FabSwingers.com forum: I cant understand folk

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guys the mind boggles. Just log in and see a new profile set up a lady in my age and area. I message a polite welcome and hi. ( not too worried if i get a reply or not as i know what this site is like for the ladies) anyway i get a reply and after a few messages she asks what im doing. I reply in work just having a look . She then asks where i work and because i would not tell her if it was a her , she just goes ok goodbye then . Like ffs i know people will say forget and move on but if bacause you wont give someone all your details after a couple of messages. I understand some of the rants on here a litte more.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Some people are like that. Some aren't. If that's information you want to keep to yourself then there's nothing else you could've done. Don't beat yourself up over it. We're all different. You may have just dodged a bullet.

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....or just missed out on the ride of your life!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, to all fairness, you could have told her what do you do I.e. your profession.

Maybe she took your complete refusal as disinterest..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Some people are like that. Some aren't. If that's information you want to keep to yourself then there's nothing else you could've done. Don't beat yourself up over it. We're all different. You may have just dodged a bullet.

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....or just missed out on the ride of your life!

"
what he said......

You could of had your balls draines but more likely your bank account

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

I usually tell them I'm a gynecologist

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You were right darling - you don’t need to give info out on yourself that you are not comfortable with and especially a new profile/unverified.

Strike it as a lesson learned and breath deep as the next lady SHALL be the best ride you ever had.

Psy

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well, to all fairness, you could have told her what do you do I.e. your profession.

Maybe she took your complete refusal as disinterest.."

I didnt refuse i said playfully it was top secret. If i said where i worked or my line of work it would be easy to tell straight away who i may be . This was after only a couple of messages . Im sure after a couple of messages with any person on here you yourself would not be telling people your work address

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So what do you do then?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"I usually tell them I'm a gynecologist

...and you like to take your work home with you?

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

OMG! Sergeant Lollipop... Is that you?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"So what do you do then? "

Emergency rescue . Truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, to all fairness, you could have told her what do you do I.e. your profession.

Maybe she took your complete refusal as disinterest..

Phoenix Park, Dublin, D08 E1W3?

Ya horny little leprechaun ya

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"OMG! Sergeant Lollipop... Is that you?

Nah im lollipop Jnr

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well, to all fairness, you could have told her what do you do I.e. your profession.

Maybe she took your complete refusal as disinterest..

Phoenix Park, Dublin, D08 E1W3?

Ya horny little leprechaun ya

I will have you know im the tallest of my people lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

123 huh. As i try to get up on a bed . Ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So what do you do then?

Emergency rescue . Truth"

I need rescuing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can’t understand people’s caginess here from the off , you could’ve given a general answer . Bear in mind ladies here take a chance meeting blokes , in the interest of safety refusal to say your line of work or etc will be seen as a red flag to a woman , fellas who refuse to answer very general conversational questions are usually the ones with something to hide , swinging is not and never has been illegal ,folks who act all defensive here will rarely instill confidence to meet .

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

"I usually tell them I'm a gynecologist

...and you like to take your work home with you? "

It's called dedication

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

You should have given a generic job. Not the specific place you work in. I know I never tell anyone where I work or live. They don’t need to know they won’t be coming to my job or my home.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Can’t understand people’s caginess here from the off , you could’ve given a general answer . Bear in mind ladies here take a chance meeting blokes , in the interest of safety refusal to say your line of work or etc will be seen as a red flag to a woman , fellas who refuse to answer very general conversational questions are usually the ones with something to hide , swinging is not and never has been illegal ,folks who act all defensive here will rarely instill confidence to meet . "

She asked for the address of my work. .....

