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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you are at a cross road in your life and you dont know what you want. What do you do to help you make decisions?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow ur gut feeling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talk it out with someone I trust - then do what I wanted to do in the first place!!

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

South Side.


"When you are at a cross road in your life and you dont know what you want. What do you do to help you make decisions? "

Walk the Camino. It's a great way to clear the mind and slow everything down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are at a cross road in your life and you dont know what you want. What do you do to help you make decisions?

Walk the Camino. It's a great way to clear the mind and slow everything down. "

Agree I done it previous and it really does make you focus on what you want and clears the head

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By *ussieGMan
over a year ago

Ireland

Always consider what’s best for YOU , sometimes we get tangled up worried about others . Be true to yourself ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Walk and think it out in the rain. Clears the head.

Then get to talk to those close to you.

*rain not essential.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask the magic 8 ball or flip a coin. or main one is follow your gut instinct...

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

Have mind blowing sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go with your gut and do what's best for you not other's.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get naked and dance

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West


"When you are at a cross road in your life and you dont know what you want. What do you do to help you make decisions? "

Don't go with the way the wind is blowing because it could put you in the wrong direction..Stay with the flow and you'll be fine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you are at a cross road in your life and you dont know what you want. What do you do to help you make decisions? "

Sometimes, people say flip a a coin, and while the coin is in the air, you know what way you want the coin to land, and somewhat make the decision before it lands.......that depending on how serious the decision is, flipping a coin might not be the vest option

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Have mind blowing sex "

Best Fab answer

Reality?

Make a list of pro's and con's of each, then decide.

Take 24hrs to make the list because you will think of stuff to add to either as you're going about your day.

Never make a major decision without doing this.

Then, once decided, go fully into your decision, don't look back and do NOT do the What If scenario crap afterwards.

It usually works out in the end

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have mind blowing sex

Best Fab answer

Reality?

Make a list of pro's and con's of each, then decide.

Take 24hrs to make the list because you will think of stuff to add to either as you're going about your day.

Never make a major decision without doing this.

Then, once decided, go fully into your decision, don't look back and do NOT do the What If scenario crap afterwards.

It usually works out in the end "

My life is full of what ifs right now. And I know I need to let that all go and start again. I am happy in my life I just dont know ia it enough

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you are at a cross road in your life and you dont know what you want. What do you do to help you make decisions?

Sometimes, people say flip a a coin, and while the coin is in the air, you know what way you want the coin to land, and somewhat make the decision before it lands.......that depending on how serious the decision is, flipping a coin might not be the vest option"

I dont think mine is a flipping coin situation. I have mad many stupid choices of flipping coins

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Get naked and dance "

That's every tuesday night and the odd Saturday

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Have mind blowing sex

Best Fab answer

Reality?

Make a list of pro's and con's of each, then decide.

Take 24hrs to make the list because you will think of stuff to add to either as you're going about your day.

Never make a major decision without doing this.

Then, once decided, go fully into your decision, don't look back and do NOT do the What If scenario crap afterwards.

It usually works out in the end

My life is full of what ifs right now. And I know I need to let that all go and start again. I am happy in my life I just dont know ia it enough "

You are happy but you don't know if it's enough?

If you are genuinely happy, then yes it is.

If you are kinda happy but think you're not completely fulfilled and fulfilling your potential, then it's clear.

Decide where you want to reach, that high point of your goals.

Map out what you need to do to get there, the steps it will take, how you will achieve them, what you'll have to give up to get there, what you'll have because you did get there and then plan how long you want to take to do it.

If it's more than two years then the plan doesn't need too many specifics beyond year one but revisit 3ach year and map out the next 12mths.

Hang on!

Should I be charging for this life coaching?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get some paper and a pen

Write down at the top what the issue is or whatever it is you are thinking about

It might not be entirely appropriate but then write down further additional issues

Then possible courses of action

Pro’s and Cons

A timescale

Maybe chat to a very close friend if you feel you can do so who will give an impartial analysis . Sometimes when you are wedded to or are close to an issue it can be difficult to see a way forward. Two minds are better than one.

Make an interim decision and see how it goes. But don’t do nothing. Life’s too short

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