FabSwingers.com forum: Swinky Social Showcase

By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

So, we are finally getting around to our event and how best to hold it regarding invites.This will be a FREE / NO COST Social event like a meet and greet or a munch in that there will be NO PLAY of any kind at it. This event is to showcase our new venue close to Heuston Station to people and to get feedback on it.

This event will be open to everyone but will be strictly limited to 100 people on the night. Obviously we would like to strike a nice balance between Females,Males and couples so we have come up with the following to accomplish this.

Females and couples can apply here for invites for this event

Registering for this event FOR SINGLE MEN will have to be made in person on one of 3 evenings starting Monday the 12th of August. Applications will be taken here for interested people who will then pick the evening of there choice from the Monday,Tuesday or Wednesday evening from 7-9pm to register in person at a specific location close to Heuston Station / Guinness brewery for the Social which will be held on Friday the 16th of August.

The reason for this is there is a huge amount of men wanting to come to this event but there is no point holding an event which is just full of men so this approach is to quickly sort out time wasters and non genuine people while giving everyone the chance to get an invite.We will be holding more and more events in the coming months so we want to build a good database of genuine people who will get invites to these.

We could just issue a fee and sell tickets through one of the event hosting pay sites but we want to keep the first event free.If this approach doesn't work we will learn from it and adopt a different approach for the next event.

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By *nthony18Man
over a year ago

Ireland

Id like to apply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like alot of fun

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

We are trying to make a venue which is safe, private and lots of fun so we want to build a database of genuine people who will get invites in the future. We will be showing the venue and taking feedback from people about how to make the venue better for this community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi folks sounds like a lot of effort being put into this event. I'd like to be considered for an invite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds like fun and a good plan to register people before they attend actual events, but those dates really do limit people who are outside Dublin. finding the time head to Dublin midweek and then again to stay overnight at the weekend would tax anyone's schedule.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Unfortunately for men outside of Dublin that is an issue but we can’t please everyone and we are only issuing 100 invites in total.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Unfortunately for men outside of Dublin that is an issue but we can’t please everyone and we are only issuing 100 invites in total. "

It sounds like you're putting a lot of effort into this and I hope it works out. I'll just have to wait try and register next time round.

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By *jdubliMan
over a year ago

Perth

I’d like to apply

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

"Unfortunately for men outside of Dublin that is an issue but we can’t please everyone and we are only issuing 100 invites in total.

It sounds like you're putting a lot of effort into this and I hope it works out. I'll just have to wait try and register next time round. "

Thank you very much.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Message sent to you.

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By *ubcouple35Couple
over a year ago

North Dublin

We'd love an invite if theres space

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

"We'd love an invite if theres space

Message sent.

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By *eare_ENVYCouple
over a year ago

City Centre

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

And we would love to have you. I’ll message you privately now.

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By *hicotime123Man
over a year ago

dublin

Can u add me please I’ll defo be there thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to go

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By *ynn3someCouple
over a year ago

kilkenny

Sounds like fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds great..

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Thabks guys, private mails sent out with details how to attend.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thabks guys, private mails sent out with details how to attend. "
I would love to attend

seems to be a great event ??

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

We’ve sent you the details.

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By *aster of SeductionMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Count me in please

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Details sent to you.

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

Fair play OP 10 out of 10 for organisation

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

Hi, I'm interested in attending the event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Count me in

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

We will be there. Looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi swinky i would love to attened.

I think its a great idea for everyone as it will stop the no shows that give us a bad name

I am in galway but it will be no problem for me to meet you face to face so you can decide if you will invite me.

Hope to hear from you have z great day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ps do we privite message you

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

"Fair play OP 10 out of 10 for organisation "

Thank you guys. Are you interested in coming on Friday the 16th?

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By *eelum1988Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I would like to attend if any place left for a single guy..

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By *eltic CplCouple
over a year ago

Kildare

"Fair play OP 10 out of 10 for organisation

Thank you guys. Are you interested in coming on Friday the 16th?"

Hi guys thanks for the offer but we cannot commit 100% so wouldn't look for an invite only to pull out closer to the day , nothing more frustrating , but best of luck and we will try make it to one of your next events.

D and M x

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By *lut_masterCouple
over a year ago

slut_haven

Hi Guys

We are interested. What do we need to do

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Replies have been sent privately. Couples and females can put their names down even if they aren’t 100% sure of attending . It’s only single males who have to come register in person before the event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be interested guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Chaps would love an invite please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to be invited

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Replies sent privately to you guys.

