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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area

I had the misfortune to go through major surgery with anesthetic recently.

For the first three weeks little joe was unresponsive. Flat lined.

In the fourth week some twitching returned and eventually an embarrassing excuse for a hard on even graced my boxers for the briefest of minutes, although in truth trading standards woud have had me up for wrongful advertising.

Now into my 8th week of recovery and normal service has finally resumed, although i’m not going to call clean bill of health until it gets put through its paces with a willing lady

Anyone else (male or female) ever had any nervous moments where libido or function seemed to desert them..??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you and your wee man are fighting fit soon

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By *rishcouple12Couple
over a year ago

Cork County

Happens to everyone..

Problem is the more you think about it or force it the less lightly it will come back

The fact you are just after surgery would be the factor if your whole body is recovering.

Obviously if it becomes lengthy you could say it your doctor but I wouldn't stress about it, because well that will just add to your problem

Unfortunately men seem to think their masculinity is in question when they can't get hard or stay hard etc...

Don't put yourself under pressure to perform while recovery is happening and be up front about it.

Mind over matter sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hope you feel better soon but dont rush into an early rising

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"Hope you and your wee man are fighting fit soon "

Awww thanks J. Just dont want to rush into anything premature...

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"Happens to everyone..

Problem is the more you think about it or force it the less lightly it will come back

The fact you are just after surgery would be the factor if your whole body is recovering.

Obviously if it becomes lengthy you could say it your doctor but I wouldn't stress about it, because well that will just add to your problem

Unfortunately men seem to think their masculinity is in question when they can't get hard or stay hard etc...

Don't put yourself under pressure to perform while recovery is happening and be up front about it.

Mind over matter sometimes "

Believe me, i was trying to will it up for days: at one stage i was considering trying to find Master Yoda to use the Force...!

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"Hope you feel better soon but dont rush into an early rising "

Well, as long as it doesnt take as long to get here as the next commemoration of the Easter rising...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the misfortune to go through major surgery with anesthetic recently.

For the first three weeks little joe was unresponsive. Flat lined.

In the fourth week some twitching returned and eventually an embarrassing excuse for a hard on even graced my boxers for the briefest of minutes, although in truth trading standards woud have had me up for wrongful advertising.

Now into my 8th week of recovery and normal service has finally resumed, although i’m not going to call clean bill of health until it gets put through its paces with a willing lady

Anyone else (male or female) ever had any nervous moments where libido or function seemed to desert them..??"

Next time it happens give it a tape on the head with a hammer always work's.

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


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Anyone else (male or female) ever had any nervous moments where libido or function seemed to desert them..?? Next time it happens give it a tape on the head with a hammer always work's."

Holy feck, dog..! Are your solutions always so extreme..?! Can’t see fellas queuing up for naked socials in your house if thats what might be waiting for them..! Although some of the ladies on here might come along to wield the hammer...

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By *ewby 7Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Nearly 2 months here, my sex drive was completely gone, I was in full leg cast and then in brace. Wasn't funny at all, haha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hope you and your wee man are fighting fit soon

Awww thanks J. Just dont want to rush into anything premature... "

If you need any encouragement give me a shout I'm sure I can gently lick him into standing to attention I mean talk him into

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

yea i had when i got a vasectomy, it was all mental tho not physical. for some reason i thaught it wouldnt work after it. i got a bit workedup it didnt work. binge watching porn was the cure for me.

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"Nearly 2 months here, my sex drive was completely gone, I was in full leg cast and then in brace. Wasn't funny at all, haha. "

Yikes!

You should have gotten them to put you in a 'Y' cast with removable gusset piece..!!

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"Hope you and your wee man are fighting fit soon

Awww thanks J. Just dont want to rush into anything premature...

If you need any encouragement give me a shout I'm sure I can gently lick him into standing to attention I mean talk him into "

I've heard talking up close helps people and plants to feel better. What you do with your tongue at that close proximity is purely a judgement call...

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"yea i had when i got a vasectomy, it was all mental tho not physical. for some reason i thaught it wouldnt work after it. i got a bit workedup it didnt work. binge watching porn was the cure for me. "

Ah porn... The universal answer to most problems in the universe...

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By *ewby 7Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"Nearly 2 months here, my sex drive was completely gone, I was in full leg cast and then in brace. Wasn't funny at all, haha.

Yikes!

You should have gotten them to put you in a 'Y' cast with removable gusset piece..!! "

Honestly I had no mood at all, lying in my back for several weeks wasn't funny thing

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By *verage Joe Black OP   Man
over a year ago

Border Area


"Nearly 2 months here, my sex drive was completely gone, I was in full leg cast and then in brace. Wasn't funny at all, haha.

Yikes!

You should have gotten them to put you in a 'Y' cast with removable gusset piece..!!

Honestly I had no mood at all, lying in my back for several weeks wasn't funny thing

"

I totally get that; would not be funny at all, having experienced something similar. Hopefully all the old feelings came back with a vengeance when you were recovered..?

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By *ewby 7Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

Yes, full of energy

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

A little nerves or alcohol

made the "not so" little man unresponsive a few times...

With experience you learn to laugh about it

as well as get better at your oral and foreplay skills

...to bide you some time at least!!!!

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"Nearly 2 months here, my sex drive was completely gone, I was in full leg cast and then in brace. Wasn't funny at all, haha. "

I was the opposite... Libido was off the charts while I was wearing my leg brace... Just meant we had to be a bit more inventive, but where there's a will there's most definitely a way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nearly 2 months here, my sex drive was completely gone, I was in full leg cast and then in brace. Wasn't funny at all, haha.

I was the opposite... Libido was off the charts while I was wearing my leg brace... Just meant we had to be a bit more inventive, but where there's a will there's most definitely a way "

Did you keep the brace.........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had the misfortune to go through major surgery with anesthetic recently.

For the first three weeks little joe was unresponsive. Flat lined.

In the fourth week some twitching returned and eventually an embarrassing excuse for a hard on even graced my boxers for the briefest of minutes, although in truth trading standards

Cinnamon! woud have had me up for wrongful advertising.

Now into my 8th week of recovery and normal service has finally resumed, although i’m not going to call clean bill of health until it gets put through its paces with a willing lady

Anyone else (male or female) ever had any nervous moments where libido or function seemed to desert them..??"

Cinnamon!

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

yes from side affects of tablets i was on . nothing worse than not being able to get a good hard on .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had an operation on my hip from gaa let's just say for the next week it was like trying to play snooker with a rope

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