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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

Fellas how much does age bother you with no strings sex. Be honest. Males only.

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

I luv sex but rather a regullar friend not just a once off .

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By *tanley KMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

How do you mean? As in age range?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"How do you mean? As in age range?"
yes does age bother u.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age doesn’t matter to me really, once I find them attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The further they are over 40 the better

Within reason

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By *tanley KMan
over a year ago

Enniscorthy

No.... I supppse I have a lower limit at around 30, but no upper limit and I've been lucky to meet some very hot women in their 60's. And the lower one has more to do with approaching the age of my kids, and thats juut weird

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"No.... I supppse I have a lower limit at around 30, but no upper limit and I've been lucky to meet some very hot women in their 60's. And the lower one has more to do with approaching the age of my kids, and thats juut weird "
ye I wouldn't have the same issue with lower age but then again I don't have kids

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not in the slightest... I do find I have more in common with certain age groups which improves the chance of connecting with someone.

But age would have zero factor in deciding in a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the amount of 25 year olds messaging us is anything to go by, I'd guess that it doesn't matter. I suspect most other women and couples have the same experience.

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm game once the attraction is there and obviously she's legal.

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

wouldhaveto be25 and over for me prob draw the line at 65.... thats coffin dodging territory

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

A pulse or good core temp after that its all subjective providing its leagal

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By *rsmiley69Man
over a year ago

Cavan Monaghan

Doesn’t bother me at all variety is the spice of life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Doesn’t bother me at all variety is the spice of life "

This

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By *oywonder69Man
over a year ago

cavan

20 and upwards to 55 is fine with me

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By *outhbelMan
over a year ago

Near Carryduff

It doesn't bother me but if you look at most females and cpls profiles the majority of them seem to have a cutoff age of about 40~45, shame as they are hot as hell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A pulse or good core temp after that its all subjective providing its leagal "

Pulses and core temps are always negotiable with me

Hey CJ, since when did you regain ‘morals’ and up your standards?

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"A pulse or good core temp after that its all subjective providing its leagal

Pulses and core temps are always negotiable with me

Hey CJ, since when did you regain ‘morals’ and up your standards? "

Talking of standards how did u get Tabiata to drop her's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as their down to earth , hot, fit and happy in their skin then im in

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"As long as their down to earth , hot, fit and happy in their skin then im in "

What about if their happy out of their skin Jack??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As long as their down to earth , hot, fit and happy in their skin then im in

What about if their happy out of their skin Jack??"

Then I'll just give em a cuddle and end up with the same result

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam


"As long as their down to earth , hot, fit and happy in their skin then im in

What about if their happy out of their skin Jack??

Then I'll just give em a cuddle and end up with the same result "

Nice and casual Jack

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

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By *verage Joe BlackMan
over a year ago

Border Area

Really should avoid this thread too as I suspect lots of eyes on it making judgements, however...

This has bothered me as I have grown older. I feel like a lech if I look at girls who could be my daughter (that's even in mid 20s..!) but regrettably my inbuilt physical attraction preference has a low spectrum and as I grow older I find that is worryingly not evolving as it should .

In other words, ladies in my age range should be my sweet spot but are not any more.

I've tended to find that God/nature is harsher on the female of the species as we all grow older and I find that my involuntary attraction points down instead of up in terms of age.

So ladies that are older than me tend not to attract me but younger does. And if I'm honest, If there was a mature 21 yr old who was interested I would likely pursue, as creepy as it sounds.

Quite apart from how cringeworthy it would be to see an old guy like me with a lady that young..!

Do other guys find something similar for their attraction as you grow older..?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really should avoid this thread too as I suspect lots of eyes on it making judgements, however...

This has bothered me as I have grown older. I feel like a lech if I look at girls who could be my daughter (that's even in mid 20s..!) but regrettably my inbuilt physical attraction preferences have a low spectrum and as I grow older I find that is worryingly not changing.

In other words, ladies in my age range should be my sweet spot but are not any more.

I've tended to find that God/nature is harsher on the female of the species as we all grow older and I find that my involuntary attraction points down instead of up in terms of age. So ladies that are older than me tend not to attract me but younger does. And if I'm honest, I'd there was a mature 21 yr old who was interested I would likely pursue, as creepy as it sounds looks. Quite apart from how cringeworthy it would be to see an old guy like me with a lady that young..!

Do other guys find this..?"

I have a teenage daughter, and somtimes wonder will I feel the the same when shes in her 20s, will it be creepy for a dad to find wemon attractive of her age?. . I think not, there shouldn't be an age cap on who your attracted to,it's just human nature

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"If the amount of 25 year olds messaging us is anything to go by, I'd guess that it doesn't matter. I suspect most other women and couples have the same experience."

Yes... But most of them seem to see an 'older woman' as an experience or a bucket list item... You get the feeling that your age is more important to them than anything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the amount of 25 year olds messaging us is anything to go by, I'd guess that it doesn't matter. I suspect most other women and couples have the same experience.

