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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen "

whats tbe worst.. famous last words

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry

I'm available to receive all your messages ladies ??

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By *essicaRabbit1Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm available to receive all your messages ladies ??"

That's sort of the issue

Men seem to literally just want mail from any girl.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good idea OP, grab the bull by the horns

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"I'm available to receive all your messages ladies ??

That's sort of the issue

Men seem to literally just want mail from any girl. "

no i just want a non judgemental sane woman to mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen "

Worst that can happen is all the men clicking on the mail button all excited and then that breath of excitement being taken away!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Ah sure why not.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"I'm available to receive all your messages ladies ??

That's sort of the issue

Men seem to literally just want mail from any girl.

no i just want a non judgemental sane woman to mail"

Deletes message I was about to send

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen "

Down there for dancing

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"I'm available to receive all your messages ladies ??

That's sort of the issue

Men seem to literally just want mail from any girl.

no i just want a non judgemental sane woman to mail

Deletes message I was about to send "

lol, also not afraid of honest people

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By *essicaRabbit1Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm available to receive all your messages ladies ??

That's sort of the issue

Men seem to literally just want mail from any girl.

no i just want a non judgemental sane woman to mail"

I wasn't addressing you in that. I meant the guy who said he welcomes all mails from the ladies. No lady can judge on here as we are all on here for the same thing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm available to receive all your messages ladies ??

That's sort of the issue

Men seem to literally just want mail from any girl. "

Yeah I think you are right there but there’s a small percentage who know what they want and who they would like to play with.

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Im in awaiting mail if im lucky

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm available to receive all your messages ladies ??

That's sort of the issue

Men seem to literally just want mail from any girl. "

Whats wrong with that? Just because someone mails doesnt mean ya need to ride them...

So whats the harm in wanting mail from anyone

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems. "
i didnt get your message steph lol . All joking aside it is hard to know what to put in a message sometimes

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By *ubeMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

What a great idea OP, take the bull by the horn it might start off a new friendship.

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By *essicaRabbit1Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"I'm available to receive all your messages ladies ??

That's sort of the issue

Men seem to literally just want mail from any girl.

Whats wrong with that? Just because someone mails doesnt mean ya need to ride them...

So whats the harm in wanting mail from anyone "

Sorry misunderstood why we are all are. Forgot it was to make friends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you contact someone if you've never messaged ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you contact someone if you've never messaged ??"

Well if you wait a few minutes, Jessica is just composing one for you. Apart from that, search the profile section and see who you think is similar to you and bang them a mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm available to receive all your messages ladies ??

That's sort of the issue

Men seem to literally just want mail from any girl.

Whats wrong with that? Just because someone mails doesnt mean ya need to ride them...

So whats the harm in wanting mail from anyone

Sorry misunderstood why we are all are. Forgot it was to make friends. "

Id say there is quite a broad range of reasons people are on here, making friends would be one of them. No need to apologise though

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you contact someone if you've never messaged ??"

Click on their profile and send message simplest really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you contact someone if you've never messaged ??

Click on their profile and send message simplest really "

Or click on reply privately on a forum post of theirs it will have the thread title as your mail subject...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you contact someone if you've never messaged ??

Well if you wait a few minutes, Jessica is just composing one for you. Apart from that, search the profile section and see who you think is similar to you and bang them a mail. "

I was referring too the post not me personally ...just thought everyone had sent a message that's all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"How do you contact someone if you've never messaged ??

Well if you wait a few minutes, Jessica is just composing one for you. Apart from that, search the profile section and see who you think is similar to you and bang them a mail.

I was referring too the post not me personally ...just thought everyone had sent a message that's all "

There's another thread asking the ladies off fab if they have sent the first message and up until today I hadn't lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you contact someone if you've never messaged ??

Well if you wait a few minutes, Jessica is just composing one for you. Apart from that, search the profile section and see who you think is similar to you and bang them a mail.

I was referring too the post not me personally ...just thought everyone had sent a message that's all

There's another thread asking the ladies off fab if they have sent the first message and up until today I hadn't lol"

Now I get what you mean thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you contact someone if you've never messaged ??

Well if you wait a few minutes, Jessica is just composing one for you. Apart from that, search the profile section and see who you think is similar to you and bang them a mail.

I was referring too the post not me personally ...just thought everyone had sent a message that's all "

Well it was just for the ladies to take the first step and mail someone they had their eye on but it seems to have ended up going a different direction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd be open minded to any message from ladies, no need to be fearful of us all

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By *esareBorgiaMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I've never received a message from a lady and never will I suppose (^ahem)....