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By *eelum1988Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I would like to attend...

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By *eon SaintsCouple
over a year ago

Citywest

Hey guys, sounds great! We’d love to attend if you’ve room for us

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By *iceguydubMan
over a year ago

Hi guys sounds like yous are laying the foundations for something there is a demand for & long over due, I would like to be a part of this

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Private mails sent.

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By *assionfruitfunCouple
over a year ago

Dublin

This event sounds great guys!

We would love to attend in future but sadly we are out of the country on your dates.

Good luck with it! Hope you all have a fun night. Xx

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Thank you very much for your kind words. We hope to welcome you to one of our future events soon.

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By *rish HorseMan
over a year ago

Newry / Armagh

Great idea fair play for putting so much effort in. Genuinely hope it works out for you. Could I apply please ??

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Private mail sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi guys

I’d be interested in applying.

Jay

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By *ally32Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Hi .. I would love to apply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I missed the Forum losts about the singles registration nite...will there be another registration nite, as I am interested in a Dublin based venue for socials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d like to apply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congrats on the new venue. Hope its a great success and well done to ye

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By *upidsbowkissWoman
over a year ago

City Center

Best of luck you guys

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Thank you folks. The guest list is building nicely with a good balance so far. We’d love to have more single females join us. There will be plenty of men and couples coming.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like to apply, if you are still looking for single men.

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By *hePleasurePrincipalMan
over a year ago

antrim and derry

Please send info..sounds good and good luck

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Private messages sent guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to join

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Private message sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would like an invite thank you... Jacky & Paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks for the email looking forward to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love invite if places still available if not wish yous all the best anyways

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By *erek666Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I'd like apply

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By *ally32Man
over a year ago

Dublin

An answer would be nice ...

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By *exyman1965Man
over a year ago

Lucan

Im interested in a invite

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

"We would like an invite thank you... Jacky & Paul

Pm us for invite.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

"Would love invite if places still available if not wish yous all the best anyways "

Your profile is hidden ?

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

"An answer would be nice ..."

Thanks but no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to apply. Please PM ASAP

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Reply sent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would like to join you all

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By *addubMan
over a year ago

dublin. 12

I"d like to apply please.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to join

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Replies sent.

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By *exyhotdubclpCouple
over a year ago

dublin

we would love to go please put us down thanks

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Replies sent.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Invites are going fast. We have a lot of couples coming , a regulated amount of single males who will be vetted before the event.

Where are all the single girls ? We have space for some more females. Come see our new venue in a comfortable, safe, fun environment where your safety, privacy and a fun experience is our primary concern.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Up the Dubs !! Great win today.

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By *adeenoMan
over a year ago

Athlone

I would love to be considered if there are any invites left...great idea!

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre

Fair play guys, hope this comes round again

Would definitely be interested for the next one

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Thank you. This is just our first event to show off the new venue. There will be more events after this one.

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By *witchcarlosccsMan
over a year ago

dublin

Good Morning I have a few days waiting for answer and nothing yet

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

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By *exysam and StuartCouple
over a year ago

over the hills and far away

Best of luck to you guys on this new venture. We won't be able to make your first event but hopefully we will get an invite for future dates x

S&S x

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Thank you very much for the kind words. We hope you can make it to one of our events soon.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Invites for couples are going out now. Make sure to get yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi mate, I would like to attend the party. Could you please send me the location in order to register. Cheers!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How to apply?

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

Sounds awesome guys best of luck it

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Replies sent.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Places for single males almost full.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Swinky social showcase is filling up nicely. We have mostly couples as they are our focus. Single male spaces are nearly full but we have some spaces for single females. Contact us for invites.

The list of attendees will be posted here this evening to give people an idea of who is attending.

Swinky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks to be a good night looking forward to it

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Thank you RG2019 we look forward to seeing you.

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By *xxannaWoman
over a year ago

Bray

This sounds like a brilliant new venture, I'd like an invite if there's still single lady places also would you have one for my lady friend Loves2_BBW.

We've also got a couples profile JR Rides Again. Looking forward to hearing from you.

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By *arewell HornyhootersWoman
over a year ago

South Donegal

"This sounds like a brilliant new venture, I'd like an invite if there's still single lady places also would you have one for my lady friend Loves2_BBW.

