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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message. "

Because its what we want obviously...

And we all know a woman goes weak at the knees when we get one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message. "
Just because they can.

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Makes no sense. Always after chatting. Then maybe. But only because I know it will have them drooling!!

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Smiley face

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By *safunwituMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message. "

Maybe they hoping it will get a pussy pic in return.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message.

Because its what we want obviously...

And we all know a woman goes weak at the knees when we get one "

Oh I don't know about that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message.

Because its what we want obviously...

And we all know a woman goes weak at the knees when we get one

Oh I don't know about that lol

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I was being super sarcastic. I hate getting them. It's a total turn off

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message. "

Because in their own mind they think it will impress the woman so much that she can't help but insist on meeting up.

I have one of the best cock pics on Fab but I never ever attach it to any opening messages. Only a select few ever get to see it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"

I was being super sarcastic. I hate getting them. It's a total turn off "

It's definitely a pride thing with guys. It's like look at my dick you'll definitely want me now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Maybe they hoping it will get a pussy pic in return. "

Well they can keep hoping

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Because in their own mind they think it will impress the woman so much that she can't help but insist on meeting up.

I have one of the best cock pics on Fab but I never ever attach it to any opening messages. Only a select few ever get to see it. "

Better ways to impress a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message. "

I'm calling for all first messages to include an elbow pic!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message.

Because in their own mind they think it will impress the woman so much that she can't help but insist on meeting up.

I have one of the best cock pics on Fab but I never ever attach it to any opening messages. Only a select few ever get to see it. "
You here the saying self-praise is no recommendation.

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Cause we are animals and the first thing is to show how "sexually" you look...

It's like peacocks and their tail...

It takes a bit to understand that that's not what the women wants to see....

Thank god i understood it... But yes... I did it too when i was younger

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Thankfully most don't -I ll ask for it when I'm ready to see it !

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By *pitfiremk10Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

Advice I dish out.

Guys don't screw with your brain or think with your dick.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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I'm calling for all first messages to include an elbow pic! "

It might be an improvement to some of the dicks I seen

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thankfully most don't -I ll ask for it when I'm ready to see it !"

Yes me too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because of all the dicks in the world mine is unique and irresistible.

It has magical powers and when displayed opens more legs than a knee surgeon obvs

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

To them its practically perfect so why not share it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because of all the dicks in the world mine is unique and irresistible.

It has magical powers and when displayed opens more legs than a knee surgeon obvs"

Well I wouldn't know as I haven't seen it so I can't judge it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"To them its practically perfect so why not share it "

Oh ha ha aren't you funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message. "

Why do some women post pics of a dirty asshole or a bliff that looks like a blue waffle? All different, all have different ways. Some women like it. Some actually put it on their profile. Happy to receive pics of your dick lol. It's Fab. It's a wonderful diverse world out there. Hence the even existence of this site. You just gotta smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To them its practically perfect so why not share it "

It might be that for most guys, it's their best asset.

Bigger than their brain.

Better looking than their face.

So you might be getting to see "best" of them by seeing their dick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I like to know am I getting a large latte or a skinny cappuccino before I have one.. ..joking lads..i don't mind the dick pics at all..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message.

Because in their own mind they think it will impress the woman so much that she can't help but insist on meeting up.

I have one of the best cock pics on Fab but I never ever attach it to any opening messages. Only a select few ever get to see it. "
one of the Best cock pics on fab ?????? Blowing your own trumpet ?? again hoping someone will ask to see it .... Dah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message.

Because its what we want obviously...

And we all know a woman goes weak at the knees when we get one "

Yeah I wake up every day hoping for a few before breakfast

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"To them its practically perfect so why not share it

Oh ha ha aren't you funny "

This time I was being serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message.

Because its what we want obviously...

