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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Without sex??

Going on 3 months now ...

Slowly losing my mind...

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Longest for me was 15 years

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By *edro50Man
over a year ago

enniskillen

Wish I could help xxx

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"Longest for me was 15 years "

15 years ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a lady wank. It’s still sex ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me

Now that I am single I think the longest was two months. I kept the postman in a job delivering Love Honey parcels during that lonely time

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Running at 6mths currently

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"Have a lady wank. It’s still sex ?? "

Lady wank ...

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Have a lady wank. It’s still sex ??

Lady wank ... "

Dont say u don't we won't believe u

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Longest for me was 15 years "

Yeah, but birth to 15 yrs of age really shouldn't count...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Longest for me was 15 years

Yeah, but birth to 15 yrs of age really shouldn't count... "

Me too, then my balls dropped, I was a late starter

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"Have a lady wank. It’s still sex ??

Lady wank ...

Dont say u don't we won't believe u "

Anyone who knows me ... I dont ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s about 2 months for me now but before that it was 18 months prior to that

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Have a lady wank. It’s still sex ??

Lady wank ...

Dont say u don't we won't believe u

Anyone who knows me ... I dont ... "

Liar

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?"

I agree with you

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

12 months by choice. My arm grew some muscle that year

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?"

I believe this statement covers this.

The sex you want you ain't getting,and the sex you're getting you don't want.

It's not just about a lady getting a ride. It's quality over quantity. And you can't spell quantity without tity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a week tops. mother nature be a bitch

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"a week tops. mother nature be a bitch "

Bj and steak every day that week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?"

For a single lady on Fab it can be like ordering off the Justeat.ie menu. You could have a fresh meal delivered piping hot to your doorstep.

But I have often gone two months between meets. Main reason I am a single Mammy with a fuckwit ex who rarely takes his children. I live out in the sticks so not just inviting any Fab randomners over. So that incurs hotel costs. My last two hotel meets actually cancelled as soon as I checked in leaving me to foot the bill. The main reason is I need to have some spark or chemistry to fuck someone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 months after my eldest was born, thanks to a botched episiotomy repair. On the bright side, the post-natal depression meant I didn't miss the sex much

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?

For a single lady on Fab it can be like ordering off the Justeat.ie menu. You could have a fresh meal delivered piping hot to your doorstep.

But I have often gone two months between meets. Main reason I am a single Mammy with a fuckwit ex who rarely takes his children. I live out in the sticks so not just inviting any Fab randomners over. So that incurs hotel costs. My last two hotel meets actually cancelled as soon as I checked in leaving me to foot the bill. The main reason is I need to have some spark or chemistry to fuck someone. "

You have my respect, and apologies for not considering scenarios such as this when I made my comment.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?

For a single lady on Fab it can be like ordering off the Justeat.ie menu. You could have a fresh meal delivered piping hot to your doorstep.

But I have often gone two months between meets. Main reason I am a single Mammy with a fuckwit ex who rarely takes his children. I live out in the sticks so not just inviting any Fab randomners over. So that incurs hotel costs. My last two hotel meets actually cancelled as soon as I checked in leaving me to foot the bill. The main reason is I need to have some spark or chemistry to fuck someone.

You have my respect, and apologies for not considering scenarios such as this when I made my comment. "

I got given shît before for not meeting when I had my son. Don't give a shite I'll always pick my son over anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?

I believe this statement covers this.

The sex you want you ain't getting,and the sex you're getting you don't want.

It's not just about a lady getting a ride. It's quality over quantity. And you can't spell quantity without tity "

True story

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?

For a single lady on Fab it can be like ordering off the Justeat.ie menu. You could have a fresh meal delivered piping hot to your doorstep.

But I have often gone two months between meets. Main reason I am a single Mammy with a fuckwit ex who rarely takes his children. I live out in the sticks so not just inviting any Fab randomners over. So that incurs hotel costs. My last two hotel meets actually cancelled as soon as I checked in leaving me to foot the bill. The main reason is I need to have some spark or chemistry to fuck someone.

You have my respect, and apologies for not considering scenarios such as this when I made my comment. "

No need for apologies I was just giving my insight into why I rarely meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?

For a single lady on Fab it can be like ordering off the Justeat.ie menu. You could have a fresh meal delivered piping hot to your doorstep.