I was not being cagey. And i have no problem sharing info with people after i have got to know a little about them. She hadnt even shared her name with me ffs. I had opened with a polite inroduction my name asked if she would like to chat . First question was where in wexford are you and i answered then wanted to know what part of the town . I answered . Then asked what i was doin i reply in work and because i the would not give location . It was Goodbye then.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t know what caginess is but I wouldn’t be asking someone what they did at all it wouldn’t actually have any bearing on any meets I’ve had. I’d see his avoidance as him looking to keep his personal life private. This place isn’t the safest to be telling people all about you when you don’t know them from Adam.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Bare in mind blokes take a chance meeting women here also

Never give personal onfo to a faceless profile on an online site

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"I don’t know what caginess is but I wouldn’t be asking someone what they did at all it wouldn’t actually have any bearing on any meets I’ve had. I’d see his avoidance as him looking to keep his personal life private. This place isn’t the safest to be telling people all about you when you don’t know them from Adam. "

Whos adam

where does he work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Eircodes only please

Whos adam

where does he work

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Whos adam

where does he work

He dont work with me anyway lol

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Why the need to know where you work. Unless she won't meet people in a certain trade

. Wanting to know the location that's just freaky.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Well I think you were right not to say where you work or the line of work you are in to someone you have only started chatting to.I don't anymore because I.made the mistake when I was first on here of telling a guy what line of work I was in and roughly the area. A day later he came back with my bosses number telling me he would ring them unless I met him.I brazened it out even tho I was so nervous that he would I also may have pointed out what I would do to him if I did meet and get my hands on his dick. Let's just say when he realised he backed down fast and deleted his account And no I didn't meet him but it made me realise not to give out personal info until I know the person a lot more. If someone can't handle me keeping my life outside here private then I don't want to meet them anyhow. Everyone should run their profile how they want and not be made give out info or pics etc until they feel comfortable.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Keep your private life private ...

This is a swinger site ... not a dating site...

People are nosy and want to know details... well only share what you are comfortable with ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Obviously your not gonna answer specifically . I meant more in general , actually o p after you clarified it you did right to end the conversation .

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Why the need to know where you work. Unless she won't meet people in a certain trade

. Wanting to know the location that's just freaky. "

Maybe she was looking a plumber to sort out her pipes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why the need to know where you work. Unless she won't meet people in a certain trade

. Wanting to know the location that's just freaky.

Maybe she was looking a plumber to sort out her pipes

If she finds one I’m looking one too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

I would say the ones to really watchout for would have an easy cover story ready. Asking someone a work address 3 messages in os for more preditory behavious.

Swinging is not illigal, but we all have our different comfort levels with what we share.

Its why I have my tits and not my face out

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Why the need to know where you work. Unless she won't meet people in a certain trade

. Wanting to know the location that's just freaky.

Maybe she was looking a plumber to sort out her pipes

Have a look at her garden while you're there and give me a bell if it needs some work.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Obviously your not gonna answer specifically . I meant more in general , actually o p after you clarified it you did right to end the conversation . "

Thank you. Even though she ended the conversation and went to sulk . May chalk it down .

Damm them anyway got my hopes up getting the reply in the first place.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Why the need to know where you work. Unless she won't meet people in a certain trade

. Wanting to know the location that's just freaky.

Maybe she was looking a plumber to sort out her pipes

Have a look at her garden while you're there and give me a bell if it needs some work. "

Do u want me to call u while i am on the job

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Really?

I would say the ones to really watchout for would have an easy cover story ready. Asking someone a work address 3 messages in os for more preditory behavious.

Swinging is not illigal, but we all have our different comfort levels with what we share.

Its why I have my tits and not my face out"

And lovely tits they are too.

I just hope your face doesn't look like a bag of tits though.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Keep your private life private ...

This is a swinger site ... not a dating site...

People are nosy and want to know details... well only share what you are comfortable with ..

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Why the need to know where you work. Unless she won't meet people in a certain trade

. Wanting to know the location that's just freaky.

Maybe she was looking a plumber to sort out her pipes

If she finds one I’m looking one too

Have u a drip

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

"Why the need to know where you work. Unless she won't meet people in a certain trade

. Wanting to know the location that's just freaky.

Maybe she was looking a plumber to sort out her pipes

Have a look at her garden while you're there and give me a bell if it needs some work.