And we all know a woman goes weak at the knees when we get one

Yeah I wake up every day hoping for a few before breakfast "

I think you should check out the cornflake thread it'll sort the issue right out for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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Yeah I wake up every day hoping for a few before breakfast "

Lol

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By *outh_of_EdenMan
over a year ago

fota


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message. "

I think some guys feel they are defined by their cock! Maybe it's indicative of their personality or lack of!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message. "

This stems back to the early 19th century when the camera was first in use. A man name Richard "Dick" Pickering sent a photograph of his genitalia to a prospective suitor along with a dowry. The lady and her family were so impressed with this new method of courting that Dicks proposal was accepted. Soon the craze caught on, men throughout the land followed suit.

And that's where the phrase Dick Pic came from

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Saves a lot of time, if ye don't like the look of the cock, no point planning to suck it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


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This stems back to the early 19th century when the camera was first in use. A man name Richard "Dick" Pickering sent a photograph of his genitalia to a prospective suitor along with a dowry. The lady and her family were so impressed with this new method of courting that Dicks proposal was accepted. Soon the craze caught on, men throughout the land followed suit.

And that's where the phrase Dick Pic came from "

Oh well that answers my question then lol

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By *rutus83Man
over a year ago

naas


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message. "

I don't send dick pics in an opening message or any message I'd rather delay the disagreement for the lady till the meet.

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland

We have had a few of those today, 1 even messaged with a pic and just put 'so you want to suck this'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We have had a few of those today, 1 even messaged with a pic and just put 'so you want to suck this'"

Obviously alot of thought went in to that message.. It's no wonder the genuine guys on this site get a hard time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had a few of those today, 1 even messaged with a pic and just put 'so you want to suck this'"

I thought ur was quite rude you didnt answer me to be fair

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

well i hate pussy photos or rude photos . they do nothing for me ..It works both ways you know .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Has anyone ever gotten one of their pics back with his cock photo shopped into it? I've heard of it happen, surely that's a new level of weird??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i hate pussy photos or rude photos . they do nothing for me ..It works both ways you know ."

Agree with you on this one Chocko, random strangers pussy pics do nothing for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well i hate pussy photos or rude photos . they do nothing for me ..It works both ways you know ."

You wouldn't be getting them from me any way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always complain about something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I see a pussy pic on a woman’s profile it’s an instant block. I mean c’mon girls , it’s disgusting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought that if you are bothered by this kind of photo you are on the wrong site. Maybe you are in the wrong place, I advise using Tinder facebook there you find perfect bodies that are not naked! at the end of what is whole here! perfect bodies! if the stick does not matter for sure is the body and face! By the way is one of the requirements here "if you don't send me a face picture I don't answer" is almost an ultimatum!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By the way! Why girls show your boobs here, i dont get it.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I'm never sending my cock in a first pic!

That's a 4 message minimum before that happens

Please understand that not all guys are boob/ass obsessed also. A profile that is just 25 pics of ass/boobs isn't getting me interested, unless either are stunningly spectacular.

Much prefer to see all of you.

Now, anyone with microscope is allowed to request pics of my dick

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I'm never sending my cock in a first pic!

That's a 4 message minimum before that happens

Please understand that not all guys are boob/ass obsessed also. A profile that is just 25 pics of ass/boobs isn't getting me interested, unless either are stunningly spectacular.

Much prefer to see all of you.

Now, anyone with microscope is allowed to request pics of my dick "

And after just reviewing and Fabbing your pics OP, they are a great representation of yourself, completely, almost

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never sending pictures btw lol

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Because if their face could get them sex, they wouldnt be on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But most of the genuine guys don't get a reply???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well i hate pussy photos or rude photos . they do nothing for me ..It works both ways you know ."

Disregard anything this man says. He’s an imposter.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"well i hate pussy photos or rude photos . they do nothing for me ..It works both ways you know .

Disregard anything this man says. He’s an imposter."

You know jack shit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I thought that if you are bothered by this kind of photo you are on the wrong site. Maybe you are in the wrong place, I advise using Tinder facebook there you find perfect bodies that are not naked! at the end of what is whole here! perfect bodies! if the stick does not matter for sure is the body and face! By the way is one of the requirements here "if you don't send me a face picture I don't answer" is almost an ultimatum!"