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By *ohnsmithMan
over a year ago

South Tipperary

Post box open... Lol

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By *ay_DubMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I’ll just keep refreshing my inbox here lol

Joking aside, it’s a great idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

See!...composing a message to catch the eye is not as easy as it seems is it ladies?...all I'm getting at the moment is "Hi do you fancy a ride?" ...you really need to make more of an effort!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting (Mr. Burns voice)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am in , now see if any lady can send a message that matches the requests they demand on their profiles

Hi , how are you , what you up to ones will be deleted ,

Hahaha now ladies not so easy come up with an original message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See!...composing a message to catch the eye is not as easy as it seems is it ladies?...all I'm getting at the moment is "Hi do you fancy a ride?" ...you really need to make more of an effort! "

I appreciate this it’s not as easy as you would think to impress while under pressure lol and us guys are expected to be the first to message and be all impressive in one text?

Sometimes it takes a couple to get where ya want

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen "
great idea op I’m always open for a chat would love to hear from some of the ladies on here

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By *hors.HammerMan
over a year ago

Newbridge

All the lads sitting by their phones. But why isn't she mailing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got one! ..think I'll make her sweat and not open it for at least two minutes!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love someone taking the initiative & sending me a message

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"See!...composing a message to catch the eye is not as easy as it seems is it ladies?...all I'm getting at the moment is "Hi do you fancy a ride?" ...you really need to make more of an effort! "

Sighs and deletes message again

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"See!...composing a message to catch the eye is not as easy as it seems is it ladies?...all I'm getting at the moment is "Hi do you fancy a ride?" ...you really need to make more of an effort!

Sighs and deletes message again "

...ah go on!.. send it anyway, I'll make an exception for certain ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen "

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply

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By *ohng69Man
over a year ago

athenry


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply "

I promise I'll reply

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply :-

("

Send it sure the worst he can do is not reply really.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick

I can take postit if ur afraid to mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply :-

(

Send it sure the worst he can do is not reply really. "

Thats true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And thanks guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply "

I always reply!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d love this to happen I might even reply

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

any ladies want to send us a message we won't say no

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply "

Sure send it anyway. If he doesn’t reply then that’s on him and you are still in the same boat you were in before sending it. I’m betting he would reply, keep us updated

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By *elfastblondMan
over a year ago

Belfast

My mailbox must be broken

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By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Ok must stay online .lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My mailbox must be broken "

What? I've 365 unopened messages.. Apologies ladies I have to bulk delete...

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply "

Its interesting to see your fear of rejection given the constant threads where guys ask why they are not getting replies to mail they send (assume they are all well written with care taken to have read profile).

then getting hammered and being told to cop on as "no reply means not interested "

Most guys live with your fear constantly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And thanks guys "

He'd be crazy not too, your one hell of a hot, classy looking lady

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply "

Do it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Come on ladies get sending them messages. Already had a message from one guy thanking me as he got a few messages and has a meet planned this week.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve had some mail from some lovely ladies today because of this thread, thank you OP.

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By *irdnBorisMan
over a year ago

meath

Lucky him i got none yet lol but thats the way it goes bit like the lotto you maybe in but still not a guaranteed win

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By *orguyMan
over a year ago

Tuam

Keep them coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Which one of you ladies wants to drop me a mail and we play strip search and cops and robbers!

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By *undubguy100Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Feel free ladies.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply

Do it "

I just did

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By *eys00Man
over a year ago

have boots will travel


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply

Do it

I just did "

Must not have come through yet. I'll stay waiting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply

Do it

I just did "

Go you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply

Do it

I just did "

Did you send it by snail mail, it hasn’t reached my inbox yet !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always preferred to send msgs myself, granted most of them were to take the piss out of updates

I had better craic when it was someone I was interested in, rather than an inbox full of generic msgs.

Take control ladies!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you contact someone if you've never messaged ??

Click on their profile and send message simplest really

Or click on reply privately on a forum post of theirs it will have the thread title as your mail subject... "

Technically I did mail you first earlier

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By *antra MassageMan
over a year ago

Wicklow

I love getting mail and always reply to everyone. Who knows where it will lead? It could be the start of a great adventure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen

I'm half tempted to send one . I'm just afraid he won't reply

Do it

I just did "

I’d love to chat you but can’t with filters mail me sure lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I received a message recently...I had to sit down.we had a few more back and forward ...ended up I wasnt her type ..I said no problem...and then she blocked me lmao

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I received a message recently...I had to sit down.we had a few more back and forward ...ended up I wasnt her type ..I said no problem...and then she blocked me lmao "

Don't take it personally, she probably blocked you to avoid future conversations that would have the same result

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most definitely...I need my verified virginity taken

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Ah ladies!

