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"Sounds like this was an ab*sive relationship with an attempt at cloaking it as kink " It's a very fine line at times. Consent doesn't mean a person isn't vulnerable to abuse. | |||
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"Sweet Jesus.... I think my foof just climbed into my chest cavity " Even my little japs eye cried a little! | |||
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"Sounds like this was an ab*sive relationship with an attempt at cloaking it as kink " That's the thing with extreme kink though isn't it? You never really know. Is someone a willing and eager masochist who gets off on pain and demands it be inflicted by their partner, or are they the victim of an abusive relationship? To an outsider any relationship dynamic might seem odd... A wife who seems to others to be overbearing and controlling may simply be her delighted hubby's dommé... A wife who always seems to have bruises or to be tender in sitting may just be someone who adores a good hard spanking. Unless you've the opportunity to ask someone if they are a masochist (on any level), and they are willing to answer honestly, one will never know if someone is to be pitied or congratulated for their latest bite, mark bruise, hand print, etc... Only they know the truth. | |||
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"Sounds like this was an ab*sive relationship with an attempt at cloaking it as kink That's the thing with extreme kink though isn't it? You never really know. Is someone a willing and eager masochist who gets off on pain and demands it be inflicted by their partner, or are they the victim of an abusive relationship? To an outsider any relationship dynamic might seem odd... A wife who seems to others to be overbearing and controlling may simply be her delighted hubby's dommé... A wife who always seems to have bruises or to be tender in sitting may just be someone who adores a good hard spanking. Unless you've the opportunity to ask someone if they are a masochist (on any level), and they are willing to answer honestly, one will never know if someone is to be pitied or congratulated for their latest bite, mark bruise, hand print, etc... Only they know the truth. " This is very true. | |||
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"A pinwheel used along the right areas is heaven. I can't even click into that article. " I uses a wallpaper perforator. | |||
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"just when you think people couldn't get anymore stupid. a beautiful piece of kink equipment used in an improper and awful manner goes to show if you don't know how to use kink toys don't fucking use them. educate yourself then use " Yup. But it's amazing how many people claim they like kink since 50 shades. This is both male and female. I've have talked to people who didn't even know safe words were a thing. People like the idea of kink without ever trying it. So many things can go wrong if their isn't trust and limits known and discussed. Trust and respect on both sides. So many so called Dom's. Haven't a clue. being dominant is not about how hard you can spank. Submission is given not taken. Respect is earned not demanded. Both of these things take time to build and discover. So many irresponsible people taking chances. | |||
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"just when you think people couldn't get anymore stupid. a beautiful piece of kink equipment used in an improper and awful manner goes to show if you don't know how to use kink toys don't fucking use them. educate yourself then use Yup. But it's amazing how many people claim they like kink since 50 shades. This is both male and female. I've have talked to people who didn't even know safe words were a thing. People like the idea of kink without ever trying it. So many things can go wrong if their isn't trust and limits known and discussed. Trust and respect on both sides. So many so called Dom's. Haven't a clue. being dominant is not about how hard you can spank. Submission is given not taken. Respect is earned not demanded. Both of these things take time to build and discover. So many irresponsible people taking chances. " not just trust and limits or people who don't have a clue. i've seen too many "educated" kinksters do things that are well and above acceptable i.e. imapact play in the kidney areas, the back of knees and other no go areas as well as using normal candles for wax play. just utter moronic stuff that anyone with half a bit kink knowledge knows isn't right. it's the kind of thing that should be called out but isn't due to their "status" on the scene | |||
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"just when you think people couldn't get anymore stupid. a beautiful piece of kink equipment used in an improper and awful manner goes to show if you don't know how to use kink toys don't fucking use them. educate yourself then use Yup. But it's amazing how many people claim they like kink since 50 shades. This is both male and female. I've have talked to people who didn't even know safe words were a thing. People like the idea of kink without ever trying it. So many things can go wrong if their isn't trust and limits known and discussed. Trust and respect on both sides. So many so called Dom's. Haven't a clue. being dominant is not about how hard you can spank. Submission is given not taken. Respect is earned not demanded. Both of these things take time to build and discover. So many irresponsible people taking chances. not just trust and limits or people who don't have a clue. i've seen too many "educated" kinksters do things that are well and above acceptable i.e. imapact play in the kidney areas, the back of knees and other no go areas as well as using normal candles for wax play. just utter moronic stuff that anyone with half a bit kink knowledge knows isn't right. it's the kind of thing that should be called out but isn't due to their "status" on the scene " See this is one of the reasons I left the scene. Because of people like that and when you call them out it's called into doubt due to their status. It's a disgrace. | |||
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