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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it me or is there an increasing amount of couples stating that they are not looking for single guys? I know there's a couple of threads going on about couples and ladies getting hassle from guys that can't take the hint but if there's an increasing amount of nlfsg's and an increasing amount of guys looking for couples, things could get very boring around here.

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

Yes, it's a lot more common and we are considering it ourselves. It'll cut down (in theory) the number of messages we receive and it's not difficult to meet a single man by posting a status or meet request.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's hardly surprising, we're at the point where we will very rarely meet a single guy even socially, in our experience, the most reliable, drama-free males tend to be the male half of a swinging couple who are meeting with their partners knowledge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own preferences, better to put them up so all can see and stop wasting time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately as hard as it was up till now with all the time wasters that seem to be here and posts about single guys letting people down a lot of profiles seem to be shutting single males out. I think it's at the stage now where you will have to attend socials if you can get on a list to build a status of reliability

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or is there an increasing amount of couples stating that they are not looking for single guys? I know there's a couple of threads going on about couples and ladies getting hassle from guys that can't take the hint but if there's an increasing amount of nlfsg's and an increasing amount of guys looking for couples, things could get very boring around here. "

An increasing amount of couples who are in fact, just guys .

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah, silly people trying to ruin things for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The same time wasters and muppets have been on this site for years it doesn't change... And it doesn't effect people's chances of meeting. If people have not meeting single men it could be for a few reasons... Maybe they have no interest and only meet couples or fems or they prefer to do the searching themselves

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By *atman catwomenCouple
over a year ago

STRABANE

We up front about not looking single guys due fact I am bi female prefare a woman also to be there , as know single guys can get a raw deal but each to to there to own likes about everyone enjoying themselves

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere


"

An increasing amount of couples who are in fact, just guys . "

this

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By *irtypair00Couple
over a year ago

Dublin


"We up front about not looking single guys due fact I am bi female prefare a woman also to be there , as know single guys can get a raw deal but each to to there to own likes about everyone enjoying themselves "

Same for us Mrs is Bi so it's either a couple or a simgle lady

We have men blocked .

Mr dirty

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By *omDubCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Cork

Whenever we want to meet a single guy it’s really easy, we only need to set a status and in less than an hour we’ll have a full catalogue of guys willing to do nearly anything, yet we don’t want to be pestered by people who clearly wouldn’t make the cut for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever we want to meet a single guy it’s really easy, we only need to set a status and in less than an hour we’ll have a full catalogue of guys willing to do nearly anything, yet we don’t want to be pestered by people who clearly wouldn’t make the cut for us"
What you mean by make the cut are you superior to the men here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me or is there an increasing amount of couples stating that they are not looking for single guys? I know there's a couple of threads going on about couples and ladies getting hassle from guys that can't take the hint but if there's an increasing amount of nlfsg's and an increasing amount of guys looking for couples, things could get very boring around here. "

When we had "looking for single guys" all we got was dick pics and shite one line messages directed at Mr rather than both of us. It's off putting tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and 'women' who are just guys too, along with picture collectors, very irritating indeed.

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By *uckfunCouple
over a year ago

North Coast


"Whenever we want to meet a single guy it’s really easy, we only need to set a status and in less than an hour we’ll have a full catalogue of guys willing to do nearly anything, yet we don’t want to be pestered by people who clearly wouldn’t make the cut for us What you mean by make the cut are you superior to the men here."

I would imagine by ‘wouldn’t make the cut’ they mean don’t fit their preferences rather than any sense of superiority.

Unfortunately your post makes you come across as the kind of single man who wouldn’t take a ‘no thanks’ very well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Whenever we want to meet a single guy it’s really easy, we only need to set a status and in less than an hour we’ll have a full catalogue of guys willing to do nearly anything, yet we don’t want to be pestered by people who clearly wouldn’t make the cut for us What you mean by make the cut are you superior to the men here.

I would imagine by ‘wouldn’t make the cut’ they mean don’t fit their preferences rather than any sense of superiority.

Unfortunately your post makes you come across as the kind of single man who wouldn’t take a ‘no thanks’ very well."

I have no problem taken no thanks or giving no thanks but I not think I'm better than anyone else male or female.

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown


"Whenever we want to meet a single guy it’s really easy, we only need to set a status and in less than an hour we’ll have a full catalogue of guys willing to do nearly anything, yet we don’t want to be pestered by people who clearly wouldn’t make the cut for us What you mean by make the cut are you superior to the men here.

I would imagine by ‘wouldn’t make the cut’ they mean don’t fit their preferences rather than any sense of superiority.

Unfortunately your post makes you come across as the kind of single man who wouldn’t take a ‘no thanks’ very well. I have no problem taken no thanks or giving no thanks but I not think I'm better than anyone else male or female. "

Nobody is saying they think anyone is better or worse, the only question that matters here is "Do I want to fuck this person", I'd fuck people I wouldn't like to go to coffee with and I very much enjoy spending time with people I would never consider having sex with.

Threads like this are very helpful though, easy to see the types of people that we should block!