I'm going to have to re-engage the filters if ye keep send just the Please Fuck Me emails!

Put a bit of effort in before I just mass delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Waiting

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By *eelum1988Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Waiting

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By *anKinkyMan
over a year ago

Carrick on Shannon

Probably reply ,well you didn't read my already sent messages and more than likely this one .but having a fabulous time with a nice foreign girl.

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By *oingMan
over a year ago

co. antrim

Feel free to say hello

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By *ordjeffMan
over a year ago

around and about ,as travel.


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen "

I'm still waiting for a message!

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Didn’t see this yesterday, but I’m all ways open for a little natter

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Good on ye Steph for taking the initiative

Spread the word

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By *aucyladMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Sounds like a really good idea.Im in!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to hear from a woman first. Very rare

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By *oguish1Man
over a year ago

Carrigrohane

Im in well answer all 200 that will roll in

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By *loki_38Man
over a year ago

Rural

Honestly reckon I get as many messages from blokes as I do women close to 50/50

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

belfast

Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

"

Was he on this thread

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

belfast


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

Was he on this thread "

Always funny when you politely decline and then they start the abuse! Can see why women on here get fed up, I get one of those a week maybe, some women get a few a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

"

Still blocked

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

Was he on this thread

Always funny when you politely decline and then they start the abuse! Can see why women on here get fed up, I get one of those a week maybe, some women get a few a day "

Just turn on your filters and they can’t message you if it annoys you. I have mine in as when a message appears in my in box it’s excitment and then when you open it and it’s a male commenting on how he wants you to my in his room with the lights off and he will come in and blow you and you can pretend it’s a woman it becomes a bit off putting

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Probably reply ,well you didn't read my already sent messages and more than likely this one .but having a fabulous time with a nice foreign girl. "

Who you saying didn't reply to your messages ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ok come on ladies some fine gentleman have said their inbox open for messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ready and waiting for the avalanche of messages

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By *onny17Man
over a year ago

Dublin

Refreshing my inbox

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny

Would love a message from a woman first to see what they say in frost message

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Would love a message from a woman first to see what they say in frost message "

I would say that should read first message. You could get a frosty response if it not

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By *rishman444Man
over a year ago

letterkenny


"Would love a message from a woman first to see what they say in frost message

I would say that should read first message. You could get a frosty response if it not "

Lol dam oh well it will be funny so get the frost messages coming

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By *laveishMan
over a year ago

kildare

Go steph. I live in hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the slight chance of it happening... im inn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in and will reply....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you’re not in, you can’t win

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"If you’re not in, you can’t win "

Is this a competition??? Dam I’m slow this Sunday morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

By winning I mean receiving a mail!

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By *ubyShuWoman
over a year ago

Nearby


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems. "

It really is hard to know what to say!

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say! "

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say! "

It’s even better if he goes really hard when you say the right thing

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over a year ago


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say!

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them"

Thats actually great advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say!

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them

Thats actually great advice "

This.

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say!

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them

Thats actually great advice

This."

How do you know from a profile whether you have something to say to someone that you have never chatted to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say!

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them

Thats actually great advice

This.

How do you know from a profile whether you have something to say to someone that you have never chatted to? "

The profile is your first impression, make it a good one.

It makes you want or not want to send a message. If there's nothing in it that gives you something to talk about, then that speaks for itself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say!

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them

Thats actually great advice "

True. Well but of course with hundreds of guys out here and limited numbers of couples looking for guys. And tiny amount of women out here which they can choose the best of the best. You need to be original to get their attention just they can look into your profile and photos to have a chance to get a reply.

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say!

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them

Thats actually great advice

This.

How do you know from a profile whether you have something to say to someone that you have never chatted to?

The profile is your first impression, make it a good one.

It makes you want or not want to send a message. If there's nothing in it that gives you something to talk about, then that speaks for itself "

Newbie profiles normally don’t have a lot to say! Mind you with the amount of messers on here I don’t bother with new profiles anyway.

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over a year ago


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say!

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them

Thats actually great advice

This.

How do you know from a profile whether you have something to say to someone that you have never chatted to?

The profile is your first impression, make it a good one.