We've also got a couples profile JR Rides Again. Looking forward to hearing from you. "

What Anna said

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

You girls are both in the guest list. We look forward to having you to our event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi guys, if there is any space left for a single male I'd take an invite please.

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By *1tommy01Man
over a year ago

around donegal/derry

Would love to attend, but like a previous post, I live outside of Dublin so will try for another time. Good luck with this venture and hopefully catch up sometime soon.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Just to clarify. Attendees will not be published. We have assessed the privacy risk and decided against publishing it.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

So, we are limiting the single men on the night and even after giving 2 guys a shot at pre-registering they fail to turn up. We do love timewasters. Luckily the other 10 showed up and they are in. Timewasters are just blocked.

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By *anoloXXXMan
over a year ago

dublin

"So, we are limiting the single men on the night and even after giving 2 guys a shot at pre-registering they fail to turn up. We do love timewasters. Luckily the other 10 showed up and they are in. Timewasters are just blocked."

I'll take one empty slot and i will not let you down i promise

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By *ubyRidesAgainWoman
over a year ago

RebelRoad

This sounds like it could be fun! Love to go, hope dates might suit me....

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Still a few places left for couples and females.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

This event is now full for single males. If we get any cancellations we will advertise again for single males.

Swinky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Still a few places left for couples and females. "

We did message you but no reply!!

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

New forum post will be up shortly for single men who would like to attend our events.

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking forward to it

(vikingandqueen)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can I have an invite please?

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By *hicotime123Man
over a year ago

dublin

I wanna attend swinky but you blocked me for some reason

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By *ightower353Man
over a year ago

Dublin

In fairness I was invited to the male screening or whatever I totally forgot about it. they did send me a message but when I went to reply I was blocked. I wouldn’t mind they were doing other days I would have attended.

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By *ortadowncplCouple
over a year ago

Portadown

"In fairness I was invited to the male screening or whatever I totally forgot about it. they did send me a message but when I went to reply I was blocked. I wouldn’t mind they were doing other days I would have attended. "

Or maybe you would have forgotten again? I completely understand them blocking you, it’s not personal - nobody has time for people who forget to show up for an appointment

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim

Was there not more than one guy

Showing up if you wanted that long

Taught u had others also

Cue the tumble

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

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Waiting that long

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

So hundreds of men wanted a feee invite. We gave you one provided you came to meet us. You picked the day and time. You then forgot, left us sitting there for 2 hours without bothering to inform us. And then you want another day that suits you and you might remember to come to that ?? Really ??

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Yes there was supposed to be 10 men. 2 showed up.

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim

Definitely a tumble situation

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By *.ledgeMan
over a year ago

dublin.

Hope it goes really well. Would love to attend future events. Best of luck.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

Thanks Mr Med.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got my ticket shall see you there Friday

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

We look forward to welcoming you

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

"Was there not more than one guy

Showing up if you wanted that long

Taught u had others also

Cue the tumble

Yes. The same way we sat and waited for you when you attended one of our events many years ago. And there were men that didn’t show that day too. You did though.

Swinky.

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By *ightower353Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I did not say it was your fault to block me what so ever it was totally my fault in forgetting I got my dates mixed up & I do apologize for wasting your time but you gave me 3 options of times I picked the middle one thinking I wasn’t going to be the last one. What I’m trying to say is I felt harshly blocked without be able to apologize for not showing up due to forgetfulness and I would have tried to follow up on the second or third date you offered me but I was blocked

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

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Don't remember you waiting for me as it was me booked the hotel so how you worked that out

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

We will accept your apology here. We don’t have time to run around after every person who lets us down so easiest way is to block and move on. It’s not personal. It’s just easier for us.

Swinky.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

" Don't remember you waiting for me as it was me booked the hotel so how you worked that out "

You as in one of the men attending. You were there before us and then we had to wait for the rest of the men to show up.

Swinky.

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

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No you implied you sat and waited for me not others read your text

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve met Hightower on a few occasions and he’s been to vanilla too although he was a dose on this occasion he’s usually reliable enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never been to an avent like this before I will be attending by myself Friday hopefully I will get a warm welcome

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

"No you implied you sat and waited for me not others read your text "

Not our intention.