But I have often gone two months between meets. Main reason I am a single Mammy with a fuckwit ex who rarely takes his children. I live out in the sticks so not just inviting any Fab randomners over. So that incurs hotel costs. My last two hotel meets actually cancelled as soon as I checked in leaving me to foot the bill. The main reason is I need to have some spark or chemistry to fuck someone. "

I'm kind of living in a similar world, but I can't exactly call my ex a fuck wit cause she's not.. But yes it can be like trying make the stars align at times to organise a meet.. The things you take for granted when your young free and single

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 months after my eldest was born, thanks to a botched episiotomy repair. On the bright side, the post-natal depression meant I didn't miss the sex much "

I’m sure you made up for it all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 months after my eldest was born, thanks to a botched episiotomy repair. On the bright side, the post-natal depression meant I didn't miss the sex much

I’m sure you made up for it all "

I'm not getting any younger you know!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long can I go without?..If it was my choice,a day! ...in reality,till some lady puts me out of my misery!

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By *lippery-when-wet-180Woman
over a year ago

South Dub

Think a year after breaking up with my ex, currently nearly 4 mths

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

13 years...from when I was born to my first knuckle shuffle

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

I have to think about this one, down through the years it probably hasn’t being longer than a month! From a sex point of view that probably good but my choice in women to get into relationships with was questionable if I’m honest and was was mostly cause I was having sex with them rather than wanting to be in a relationship with them.

I’m chatty and end up in conversations when out that lead to kissing and a taxi home and relationships just started from there. But that was before I knew what I wanted and become strong enough to say this is just a bit of fun and wasn’t looking for a relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?"

Yes more men here but are the possibilities good not allways unfortunately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

8 years in my late 20's to mid 30s.

Longest without on Fab prob 5 months

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?

Yes more men here but are the possibilities good not allways unfortunately. "

Ah you can’t say that till you sampled them all then you can report back

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By *r_WildxMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Longest for me was 15 years "

What????? I guess it wasn't your choice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?

Yes more men here but are the possibilities good not allways unfortunately.

Ah you can’t say that till you sampled them all then you can report back "

Sampled enough to learn to be more carefull

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By *r_WildxMan
over a year ago

Dublin

My longest "celibate" was around 8 months... It was a nightmare...

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?

Yes more men here but are the possibilities good not allways unfortunately.

Ah you can’t say that till you sampled them all then you can report back

Sampled enough to learn to be more carefull "

Jeasus I need to buy a rifle and take out some of these pricks that are spoiling it for the rest of us

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By *r_WildxMan
over a year ago

Dublin

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By *r_WildxMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Longest for me was 15 years

Yeah, but birth to 15 yrs of age really shouldn't count... "

Hahahaha good one

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?

Yes more men here but are the possibilities good not allways unfortunately.

Ah you can’t say that till you sampled them all then you can report back

Sampled enough to learn to be more carefull "

I agree I've met a few really nice guys but I've a few who were not like they seemed before hand and who think they can almost force you to have sex with them . And I always do a social meet but that doesn't even guarantee it's going to be OK. It has definitely made me more wary.

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?

Yes more men here but are the possibilities good not allways unfortunately.

Ah you can’t say that till you sampled them all then you can report back

Sampled enough to learn to be more carefull

I agree I've met a few really nice guys but I've a few who were not like they seemed before hand and who think they can almost force you to have sex with them . And I always do a social meet but that doesn't even guarantee it's going to be OK. It has definitely made me more wary. "

But that’s is what a social meet is! Coffee or drink with not other commitments. How else would either know if they wanted things to go any further.

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

I think my longest was about 7 months. It was during a bad period in my life so I didn't really miss it much at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve went 4 years without it after a break up! Was terrible!!

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Being a single mammy with kids living with me 24/7,not easy arranging socials,working full time also,last couple of socials cancelled and when I had a meet arranged family issues popped up.

Not very lucky at the moment....

And no I dont masturbate...

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

I’ve went a couple of months after a break up it was a very hard couple of months as like most ppl on here I’ve a very high sex drive .ie I need it daily,wanks only hold you for so long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a single mammy with kids living with me 24/7,not easy arranging socials,working full time also,last couple of socials cancelled and when I had a meet arranged family issues popped up.

Not very lucky at the moment....

And no I dont masturbate... "

It's not easy as a single parent. I hope you get to have some mischief soon to make up for it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being a single mammy with kids living with me 24/7,not easy arranging socials,working full time also,last couple of socials cancelled and when I had a meet arranged family issues popped up.

Not very lucky at the moment....

And no I dont masturbate... "

sounds like you need a threesome to make up for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is 3 months that long?

Dont get me wrong Id be happy with a daily supply but it is also something I can switch off if its not an option without it disrupting my mental well being

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About as long as a piece of string

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"Is 3 months that long?

