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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area

This is one probably for the fellas..

You ever click into your sent box on fab and see a long list of yellow... in other words unopened, unread sent messages..?

Ladies: you can probably safely ignore this thread as you will not know what this looks like...

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Yep. I don't really send all that many messages to be honest but if they are left yellow and the person has been online a couple of times and it goes a significant amount of time unopened, then I just delete it and move on. I'm mindful of the fact that women here eapecially regular visitors, are inundated with messages.

Anyways... who wants a picture of me todger delivered straight to their inbox choice of Sky remote or Lynx can...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly with the ammount of mails the ladies receive. I'm pretty sure their inbox is like a stack of bannanas

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By *uciyassMan
over a year ago

sheffield

You do know you can read a persons message and then mark it as unread again. Don’t you ??

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"You do know you can read a persons message and then mark it as unread again. Don’t you ??"

Yeah, but with some of the nonsense i’ve sent to ladies over the years, i would doubt their sanity if they wanted to mark it “unread” just to read it again

My particular favourites were when i quoted nursery rhymes on messages where ladies had one liner or no profile text to comment against

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I just don't send mails unless I'm mailed first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Familiar sight indeed. Like the OP, i have a similar system. To be honest i couldn't give a monkey's how many the girls get or what their inbox is like. I send anyway. It's the only way to start a communication, unless you have a natter on the forum. Winks can get lost too, but i fire them out too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not really but thats more because i dont send very many random mails... its usually to someone i have been chatting to or off a forum thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't send loads of mails, maybe 1 or 2 every couple of days to a profile that catches my attention but I'd say easily 50% of them go unread and once a couple of days have passed its safe to say they are at the bottom of a full in box never to be read and waiting for the next bulk delete. That's just the way it is with the numbers here

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By *eeperscreepersMan
over a year ago

Tipp

Either all yellow or yellow dotted with deleted haha

I don't dwell on these things too much

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By *un17Man
over a year ago

Ennis

Haven’t sent a message in about 2 years because when I did they were never read and if they were read they were never responded to so now I enjoy reading the forms and looking at hot pics happy days

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Haven’t sent a message in about 2 years because when I did they were never read and if they were read they were never responded to so now I enjoy reading the forms and looking at hot pics happy days "

yea i think i will stopsending mail aswell,most of time its not read even when you tick the checklist on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just delete it out after I know they have been online a few times. Don't annoy yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haven’t sent a message in about 2 years because when I did they were never read and if they were read they were never responded to so now I enjoy reading the forms and looking at hot pics happy days "

Mgtow

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Haven’t sent a message in about 2 years because when I did they were never read and if they were read they were never responded to so now I enjoy reading the forms and looking at hot pics happy days "

Yup way I see it is, if a lady is interested she'll mail. My profile is detailed enough. The rest can be talked about in mail.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

I very rarely send mails, but I have had a few unread or deleted mails, I just move past it.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

It actually looks quite the same on the female side, loads of yellow, only difference it's the inbox.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

The only yellow I ever see is on the front of my jocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You do know you can read a persons message and then mark it as unread again. Don’t you ??"

Can you tell me how you do that please?

Thanks x

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"You do know you can read a persons message and then mark it as unread again. Don’t you ??

Can you tell me how you do that please?

Thanks x"

When you tap into the message itself, below the text there are 3 options side by side

Block / Save / Mark Unread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffs id have more luck playing snooker with a rope than someone reading my mail on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even worse is sending a message and then seeing the person complaining on updates they can't get a meet and your message remains unread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us ladies do send mails.yes i have send them.not read or replyed.dosent bother mein the least. u tried and u move on .no big deal

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

I got my first proper conversation starting mail only last night from a lovely Fabbet last night, first time in bloodt ages I wasn't the first to make contact!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even worse is sending a message and then seeing the person complaining on updates they can't get a meet and your message remains unread. "

U werent their preference unfortally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I got my first proper conversation starting mail only last night from a lovely Fabbet last night, first time in bloodt ages I wasn't the first to make contact!"

See wonen do mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even worse is sending a message and then seeing the person complaining on updates they can't get a meet and your message remains unread.

U werent their preference unfortally"

How would they know if they never opened it.

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham


"I got my first proper conversation starting mail only last night from a lovely Fabbet last night, first time in bloodt ages I wasn't the first to make contact!

See wonen do mail "

Course yous do... you're like hens' teeth unfortunately

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Even worse is sending a message and then seeing the person complaining on updates they can't get a meet and your message remains unread.

U werent their preference unfortally

How would they know if they never opened it. "

Dont need to look at it first....they can look at your profile first

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"Even worse is sending a message and then seeing the person complaining on updates they can't get a meet and your message remains unread.

U werent their preference unfortally

How would they know if they never opened it.

Dont need to look at it first....they can look at your profile first "

Ah hey, thats sneaky. Its those bloody sneaky milfs again i’ll bet..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even worse is sending a message and then seeing the person complaining on updates they can't get a meet and your message remains unread.

U werent their preference unfortally

How would they know if they never opened it.

Dont need to look at it first....they can look at your profile first

Ah hey, thats sneaky. Its those bloody sneaky milfs again i’ll bet..!! "

Get bloody everywhere lol

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"Even worse is sending a message and then seeing the person complaining on updates they can't get a meet and your message remains unread.

U werent their preference unfortally

How would they know if they never opened it.

Dont need to look at it first....they can look at your profile first

Ah hey, thats sneaky. Its those bloody sneaky milfs again i’ll bet..!! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We always open and reply to any mail we get. Sooner or later we do. Even if we are not interested. Even to one liners just as we like to treat people the way we would like to be treated. Always with respect. Maybe we are naive in that matter but we do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Every day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffs id have more luck playing snooker with a rope than someone reading my mail on here "

But at least there's only ONE YELLOW you have to worry about!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even worse is sending a message and then seeing the person complaining on updates they can't get a meet and your message remains unread.

U werent their preference unfortally

How would they know if they never opened it.

Dont need to look at it first....they can look at your profile first

Ah hey, thats sneaky. Its those bloody sneaky milfs again i’ll bet..!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately that's the nature of the beast when we send a message to a lady chances are she is probably getting another 10 at the same time ! Us men don't have the same problem

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