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

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Cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between this & another forum post on the Swinky event I sick & tired reading about it ... who is going, who can go, who can't, who is blocked...all 1st world problems...as the GAA would say a "scamouzle, handbags at dawn"

Go if you want but don't get all upset because your not invited ... as with everything " management recuse the right " ... build a bridge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go if you want but don't get all upset because your not invited ... as with everything " management recuse the right " ... build a bridge

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

"Between this & another forum post on the Swinky event I sick & tired reading about it ... who is going, who can go, who can't, who is blocked...all 1st world problems...as the GAA would say a "scamouzle, handbags at dawn"

Go if you want but don't get all upset because your not invited ... as with everything " management recuse the right " ... build a bridge

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

"Ive never been to an avent like this before I will be attending by myself Friday hopefully I will get a warm welcome "

Yes you will get a warm welcome. We will guarantee that.

Swinky

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By *addubMan
over a year ago

dublin. 12

Hi swinky is my invite in the post ?

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By *ay_DubMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Hey! I see there is a gathering this weekend, I’d love to attend if possible? Let me know the details or if I could be invited

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go if you want but don't get all upset because your not invited ... as with everything " management recuse the right " ... build a bridge

Didn't you "buy" your attendance?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi, we’d love to attend...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit touchie in here. I do hope the party will be touchie lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey I’m only new to this site and have been verified from 2 people... would love to try an event like this so if there are any spaces left I’d be very interested thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's a bit touchie in here. I do hope the party will be touchie lol

Hands off it's a showcase to show a new venue don't you know

Best of luck with it guys, looking forward to seeing the venue and mingling with some fellow fabbers

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By *ally32Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Yesterday I worked until 7 pm ...and I couldn't show up But today I've buy the ticket ... I'll be there tomorrow

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By *arragh33Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Really looking forward to attending this social event with my friend from Fab tonight.

If anyone on this site is coming along tonight feel free to send me a message...

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By *jdubliMan
over a year ago

Perth

Let’s do tonight guys xxx

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

We look forward to welcoming everyone who is on the guest list or has a ticket.

Swinky

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By *heFoxersCouple
over a year ago

FoxTown

Must say went to the event tonight, there was a nice mix of people there. Venue was cheerful and the bar staff friendly. Talked Mr Swinky who was a very upbeat. We are looking forward to going again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Must say went to the event tonight, there was a nice mix of people there. Venue was cheerful and the bar staff friendly. Talked Mr Swinky who was a very upbeat. We are looking forward to going again."

Sounds like you guys had a great evening and you'll get your first verification on here after a year ... Good on you guys

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By *ubcouple35Couple
over a year ago

North Dublin

We were at last nights social event held by Swinky.

The night did not go to plan with the amount of people who turned up was a bit of a let down which I'm sure Mr Swinky will be first to admit. There where some issues that we had a chance to ask Mr Swinky about and one of them was charging single guys for entry and he agreed that it should be done on a deposit basis in the future .

That said maybe he should have charged the couples as most of them didn't bother turning up and most if not all the single guys turned up which was refreshing .

As for the venue we see in the forums alot people looking for the best bars in dublin for meeting swingers, well this could potentially be a brilliant venue for Dublin first alternative life style bar. The place is very big and could easily hold 250-300+ .

We've all been to socials were the venue is too small and there is no room to move and the music is so loud you cant even chat to people properly and it can be hard to distinguish who is part of the social and who isn't.

This venue is a proper full bar with it's own entrance with it's own security on the door to ensure privacy and discretion for all.

Although the night was not a roaring success anyone organizing any social or party events should be encouraged and not shot down or to be taken cheap shots at . We are a small community and we are all here for the same reasons so lighten up and just have some fun people.

We are looking forward to the next event you organise OP .

R&Pxx

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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago

city centre

"We were at last nights social event held by Swinky.

That said maybe he should have charged the couples as most of them didn't bother turning up and most if not all the single guys turned up which was refreshing .

This venue is a proper full bar with it's own entrance with it's own security on the door to ensure privacy and discretion for all.

We are looking forward to the next event you organise OP .

R&Pxx "

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By *on11Man
over a year ago

cork

"We were at last nights social event held by Swinky.

That said maybe he should have charged the couples as most of them didn't bother turning up and most if not all the single guys turned up which was refreshing .

This venue is a proper full bar with it's own entrance with it's own security on the door to ensure privacy and discretion for all.

We are looking forward to the next event you organise OP .

R&Pxx "

Thanks for the update.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"We were at last nights social event held by Swinky.

