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By *adylover321 OP   Man
over a year ago

navan

What is average time a guy should last I know it's disappointing for lady when cum too soon. And no not asking for a friend unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anything from 30 seconds to thirty minutes here

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Anything from 30 seconds to thirty minutes here "

this

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

Depends on how horny i am and position but two strokes is usually a good indicator

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By *adylover321 OP   Man
over a year ago

navan

Thirty mins wow not a hope for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know personally it's really annoying when a man orgasms too quickly but it happens. What is more annoying is when they finish and don't think about the other person. Leaving me lying there frustrated and finishing myself is definitely not an indication of a good time. But lots of foreplay first and make her cum then it doesn't really matter.

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves


"I know personally it's really annoying when a man orgasms too quickly but it happens. What is more annoying is when they finish and don't think about the other person. Leaving me lying there frustrated and finishing myself is definitely not an indication of a good time. But lots of foreplay first and make her cum then it doesn't really matter. "

This

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

I love licking lips. To hell with coming

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By *unLovingCriminalMan
over a year ago

Somewhere


"I know personally it's really annoying when a man orgasms too quickly but it happens. What is more annoying is when they finish and don't think about the other person. Leaving me lying there frustrated and finishing myself is definitely not an indication of a good time. But lots of foreplay first and make her cum then it doesn't really matter. "

Agreed ladies first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I know I’m gonna cum early, say if I’m really aroused, I’ll spend time on the woman to make her cum or get her close I would feel so awkward finishing and letting her finish herself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know this will sound like a "everybody look at me" comment but it ain't! I'm having this problem at the minute with a current FB, she is great in bed but cums way to fast and even at times it can be 3 times in ten minutes.

This might not sound like a problem, which at times it aint when im wanting a quicky myself. But its frustrating when you want a bit longer and things are just too wet to enjoy it anymore.

On the flip side i can see why it must be frustrating on girls when a guy finishes quickly and goes into limp mode

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tip. Wear a thick or even two condoms. Twill lessen sensation and prolong the fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tip. Wear a thick or even two condoms. Twill lessen sensation and prolong the fun. "

Is 2 condoms not a big no no in terms of the risk of splitting?

I wouldn’t be too concerned about how fast someone is provided they’ve good reboot speeds and have other skills

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can last from 5 mins to an hour or longer. Not including foreplay haha. Usually I find having regular sex really helps with how long I last Male half of emanm4fun

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By *ubberNumbersCouple
over a year ago

dublin

If I blow before she does then i get straight down there and put my tongue to work.

The fact I'm licking a bit of myself down there aswell has her cumming in no time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I need to staet deepfreezing my cock looking at some of the times here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

30 seconds??

Man I'm out of my depth

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By *adylover321 OP   Man
over a year ago

navan


"I know personally it's really annoying when a man orgasms too quickly but it happens. What is more annoying is when they finish and don't think about the other person. Leaving me lying there frustrated and finishing myself is definitely not an indication of a good time. But lots of foreplay first and make her cum then it doesn't really matter. "
i love long long foreplay before especially knowing my problem I love going until she is on very edge of cumin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think it takes me 30 seconds just to get my kecks down some days

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By *adylover321 OP   Man
over a year ago

navan

I love Long Long foreplay before especially knowing my problem I love going until she is on the very edge of cummin

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I know personally it's really annoying when a man orgasms too quickly but it happens. What is more annoying is when they finish and don't think about the other person. Leaving me lying there frustrated and finishing myself is definitely not an indication of a good time. But lots of foreplay first and make her cum then it doesn't really matter. "

As long as u dont say in the famous words of Ash "i am sorted finish ur self off there"

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I love Long Long foreplay before especially knowing my problem I love going until she is on the very edge of cummin"

Is it fair to say u consentrate on ur problem more than getting her to climax i find some positions suit me better for lasting than others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love Long Long foreplay before especially knowing my problem I love going until she is on the very edge of cummin

Is it fair to say u consentrate on ur problem more than getting her to climax i find some positions suit me better for lasting than others "

I find this too, missionary will set me off after three pumps

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"I love Long Long foreplay before especially knowing my problem I love going until she is on the very edge of cummin

Is it fair to say u consentrate on ur problem more than getting her to climax i find some positions suit me better for lasting than others

I find this too, missionary will set me off after three pumps "

Last position i want to be in is missionary

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By *ewby 7Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Get delay spray plus thick condom and be grand

Make sure ladies first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Plenty of foreplay ,teasing and edging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doggy - 20/30 minutes

Missionary- 40 seconds

Other - 5/10 minutes

The key is cunnilingus lads the second they cum you lob it in and go hell for leather then your both finished and shaking life a leaf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doggy - 20/30 minutes

Missionary- 40 seconds

Other - 5/10 minutes

The key is cunnilingus lads the second they cum you lob it in and go hell for leather then your both finished and shaking life a leaf "

Mind if I paraphrase for my next veri?

