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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Would who someone has met influence your decision on meeting them for better or worse?

Ie, you get chatting to someone, then realise they have a veri from someone and you think, nope, not gonna happen

Or alternatively

You start to chat to someone because you see they have a veri from a certain fab user?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would who someone has met influence your decision on meeting them for better or worse?

Ie, you get chatting to someone, then realise they have a veri from someone and you think, nope, not gonna happen

Or alternatively

You start to chat to someone because you see they have a veri from a certain fab user?"

Definitely. I always compare myself to the women guys have met. Not something I'd admit to them but I'd scope out if there are certain attributes other women may have, and I don't, that are a deal breaker for him.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Yes but more in a case of my own self doubt

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Yep.....definitely wouldnt meet certain men if they have certain ladies on their veris

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use them for two reasons I guess.. One to see do they usually meet my age group and body size or am I an just an experiment and two if I see they are verified by some of the ladies I know and trust then I have a fair idea they are safe sound and genuine guys to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep 100% if someone has met someone I respect on here or have met socially or whatever there be more Chance of me meeting them.

However the opposite applies if They’ve met someone I’ve had negative opinion/interaction with I more than likely won’t meet them as I would question their judgement.

Before I get slated I’m not everyone’s cup of tea and that’s ok and there’s enough choices on here that I don’t feel I’m reducing my options

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Yes. If friends are meeting someone regularly I don't cross the line. It just keeps things simple

Also there are one or two people I prefer to keep my distance from for various reasons and if I'm chatting with someone and notice they've repeat veris from someone I'm avoiding, I'll also back off as a precaution.

So yes... In a very small percentage of cases recognising someone's veris can mean calling a halt to things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont really read them so no, I use my own means of verifying someone is real and beyond that I dont really care who they have met before.....

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By *xplicitlyricsMan
over a year ago

south dublin


"Yep.....definitely wouldnt meet certain men if they have certain ladies on their veris "

Ive heard some people say this before, without naming names, what is it that would put you off about someone theyd met previously?

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

100%! I always check veris before replying to messages. It’s not a foolproof way to whittle down the potential list but it’s a start.

I also check to see what kind of veris the person who has mailed me or whatever has left...I’m not a fan of very explicit ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep.....definitely wouldnt meet certain men if they have certain ladies on their veris "

Ekkkk, I hope I’m not a black list verifier for anyone. Apologies to anyone whose plans I’ve inadvertently scuppered

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Yep.....definitely wouldnt meet certain men if they have certain ladies on their veris

Ive heard some people say this before, without naming names, what is it that would put you off about someone theyd met previously?"

Drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yep.....definitely wouldnt meet certain men if they have certain ladies on their veris "

Right there with you. Sometimes I even go as far as blocking them men, just to avoid the drama completely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use them for two reasons I guess.. One to see do they usually meet my age group and body size or am I an just an experiment and two if I see they are verified by some of the ladies I know and trust then I have a fair idea they are safe sound and genuine guys to meet "

Same and also if they have met certain ladies I would completely avoid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use them for two reasons I guess.. One to see do they usually meet my age group and body size or am I an just an experiment and two if I see they are verified by some of the ladies I know and trust then I have a fair idea they are safe sound and genuine guys to meet

Same and also if they have met certain ladies I would completely avoid. "

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Would who someone has met influence your decision on meeting them for better or worse?

Ie, you get chatting to someone, then realise they have a veri from someone and you think, nope, not gonna happen

Or alternatively

You start to chat to someone because you see they have a veri from a certain fab user?"
no. I don't look at veris. I make my own mind up on somebody. It's very simple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But what about if someone new, meets one or two people for coffee, who let's say deceived them in mesaaging, gave them their first or second verifiction?

Surely everyone deserves to be judged off their own merits and intercations with individuals?

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It hasn't so far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"But what about if someone new, meets one or two people for coffee, who let's say deceived them in mesaaging, gave them their first or second verifiction?

Surely everyone deserves to be judged off their own merits and intercations with individuals?

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Coffee meet veris are useless so I wouldn't worry too much about them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You know the old saying, you can tell a lot about a person by the company they keep!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that not meant to be show me your company n ill tell u what u are either way I don't think it's right to judge anyone I go off the person someone gives but hey understandable for the lady's I guess bit gut is best n if in dought dig deeper

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is that not meant to be show me your company n ill tell u what u are either way I don't think it's right to judge anyone I go off the person someone gives but hey understandable for the lady's I guess bit gut is best n if in dought dig deeper "

If you're replying to me then no it's not.

And why understandable for the ladies? Would you not care what sort of lady you meet?

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