It makes you want or not want to send a message. If there's nothing in it that gives you something to talk about, then that speaks for itself

Newbie profiles normally don’t have a lot to say! Mind you with the amount of messers on here I don’t bother with new profiles anyway. "

Especially with too good to be true pics. Or just horny at that time or just _iving a try but getting scared/freak out or overwhelmed/ bombarded with messages. Maybe if they are photo verified and buying a membership straight away. You kinda guessing they wouldn't spent money and get they real photo out there if they just messing around.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say!

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them

Thats actually great advice

This.

How do you know from a profile whether you have something to say to someone that you have never chatted to? "

Well if nothing has attracted you to the profile other than it being female/male and a potentional shag that will come across in your message.

So only message profiles that really caught your eye or some forums posts you found funny/interesting and reference that as your starting point into a conversation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say!

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them

Thats actually great advice

This.

How do you know from a profile whether you have something to say to someone that you have never chatted to?

The profile is your first impression, make it a good one.

It makes you want or not want to send a message. If there's nothing in it that gives you something to talk about, then that speaks for itself

Newbie profiles normally don’t have a lot to say! Mind you with the amount of messers on here I don’t bother with new profiles anyway.

Especially with too good to be true pics. Or just horny at that time or just _iving a try but getting scared/freak out or overwhelmed/ bombarded with messages. Maybe if they are photo verified and buying a membership straight away. You kinda guessing they wouldn't spent money and get they real photo out there if they just messing around. "

Download a reverse image app, you'll get plenty of use out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say!

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them

Thats actually great advice

This.

How do you know from a profile whether you have something to say to someone that you have never chatted to?

Well if nothing has attracted you to the profile other than it being female/male and a potentional shag that will come across in your message.

So only message profiles that really caught your eye or some forums posts you found funny/interesting and reference that as your starting point into a conversation.

"

Amen brother. That is true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say!

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them

Thats actually great advice

This.

How do you know from a profile whether you have something to say to someone that you have never chatted to?

The profile is your first impression, make it a good one.

It makes you want or not want to send a message. If there's nothing in it that gives you something to talk about, then that speaks for itself

Newbie profiles normally don’t have a lot to say! Mind you with the amount of messers on here I don’t bother with new profiles anyway.

Especially with too good to be true pics. Or just horny at that time or just _iving a try but getting scared/freak out or overwhelmed/ bombarded with messages. Maybe if they are photo verified and buying a membership straight away. You kinda guessing they wouldn't spent money and get they real photo out there if they just messing around.

Download a reverse image app, you'll get plenty of use out of it "

Also always do as your told by a women with a deadpool riding a unicorn tshirt....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So first message sent to someone I have never chatted to before. Took a while to figure out what to say not as easy as it seems.

It really is hard to know what to say!

If you cant think of something to say to someone its probably not worth messaging them

Thats actually great advice

This.

How do you know from a profile whether you have something to say to someone that you have never chatted to?

The profile is your first impression, make it a good one.

It makes you want or not want to send a message. If there's nothing in it that gives you something to talk about, then that speaks for itself

Newbie profiles normally don’t have a lot to say! Mind you with the amount of messers on here I don’t bother with new profiles anyway.

Especially with too good to be true pics. Or just horny at that time or just _iving a try but getting scared/freak out or overwhelmed/ bombarded with messages. Maybe if they are photo verified and buying a membership straight away. You kinda guessing they wouldn't spent money and get they real photo out there if they just messing around.

Download a reverse image app, you'll get plenty of use out of it

Also always do as your told by a women with a deadpool riding a unicorn tshirt...."

...what he said

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By *iviMan
over a year ago

Antrim


"Ok so moving on from a thread where a few of us ladies said we have never sent a message. Let's take a chance and send one to someone new or someone you have your eye on, sure what's the worst that can happen "

I could reply

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast

Come on ladies

I want to get access to that second message forum thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I often send messages if i want to know more information than what is available to me. It's doesn't always mean i want meet or meet there and then but most do.

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"I often send messages if i want to know more information than what is available to me. It's doesn't always mean i want meet or meet there and then but most do. "

I think this is the way it should be! And for men sending their first message I would say the majority are the same. Make contact see how you get on and take it from there. It every message will lead to a meet!

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Come on ladies

I want to get access to that second message forum thread "

Are you posting in the wrong thread?