That said maybe he should have charged the couples as most of them didn't bother turning up and most if not all the single guys turned up which was refreshing .

This venue is a proper full bar with it's own entrance with it's own security on the door to ensure privacy and discretion for all.

We are looking forward to the next event you organise OP .

R&Pxx "

Great to see that the venue may turn out to be all that the op said it can be and disapointing to hear it wasnt as well attended by those that had free entry. With regard to cheap shots i think if u read back u will see that people only asked reasonable questions of the op with regard to posts they put up me with regard to single guys only be charged. Which the op has said he change after the event to me it wasnt the right thing to do but its his club his rules

Others asked clarfication on the mix of people in the venue it self and about publishing the ticket adress as it was quiet easy for the location of the showcase to be found out

Goinv forward I hope the op's new venue enjoys great popularty and wish the hosts well in their new venture

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By *ubcouple35Couple
over a year ago

North Dublin

"We were at last nights social event held by Swinky.

That said maybe he should have charged the couples as most of them didn't bother turning up and most if not all the single guys turned up which was refreshing .

This venue is a proper full bar with it's own entrance with it's own security on the door to ensure privacy and discretion for all.

We are looking forward to the next event you organise OP .

R&Pxx

Others asked clarfication on the mix of people in the venue it self and about publishing the ticket adress as it was quiet easy for the location of the showcase to be found out

Goinv forward I hope the op's new venue enjoys great popularty and wish the hosts well in their new venture

Yes but all of those questions were answered multiple times and yet people where still asking the same questions. This is the first of it's kind so obviously there are going to be teething problems but some people just concentrate and focus on the negatives instead of seeing the bigger picture of how good this could be for everyone .

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By *aptorman160Man
over a year ago

navan

Hi guys I’m interested. I was messaging ye already I’ll stay tuned chat soon

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By *aid backMan
over a year ago

by a lake with my rod out

Every venture has teething problems and each one gets better.

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By *V8-Dublin OP Couple
over a year ago

City Centre

"We were at last nights social event held by Swinky.

That said maybe he should have charged the couples as most of them didn't bother turning up and most if not all the single guys turned up which was refreshing .

This venue is a proper full bar with it's own entrance with it's own security on the door to ensure privacy and discretion for all.

We are looking forward to the next event you organise OP .

R&Pxx "

Thank you guys for the kind words and thank you to all who came last night. This was my first crack at holding an event and i acknowledge that mistakes were made, i didn’t explain this profile or the event to people properly and there was a lot of confusion. I will work to rectify this and to change the things that need to be changed. My primary mission was to show the venue to people because if i didn’t act quickly the venue might be lost to this community and used for other purposes.

I will rewrite the Swinky profile to clarify who we are and what we are trying to do. Swinky is primarily run by one man who has a singles profile on here so the pics will overlap with that. As do the verifications. And I will tell anyone who asks me privately who I am. It is setup as a couples profile because when I set it up years ago I was part of a couple so didn’t change that now as if I did it would limit me to the pics I can put up as a single male. I do have a few regular play partners who will appear in the pics so that will explain the different girls. One of which was present last night although she is not on fab but another site. I also have back up from another person who is on the scene a while but that’s in an advisory role primarily.

I got some amazing feedback on the night from the people we talked to and i will work to make the changes necessary to make events like these better. While the turnout was lower than I might have hoped for i hope that this will build in time. A wise man told me that to do great things it just takes a small group of committed people to get it started. I will try to learn from our shortcomings and make the whole experience better for everyone in the future.

Thanks again to the people i talked to last night, you guys gave me the belief to go forward with this.

Swinky

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

At last someone who sees It a constructive criticism. That's how we learn and progress.....through our mistakes. Gooduck Swinky & Co.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were at last nights social event held by Swinky.

That said maybe he should have charged the couples as most of them didn't bother turning up and most if not all the single guys turned up which was refreshing .

This venue is a proper full bar with it's own entrance with it's own security on the door to ensure privacy and discretion for all.

We are looking forward to the next event you organise OP .

R&Pxx

Thanks again to the people i talked to last night, you guys gave me the belief to go forward with this.

Swinky "

Single guy with a couple's profile??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'it is unfortunate that some couples with a "following" decided not to attend & let their followers know they were not attending..the followers then also decided not to attend.'