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore


"Get delay spray plus thick condom and be grand

Make sure ladies first "

Ladies should ALWAYS be first

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By *ewby 7Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Get delay spray plus thick condom and be grand

Make sure ladies first

Ladies should ALWAYS be first "

...few times, lol

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By *ineapple_PrincessWoman
over a year ago

in the waves

Funny how missionary makes you all come quickly...never really coped this until my last fwb always wanted to switch positions so he wouldn't cum before me.

Most make missionary out to be boring and vanilla but the true story is ye all cant take it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funny how missionary makes you all come quickly...never really coped this until my last fwb always wanted to switch positions so he wouldn't cum before me.

Most make missionary out to be boring and vanilla but the true story is ye all cant take it "

It's actually true I used to make excuses " aw it's too tight that way it's sore." Yeaaaaaah right more like I'm gonna blow me muck if we don't stop right now hahaha

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

A woman should always cum first and second. I don't mind finishing last sometimes I might not even finish

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore


"Get delay spray plus thick condom and be grand

Make sure ladies first

Ladies should ALWAYS be first

...few times, lol"

Very difficult to stop at one, once the juices are flowing

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By *ewby 7Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Get delay spray plus thick condom and be grand

Make sure ladies first

Ladies should ALWAYS be first

...few times, lol

Very difficult to stop at one, once the juices are flowing "

You've got me right

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore


"Get delay spray plus thick condom and be grand

Make sure ladies first

Ladies should ALWAYS be first

...few times, lol

Very difficult to stop at one, once the juices are flowing

You've got me right "

Good to know that you are very normal then

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By *ewby 7Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Get delay spray plus thick condom and be grand

Make sure ladies first

Ladies should ALWAYS be first

...few times, lol

Very difficult to stop at one, once the juices are flowing

You've got me right

Good to know that you are very normal then "

With the right person...yes!

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore


"Get delay spray plus thick condom and be grand

Make sure ladies first

Ladies should ALWAYS be first

...few times, lol

Very difficult to stop at one, once the juices are flowing

You've got me right

Good to know that you are very normal then

With the right person...yes! "

That's a given. No point otherwise

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By *amsuzieCouple
over a year ago

newtownards

Sam ,always sees that I am satisfied first , then he lets go !

What a man !

The fact that I am slow to organism , but once I have the first , then the rest flow

That’s what I call a real man ! Seeing to my needs first !

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By *m389Man
over a year ago

Bromley

I find it depends on the condom I'm using.

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By *thena400Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I know this will sound like a "everybody look at me" comment but it ain't! I'm having this problem at the minute with a current FB, she is great in bed but cums way to fast and even at times it can be 3 times in ten minutes.

This might not sound like a problem, which at times it aint when im wanting a quicky myself. But its frustrating when you want a bit longer and things are just too wet to enjoy it anymore.

On the flip side i can see why it must be frustrating on girls when a guy finishes quickly and goes into limp mode

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Come fuck me; I won’t cum at all but I’ll enjoy it completely.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I know this will sound like a "everybody look at me" comment but it ain't! I'm having this problem at the minute with a current FB, she is great in bed but cums way to fast and even at times it can be 3 times in ten minutes.

This might not sound like a problem, which at times it aint when im wanting a quicky myself. But its frustrating when you want a bit longer and things are just too wet to enjoy it anymore.

On the flip side i can see why it must be frustrating on girls when a guy finishes quickly and goes into limp mode

Come fuck me; I won’t cum at all but I’ll enjoy it completely."

What an offer!

Only if you cum first, with fingers/toys/tongue. Otherwise no chance

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I love Long Long foreplay before especially knowing my problem I love going until she is on the very edge of cummin

Is it fair to say u consentrate on ur problem more than getting her to climax i find some positions suit me better for lasting than others

I find this too, missionary will set me off after three pumps

Last position i want to be in is missionary "

Yeah, the Catholic church messed me up too

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Personal preference.

Foreplay to the point where she makes me cum.

Then continued foreplay until she comes, by which time I'm hard again.

Then fucking for the most amazing 30seconds ever!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don’t call me Philly 3 Push for nothing..

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

I am here for my pleasure, not a ladies. I wont be putting a lady first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fr me it's how long it takes the guy to get hard again after cumming, with help of course! ...to keep the fun going

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By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Yes collette i like your thinking .let the guy get it all out there then settle down for a long passionate session letting the lady enjoy every minute of it .everyone happy

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Fr me it's how long it takes the guy to get hard again after cumming, with help of course! ...to keep the fun going "

Well quick recovery is no good when every round is barely 5 to 10 minutes.

