle and spoon afterwards, but some women don't." That could be true but I wouldn't really know | |||
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"It's hard enough to find a guy that will stick around for a cuddle after sex lol. I'd to meet someone regularly with no boundaries as such but no expectations towards a relationship. Same could be said about women. Not all women like to cuddle. I love a good cuddle and spoon afterwards, but some women don't. That could be true but I wouldn't really know " I'll be down in an hour. | |||
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"Not a full on relationship but a loose one. No love feelings just a respect for each other. To spend the odd weekend away and see & do things together. Fyi ... sex is a given. Is there any men on this interested in the concept or is it just sex your after? Yes I know it's a sex site but I feel Fab caters for all. Any thoughts ..." OP, it happens but rare. Lucky person who's in this kind of relationship | |||
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"Not a full on relationship but a loose one. No love feelings just a respect for each other. To spend the odd weekend away and see & do things together. Fyi ... sex is a given. Is there any men on this interested in the concept or is it just sex your after? Yes I know it's a sex site but I feel Fab caters for all. Any thoughts ... OP, it happens but rare. Lucky person who's in this kind of relationship " Which one is the lucky one? | |||
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"Not a full on relationship but a loose one. No love feelings just a respect for each other. To spend the odd weekend away and see & do things together. Fyi ... sex is a given. Is there any men on this interested in the concept or is it just sex your after? Yes I know it's a sex site but I feel Fab caters for all. Any thoughts ... OP, it happens but rare. Lucky person who's in this kind of relationship Which one is the lucky one?" Both? | |||
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"Not a full on relationship but a loose one. No love feelings just a respect for each other. To spend the odd weekend away and see & do things together. Fyi ... sex is a given. Is there any men on this interested in the concept or is it just sex your after? Yes I know it's a sex site but I feel Fab caters for all. Any thoughts ... OP, it happens but rare. Lucky person who's in this kind of relationship Which one is the lucky one? Both? " | |||
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"It's hard enough to find a guy that will stick around for a cuddle after sex lol. I'd to meet someone regularly with no boundaries as such but no expectations towards a relationship. Same could be said about women. Not all women like to cuddle. I love a good cuddle and spoon afterwards, but some women don't. That could be true but I wouldn't really know I'll be down in an hour. " Did you get lost? | |||
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"Not a full on relationship but a loose one. No love feelings just a respect for each other. To spend the odd weekend away and see & do things together. Fyi ... sex is a given. Is there any men on this interested in the concept or is it just sex your after? Yes I know it's a sex site but I feel Fab caters for all. Any thoughts ..." Yes this could work. If only more were open to it and honest about seeking it. | |||
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"It's hard enough to find a guy that will stick around for a cuddle after sex lol. I'd to meet someone regularly with no boundaries as such but no expectations towards a relationship. Same could be said about women. Not all women like to cuddle. I love a good cuddle and spoon afterwards, but some women don't. That could be true but I wouldn't really know I'll be down in an hour. Did you get lost?" Yup walking the quays got distracted by the longboat. | |||
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"It's hard enough to find a guy that will stick around for a cuddle after sex lol. I'd to meet someone regularly with no boundaries as such but no expectations towards a relationship. Same could be said about women. Not all women like to cuddle. I love a good cuddle and spoon afterwards, but some women don't. That could be true but I wouldn't really know I'll be down in an hour. Did you get lost? Yup walking the quays got distracted by the longboat. " It's okay I found someone else. | |||
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"We have had this with a number of couples in the past, two couples we met on holiday and have become long term friends with a bit of fun as well, the third couple was closer to home, however due to medical reasons they do not play anymore but have remained friends. It can workout so long as it’s not taken seriously " | |||
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