A bit catty and passing the blame. If it wasn't a success don't say it was the fault of people who didn't go.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I can understand why some people had last minute reservations. Late changes can only really be done by established venues.

It's good to hear the venue and event was as described and that reservations were largely unfounded.

I have no links to the swinky event, id, users, and didn't attend. But it seems obvious they are trying to start a new event.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'it is unfortunate that some couples with a "following" decided not to attend & let their followers know they were not attending..the followers then also decided not to attend.'

A bit catty and passing the blame. If it wasn't a success don't say it was the fault of people who didn't go. "

Yeah. Um. Sorry. "Swinky", I've tried to be as positive as I can be... But frankly... You're spewing bullshit left right and centre. This is not your first event. I remember "Come Dine With Me".

You allowed 20 unverified and unvetted single lads attend as long as they paid you. You are not a couple. You keep saying "we" when it's you. A single lad. You've alternated between saying it's a social, a meet and greet and a showcase.

One of your valued paid for single males has named the venue on this site, all but ensuring that people's need for privacy and discretion is obliterated.

I hope this venture evolves and grows... I do.... But seriously dude.... Stop the bullshit.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

"'it is unfortunate that some couples with a "following" decided not to attend & let their followers know they were not attending..the followers then also decided not to attend.'

A bit catty and passing the blame. If it wasn't a success don't say it was the fault of people who didn't go.

Yeah. Um. Sorry. "Swinky", I've tried to be as positive as I can be... But frankly... You're spewing bullshit left right and centre. This is not your first event. I remember "Come Dine With Me".

One of your valued paid for single males has named the venue on this site, all but ensuring that people's need for privacy and discretion is obliterated.

I hope this venture evolves and grows... I do.... But seriously dude.... Stop the bullshit.

Ohhhhh.

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

city

Congratulations on a courageous venture. All startups have teething problems. Reading through the various problems, I can see how folk can be unhappy. For what it's worth, I can offer advise based on my experience of running a swingers club in Dublin.

1 limit attendance to couples only, it saves so much heartache.

2.Advertise across the full range of swingers sites, clubs in Ireland and UK.

3. Charge a fee, at the door, or through an adult/sex friendly online payment system.

4. As regards vetting, verifications, etc. Have a few very charming and diplomatic, non playing "mentors" present to make sure there are no messers, d*unks.

5. Nimhneach has a good modus operandi, and successful business model to copy.. And it's not unlike what you're doing.

Best of luck with the next one.

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

"Congratulations on a courageous venture. All startups have teething problems. Reading through the various problems, I can see how folk can be unhappy. For what it's worth, I can offer advise based on my experience of running a swingers club in Dublin.

1 limit attendance to couples only, it saves so much heartache.

2.Advertise across the full range of swingers sites, clubs in Ireland and UK.

3. Charge a fee, at the door, or through an adult/sex friendly online payment system.

4. As regards vetting, verifications, etc. Have a few very charming and diplomatic, non playing "mentors" present to make sure there are no messers, d*unks.

5. Nimhneach has a good modus operandi, and successful business model to copy.. And it's not unlike what you're doing.

Best of luck with the next one. "

But it's not a swinging club

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area

1 limit attendance to couples only, it saves so much heartache.

2.Advertise across the full range of swingers sites, clubs in Ireland and UK.

3. Charge a fee, at the door, or through an adult/sex friendly online payment system.

4. As regards vetting, verifications, etc. Have a few very charming and diplomatic, non playing "mentors" present to make sure there are no messers, d*unks.

5. Nimhneach has a good modus operandi, and successful business model to copy.. And it's not unlike what you're doing.

Best of luck with the next one. "
Thats really good advice

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I hope op your "EVENT VENUE" is a complete success and EVENT organizers whether they are swingers or not take full advantage of your premises

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"'it is unfortunate that some couples with a "following" decided not to attend & let their followers know they were not attending..the followers then also decided not to attend.'

A bit catty and passing the blame. If it wasn't a success don't say it was the fault of people who didn't go.

Yeah. Um. Sorry. "Swinky", I've tried to be as positive as I can be... But frankly... You're spewing bullshit left right and centre. This is not your first event. I remember "Come Dine With Me".

One of your valued paid for single males has named the venue on this site, all but ensuring that people's need for privacy and discretion is obliterated.

I hope this venture evolves and grows... I do.... But seriously dude.... Stop the bullshit.

Well said!

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