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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok, so i will make this short. My grand daughter (20 months) just broke a toy belonging to my other grandson. Yes, I suppose we have all been there but Im concerned for him. He’s distraught. It was his favourite plastic fire engine after all. Any advice or ideas on making this easier? and on a serious note any behaviours I should be watching out for? Should I buy him a new one for example ?

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

You just need to take it slow. Plastic toys are not as tough as they used to be. You need to make him understand this and the fact that sometimes its time for things to die.

Help him understand this point by carefully outling that you, his grandma and his parents will also die, with statistically at least one of those a gruesome or painful death.

Oh, and skelp the ass off your granddaughter. Little b*tch. Maybe break one of her toys too in retaliation to show that life has a whole karma thing going on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok, so i will make this short. My grand daughter (20 months) just broke a toy belonging to my other grandson. Yes, I suppose we have all been there but Im concerned for him. He’s distraught. It was his favourite plastic fire engine after all. Any advice or ideas on making this easier? and on a serious note any behaviours I should be watching out for? Should I buy him a new one for example ?"

Dude. You get the engine, tee it up, then boot it down the garden. Then tell him, now you do it and pretend there was a gas explosion at the fire they were tackling.

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim

Or go and buy some super glue

They will have hours of fun sticking there fingers together

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Or go and buy some super glue

They will have hours of fun sticking there fingers together

"

I just dont think you're taking this thread seriously...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Or go and buy some super glue

They will have hours of fun sticking there fingers together

I just dont think you're taking this thread seriously..."

Thanks ..... for your concern. It’s a big deal. I’m not making this up you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do not, I repeat do not buy him a new one.

You need to let him Mourne the loss otherwise he will learn to replace pain with joy and push the pain deep deep down till one day he's a grown man and working In a fire station and remembers his forgotten loss, that's when the real trouble begins

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By *unnitoesWoman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Do not, I repeat do not buy him a new one.

You need to let him Mourne the loss otherwise he will learn to replace pain with joy and push the pain deep deep down till one day he's a grown man and working In a fire station and remembers his forgotten loss, that's when the real trouble begins "

I feel a Rolf Harris song coming on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do not, I repeat do not buy him a new one.

You need to let him Mourne the loss otherwise he will learn to replace pain with joy and push the pain deep deep down till one day he's a grown man and working In a fire station and remembers his forgotten loss, that's when the real trouble begins

I feel a Rolf Harris song coming on "

Do enjoy a sing a long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two little boys had two little toys.....

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

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"Two little boys had two little toys..... "

Well at least you didnt go for “Tie me kangaroo down” ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Two little boys had two little toys.....

Well at least you didnt go for “Tie me kangaroo down” .. "

It's the only one I knew lol

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

If you see them copying any of your habitual behaviors then you should be concerned, and probably brought to a child psychologist.

These patterns can be broken before they deepen and are passed on.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

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"Two little boys had two little toys.....

Well at least you didnt go for “Tie me kangaroo down” ..

It's the only one I knew lol "

Sadly it says more about me that i knew the other one. Need to stop now before i remind people of “Jake the Peg”...

Doh..!!

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