Dont get me wrong Id be happy with a daily supply but it is also something I can switch off if its not an option without it disrupting my mental well being"

Go 3 months without having a wank ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is 3 months that long?

Dont get me wrong Id be happy with a daily supply but it is also something I can switch off if its not an option without it disrupting my mental well being

Go 3 months without having a wank ... "

Apologies for reading the actual OP and commenting on that.

But again I think I could its not something that plays on my mind unless there is a reason for it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a number of weeks ..no problem...its all in the mind ...

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By *onny17Man
over a year ago

city

Been 6 weeks. Very hard times lately haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"6 months after my eldest was born, thanks to a botched episiotomy repair. On the bright side, the post-natal depression meant I didn't miss the sex much "

That's the attitude. Glass half full

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest for me was a year. It wasn't on purpose. Just between being sick and other stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Longest for me was a year. It wasn't on purpose. Just between being sick and other stuff."

Did cleaning your brothers room put you off sex lol

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"Longest for me was 15 years "
ah holy divine god

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me."
you must of got married when you were out of your mind.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Question is not HOW...

but WHY would one go without

for one very long spell?

Sure t'is Fab we're on!

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By *ltered EgoMan
over a year ago

not a million miles from the airport.

Current ‘dry spell’ going since October 2017, about 20 months.

Longest was about 4 years ... 2012 - 2016

Mrs. Has absolutely zero interest in sex - I have no say in it - incredibly selfish.

Married life can be s bitch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Current ‘dry spell’ going since October 2017, about 20 months.

Longest was about 4 years ... 2012 - 2016

Mrs. Has absolutely zero interest in sex - I have no say in it - incredibly selfish.

Married life can be s bitch!"

Why is she selfish?. Lots of reasons shes not having sex . One of them could be you.

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

Nearly 4 months now!!!!

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Before I was online meeting it was 5 years plus, it’s really not good for your mental health and confidence levels.

My current hiatus is since April 2018.

Like a previous poster said about number of guys and offers on here being plentifully, it’s not a numbers game for me. It’s about good quality mutual fun.

I’d rather have no sex than be made feel like a hooker providing a service with no reward.

Hope your dry spell is broken soon red.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"(Deep breath)

At risk of getting savaged for this next comment...

If you're a lady (especially on fab) surely you have so many guys contacting you that (nothwothstanding work commitments, life, etc) you have a whole lot more possibilities for sex and hence you really shouldn't need to go for weeks let alone months between sex sessions..?

(Reaches for hard hat...?

For a single lady on Fab it can be like ordering off the Justeat.ie menu. You could have a fresh meal delivered piping hot to your doorstep.

But I have often gone two months between meets. Main reason I am a single Mammy with a fuckwit ex who rarely takes his children. I live out in the sticks so not just inviting any Fab randomners over. So that incurs hotel costs. My last two hotel meets actually cancelled as soon as I checked in leaving me to foot the bill. The main reason is I need to have some spark or chemistry to fuck someone. "

Reading things like this makes me so angry and I don’t even know you. Do people not realise the effort some go to to meet and the expense, then don’t bother their ass showing up.

You’re a gorgeous lady so he’s also stupid aswell as a dick for not showing up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My longest was a year I could probably go a couple of weeks though

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

After a month I start growing three dragon heads, after two month they're fully out. So I normally make sure it doesn't get that far.

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By *lay2018Couple
over a year ago

westmeath & roscommon.

Can't remember the last time I didn't have any for more than a few weeks since 18. Even before 18-16 every few months.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I couldn't go months without sex. It's easy to avoid that situation also. We're all humans and most of us want sex fairly regularly.

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By *ookwhoitishaMan
over a year ago

outside Strabane


"Without sex??

Going on 3 months now ...

Slowly losing my mind...

"

Ye may give up and joint he convent

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Confidence is a great thing with sex. Having sex with somebody extremely shy can become awkward. If you think about things to much you'll come unstuck. Don't think, just go with ones flow.

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

Belfast

I get a bit fidgety after a few days

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

Could last a few days but luckily we don't have to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me.you must of got married when you were out of your mind. "

You don't know the circumstances.

When you husband is in the middle of a manic episode and refuses to shower or change clothes for days you couldn't blame me not wanting sex.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me.you must of got married when you were out of your mind.

You don't know the circumstances.

When you husband is in the middle of a manic episode and refuses to shower or change clothes for days you couldn't blame me not wanting sex."

only himself can get help if he has a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me.you must of got married when you were out of your mind.

You don't know the circumstances.

When you husband is in the middle of a manic episode and refuses to shower or change clothes for days you couldn't blame me not wanting sex.only himself can get help if he has a problem. "

Well it's the reason why I am now single. There's only so many years you can help someone who refuses to get help.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me.you must of got married when you were out of your mind.

