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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

Hope you're wearing a hard hat...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money"

Money?? Been ripped off Sir.. Tis free!

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By *iggBadDaveMan
over a year ago

Ards

But where does curvy end and being overweight begin ? Must admit I do love a lady with curves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I call myself curvy here but I know I'm fat but it ain't cost any guy anything.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

Money?? Been ripped off Sir.. Tis free! "

sorry meant waste of diesel money going to see a curvy woman when a round one turns up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I call myself curvy here but I know I'm fat but it ain't cost any guy anything. "
ah but at least you send proper pictures when you meet not hiding anything

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I call myself curvy here but I know I'm fat but it ain't cost any guy anything. ah but at least you send proper pictures when you meet not hiding anything "

Nope cause as far as I'm concerned this is me. And any guy I've met is well warned beforehand that I'm a fat bird thankfully only one has left me standing in middle of coffeeshop but says more about him than me.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Well I call myself curvy here but I know I'm fat but it ain't cost any guy anything. ah but at least you send proper pictures when you meet not hiding anything

Nope cause as far as I'm concerned this is me. And any guy I've met is well warned beforehand that I'm a fat bird thankfully only one has left me standing in middle of coffeeshop but says more about him than me."

Fairplay to your honesty. Most curvy women are barely over weight, generally fit and have a fat percentage of 20 - 30% this a fact.

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city

Well put it this way do you like being called a slut or a whore because your a swinger? I dont think so.

Like wise with fat girls as you call them.

Absolutely disgusting what you just said.

Im fat and proud of it but if anyone calls me fat its an instant block.

And surely a photo would tell you that someone is fat so dont meet them if they are. That will you save you money and time.. Ffs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I call myself curvy here but I know I'm fat but it ain't cost any guy anything. ah but at least you send proper pictures when you meet not hiding anything

Nope cause as far as I'm concerned this is me. And any guy I've met is well warned beforehand that I'm a fat bird thankfully only one has left me standing in middle of coffeeshop but says more about him than me."

I have to agree with you nasty thing to do its more filtered to the ridiculous pictures that bug us be honest curves are hot cat fishing not

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

Curvy is the hourglass effect. I for one am not curvy and don't claim to be. I like to think my profile is a true representation of me. I am guilty of posting my best pictures rather that those I look dead hungover ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to think you can fully see my body shape in my pics and I hide nothing so people accept me for who I am it kindly F off.

If someone man/or woman is taking pics from specific angles and are hiding certain parts ya can bet they’re hiding those cause they’re not happy with them which is ok.

But if you fool yourself to believe they’re something they’re not that’s on you and shame on you for calling them out on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

Money?? Been ripped off Sir.. Tis free! sorry meant waste of diesel money going to see a curvy woman when a round one turns up"

Fat shaming is so attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a thin line of how to tread on this one lol I get that if a woman is any size tall thin curvy whatever she should say that, although unless you were told she was something she wasn't then I don't think there's much to be said about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well put it this way do you like being called a slut or a whore because your a swinger? I dont think so.

Like wise with fat girls as you call them.

Absolutely disgusting what you just said.

Im fat and proud of it but if anyone calls me fat its an instant block.

And surely a photo would tell you that someone is fat so dont meet them if they are. That will you save you money and time.. Ffs "

not if they only send an ankle / legs picture

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city


"Well put it this way do you like being called a slut or a whore because your a swinger? I dont think so.

Like wise with fat girls as you call them.

Absolutely disgusting what you just said.

Im fat and proud of it but if anyone calls me fat its an instant block.

And surely a photo would tell you that someone is fat so dont meet them if they are. That will you save you money and time.. Ffs not if they only send an ankle / legs picture "

well then thats your own fault for meeting someone who only sent a ankle photo seriously?? The mind boggles on here at times it really truly does!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I call myself curvy here but I know I'm fat but it ain't cost any guy anything. ah but at least you send proper pictures when you meet not hiding anything

Nope cause as far as I'm concerned this is me. And any guy I've met is well warned beforehand that I'm a fat bird thankfully only one has left me standing in middle of coffeeshop but says more about him than me.Fairplay to your honesty. Most curvy women are barely over weight, generally fit and have a fat percentage of 20 - 30% this a fact."

