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Ok so basically, hubby and I are looking to invite a lovely lady to join us. To be up front and honest about it, we’ve never done it before and it’s something we’d love to try. I have had bisexual experiences before, but it was when I was younger and would love to explore this further. When hearing this hubby was very excited at the prospect of watching me pleasure another female.
We’ve been on Fab a little while now, and met some fantastic people. However, our inbox is only ever full of single males lol. We are blessed to have a few couples we are really looking forward to meeting, being friends with, and seeing where things could go. But as we’re new to the ‘Fabbing’ world, we would like to try what we KNOW we are both comfortable with, before jumping in to the soft swap/full swap scenarios (if that’s where we feel it going).
So, having done a bit of investigation (lol), from what I can tell, single women prefer to meet couples in a m&g or social party environment? Rather than go off profile and veris? Meaning we need to make an effort to get to more parties haha.
Also, try and get the hubby to pose for more photos for variety on our profile. Haha.
Any advice welcome
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"Think you have said it all there just about you two being comfortable and whoever your looking to meet being as comfortable too. Socials probably are the best then nobody is under obligation or feel pressured. You’ve a lovely profile but yes more of mister x x good luck " Thank you very much
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"You've both got a lovely profile and I understand where you're coming from. You want the experience to be awesome and everyone comfortable. Great post! X " Thank you chick! That’s exactly it xx | |||
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nothing worse than being restricted or having limitations placed on you
Single profiles or couple profiles I always like to meet socially first that way there’s no pressure if you get on and at the end of the night want to meet again in a more intimate setting at least you’ve had that social awkwardness done with and it will make for a great evening of play.
I met a couple here on my last profile on a few occasions couple of times we literally just went out on the piss had an excellent time so when it came to play another night that banter and comfort was there and the play was fantastic everyone was comfortable.
Pics of both of you is very important too nothing worse than seeing a couples profile which just her you’re left wondering what’s wrong with him lol
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"Hi Op, your post is a very honest description of where you are on your fab journey and where you’d like it to go next, nothing wrong with that, we’re all here for our own pleasure. You mention that you want to explore your bi side more and that your husband is excited to watch, no issues there.....but what you don’t mention is what’s in it for the lady who joins you? Put yourself in the position of a single woman reading your post or perhaps receiving mails you might have sent. Do they get a sense that they’d be in for an amazing time in both of your company, as equal partners in the adventure?.....or could they read it thinking they’d simply be a vessel for you and your husband to experiment with? From your sincere post and replies I’m sure it’s the former, but maybe something to consider if you’re mailing someone. Electronic comms can be difficult to get the context right, which is one of the reasons why socials and parties are a great way to meet the type of people you want to. Best of luck to you both "Pleasure Orbit fantastic piece of advice! I think I need to update our profile now. I totally get that, I wouldn’t want anyone to feel used and we would love for her to feel special and included with us both. The reason I stated that hubby would love to watch is because that is where the fantasy begins. And who knows where it could end lol. So yes, thank you  | |||
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"As a single woman I fully agree with pleasure orbit a lot of bi-curious/sexual women prefer to play with both people in the couple and not be restricted to just the woman. Hence the bi nothing worse than being restricted or having limitations placed on you
Single profiles or couple profiles I always like to meet socially first that way there’s no pressure if you get on and at the end of the night want to meet again in a more intimate setting at least you’ve had that social awkwardness done with and it will make for a great evening of play.
I met a couple here on my last profile on a few occasions couple of times we literally just went out on the piss had an excellent time so when it came to play another night that banter and comfort was there and the play was fantastic everyone was comfortable.
Pics of both of you is very important too nothing worse than seeing a couples profile which just her you’re left wondering what’s wrong with him lol
Hope this helps "Thank you Doll, it’s been taken on board 
We actually have met a girl previously and would love to see her again sometime so all this advice is very useful  x | |||
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