Do u want me to call u while i am on the job

I can advise on procedure.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Really?

I would say the ones to really watchout for would have an easy cover story ready. Asking someone a work address 3 messages in os for more preditory behavious.

Swinging is not illigal, but we all have our different comfort levels with what we share.

Its why I have my tits and not my face out

And lovely tits they are too.

I just hope your face doesn't look like a bag of tits though.

Ha ha ha guys you have put a smile on my face. I was thinking i was just being a moany stunt. But the craic is mighty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why the need to know where you work. Unless she won't meet people in a certain trade

. Wanting to know the location that's just freaky.

Maybe she was looking a plumber to sort out her pipes

If she finds one I’m looking one too

Have u a drip

I’m getting old CJ it’s more leakages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really?

I would say the ones to really watchout for would have an easy cover story ready. Asking someone a work address 3 messages in os for more preditory behavious.

Swinging is not illigal, but we all have our different comfort levels with what we share.

Its why I have my tits and not my face out

And lovely tits they are too.

I just hope your face doesn't look like a bag of tits though.

Ha ha ha guys you have put a smile on my face. I was thinking i was just being a moany stunt. But the craic is mighty"

Ah good ol tit faced shlong always good for a laugh..... you guys are mean..

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Really?

I would say the ones to really watchout for would have an easy cover story ready. Asking someone a work address 3 messages in os for more preditory behavious.

Swinging is not illigal, but we all have our different comfort levels with what we share.

Its why I have my tits and not my face out

And lovely tits they are too.

I just hope your face doesn't look like a bag of tits though.

Ha ha ha guys you have put a smile on my face. I was thinking i was just being a moany stunt. But the craic is mighty"

You are a moany cunt but at least ur smiling

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

"Why the need to know where you work. Unless she won't meet people in a certain trade

. Wanting to know the location that's just freaky.

Maybe she was looking a plumber to sort out her pipes

If she finds one I’m looking one too

Have u a drip

I’m getting old CJ it’s more leakages "

Are u sure its a plumber u need and not tenna

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why the need to know where you work. Unless she won't meet people in a certain trade

. Wanting to know the location that's just freaky.

Maybe she was looking a plumber to sort out her pipes

If she finds one I’m looking one too

Have u a drip

I’m getting old CJ it’s more leakages

Are u sure its a plumber u need and not tenna

Was going to say I’m pmsl but you already know that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Update . My gut was right . Profile already gone . Lucky me and my bad mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Update . My gut was right . Profile already gone . Lucky me and my bad mind lol"

Oh I’d say they just blocked you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Update . My gut was right . Profile already gone . Lucky me and my bad mind lol

Oh I’d say they just blocked you

Maybe that too lol

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By *urydiceRisingWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

"Update . My gut was right . Profile already gone . Lucky me and my bad mind lol"

Did it not occur to you she was a spouse looking to find her cheating husband? Would make sense why her profile is already gone. I bet she found him.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Update . My gut was right . Profile already gone . Lucky me and my bad mind lol

Did it not occur to you she was a spouse looking to find her cheating husband? Would make sense why her profile is already gone. I bet she found him. "

Maybe so. If that is the case hope she did find what she was looking for.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

"So what do you do then? "

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Yeah, I'm curious too now!

Op, just tell her you're an arse model for Calvin Klein

How's she gonna find out otherwise?

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

Really?

I would say the ones to really watchout for would have an easy cover story ready. Asking someone a work address 3 messages in os for more preditory behavious.

Swinging is not illigal, but we all have our different comfort levels with what we share.

Its why I have my tits and not my face out

And lovely tits they are too.

I just hope your face doesn't look like a bag of tits though.

Ha ha ha guys you have put a smile on my face. I was thinking i was just being a moany stunt. But the craic is mighty

Ah good ol tit faced shlong always good for a laugh..... you guys are mean.."

Ah don't mind the mean boys, plenty here that like your face as much as the rest on show.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You should have told her your a TV enforcement officer

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