Well I can deadlift 70kg and squat 50kg. Might not be cardio fit but hey the last guy was with had to take a break as he was sweating so much lol

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"I’d like to think you can fully see my body shape in my pics and I hide nothing so people accept me for who I am it kindly F off.

If someone man/or woman is taking pics from specific angles and are hiding certain parts ya can bet they’re hiding those cause they’re not happy with them which is ok.

But if you fool yourself to believe they’re something they’re not that’s on you and shame on you for calling them out on here. "

So youre saying that the person hiding their body shape is not to blame: its the person they are talking to whose fault it is for not figuring it out..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well OP you have given an insight to your personality

Good luck getting a meet on fab

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Well I call myself curvy here but I know I'm fat but it ain't cost any guy anything. ah but at least you send proper pictures when you meet not hiding anything

Nope cause as far as I'm concerned this is me. And any guy I've met is well warned beforehand that I'm a fat bird thankfully only one has left me standing in middle of coffeeshop but says more about him than me.Fairplay to your honesty. Most curvy women are barely over weight, generally fit and have a fat percentage of 20 - 30% this a fact.

Well I can deadlift 70kg and squat 50kg. Might not be cardio fit but hey the last guy was with had to take a break as he was sweating so much lol"

haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well put it this way do you like being called a slut or a whore because your a swinger? I dont think so.

Like wise with fat girls as you call them.

Absolutely disgusting what you just said.

Im fat and proud of it but if anyone calls me fat its an instant block.

And surely a photo would tell you that someone is fat so dont meet them if they are. That will you save you money and time.. Ffs not if they only send an ankle / legs picture "

Well fool u for wasting your own time as u put it for a leg shot..

Personally I fuck a person, not just a body.

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city


"Well OP you have given an insight to your personality

Good luck getting a meet on fab "

this

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d like to think you can fully see my body shape in my pics and I hide nothing so people accept me for who I am it kindly F off.

If someone man/or woman is taking pics from specific angles and are hiding certain parts ya can bet they’re hiding those cause they’re not happy with them which is ok.

But if you fool yourself to believe they’re something they’re not that’s on you and shame on you for calling them out on here. "

ah but most people aren't as honest as you we've met people of all different shapes it's when you're expecting one person and a complete different one turns up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d like to think you can fully see my body shape in my pics and I hide nothing so people accept me for who I am it kindly F off.

If someone man/or woman is taking pics from specific angles and are hiding certain parts ya can bet they’re hiding those cause they’re not happy with them which is ok.

But if you fool yourself to believe they’re something they’re not that’s on you and shame on you for calling them out on here.

So youre saying that the person hiding their body shape is not to blame: its the person they are talking to whose fault it is for not figuring it out..? "

If they take the pics at face value yes. I always chat to people on kik and get “live” pics there so I know whom I’m meeting not just what they’ve put on their profile everyone puts their best foot forward where their pics are concerned do I look like mine 100% of the day no i may have a bit of bed head in the morning depending how the night before has gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I call myself curvy here but I know I'm fat but it ain't cost any guy anything. ah but at least you send proper pictures when you meet not hiding anything

Nope cause as far as I'm concerned this is me. And any guy I've met is well warned beforehand that I'm a fat bird thankfully only one has left me standing in middle of coffeeshop but says more about him than me.Fairplay to your honesty. Most curvy women are barely over weight, generally fit and have a fat percentage of 20 - 30% this a fact.

Well I can deadlift 70kg and squat 50kg. Might not be cardio fit but hey the last guy was with had to take a break as he was sweating so much lolhaha"

And before I get giving out to for skating a guy he has deleted his profile since.

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By *anabecdTV/TS
over a year ago

Limerick/ tipp


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money"

What a stupid question to ask..

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"I’d like to think you can fully see my body shape in my pics and I hide nothing so people accept me for who I am it kindly F off.

If someone man/or woman is taking pics from specific angles and are hiding certain parts ya can bet they’re hiding those cause they’re not happy with them which is ok.

But if you fool yourself to believe they’re something they’re not that’s on you and shame on you for calling them out on here.

So youre saying that the person hiding their body shape is not to blame: its the person they are talking to whose fault it is for not figuring it out..?