Yes... But most of them seem to see an 'older woman' as an experience or a bucket list item... You get the feeling that your age is more important to them than anything else. "

Nah, I just assume they've unsuccessfully messaged everyone younger

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By *unLovingCriminalMan
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Fellas how much does age bother you with no strings sex. Be honest. Males only. "

Not at all once age is irrelevant in my opinion once theres mutual attraction I have a fwb 16.5 years older than me,and other than teasing about it theres never a problem.We get on brilliantly both in and out of the bedroom

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By *ceryMan
over a year ago

Malahide & Waterford

When you're blind folded you'll never know....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Really should avoid this thread too as I suspect lots of eyes on it making judgements, however...

This has bothered me as I have grown older. I feel like a lech if I look at girls who could be my daughter (that's even in mid 20s..!) but regrettably my inbuilt physical attraction preference has a low spectrum and as I grow older I find that is worryingly not evolving as it should .

In other words, ladies in my age range should be my sweet spot but are not any more.

I've tended to find that God/nature is harsher on the female of the species as we all grow older and I find that my involuntary attraction points down instead of up in terms of age.

So ladies that are older than me tend not to attract me but younger does. And if I'm honest, If there was a mature 21 yr old who was interested I would likely pursue, as creepy as it sounds.

Quite apart from how cringeworthy it would be to see an old guy like me with a lady that young..!

Do other guys find something similar for their attraction as you grow older..?"
.Actually I do find ladies in my age range more attractive,I think it's to do with maturity and confidence and probably that we have more in common!..now I've met some lovely ladies in their late 30s,but I don't think i'd go much lower..and there are some stunning ladies in their 20s,and it's always lovely to see a beautiful lady,but I think my mind is pre-conditioned to the point it doesn't even cross my mind to go down that road!..as for older,if she's attractive age doesn't really matter,I've seen ladies in their 60s who are still very attractive (take Helen Mirren for example and she's in her 70s) than those much younger!

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Age is not a factor at all...

once there's sexy chemistry!

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun


"A pulse or good core temp after that its all subjective providing its leagal

Pulses and core temps are always negotiable with me

Hey CJ, since when did you regain ‘morals’ and up your standards?

Talking of standards how did u get Tabiata to drop her's "

Touché! ()

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas how much does age bother you with no strings sex. Be honest. Males only.

Not at all once age is irrelevant in my opinion once theres mutual attraction I have a fwb 16.5 years older than me,and other than teasing about it theres never a problem.We get on brilliantly both in and out of the bedroom "

Sure we get on great and the sex is outrageously good. It's not about the age difference but all about the chemistry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me at all. If anything, my experience is that is exactly what women on this site want.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"A pulse or good core temp after that its all subjective providing its leagal

Pulses and core temps are always negotiable with me

Hey CJ, since when did you regain ‘morals’ and up your standards?

Talking of standards how did u get Tabiata to drop her's

Touché! ()"

U knows i loves ya

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas how much does age bother you with no strings sex. Be honest. Males only. "

Why makes only ? Can women not have an opinion

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Really should avoid this thread too as I suspect lots of eyes on it making judgements, however...

This has bothered me as I have grown older. I feel like a lech if I look at girls who could be my daughter (that's even in mid 20s..!) but regrettably my inbuilt physical attraction preference has a low spectrum and as I grow older I find that is worryingly not evolving as it should .

In other words, ladies in my age range should be my sweet spot but are not any more.

I've tended to find that God/nature is harsher on the female of the species as we all grow older and I find that my involuntary attraction points down instead of up in terms of age.

So ladies that are older than me tend not to attract me but younger does. And if I'm honest, If there was a mature 21 yr old who was interested I would likely pursue, as creepy as it sounds.

Quite apart from how cringeworthy it would be to see an old guy like me with a lady that young..!

Do other guys find something similar for their attraction as you grow older..?"

Ouch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors

When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant...

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors

When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant..."
I'd be extra nice to that ass.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Age doesn't really factor too much at the upper scale on the lower scale yes. Personality and intelligence which can be more attractive than some other factors. As long as there is some sort of attraction and they aren't too young then not an issue.

I've met 25 year Olds more mature and with better personality than women my own age but I've also met total headwrecks in all age brackets.(not in a sexual way)

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge


"If the amount of 25 year olds messaging us is anything to go by, I'd guess that it doesn't matter. I suspect most other women and couples have the same experience.

Yes... But most of them seem to see an 'older woman' as an experience or a bucket list item... You get the feeling that your age is more important to them than anything else. "
I wouldn't say most men. A select few yes. But I see a woman as a woman. A woman's age isn't some kinda trophy.