You don't know the circumstances.

When you husband is in the middle of a manic episode and refuses to shower or change clothes for days you couldn't blame me not wanting sex.only himself can get help if he has a problem.

Well it's the reason why I am now single. There's only so many years you can help someone who refuses to get help."

or refuses to admit there's any issue in the first place

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough

But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it

3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....

Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough

But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it

3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....

Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho "

That's a dangerous last sentence to publish on fab..!! Lol

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"Without sex??

Going on 3 months now ...

Slowly losing my mind...

Ye may give up and joint he convent "

Dont like the outfit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough

But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it

3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....

Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho

That's a dangerous last sentence to publish on fab..!! Lol"

I just need to find that someone to turn me nympho.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough

But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it

3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....

Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho

That's a dangerous last sentence to publish on fab..!! Lol

I just need to find that someone to turn me nympho. "

Dangerous sentence #2..! You'd better tell your inbox to brace itself when the guys all read this...

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Before I was online meeting it was 5 years plus, it’s really not good for your mental health and confidence levels.

My current hiatus is since April 2018.

Like a previous poster said about number of guys and offers on here being plentifully, it’s not a numbers game for me. It’s about good quality mutual fun.

I’d rather have no sex than be made feel like a hooker providing a service with no reward.

Hope your dry spell is broken soon red. "

Well said Gingerrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough

But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it

3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....

Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho "

Totally get the thing about losing interest. I'm slowly getting my freedom back and waiting to unleash the nympho too lol

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

Holy feck: this place is coming down with sneaky milfs and soon-to-be nymphos today..!

Watch out men on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough

But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it

3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....

Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho

Totally get the thing about losing interest. I'm slowly getting my freedom back and waiting to unleash the nympho too lol"

God bless the nymho lol

Mrs B birthday bash might be a way to let loose the NYMHO

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough

But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it

3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....

Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho

Totally get the thing about losing interest. I'm slowly getting my freedom back and waiting to unleash the nympho too lol

God bless the nymho lol

Mrs B birthday bash might be a way to let loose the NYMHO "

Let's hope so

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"Holy feck: this place is coming down with sneaky milfs and soon-to-be nymphos today..!

Watch out men on fab "

It's always like this on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough

But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it

3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....

Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho

Totally get the thing about losing interest. I'm slowly getting my freedom back and waiting to unleash the nympho too lol

God bless the nymho lol

Mrs B birthday bash might be a way to let loose the NYMHO

Let's hope so "

Mrs B hold a great night, with a lovely mix of people

I shall see you there and we can go on the prowl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough

But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it

3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....

Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho

Totally get the thing about losing interest. I'm slowly getting my freedom back and waiting to unleash the nympho too lol

God bless the nymho lol

Mrs B birthday bash might be a way to let loose the NYMHO

Let's hope so

Mrs B hold a great night, with a lovely mix of people

I shall see you there and we can go on the prowl "

Definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough

But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it

3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....

Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho

Totally get the thing about losing interest. I'm slowly getting my freedom back and waiting to unleash the nympho too lol

God bless the nymho lol

Mrs B birthday bash might be a way to let loose the NYMHO

Let's hope so

Mrs B hold a great night, with a lovely mix of people

I shall see you there and we can go on the prowl

Definitely "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 months once. Not a pleasant experience I have to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Longest for me was a year. It wasn't on purpose. Just between being sick and other stuff.

Did cleaning your brothers room put you off sex lol"

Ha ha nope. Was just a rough year.

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By *ltered EgoMan
over a year ago

not a million miles from the airport.


"Current ‘dry spell’ going since October 2017, about 20 months.

Longest was about 4 years ... 2012 - 2016

Mrs. Has absolutely zero interest in sex - I have no say in it - incredibly selfish.

Married life can be s bitch!

Why is she selfish?. Lots of reasons shes not having sex . One of them could be you."

Selfish, in that it’s only her terms, no conversation about the whys, says the still loves me etc.

At this point, I’m only in it for the kids.

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area


"Current ‘dry spell’ going since October 2017, about 20 months.

Longest was about 4 years ... 2012 - 2016

Mrs. Has absolutely zero interest in sex - I have no say in it - incredibly selfish.

Married life can be s bitch!

Why is she selfish?. Lots of reasons shes not having sex . One of them could be you.

Selfish, in that it’s only her terms, no conversation about the whys, says the still loves me etc.

