FabSwingers.com forum: First time toy ideas

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Any suggestions what to buy for a lady who is interested in trying toys but doesn’t know what she wants

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any suggestions what to buy for a lady who is interested in trying toys but doesn’t know what she wants "

Find a cool online shop and both of you go through it together.. The fun starts from there before you even choose

.. Plus get one that goes from 0 to 10 speed wise.. Most have 1 speed diff patterns.. Which can be bit hard n heavy at start I'm told lol.. So twisty top variable n watch her give in

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

G Kiss is a small, not very large vibe that only inserts about 2inch to the G spot and has lips for clit stimulation.

Least "scary" toy I know and has good results.

For just clit stimulation, hard to beat a wand. Buy the mains powered one and she'll be happy out but it does look kinda big.

The small AAA battery bullet is the basic starting point if she's a little nervous.

There's lots more to discuss but best if you get other ladies opinions too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remote control love egg best toy I have

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Remote control love egg best toy I have"

Doesn't give you orgasm though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remote control love egg best toy I have

Doesn't give you orgasm though?"

Nope but either do men lol

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Remote control love egg best toy I have

Doesn't give you orgasm though?

Nope but either do men lol"

Just clarifying for OP.

Still, shame but glad you're enjoying it

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

"Remote control love egg best toy I have

Doesn't give you orgasm though?

Nope but either do men lol

Just clarifying for OP.

Still, shame but glad you're enjoying it

Shame is wrong word. Annoying perhaps

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Remote control love egg best toy I have

Doesn't give you orgasm though?

Nope but either do men lol

Just clarifying for OP.

Still, shame but glad you're enjoying it

Still reckon for a first toy it's great. Have a wand and it's bulky and awkward, never use it.

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By *inkycouplehereCouple
over a year ago

belfast

Hitachi wand or similar

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

Bullet vibrator. It was my first toy and it definitely did its job.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

An anal hook

mmmmmmmmmmm

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By *outh_of_EdenMan
over a year ago

visiting

"Any suggestions what to buy for a lady who is interested in trying toys but doesn’t know what she wants "

By far the most used one we have is the Yarosi Cordless Curved Therapeutic Device. Its a "back Massager", great for her and you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"An anal hook

mmmmmmmmmmm"

Wands are class

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By *ig Red300Woman
over a year ago

limerick

"An anal hook

mmmmmmmmmmm"

Looooolll great ‘first ‘ toy

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

It depends what you want to try...as a first toy I would recommend a clit stimulator, either a clit vibrator:

https://s.click.aliexpress.com/e/boMU9sgY

Or a womanizer:

https://s.click.aliexpress.com/e/cjQ0TuF

If thinking about a wand.. Then this one:

https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B07BN5SJPV?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title

Anal hook is a bit advanced... But if someone wants to try them, i have a couple of them

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Careful with a wand.. you can desensitise your clit and then it makes it really difficult to cum without it..

I find them painful and prefer something more subtle..

As for what to buy, a bullet vibe is small and non threatening... a good place to start that can be used during penetration easily.

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By *ewby 7Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Careful with a wand.. you can desensitise your clit and then it makes it really difficult to cum without it.. "

Agree, very addictive!

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

A small bullet for the clit to get going. A glass dildo can be amazing. You can hear it up in warm water or put in cold water or freezer to make it cold.

Other than that LEGO will keep you amused for hours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hitachi wand or similar "

100% agree, fun for both is you know how to use it right. Dee has made men cum with in less then 2 minutes

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Wands are great. You don't have to spend a fortune on one either. I have 2 top of the line mains powered wands (Hitachi & Doxy) that cost over €100 each and a battery operated 3-speed mini wand that cost me a fiver on sale from LoveHoney.... I use the mini one more often than any of my other toys!!

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"Remote control love egg best toy I have

Doesn't give you orgasm though?

Nope but either do men lol"

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By *affa31Woman
over a year ago

Galway

In my opinion a wand would make a newbie to toys run a mile. They’re very high powered and for me, way too strong.

If it was me I’d try a simple clit or gspot vibe.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"In my opinion a wand would make a newbie to toys run a mile. They’re very high powered and for me, way too strong.

If it was me I’d try a simple clit or gspot vibe."

Yes Wands are a bit scary for a first time toy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are pussy pumps any good? Do they increase sensitivity?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Remote control love egg best toy I have

Doesn't give you orgasm though?

Nope but either do men lol

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Couldn't resist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are pussy pumps any good? Do they increase sensitivity?"

Absolute rubbish. Waste of money I found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are pussy pumps any good? Do they increase sensitivity?

Absolute rubbish. Waste of money I found "

Good to know. I bought mrs m a wee clit vibe and she loved it lol....i loved playing with her clit.

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By *cottybear74Man
over a year ago

kilkenny

"Remote control love egg best toy I have"

But who do you give control too??? Batman?

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Buy something that you can both use together

The vibrating cock ring with 5 speeds from L/H is a great start!

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Look at those...

https://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/aw/d/B07BN5SJPV?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title

https://s.click.aliexpress.com/e/cjQ0TuFm

https://s.click.aliexpress.com/e/boMU9sgY

They are good start...and they have been all proven to be good

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By *arbiegirl19Woman
over a year ago

Hollymount

Ann summer has starter kits...

A little bit of every thing in it..

U sld have a look on that

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By *ewby 7Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I bought my wand from Aliexpress, shop called Luvkis and I really love it! It's about 30 euro together with small bullet, and fast free delivery

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By *eankaren88Couple
over a year ago

By the sea

Go straight for the big boy.

Sybian or the cow girl

Although if you do. You will be surplus to requirements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lovense toys u can get male snd female.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wands are great and all but I wouldn't get one as a first toy and I wouldn't use mine all the time. Nice small non Intimidating rabbit or a wee bullet is a good start. Depends on what works best to make you cum though.

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