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

Another thing I find is I get a lot of younger women hit on me when I'm out because I look younger than I am. A few weeks ago someone thought I was 28 (not a bad complaint to have)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If the amount of 25 year olds messaging us is anything to go by, I'd guess that it doesn't matter. I suspect most other women and couples have the same experience.

Yes... But most of them seem to see an 'older woman' as an experience or a bucket list item... You get the feeling that your age is more important to them than anything else. "

And it certainly doesn't make you feel to great when they put in a message

"a woman of your age"

"I would love to experience an older woman"

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"Really should avoid this thread too as I suspect lots of eyes on it making judgements, however...

This has bothered me as I have grown older. I feel like a lech if I look at girls who could be my daughter (that's even in mid 20s..!) but regrettably my inbuilt physical attraction preference has a low spectrum and as I grow older I find that is worryingly not evolving as it should .

In other words, ladies in my age range should be my sweet spot but are not any more.

I've tended to find that God/nature is harsher on the female of the species as we all grow older and I find that my involuntary attraction points down instead of up in terms of age.

So ladies that are older than me tend not to attract me but younger does. And if I'm honest, If there was a mature 21 yr old who was interested I would likely pursue, as creepy as it sounds.

Quite apart from how cringeworthy it would be to see an old guy like me with a lady that young..!

Do other guys find something similar for their attraction as you grow older..?"

I understand a lot of what you say and have had the latch feeling also at times.

However I find that I am gaining more respect/ attraction to older ladies also. I've seen some 65yr old women that I find attractive.

Gives me hope for the nursing home years

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was younger I thought age mattered. It doesn't.!

You'll mentally connect to the people you connect to. Simple as that. As regards to sex witch everyone's thinking. In my experience, practice makes perfect. BUT..... attitude,.! Some women just have an amazing attitude to sex. These women, these women will Rock your world regardless to their age..

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"When I was younger I thought age mattered. It doesn't.!

You'll mentally connect to the people you connect to. Simple as that. As regards to sex witch everyone's thinking. In my experience, practice makes perfect. BUT..... attitude,.! Some women just have an amazing attitude to sex. These women, these women will Rock your world regardless to their age.."

Good answer

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin


"When I was younger I thought age mattered. It doesn't.!

You'll mentally connect to the people you connect to. Simple as that. As regards to sex witch everyone's thinking. In my experience, practice makes perfect. BUT..... attitude,.! Some women just have an amazing attitude to sex. These women, these women will Rock your world regardless to their age.."

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By *oxic1998Woman
over a year ago

Belfast


"If the amount of 25 year olds messaging us is anything to go by, I'd guess that it doesn't matter. I suspect most other women and couples have the same experience.

Yes... But most of them seem to see an 'older woman' as an experience or a bucket list item... You get the feeling that your age is more important to them than anything else.

And it certainly doesn't make you feel to great when they put in a message

"a woman of your age"

"I would love to experience an older woman"

"

totally agree....another one from young guys would be "you could teach me a thing or 2"......instant block

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By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Ladies over 40 for me .they know exactly what they want and always deliver

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary

I'm laughing here reading some of the wording in mail that bothers women.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I'm laughing here reading some of the wording in mail that bothers women. "

If you hear it once, it doesn't bother you. If you hear it a few times you think 'right'. If you hear it over and over again you just think 'f off'.

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

For me I have no issue with age if we're both into it, as long as they're legal of course.

But, being an almost 39 year old man I find the idea of me actively trying to get with a girl in her mid 20's or lower a bit iffy. Just my feeling on it.

But if she makes the first move then I'm perfectly fine to go along with it.

Other than that if I fancy someone age has no bearing.

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.

Prefer my age and older.

Was in a relationship a while Back

She was 62 and great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn’t really pay attention to age, attraction and connection would be the main focus.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors

When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant...I'd be extra nice to that ass. "

Flattery will get you.... everything

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors

When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant...I'd be extra nice to that ass.

Flattery will get you.... everything "
even dinner cooked for me this evening? The thoughts of cooking is a nightmare.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors

When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant...I'd be extra nice to that ass.

Flattery will get you.... everything even dinner cooked for me this evening? The thoughts of cooking is a nightmare. "

Take you out for a fish supper?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors

When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant...I'd be extra nice to that ass.

Flattery will get you.... everything even dinner cooked for me this evening? The thoughts of cooking is a nightmare.

Take you out for a fish supper?"

September maybe?

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwilly OP   Man
over a year ago

Tipperary


"I know you said males only OP but I’m a visitor and you should always be nice to visitors

When I started on Fab, I thought, right, no men under 45. Then it went to 40. Now it’s 35ish. I don’t look my age, the guys I meet are mature, experienced and I have no complaints so age really does become irrelevant...I'd be extra nice to that ass.

Flattery will get you.... everything even dinner cooked for me this evening? The thoughts of cooking is a nightmare.

Take you out for a fish supper?"
that will do lovely.

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