At this point, I’m only in it for the kids. "

If there's any comfort from what I'm about to say - and I suspect not - this is quite a common occurrence.

While everyone has different views on marriage, it's one of the toughest things to do in my opinion. Add in kids and often it goes to hell. There are those better suited to it but many of us are not and you don't know until you actually do it.

None of us can advise you as we don't know context and circumstance and I can't condone or condem you either. My only advice is to find a way to be absolutely clear why you find yourselves in this situation and I can't see that you have that.

Get 3rd party help. Be clear and unambiguous why. They figure out how best to provide the most stable environment for your kids while having some modicum of happiness yourselves.

And fab actually can provide therapy for you, if not the physical gratification you desire

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Current ‘dry spell’ going since October 2017, about 20 months.

Longest was about 4 years ... 2012 - 2016

Mrs. Has absolutely zero interest in sex - I have no say in it - incredibly selfish.

Married life can be s bitch!

Why is she selfish?. Lots of reasons shes not having sex . One of them could be you.

Selfish, in that it’s only her terms, no conversation about the whys, says the still loves me etc.

At this point, I’m only in it for the kids.

If there's any comfort from what I'm about to say - and I suspect not - this is quite a common occurrence.

While everyone has different views on marriage, it's one of the toughest things to do in my opinion. Add in kids and often it goes to hell. There are those better suited to it but many of us are not and you don't know until you actually do it.

None of us can advise you as we don't know context and circumstance and I can't condone or condem you either. My only advice is to find a way to be absolutely clear why you find yourselves in this situation and I can't see that you have that.

Get 3rd party help. Be clear and unambiguous why. They figure out how best to provide the most stable environment for your kids while having some modicum of happiness yourselves.

And fab actually can provide therapy for you, if not the physical gratification you desire "

Well said, and third party help can have a stigma attached to it for alot of people, it really can help to sort problems in a couple, but more often than not helps you move on with your life and be happy again.. Happy you, happy kids, happy life.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

i went for the guts of 20 years without sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love sex and when I'm having great sex with someone I enjoy I just can't get enough

But when I haven't had sex in a while I go the opposite way, I stop thinking about it and I'm not that interested in finding it

3 years was my longest without sex, after I left my marriage, I just had no interest, I just concentrated on trying to work and take care of the kids....

Kids are older now and slowly but surely I'm getting freedom, I will probably turn into a nympho "

I have it on good authority that you are a nympho !!!!

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By *ively chicWoman
over a year ago

Cougarville

Haven't had it a while now, undergoing treatment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

18 months & counting.. think I'm a virgin again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Jesus that would of been some orgasm....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need a local fwb who can attend short notice.

Know the feeling regarding socials always on weekends i have kids.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Over a year after last long term.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need a local fwb who can attend short notice.

Know the feeling regarding socials always on weekends i have kids."

Where do you find one of those fwb's?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A local fwb interested in regular sex would be nice to come across

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Haha come across them when you least expect it....

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"A local fwb interested in regular sex would be nice to come across "

Yeah ... and then vanilla life gets in the way ... over 3 months no sex ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A local fwb interested in regular sex would be nice to come across

Yeah ... and then vanilla life gets in the way ... over 3 months no sex ...

"

3 months????.... I would put u at a max of 3 hrs without sex lol

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

Just realised I'm nearing the one month mark

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Longest for me was just shy of 20yrs...ex decided as soon as the ring was on the finger..he could do better lol

And im a stubborn bitch...i wasnt gonna cheat no matter what LOL

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah chat is cheap. Easier said being a nympho than physically being one...

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need a local fwb who can attend short notice.

Know the feeling regarding socials always on weekends i have kids.

Where do you find one of those fwb's? "

On the opposite side of the country usually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think the longest was a few months and that’s when I was in a couple here still laugh at the idea of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been off sex for 8 months now and I feel great........not in a row or anything

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By *sLittleRedRidingHood OP   Woman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest


"A local fwb interested in regular sex would be nice to come across

Yeah ... and then vanilla life gets in the way ... over 3 months no sex ...

Yeah need to get a new bed soon... its falling apart ... men coming and going...

3 months????.... I would put u at a max of 3 hrs without sex lol"

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By *oc1998Man
over a year ago

Dundalk

Summer time is the quiet time for me because college is closed. But once it opens again, so do the flood gates

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By *ensualandslow321Man
over a year ago

Tullamore

3 weeks 2 days and 4 hours. Tomorrow can't come soon enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When I was married could easily go months as my skin would literally crawl when my husband touched me

Now that I am single I think the longest was two months. I kept the postman in a job delivering Love Honey parcels during that lonely time "

Pmsl

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