If they take the pics at face value yes. I always chat to people on kik and get “live” pics there so I know whom I’m meeting not just what they’ve put on their profile everyone puts their best foot forward where their pics are concerned do I look like mine 100% of the day no i may have a bit of bed head in the morning depending how the night before has gone "

Ah now bed head is a whole different thread..!

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

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Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition "

Who's definition?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’d like to think you can fully see my body shape in my pics and I hide nothing so people accept me for who I am it kindly F off.

If someone man/or woman is taking pics from specific angles and are hiding certain parts ya can bet they’re hiding those cause they’re not happy with them which is ok.

But if you fool yourself to believe they’re something they’re not that’s on you and shame on you for calling them out on here.

So youre saying that the person hiding their body shape is not to blame: its the person they are talking to whose fault it is for not figuring it out..? "

see a man with a spine

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition

Who's definition? "

a quick google and a read if you can be bothered if you want i can do it for you.. i was only actually reading it today.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But where does curvy end and being overweight begin ? Must admit I do love a lady with curves."

If the BMI reaches 27 and over

Mrs ADBventure69

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money"
Its curvy if they wear a bra and mini skirt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But where does curvy end and being overweight begin ? Must admit I do love a lady with curves.

If the BMI reaches 27 and over

Mrs ADBventure69"

To be precise if the BMI is 25 it's okay but if more than that it's overweight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hope whoever you're referring to isn't reading this. Disgusting body shaming. Have the respect to say "thanks but no thanks" and move on. Bitterness, arrogance and feeling fooled is uncalled for. Have some perspective for the girl walking in to be scrutinised by someone so shallow and unkind.

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By *iggBadDaveMan
over a year ago

Ards


"But where does curvy end and being overweight begin ? Must admit I do love a lady with curves.

If the BMI reaches 27 and over

Mrs ADBventure69"

Hahaha fair enough , I did ask. But one person's curvy is another person's fat. Is what I was getting at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition

Who's definition? a quick google and a read if you can be bothered if you want i can do it for you.. i was only actually reading it today. "

Ah the holy bible of Google.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

I have a notion that the OP was trying to make a point about deception but perhaps articulated it in a regrettable way.

Consider this: in the real world we meet people in bars and clubs. Nearly every time its a persons physical appearance that catches our eye and causes us to try and chat them up.

But you can see clearly what the physical body shape and looks are (assuming youre not bladdered..!!)

On fab you rarely get a face pic published and many people are adept at camera angles, lighting, filters, etc. So there is a little bit of trust involved. And its difficult to call someone out if they have refused to share an accurate or full pic of themselves.

I’ve been caught too with someone sharing pics from shoulders up and their legs, but their profile deaceibed themselves as “slim”.

When we met it was quite a rotund lady and considering i had travelled a great distance i was not impressed. And actually it was nore because of the deception. Dis she think i didnt have the gift of eyesight..?

Anyway, i read between the lines of the OPs post and think thats his frustration and i dont believe he is trying to offend anyone around size or shape, more about lying...

But i have been wrong before..!

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition

Who's definition? a quick google and a read if you can be bothered if you want i can do it for you.. i was only actually reading it today.

Ah the holy bible of Google. "

Nice response.. i think when the first 10 articles on a topic are pretty much the same description and describe an exact science then i think its fair to say its accurate.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition "

yer along time at this if a guy / girl describes themselves as gym body and the vending machine filler turns up get ye pissed time is precious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition

Who's definition? a quick google and a read if you can be bothered if you want i can do it for you.. i was only actually reading it today.

Ah the holy bible of Google. Nice response.. i think when the first 10 articles on a topic are pretty much the same description and describe an exact science then i think its fair to say its accurate. "

It's an adjective, not a medical term for a body shape.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Well I call myself curvy here but I know I'm fat but it ain't cost any guy anything. ah but at least you send proper pictures when you meet not hiding anything

Nope cause as far as I'm concerned this is me. And any guy I've met is well warned beforehand that I'm a fat bird thankfully only one has left me standing in middle of coffeeshop but says more about him than me.Fairplay to your honesty. Most curvy women are barely over weight, generally fit and have a fat percentage of 20 - 30% this a fact.

