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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So folks how often do ye use the block button and why. I use it when I get a no thank you or my message deleted so as not to send a message again to them in the future.

What are your reasons

No offense to anyone if they are blocked.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I used to use it if I messaged someone and they deleted it, hoping it would stop me from bothering them in the future.

But then I found out the site warns you about that before you send a second message.

So now I basically just use it if I think someone is following me from thread to thread to argue with me, or if I come across a profile that I never spoke to and they blocked me, I block back, because the idea that they might unblock me and look at me then block me again creeps me out.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

I réad that as Block butter and I don't use it often at all as its so hard to spread.

The block button on the other hand is one I've used once only, and that was about five or six years ago. It used to be easy to hit it by accident on the mobile but it's not as bad these days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are two on mine one guy who just could not tale multiple polite declines as an answer and one added today soley because of how annoying her updates were popping in my local feed.....

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By *ublinGirl92Woman
over a year ago

Hell

I'm quite friendly with my block button Haha

I'll usually block if someone has sent me repeatedly stupid messages, unsolicited dick pics, if their status updates are gross/annoying, if their forum post shows a fundamental difference of opinion (prolife,transphobic,biphobic,etc), or if I am just not into them and I dont want to see/hear from them.

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

Oh aren't ye lucky with only one or 2 on yer list?

I block guys who abuse after I don't reply/delete their message. I blocked one lad who was close by and got a bit too weird for my liking.

So yea...I use it for the gobshites who think calling me every name under the sun will get me to respond to their 'fancy a fuck' messages & weirdos who I feel are gonna set up camp in the bushes outside my house

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I réad that as Block butter and I don't use it often at all as its so hard to spread.

The block button on the other hand is one I've used once only, and that was about five or six years ago. It used to be easy to hit it by accident on the mobile but it's not as bad these days. "

I had to double check that. It is button and not butter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who block me; I block them

Racist, abusive, trolling, terrorist supporting, homophobic forumites I block

Timewasters blocked

Couples who are just weird guys blocked

And generally anyone with a war and peace profile that goes on and on and on ( u know the type) are immediately blocked - can’t be doing with that much pretentiousness

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford

I dont use the block button to often. I get hardly any nasty name calling messages. So I mostly use after alot of repeat messages to meet by then I'm just fu#k this and block. Sometimes the block button is easier to use.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am ruthless with my block button. I will block attached people who won't take no for an answer. People who send the same copy and paste message over and over. Guys who send hi hun wanna fuck messages, rude and pushy people, the obvious fuckwits you see on the forums. People who send abusive and body shaming messages.

When I first started and got lots of messages. I once counted how many I had blocked in one day. It was 62 people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often and the list is big. Ive generally used it when messages are ignored, a no thank you or if deleted so as not to send a message again to them in the future and waste each others time. It's a filter for those not interested. Some have taken it as personal in forums bit then that just confirms my decision was a good one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two guys getting very close to it...messages looking for a guy for 3somes and you quickly discover their missing the the key element of an mfm , I wonder are they just looking for mm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blank profiles that have been about for weeks with no pic or person verification yet creep my profile every day usually get a block.

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By *uscious louWoman
over a year ago

dublin

Using it a lot lately

If someone keeps messaging me after me telling them not interested or if someone is abusive I just hit the block button

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blank profiles that have been about for weeks with no pic or person verification yet creep my profile every day usually get a block. "

Just had a creep..,please don't hover over the block button..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would hazard a guess say lots have blocked me over the years for annoying posts on the forum or for pictures on their local updates. I only block people if I feel threatened by them in some way. I’ve good filters and I can tell by the first line if I want to open a conversation with someone or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Blank profiles that have been about for weeks with no pic or person verification yet creep my profile every day usually get a block.

Just had a creep..,please don't hover over the block button.. "

I would hardly block you

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By *eductively_SweetWoman
over a year ago

wexford


"One or two guys getting very close to it...messages looking for a guy for 3somes and you quickly discover their missing the the key element of an mfm , I wonder are they just looking for mm "

Looking for their MMM 3some more like Jack..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it quite a bit actually. If I get unsolicited pussy pics or the really annoying message, hi hun want to fuck. They are getting blocked straight away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One or two guys getting very close to it...messages looking for a guy for 3somes and you quickly discover their missing the the key element of an mfm , I wonder are they just looking for mm

Looking for their MMM 3some more like Jack.."

Very likely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use it quite a bit actually. If I get unsolicited pussy pics or the really annoying message, hi hun want to fuck. They are getting blocked straight away. "

, most fab guys dream..are you sure your not a woman?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I use it quite a bit actually. If I get unsolicited pussy pics or the really annoying message, hi hun want to fuck. They are getting blocked straight away. "

Yea my inbox in getting full with messages from ladies. I can keep up with the amount of messages and the pics leave nothing to the imagination.... not lol

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

I use it frequently for a wide variety of reasons. Some nothing personal at all. The list of reasons is as long as the list itself almost. I've also blocked some in error and wished I hadn't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I use it frequently for a wide variety of reasons. Some nothing personal at all. The list of reasons is as long as the list itself almost. I've also blocked some in error and wished I hadn't. "

There is an unblock you know

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I use it frequently for a wide variety of reasons. Some nothing personal at all. The list of reasons is as long as the list itself almost. I've also blocked some in error and wished I hadn't.

