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By *j47 OP   Man
over a year ago

limerick

Theres a few threads suggesting that a few ruin it for others

No body trough actions or words fecks up fab for others other than your self.

Treating people with respect and mannors will get u a generally accepted entry level of respect which is a good starting point for anybody male,female or couple build upon

Realistic rules of engagment help both parties to get the best from the site

Hosts placing trust in their choice of people attending parties has worked for so many here also building redundancy into numbers is best adivsed. Charging one group to subdise others under the guise of a way to control numbers is never a fair and equal way to doing things

Demanding face pics with a first mail shows no respect or regard for others privacey so how do u expect the same in return

Simple things like filters,gut feelings,checking veris and chatting will give u a good idea of a person and that may not need a lot of what is called text tennis its amazing in a simple few mails how u get a grasp of some one and then feel secure enough to send a pic or set up a meet play or coffee.

Dont forget boys and girls its the same as meeting some one in a pub u dont jump an and ask for a ride or to show me the size of ur wallet you do t hd dance all be it a bit more flirtious dance on here

Happy fabbing remember all u get out of fab is what u put in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have been thinking the same myself for awhile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will always be those who blame everyone but themselves for whatever they feel is wrong with their lives.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Have been thinking the same myself for awhile. "

Couldnt have said it better op!, but just a little more patience needed than the dance floor

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

It’s a game of numbers, there are WAY more single men here than any other demographic so for parties where there is a high demand for a small number of tickets charging single men more makes good sense, especially if it leads to more single women attending. It could be taken further than that even, single women could drink for free etc.

If four out of five single men are a waste of time here (and you’ll admit it’s at least that) can you blame couples for being sceptical and asking for a face pic in the first messege? If they say no it’s easy to just block and find someone else, there certainly is no shortage as bad as that sounds.

Out of 100 men who get in touch there will be if we are lucky, two guys worth speaking to, who have read our profile and status and fit into what we are looking for.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"Theres a few threads suggesting that a few ruin it for others

No body trough actions or words fecks up fab for others other than your self.

Treating people with respect and mannors will get u a generally accepted entry level of respect which is a good starting point for anybody male,female or couple build upon

Realistic rules of engagment help both parties to get the best from the site

Hosts placing trust in their choice of people attending parties has worked for so many here also building redundancy into numbers is best adivsed. Charging one group to subdise others under the guise of a way to control numbers is never a fair and equal way to doing things

Demanding face pics with a first mail shows no respect or regard for others privacey so how do u expect the same in return

Simple things like filters,gut feelings,checking veris and chatting will give u a good idea of a person and that may not need a lot of what is called text tennis its amazing in a simple few mails how u get a grasp of some one and then feel secure enough to send a pic or set up a meet play or coffee.

Dont forget boys and girls its the same as meeting some one in a pub u dont jump an and ask for a ride or to show me the size of ur wallet you do t hd dance all be it a bit more flirtious dance on here

Happy fabbing remember all u get out of fab is what u put in "

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This whole thing of guys saying...

"Other guys fecking it up for us nice guys" by men with few, if any veris is simply a convenient excuse as to why they themselves are not getting meets...

..and is just a pitiful attempt to get attention on the forums as well

Other strategies like "Rate/help me with my profile" or "Can't get a meet" where the profile has 5 words and a cock pic in it is sad, sad, sad...

So, the sooner certain men on Fab decide to get their act together and raise the bar by a good profile, pics and ice breaker, the more meets and fun that can be had on FAB by everyone

..So, time to man up whingers!

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By *j47 OP   Man
over a year ago

limerick


"It’s a game of numbers, there are WAY more single men here than any other demographic so for parties where there is a high demand for a small number of tickets charging single men more makes good sense, especially if it leads to more single women attending. It could be taken further than that even, single women could drink for free etc.

If four out of five single men are a waste of time here (and you’ll admit it’s at least that) can you blame couples for being sceptical and asking for a face pic in the first messege? If they say no it’s easy to just block and find someone else, there certainly is no shortage as bad as that sounds.

Out of 100 men who get in touch there will be if we are lucky, two guys worth speaking to, who have read our profile and status and fit into what we are looking for."

I get that its a numbers game but they are stil human beings and deserve a level of respect that u would afford any person u happen upon walking down the street in portadown

If we are going to treat people as comidities why not take the most highly prised comidity here both single women and unicorns and admit them free to all events and share the cost across the board between single guys, couples and gay women. Charge them equally per head to attend such events where these prised comidities may be present and equaly penelise them for no shows isnt that as fair a system as any

The 2% rule is the same for cpls, females and discerening guys alike i am afraid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s a game of numbers, there are WAY more single men here than any other demographic so for parties where there is a high demand for a small number of tickets charging single men more makes good sense, especially if it leads to more single women attending. It could be taken further than that even, single women could drink for free etc.

If four out of five single men are a waste of time here (and you’ll admit it’s at least that) can you blame couples for being sceptical and asking for a face pic in the first messege? If they say no it’s easy to just block and find someone else, there certainly is no shortage as bad as that sounds.

Out of 100 men who get in touch there will be if we are lucky, two guys worth speaking to, who have read our profile and status and fit into what we are looking for."

I have found 8 out of 10 couples are a complete waste of time on here. I say 8 as I have met 2 couples who were actually genuine

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim

I understand the logic

And have had a lot of guys talk the talk and then disappear

To our cost

Have had group meets where everyone chips in cost and rightly so

But would not be comfortable asking for money before an event

Cuz Ur single

Just my taughts

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Be nice to them if they will have sex with you, otherwise there is no need.

I feel that is the best approach on here.

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