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

belfast


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

Still blocked "

Ano when are u unblocking me

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

Still blocked

Ano when are u unblocking me "

Who did you insult to get blocked

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

belfast


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

Still blocked

Ano when are u unblocking me

Who did you insult to get blocked "

Lol a certain lady on here wanted to know why I blocked her! But turns out she had blocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wonder how big this theards going to get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lets pick it up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

Still blocked

Ano when are u unblocking me

Who did you insult to get blocked

Lol a certain lady on here wanted to know why I blocked her! But turns out she had blocked me

"

Ffs now I want Boojum...keep him blocked Prin, he's got 'Pavlovs Dog' powers!

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

belfast


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

Still blocked

Ano when are u unblocking me

Who did you insult to get blocked

Lol a certain lady on here wanted to know why I blocked her! But turns out she had blocked me

Ffs now I want Boojum...keep him blocked Prin, he's got 'Pavlovs Dog' powers!"

You’ll give me a bad name

Boojum buddy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hope some women have sent messages but may not have commented on thread. I've sent 5 and thankfully all were replied to

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By *adforit1304Man
over a year ago

Limerick/Clare

A message would be nice to lift the spirit on this wet wet Sunday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

Still blocked

Ano when are u unblocking me

Who did you insult to get blocked

Lol a certain lady on here wanted to know why I blocked her! But turns out she had blocked me

Ffs now I want Boojum...keep him blocked Prin, he's got 'Pavlovs Dog' powers!

You’ll give me a bad name

Boojum buddy "

Love me some boojum, you're just the excuse I use to get one at least once a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope some women have sent messages but may not have commented on thread. I've sent 5 and thankfully all were replied to "

Go Steph

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hope some women have sent messages but may not have commented on thread. I've sent 5 and thankfully all were replied to

Go Steph "

I want that t-shirt

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

belfast


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

Still blocked

Ano when are u unblocking me

Who did you insult to get blocked

Lol a certain lady on here wanted to know why I blocked her! But turns out she had blocked me

Ffs now I want Boojum...keep him blocked Prin, he's got 'Pavlovs Dog' powers!

You’ll give me a bad name

Boojum buddy

Love me some boojum, you're just the excuse I use to get one at least once a week "

What part of me reminds you of the beer burrito again?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

Still blocked

Ano when are u unblocking me

Who did you insult to get blocked

Lol a certain lady on here wanted to know why I blocked her! But turns out she had blocked me

Ffs now I want Boojum...keep him blocked Prin, he's got 'Pavlovs Dog' powers!

You’ll give me a bad name

Boojum buddy

Love me some boojum, you're just the excuse I use to get one at least once a week

What part of me reminds you of the beer burrito again? "

Lol.. no one else understands the pure joy you get from a boojum lol

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

belfast


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

Still blocked

Ano when are u unblocking me

Who did you insult to get blocked

Lol a certain lady on here wanted to know why I blocked her! But turns out she had blocked me

Ffs now I want Boojum...keep him blocked Prin, he's got 'Pavlovs Dog' powers!

You’ll give me a bad name

Boojum buddy

Love me some boojum, you're just the excuse I use to get one at least once a week

What part of me reminds you of the beer burrito again?

Lol.. no one else understands the pure joy you get from a boojum lol "

Big bit of meat?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope some women have sent messages but may not have commented on thread. I've sent 5 and thankfully all were replied to

Go Steph

I want that t-shirt "

I love it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Checks this thread......

Sees new mail in inbox.......

Random bloke messaging about my cock

Still blocked

Ano when are u unblocking me

Who did you insult to get blocked

Lol a certain lady on here wanted to know why I blocked her! But turns out she had blocked me

Ffs now I want Boojum...keep him blocked Prin, he's got 'Pavlovs Dog' powers!

You’ll give me a bad name

Boojum buddy

Love me some boojum, you're just the excuse I use to get one at least once a week

What part of me reminds you of the beer burrito again?

Lol.. no one else understands the pure joy you get from a boojum lol

Big bit of meat? "

Yup I couldn't not get meat on it! I get double meat on free boojum days

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By *razy-88Man
over a year ago

belfast

Putting me in the notion for a box now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Putting me in the notion for a box now"

Haha I'm not even sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't all rush at once ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been waiting for hours for a message there is always hope

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By *ndrew1972Man
over a year ago

Roscrea

I'm always open to a bit of banter & craic. I can't promise to be what you want, but I can promise to to be polite...ish...

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By *m233Man
over a year ago

dublin


"I'm available to receive all your messages ladies ??

That's sort of the issue

Men seem to literally just want mail from any girl. "

I’m still waiting on your mail

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Did this happen.hahahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm chucking my hat in the ring Na Na Na Na Na a.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did this happen.hahahaha "

Yep it did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ladies message first? Love it

... if only it happened a little more

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