Well I can deadlift 70kg and squat 50kg. Might not be cardio fit but hey the last guy was with had to take a break as he was sweating so much lol"

Sounds like a challenge

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition

Who's definition? a quick google and a read if you can be bothered if you want i can do it for you.. i was only actually reading it today.

Ah the holy bible of Google. Nice response.. i think when the first 10 articles on a topic are pretty much the same description and describe an exact science then i think its fair to say its accurate.

It's an adjective, not a medical term for a body shape. "

I beg to differ theres a definition. Go look it up you might be surprised. .75 waist to hip ratio is a start

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By *xyzptlk088Man
over a year ago

Galway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not Fat and I’m not curvy. But I’m fucking fabulous in every way and I don’t hide it. I’ve plenty of photos on my profile of the “real” me.And I fuck with the lights on!! I couldn’t give a rats ass what peoples negative thoughts are of my body, If that’s not their type that’s fine with me. There’s plenty of beautiful slim ladies on here as well as the beautiful fat ones.

We all have our like and dislikes but we don’t have to shallow assholes either

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have a notion that the OP was trying to make a point about deception but perhaps articulated it in a regrettable way.

Consider this: in the real world we meet people in bars and clubs. Nearly every time its a persons physical appearance that catches our eye and causes us to try and chat them up.

But you can see clearly what the physical body shape and looks are (assuming youre not bladdered..!!)

On fab you rarely get a face pic published and many people are adept at camera angles, lighting, filters, etc. So there is a little bit of trust involved. And its difficult to call someone out if they have refused to share an accurate or full pic of themselves.

I’ve been caught too with someone sharing pics from shoulders up and their legs, but their profile deaceibed themselves as “slim”.

When we met it was quite a rotund lady and considering i had travelled a great distance i was not impressed. And actually it was nore because of the deception. Dis she think i didnt have the gift of eyesight..?

Anyway, i read between the lines of the OPs post and think thats his frustration and i dont believe he is trying to offend anyone around size or shape, more about lying...

But i have been wrong before..! "

everything you said is spot on except one little fact this is in fact the female of the couple

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By *iggBadDaveMan
over a year ago

Ards


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition

Who's definition? a quick google and a read if you can be bothered if you want i can do it for you.. i was only actually reading it today.

Ah the holy bible of Google. Nice response.. i think when the first 10 articles on a topic are pretty much the same description and describe an exact science then i think its fair to say its accurate.

It's an adjective, not a medical term for a body shape. I beg to differ theres a definition. Go look it up you might be surprised. .75 waist to hip ratio is a start "

If you go by BMI then half of us are discribed as fat. I'm 6"4 and 17 stone but ideal weight is 14. I'd look like a skeleton at 14 stone.

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By *hoosyhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

any


"Well OP you have given an insight to your personality

Good luck getting a meet on fab this

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I've been with women of all shapes and sizes. What you define as fat that's your opinion. But another person might see that person as curvy.

Me personally I'd rather be we a person who's comfortable in their own skin, has a great personality with curves for days. Than a person who's stuck up their own arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

Money?? Been ripped off Sir.. Tis free! sorry meant waste of diesel money going to see a curvy woman when a round one turns up"

Curious OP

Did you go to meet the curvy lady on your own, or did the wife go with you

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition

Who's definition? a quick google and a read if you can be bothered if you want i can do it for you.. i was only actually reading it today.

Ah the holy bible of Google. Nice response.. i think when the first 10 articles on a topic are pretty much the same description and describe an exact science then i think its fair to say its accurate.

It's an adjective, not a medical term for a body shape. I beg to differ theres a definition. Go look it up you might be surprised. .75 waist to hip ratio is a start

If you go by BMI then half of us are discribed as fat. I'm 6"4 and 17 stone but ideal weight is 14. I'd look like a skeleton at 14 stone."

BMI has nothing to do with this and bmi is nonsense, fat percentage and measurements are an exact science used to define body content

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

I’m “fat” but have curves I have an ass boobs and big hips (belly too) I have ample on my profile and I am asked why do I have that because I don’t look ample I’m curvy!