Do you guys know that couples talk to each other? That when parties are being organised we discuss the possibly invited single men and say to each other, "Don't invite him, I have him blocked for some reason". Guys that would otherwise be invited get dropped because a couple have him blocked, even if they don't remember why! There are thousands of single men here!

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"Whenever we want to meet a single guy it’s really easy, we only need to set a status and in less than an hour we’ll have a full catalogue of guys willing to do nearly anything, yet we don’t want to be pestered by people who clearly wouldn’t make the cut for us What you mean by make the cut are you superior to the men here.

I would imagine by ‘wouldn’t make the cut’ they mean don’t fit their preferences rather than any sense of superiority.

Unfortunately your post makes you come across as the kind of single man who wouldn’t take a ‘no thanks’ very well. I have no problem taken no thanks or giving no thanks but I not think I'm better than anyone else male or female.

Nobody is saying they think anyone is better or worse, the only question that matters here is "Do I want to fuck this person", I'd fuck people I wouldn't like to go to coffee with and I very much enjoy spending time with people I would never consider having sex with.

Threads like this are very helpful though, easy to see the types of people that we should block!

Do you guys know that couples talk to each other? That when parties are being organised we discuss the possibly invited single men and say to each other, "Don't invite him, I have him blocked for some reason". Guys that would otherwise be invited get dropped because a couple have him blocked, even if they don't remember why! There are thousands of single men here!"

Your point about couples talking to other couples is correct.

Especially in local circles.

Big Sister is watching lol

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By *eankaren88Couple
over a year ago

By the sea


"

Your point about couples talking to other couples is correct.

Especially in local circles.

Big Sister is watching lol"

Big sister IS watching, we sent a list of potential invites to a party (17 cpls, 7 fems and 44 men) to a list of couples and single fems we trust,

22 men were dropped off the list because they were on 3 or more block lists

None of couples or Fems were on any block list.

Posts like this do give an insight into whether or not you would like to meet the person behind the post.

'Just sayin is all '

Be nice

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown


"

Your point about couples talking to other couples is correct.

Especially in local circles.

Big Sister is watching lol

Big sister IS watching, we sent a list of potential invites to a party (17 cpls, 7 fems and 44 men) to a list of couples and single fems we trust,

22 men were dropped off the list because they were on 3 or more block lists

None of couples or Fems were on any block list.

Posts like this do give an insight into whether or not you would like to meet the person behind the post.

'Just sayin is all '

Be nice

"

You are much more generous than most! Three chances? Most will remove a guy if he's on one blocked list!

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

We meet single guys but clearly state on our profile we don't read or want msgs from them looking to meet. Our inbox was full every day from single males before we mentioned this. Now that it's out there, we still get msgs from single males asking to meet. Every time we log in, we have new friends requests from them. What we don't get is what makes someone want to waste their time sending a msg that is only going to get deleted along with the friends request.

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By *eankaren88Couple
over a year ago

By the sea


"

Your point about couples talking to other couples is correct.

Especially in local circles.

Big Sister is watching lol

Big sister IS watching, we sent a list of potential invites to a party (17 cpls, 7 fems and 44 men) to a list of couples and single fems we trust,

22 men were dropped off the list because they were on 3 or more block lists

None of couples or Fems were on any block list.

Posts like this do give an insight into whether or not you would like to meet the person behind the post.

'Just sayin is all '

Be nice

You are much more generous than most! Three chances? Most will remove a guy if he's on one blocked list!"

If they know the reason, for example abuse, Persistent annoyance, threats etc. They are gone on the first cut,

Most were blocked and the reason is unknown as to why blocked so 3 strikes and your out kinda thing.

Thought that was a bit more fair, as we have blocked profiles because they are not what we are looking for, but that's not to say that they are not good for the social side.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems like a catch 22 for single guys looking for first verification. It'd be great if there was some protocol for inducting unverified single guys. Dunno what, mind you. Maybe a social for that purpose with some experienced fabbers willing to perform a public service by attending. They could help new guys learn the ropes. Just a thought....

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By *uniorendowedMan
over a year ago

London Derbyshire

Maybe it’s becwuse they signed up to meet only other couples and women?

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown


"Seems like a catch 22 for single guys looking for first verification. It'd be great if there was some protocol for inducting unverified single guys. Dunno what, mind you. Maybe a social for that purpose with some experienced fabbers willing to perform a public service by attending. They could help new guys learn the ropes. Just a thought...."

It's tough, no doubt about it and we would be happy to help guys local to us to get their first verification, We will discuss it between us and see what we can do.

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By *rishguy3217Man
over a year ago

Sunny Southeast / Dublin

The genuine lads will always shine through, I meet regularly enough, never cancelled a plan meet! There is a lot of guys who act the dick on here so you can't blame couples for blocking guys

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By *irl4fucking18Woman
over a year ago

city

I've seen plenty of couples that only want to meet single guys and have zero interest in girls and couples..

I just have males blocked as I get so many mails. A quick update on the statutes when im looking for guys an I turn the message filter off.

And I myself have zero interest in girls and couples so we are here.