Anyhow anything under 30 minutes I find disappointing. Thankfully there's some Jedis out there that can go for a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know personally it's really annoying when a man orgasms too quickly but it happens. What is more annoying is when they finish and don't think about the other person. Leaving me lying there frustrated and finishing myself is definitely not an indication of a good time. But lots of foreplay first and make her cum then it doesn't really matter. "

Spot on

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

I think the secret for longevity is concentrating on your partners pleasure and variation in position and intermingled with play, kissing etc or so a friend told me

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

I honestly don't understand men that don't look after the woman first. There have been times when I've just pleasured a partner over myself. (Especially in the morning and I was running late for work) I'd make her cum and Tell her we'd finish it off later. Means we both started the day with a smile and knew there was more later

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By *ohnsmithMan
over a year ago

South Tipperary


"I know personally it's really annoying when a man orgasms too quickly but it happens. What is more annoying is when they finish and don't think about the other person. Leaving me lying there frustrated and finishing myself is definitely not an indication of a good time. But lots of foreplay first and make her cum then it doesn't really matter. "
a nice slow message in there as well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fr me it's how long it takes the guy to get hard again after cumming, with help of course! ...to keep the fun going

Well quick recovery is no good when every round is barely 5 to 10 minutes.

Anyhow anything under 30 minutes I find disappointing. Thankfully there's some Jedis out there that can go for a long time. "

When we play with other couples we like to keep going till dawn, the girls usually have endless orgasms and the guys keep going. I'm still surprised in this day and age that most men still confuse ejaculating with having an orgasm though. Look up Taoist sex and internal orgasms guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard of guys offloading their weapon before going on a meet to help with lasting. But what ever happened to recoverying, most here haven't mentioned cumming and then recovery time and go again. Over the years I've been and seen guys who can literally go for hours

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"Fr me it's how long it takes the guy to get hard again after cumming, with help of course! ...to keep the fun going

Well quick recovery is no good when every round is barely 5 to 10 minutes.

Anyhow anything under 30 minutes I find disappointing. Thankfully there's some Jedis out there that can go for a long time.

When we play with other couples we like to keep going till dawn, the girls usually have endless orgasms and the guys keep going. I'm still surprised in this day and age that most men still confuse ejaculating with having an orgasm though. Look up Taoist sex and internal orgasms guys."

Woman confuse the same in men. It's an automatic assumption that an ejaculation is an orgasm. But we can orgasm without ejaculation and vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am here for my pleasure, not a ladies. I wont be putting a lady first."

If I had you tied to the fucking bed we would see who is being put first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like cumming way too much to go for hours without it... not that O could anyway.

When sex becomes more or a stamina test I lose interest...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes collette i like your thinking .let the guy get it all out there then settle down for a long passionate session letting the lady enjoy every minute of it .everyone happy"

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over a year ago


"Fr me it's how long it takes the guy to get hard again after cumming, with help of course! ...to keep the fun going

Well quick recovery is no good when every round is barely 5 to 10 minutes.

Absolutely

Anyhow anything under 30 minutes I find disappointing. Thankfully there's some Jedis out there that can go for a long time. "

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By *ichael McCarthyMan
over a year ago

Lucan

Maybe we can go for a long time but just don't want to?

.

To quote Fr Fintan Stack..

"I had my fun and that's all that matters"

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

Naas

I’d recommend a good old self service before your next session this will definitely ensure you don’t come first

Also I agree missionary seems to have lots of men blow quickly

Change your tack and try multiple positions and remember it’s not all about a pounding and a race to see who comes first

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By *ancyachatnowMan
over a year ago

Naas

Oooops

I forgot to give me Average

I’m a pro I can cum when required

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"I am here for my pleasure, not a ladies. I wont be putting a lady first.

If I had you tied to the fucking bed we would see who is being put first "

You may have found my Achilles heel. lol

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By *ubcouple35Couple
over a year ago

North Dublin


"I am here for my pleasure, not a ladies. I wont be putting a lady first."

Looks like the only pleasure your getting is pleasuring yourself anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t think any guy wants to cum quick . But it happens now and then. But, hey.... won’t take me long to get hard again and round 2 will last and last

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By *ease_EMan
over a year ago

DDD12


"I know personally it's really annoying when a man orgasms too quickly but it happens. What is more annoying is when they finish and don't think about the other person. Leaving me lying there frustrated and finishing myself is definitely not an indication of a good time. But lots of foreplay first and make her cum then it doesn't really matter. "

Lady first,

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By *icklowhornMan
over a year ago

Dublin Wicklow

Ladies first for me, then my turn with the aim to make her orgasm 2 / 3 more times while I’m working up to mine. Could take up to an hour if I want to prolong it. Never disappointed yet and don’t plan to either unless she wants a real quickie

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

Dear sweet Lord.

What's the obsession with measurements..?

How long can he last. How long is his dick. How big are her tits. How wide is her pussy. How many times can he/she cum. Who cums first.

Having a good fuck is about being with someone you are attracted to and do not feel inhibited with. Then measurements go out the window and pleasure on both sides is the result, whether lasting hours or minutes.

How long does it take to cum? Who cares.

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By *anysicoMan
over a year ago

cork

Well said, the pleasure of it is electric,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am here for my pleasure, not a ladies. I wont be putting a lady first.

If I had you tied to the fucking bed we would see who is being put first

You may have found my Achilles heel. lol"

Now where did I put them cable ties

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the question should be how quick can you reload and continue to

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