There is an unblock you know"

I couldn't remember the username. And some blocked me anyway. my bad!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm pretty tolerant mostly, if people want to waste their time sending repeat messages despite us having deleted the last 30 without opening, that's entirely up to them. To merit a block, someone usually has to have done something specific to irritate me on a day when I'm just sick of other people's shit.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've started to use the block button a bit more recently mostly just for the abusive guys or the ones who can't take a no. Very rarely for someone who's statutes just get annoying every day on my updates but that's pretty rare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sent a message to a lady one night & as soon as I sent it it disappeared from my sent items. It was instantly blocked. Still don't know how she did it. Was sit just a coincidence, was she viewing my profile at the same time & blocked me? Has this happened any one else or is there some sort of filter that I don't know about??

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I don't think I have or ever blocked anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I have or ever blocked anyone. "

Clearly you are perfection

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I don't think I have or ever blocked anyone.

Clearly you are perfection"
I wouldn't use perfection but not very far away.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread, I suspect I’m blocked by quite a few for the crimes of annoying updates and having a dull war and peace profile bio. Sorry to all offended

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Reading this thread, I suspect I’m blocked by quite a few for the crimes of annoying updates and having a dull war and peace profile bio. Sorry to all offended "
have u many blocked?

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"Reading this thread, I suspect I’m blocked by quite a few for the crimes of annoying updates and having a dull war and peace profile bio. Sorry to all offended "

Is there a bio?... I've never got past the pics...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think I have or ever blocked anyone.

Clearly you are perfectionI wouldn't use perfection but not very far away. "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate using it and have only done so a few times

I try to ignore if I don't like and I'm not special enough to follow haha

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By *iscuits8Man
over a year ago

Meath / Dublin / Birmingham

Not sure I've ever used it. I don't have all that many people contacting me plus I have my message filters up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people block because it makes them think they are in control that way.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Bad manners...

renders me hitting the block button....

Just because there's more men than couples

or females doesn't give anyone the right to be

arrogent, ignorant or rude

12 people ...& counting on my block list so far

...so feeling lucky then??!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely block only use it if the sender is very obviously weird or creepy. Also when a guy is rentless and consistently ignore my polite refusals.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I rarely block people but have a stalker blocked on here and a few who can't take no thanks as an answer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We tend to be quite ruthless with the block button.

Anyone who sends us an unsolicited cock pic or a 'Wanna fuck?' message or who doesn't bother to read our profile earns an instant block.

After initial messaging with and politely declining anyone that we do not find attractive or have no interest in, they are also blocked as this stops the same persons from messaging over and over again every few days or weeks.

We decided to count the number of persons on our block list recently and so far there are 251 persons on it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

251!

My, you have been active. But sur needs must!

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By *hesexaddictMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I don’t use it often at all, only about 3 times, when some guy was sending winks (few hours after I deleted it another wink came in) and also message me most days for about a week even that I wasn’t replying, the other 2 were for constant messages even when I wasn’t replying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We tend to be quite ruthless with the block button.

Anyone who sends us an unsolicited cock pic or a 'Wanna fuck?' message or who doesn't bother to read our profile earns an instant block.

After initial messaging with and politely declining anyone that we do not find attractive or have no interest in, they are also blocked as this stops the same persons from messaging over and over again every few days or weeks.

We decided to count the number of persons on our block list recently and so far there are 251 persons on it."

I thought few if any had as many as me, but I'll conceed, you've passed me by 39. I have recently removed a few but also they've been replaced by some others since.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

block for a few reasons. constant messages after being told not interested, rudeness, wannabe drama queens and wanna fuck mails. when we came back our block button got used for people we had negative dealings with before in the past. made our return fairly pleasant

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"251!

My, you have been active. But sur needs must! "

Well we have been on here four months so it only equates to 2 or 3 blocks per day which is really not that many considering the volume of messages we receive.

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By *Belfast_FellaMan
over a year ago

belfast

I mostly used mine to block guys who messaged me despite my profile saying I'm straight. Once I realised that I could set filters to stop them messaging me, I didn't have to block so much.

Apart from that, I've only really used it to block women who leave, then re-join and keep messaging me, despite the fact that we messaged (and in one case even met) when they were previously on and didn't hit it off.

Of course, as a guy, I get far fewer messages than women and couples do.

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By *ocogreyTV/TS
over a year ago

secret

Timewasters, don’t turn up, hidden profile, abusive, don’t take no for an answer. List goes on

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By *eelum1988Man
over a year ago

Dublin

I'm very kind and friendly person.. never block anyone tho... so everyone feel free drop me a message...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve got 250 + on my block list , it just shows the type of messages I receive

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

If someone blocks me, I block them back, I also block rude or abusive people too. I always use the notes facility to remind myself why I've done this too.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Oh and sometimes the very persistent ones too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's hardly a day goes by I don't block someone.

Why?

Simple really,I want no contact from that person.

I don't want to see their updates,pictures,or they mine.

It's a filter,and a very useful one

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"There's hardly a day goes by I don't block someone.

Why?

Simple really,I want no contact from that person.

I don't want to see their updates,pictures,or they mine.

It's a filter,and a very useful one"

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