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By *ork fellaMan
over a year ago

Macroom

I am totally fed up of some of the Gay men on here who can't read for some reason. Like just because I'm in your area on a given day doesn't mean I suddenly am going to change my sexuality and let you suck my dick. Christ like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes there is much more not meeting single guys. I assume its the no shows and dick pic senders spoiling it for us others. Personally never sent a dick pic and dont bail at the last moment.

And whats this chat about block lists

Am i on one ?

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By *inale.xMan
over a year ago

Portadown

I'm on plenty of block lists...

But only of people who I haven't met strangely enough. Many girls will block you as soon as you have sent a single message rather than respond.

Others, such as _ortadowncpl block because you've pulled out of a meet. Their choice really.

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown


"I'm on plenty of block lists...

But only of people who I haven't met strangely enough. Many girls will block you as soon as you have sent a single message rather than respond.

Others, such as _ortadowncpl block because you've pulled out of a meet. Their choice really. "

Yup, although I see you continue to messege my personal profile so you are obviously still keen to meet...

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By *ard and warmMan
over a year ago

around

Plenty of genuine guys.. I know this because I am one Easy to be genuine and drama free being single helps too ....the amount of ‘couples’ on here and when you start chatting it and mention meeting it’s suddenly , oh she can’t meet because she’s busy or the guy meets first ??who are ye kidding...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

What's the problem? It simply means more choice for those looking for single men.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Don't believe everything you read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If your interesting enough and genuine then the couples that say no single guys will often reach out to you.

Blocking single guys just makes the search easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spare a thought for the single guys over 99. Impossible for them to meet anyone on this site.

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

There are indeed a good number of genuine nice guys here, but it’s a LOT of work and a good stroke of luck to meet them.

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By *xperimental CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Fab


"Spare a thought for the single guys over 99. Impossible for them to meet anyone on this site. "

Lmao

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By *irvana999Man
over a year ago

city

Ye it is more difficult to find someone on this while single ,but I would stick to polite, normal ,respectful msgs, and at some point ,I'm sure you will be noticed over the shallow, and the rude

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I am totally fed up of some of the Gay men on here who can't read for some reason. Like just because I'm in your area on a given day doesn't mean I suddenly am going to change my sexuality and let you suck my dick. Christ like "

It's not just gay men who don't read. I currently have 145 unopened meet requests in my inbox, despite the fact that my profile text basically just says 'not meeting' over and over again.

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

Perfect example, a guy messaged up FROM THIS THREAD completely ignoring the very simple preferences on your profile - he gets added to the do not invite to parties list. A guy I would have been happy to fuck at a party had we met there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perfect example, a guy messaged up FROM THIS THREAD completely ignoring the very simple preferences on your profile - he gets added to the do not invite to parties list. A guy I would have been happy to fuck at a party had we met there!"

You know what the say about people who drink black coffee?

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

I've seen couples profiles where they list men in their preferences for who they want to meet but have also ticked not looking for single guys. Any idea what this means?

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I've seen couples profiles where they list men in their preferences for who they want to meet but have also ticked not looking for single guys. Any idea what this means? "

They may have ticked not looking for women or couples too... I do this regularly to block all mail when I'm too busy with other things, it's just to tick or untick a few boxes when you want a break than to keep updating your profile text.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London


"I've seen couples profiles where they list men in their preferences for who they want to meet but have also ticked not looking for single guys. Any idea what this means?

They may have ticked not looking for women or couples too... I do this regularly to block all mail when I'm too busy with other things, it's just to tick or untick a few boxes when you want a break than to keep updating your profile text. "

I get that..it makes sense, but would you not just untick the men box too?

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I am single , i don't annoy anyone with emails but still have meets... Not sure what this post is about.... It seems i have a completely different experience with Fab

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"I am single , i don't annoy anyone with emails but still have meets... Not sure what this post is about.... It seems i have a completely different experience with Fab "

Yeah but in fairness Slappy you're around a few years now and well established... You don't even need to try any more. Remember what it was like at first though?

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I do.. But i also know i was doing everything wrong...so still... What's the point

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By *inale.xMan
over a year ago

Portadown

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By *inale.xMan
over a year ago

Portadown


"I'm on plenty of block lists...

But only of people who I haven't met strangely enough. Many girls will block you as soon as you have sent a single message rather than respond.

Others, such as _ortadowncpl block because you've pulled out of a meet. Their choice really.

Yup, although I see you continue to messege my personal profile so you are obviously still keen to meet..."

Hey, yes absolutely!

I am actually a nice, pleasant, professional guy. Unfortunately the latter meant I couldn't meet up last year as planned.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

I've had couples that have "not looking for single males" on their profile, but have looked profile many times, one couple did this about 15 times in one week. I sent em a message which went unread... I've since blocked them.

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By *angtasticallyMan
over a year ago

Drogheda


"It's hardly surprising, we're at the point where we will very rarely meet a single guy even socially, in our experience, the most reliable, drama-free males tend to be the male half of a swinging couple who are meeting with their partners knowledge. "
that 100 percent true I like the idea of swinging with another couple totally drama free both ive experience drama couples so it kinda both but I do.understand what your say

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