I would consider myself over weight but I didn’t go out sideways

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"I’m “fat” but have curves I have an ass boobs and big hips (belly too) I have ample on my profile and I am asked why do I have that because I don’t look ample I’m curvy!

I would consider myself over weight but I didn’t go out sideways "

You need a dangerous curves ahead warning on that profile . So does Steph.

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I really don't think the op was aiming to body shame anyone.. I think it was more about the deception of the term used. It's the same as a man putting pics up when he was 21 claiming it's him now..

It's not fair to falsely portray yourself different to who you are. Men's free time is as precious as ours and shouldnt be wasted on someone who lies about their own bloody. So maybe it's that person who is really ashamed of how they look..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

Money?? Been ripped off Sir.. Tis free! sorry meant waste of diesel money going to see a curvy woman when a round one turns up

Curious OP

Did you go to meet the curvy lady on your own, or did the wife go with you "

oh sorry you getting confused curvy women parts of couples aswell if only they were as honest as men

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"I really don't think the op was aiming to body shame anyone.. I think it was more about the deception of the term used. It's the same as a man putting pics up when he was 21 claiming it's him now..

It's not fair to falsely portray yourself different to who you are. Men's free time is as precious as ours and shouldnt be wasted on someone who lies about their own bloody. So maybe it's that person who is really ashamed of how they look.."

Absolutely spot on.

As someone whose wife is a curvy woman by the actual definition it irritates then me that she can’t put it on her profile. Instead she has to be described as average.

Shes most certainly not average

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I really don't think the op was aiming to body shame anyone.. I think it was more about the deception of the term used. It's the same as a man putting pics up when he was 21 claiming it's him now..

It's not fair to falsely portray yourself different to who you are. Men's free time is as precious as ours and shouldnt be wasted on someone who lies about their own bloody. So maybe it's that person who is really ashamed of how they look..Absolutely spot on.

As someone whose wife is a curvy woman by the actual definition it irritates then me that she can’t put it on her profile. Instead she has to be described as average.

Shes most certainly not average "

oh your wife is definitely not average as a very straight woman she is our definition of a curvy woman and probably the majority of the outside world

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition "

Whose definition? Yours?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love curvy ladies

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition

Whose definition? Yours? "

no, try looking it up if you can be bothered. I can post 10 articles if need be with the definition, i can also post the definition of curves if need be

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

People are going to describe themselves as the best version of what they think they are and no one is going to send an unflattering pictures. It’s like the guys who describe themselves as athletic when they would be less so. You don’t really know until you met someone in real life. Not really fair to call people out on it maybe that’s how they see themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP your own fault and nobody elses if you went to meet without seeing them first. This is a few threads your body shaming women in, cop yourself on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

Money?? Been ripped off Sir.. Tis free! sorry meant waste of diesel money going to see a curvy woman when a round one turns up

Curious OP

Did you go to meet the curvy lady on your own, or did the wife go with you oh sorry you getting confused curvy women parts of couples aswell if only they were as honest as men "

No

I'm not getting confused

I asked you a question

Did you go and meet a lady on your own or together with your partner

Its a yes or no answer

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By *hedevilwearspradaWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere nearby


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition

Whose definition? Yours? no, try looking it up if you can be bothered. I can post 10 articles if need be with the definition, i can also post the definition of curves if need be "

Articles? Like journal articles? Or just google pages? Cos when I googled it came up with nothing about body shape....

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By *ustin-SiderMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

Money?? Been ripped off Sir.. Tis free! sorry meant waste of diesel money going to see a curvy woman when a round one turns up"

Well at least she turned up. Many don't.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"Why do women get confused between curvy and fat and before ye start getting outraged why not be honest with people and show what ye really look like instead of catching people face to face wasting time and money

What a stupid question to ask..

Because the majority of women on here described as curvy on their profile are not by definition

Whose definition? Yours? no, try looking it up if you can be bothered. I can post 10 articles if need be with the definition, i can also post the definition of curves if need be

Articles? Like journal articles? Or just google pages? Cos when I googled it came up with nothing about body shape.... "

Really? Obviously doing something wrong. The first one comes up is from quora. Try

Goggling definition of curvy lady or better see christine hendricks, sofie vegara etc.

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod

over a year ago

My Own Little World

Gonna close this now.

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