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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How can you get a reply on here? I,m photo verified and can supply a face pic. Still no joy. Is it a case of too many people up their own arse?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Well if you call them up their own arse for not replying, then they were right to not reply.

Thats just my take on it.

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By *aughtyglintWoman
over a year ago

Any

Do you bother to read the profile before messaging? Need to make your message stand out from the masses that flood female inboxes with crap mails

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish


"How can you get a reply on here? I,m photo verified and can supply a face pic. Still no joy. Is it a case of too many people up their own arse? "

I think there will be a few reasons why you are not getting replies. I am sure you can work out the reasons why.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Maybe, just maybe the ones you messaged just weren't attracted to you. Or you didn't fit their needs. Nobody is obliged to answer any message. The right person for you will respond.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ur here two wks give it time.

No one is obligated to reply because they receieve a mail

And not replying to a mail dosent make them stuck up their own ass

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it obliged or obligated or either?

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Is it obliged or obligated or either? "

Either!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Will hang in there and see what happens.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Appreciate that. Thank you.

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

It takes time just because its a swing site doesnt mean you will get meets straight away i was 3 months before i had a meet and saying are people up there own arses wont get you much meets either just my oppinnion all the best op

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown


"How can you get a reply on here? I,m photo verified and can supply a face pic. Still no joy. Is it a case of too many people up their own arse? "

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No reply could depend on...

- What your ice-breaker is

"fancy a fuck" or "Hi...how's you?"

...sound more like a wind breaker than an ice breaker

- How do your pics look?

- Was Boyzone selling out wembley the last time you got a veri?

- Does your profile have 15 words on it or is it just littered with bland words like "genuine" and "nice guy"

...Is not exactly rocket science here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it obliged or obligated or either? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just keep persisting, you'll eventually wear them down..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looked it up...

An obligation is a legal, moral or financial commitment. To me, this implies that you have no choice in the matter: Once obligated, you can't back out without serious repercussions. To be obliged can mean required, but it can also mean to have an informal moral sense that you should do something.

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Looked it up...

An obligation is a legal, moral or financial commitment. To me, this implies that you have no choice in the matter: Once obligated, you can't back out without serious repercussions. To be obliged can mean required, but it can also mean to have an informal moral sense that you should do something. "

So either is correct!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Looked it up...

An obligation is a legal, moral or financial commitment. To me, this implies that you have no choice in the matter: Once obligated, you can't back out without serious repercussions. To be obliged can mean required, but it can also mean to have an informal moral sense that you should do something.

So either is correct!!!"
no, one is formal and potentially has legal or financial connotations

Op the real reason you aren't getting replies is that there are about 50 single guys to every single woman. Same reason we can't unblock single guys - we get flooded with 000s of messages and our inbox becomes impossible to manage

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

So either is correct!!!"

no, one is formal and potentially has legal or financial connotations.

Yes and in stating that one is neither obilged or obligated to reply is appropriate in this instance, as there is no legal, moral or any other contractual need to do so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So either is correct!!!"

no, one is formal and potentially has legal or financial connotations.

Yes and in stating that one is neither obilged or obligated to reply is appropriate in this instance, as there is no legal, moral or any other contractual need to do so. "
only if you think that there is no informal moral imperative for politeness (actually I would tend to agree on this site )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So either is correct!!!"

no, one is formal and potentially has legal or financial connotations.

Yes and in stating that one is neither obilged or obligated to reply is appropriate in this instance, as there is no legal, moral or any other contractual need to do so. only if you think that there is no informal moral imperative for politeness (actually I would tend to agree on this site )"

Even if you think there is you then have to decide if following a clearly stated site rule of no reply meaning no interest constitutes impoliteness

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"So either is correct!!!"

no, one is formal and potentially has legal or financial connotations.

Yes and in stating that one is neither obilged or obligated to reply is appropriate in this instance, as there is no legal, moral or any other contractual need to do so. only if you think that there is no informal moral imperative for politeness (actually I would tend to agree on this site )"

No reply is in the rules as not interested and nothing at all to do with politeness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least we all learnt something and no feelings were hurt. Now....whats on the telly.....

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