I never once said i was bothered with them. I just said why guys felt the need to send them on the first message. And i don't need your advice regaeding other sites I'm on here because I want to be and sorry also where I'm my profile does it state if I don't get a face pic I won't answer.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm never sending my cock in a first pic!

That's a 4 message minimum before that happens

Please understand that not all guys are boob/ass obsessed also. A profile that is just 25 pics of ass/boobs isn't getting me interested, unless either are stunningly spectacular.

Much prefer to see all of you.

Now, anyone with microscope is allowed to request pics of my dick "

I'll only put 24pics so to get you interested lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message. "

I have never done it in the times I have been on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy ...Classy ....Teasing pics ...something to see but leaves lots more to your imagination..draws me in ....cock pic just dont do it for me ...

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

The opening message, be it 'hi sexy' or just 'hello' is purely surplus. Their intent is to show you their dick. They don't even care if you respond or not, as long as you look at their dick. It's the online equivalent of the old 'flasher' stereotype.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The opening message, be it 'hi sexy' or just 'hello' is purely surplus. Their intent is to show you their dick. They don't even care if you respond or not, as long as you look at their dick. It's the online equivalent of the old 'flasher' stereotype."

Yep

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I thought that if you are bothered by this kind of photo you are on the wrong site. Maybe you are in the wrong place, I advise using Tinder facebook there you find perfect bodies that are not naked! at the end of what is whole here! perfect bodies! if the stick does not matter for sure is the body and face! By the way is one of the requirements here "if you don't send me a face picture I don't answer" is almost an ultimatum!"

Why is it the wrong site? It's a swinging site, not a porn site. People go to porn sites to see genitalia and people fucking, they come to swinging sites to find people they can actually fuck. Just because someone wants to meet and get intimate with a few select people doesn't mean they want to see everyone else's bits and bobs... Wouldn't you agree?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought that if you are bothered by this kind of photo you are on the wrong site. Maybe you are in the wrong place, I advise using Tinder facebook there you find perfect bodies that are not naked! at the end of what is whole here! perfect bodies! if the stick does not matter for sure is the body and face! By the way is one of the requirements here "if you don't send me a face picture I don't answer" is almost an ultimatum!

Why is it the wrong site? It's a swinging site, not a porn site. People go to porn sites to see genitalia and people fucking, they come to swinging sites to find people they can actually fuck. Just because someone wants to meet and get intimate with a few select people doesn't mean they want to see everyone else's bits and bobs... Wouldn't you agree? "

Ah sure we're all here for the same thing

Most definitely not!

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland


"We have had a few of those today, 1 even messaged with a pic and just put 'so you want to suck this'

Obviously alot of thought went in to that message.. It's no wonder the genuine guys on this site get a hard time "

Must have

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By *scouple07Couple
over a year ago

louth, Ireland


"We have had a few of those today, 1 even messaged with a pic and just put 'so you want to suck this'

I thought ur was quite rude you didnt answer me to be fair "

You could have at least put please

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I don't send them anyways. That type of content shouldn't be given out for free... I send them the Paypal details in the first message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message. "

For similar reasons many women use an ass or boobs as their profile pic. To get attention. It works for some and not for others.

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon

Never did never will. Just not my style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have had a few of those today, 1 even messaged with a pic and just put 'so you want to suck this'

I thought ur was quite rude you didnt answer me to be fair

You could have at least put please "

Ah saying please loses the whole romanace of it.....

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Cause we are animals and the first thing is to show how "sexually" you look...

It's like peacocks and their tail...

It takes a bit to understand that that's not what the women wants to see....

Thank god i understood it... But yes... I did it too when i was younger "

More like when your cat brings you a dead bird as a trophy, saying hey look what I've got... thanks puss but wtf are you supposed to do with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So why do guys feel the need to send their dick pics in their opening message. "

Some ladies insist on a pic in the message or they will delete (some times without having pics on their profile). Some don't like to send face pics as they might know the recipient or of them. Hence the dick pics. Unhappy medium

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