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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What is the quickest way to get you into bed? Is it charm, flirting, looks, body or the possibilities of what you might get up to?

Before everyone says it’s all about personality for them let’s take it that the person trying to get you into bed ticks the personality box!

To start the ball rolling, for me, you don’t need the body of an Adonis but must have a nice face (nice is subjective and varies btw!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nice simple satin nightie .both of us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely being flirty and a nice face is a must! Being too flirty and might not end up the bed

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By *exyDownUnderWoman
over a year ago

Westmeath

He's got to make me feel a wanten woman. Lust turns me on big time and I will reciprocate big time.

Soon as the door closes it's got to be all go ... kissing up against the wall ... hands all over each other.

When it works it's damn hott!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He's got to make me feel a wanten woman. Lust turns me on big time and I will reciprocate big time.

Soon as the door closes it's got to be all go ... kissing up against the wall ... hands all over each other.

When it works it's damn hott!!"

I love that wanton, lustful feeling too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A good sense of humour hours a long way. Looks are not everything and can be overlooked with laughter. Imo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a guy few weeks ago and wasn't sure if was interested but went with it. Lots of stories, laughs and flirting led to some hot kissing in his car I would literally have let him take me there and then.

Any guy that can make me feel sexy and wanted will get me into their bed. I don't mean in a text, the amount of guys here who think paying a compliment in a message and calling me babe will automatically make my knickers drop, stimulate my mind and my senses and I'm all yours. Plus been tall and well built helps and if you can make me weak when you kiss me ... The rest is history lol

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

Oh for me the flirting and teasing before you get to the bed room so when you arrive there it’s rip each other’s cloths off! Might not even make it to the bed

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

I'll give you brekkie in bed as a treat after doing the job

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny

Must be able to recite at least one spainish poem...does it for me everytime!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Must be able to recite at least one spainish poem...does it for me everytime! "

I hope you’re worth the effort!

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By *ackk25Man
over a year ago

Kilkenny


"Must be able to recite at least one spainish poem...does it for me everytime!

I hope you’re worth the effort! "

Special discompensation for friends... Leaving cert WB Yeats or Elizabeth Bishop also accepted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lingerie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like strong broad shouldered men, with a nice face, and who are sane.

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"I like strong broad shouldered men, with a nice face, and who are sane. "

Jeazus your not asking for much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like strong broad shouldered men, with a nice face, and who are sane.

Jeazus your not asking for much "

I know, I must be delusional

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"I like strong broad shouldered men, with a nice face, and who are sane.

Jeazus your not asking for much

I know, I must be delusional "

Well we all live in hope

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"What is the quickest way to get you into bed? Is it charm, flirting, looks, body or the possibilities of what you might get up to?

Before everyone says it’s all about personality for them let’s take it that the person trying to get you into bed ticks the personality box!

To start the ball rolling, for me, you don’t need the body of an Adonis but must have a nice face (nice is subjective and varies btw!)"
face is huge. That's where the physical attraction starts. You can have the body, tits and ass of a model but the rest has to follow. I also hate women caked in fake tan and make up, to an extent where it looks odd and massively fake. Also if I want to shag a woman it's totally different to wanting to date one in a serious relationship. If you're in a relationship with a person imo you want more in them. Just my view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Confidence (both in & out of the bedroom) can hold a conversation, no one likes an awkward silence goodlooking, dominant (preferable but not a necessity lol) not a lot is it?

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"Confidence (both in & out of the bedroom) can hold a conversation, no one likes an awkward silence goodlooking, dominant (preferable but not a necessity lol) not a lot is it? "

So your looking for 3 men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence (both in & out of the bedroom) can hold a conversation, no one likes an awkward silence goodlooking, dominant (preferable but not a necessity lol) not a lot is it?

So your looking for 3 men "

It’s not impossible to find one guy with those traits

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"Confidence (both in & out of the bedroom) can hold a conversation, no one likes an awkward silence goodlooking, dominant (preferable but not a necessity lol) not a lot is it?

So your looking for 3 men

It’s not impossible to find one guy with those traits "

Oh I know, we just haven’t met

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence (both in & out of the bedroom) can hold a conversation, no one likes an awkward silence goodlooking, dominant (preferable but not a necessity lol) not a lot is it?

So your looking for 3 men

It’s not impossible to find one guy with those traits

Oh I know, we just haven’t met "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence (both in & out of the bedroom) can hold a conversation, no one likes an awkward silence goodlooking, dominant (preferable but not a necessity lol) not a lot is it? "

That’s me to a “T”

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence (both in & out of the bedroom) can hold a conversation, no one likes an awkward silence goodlooking, dominant (preferable but not a necessity lol) not a lot is it?

That’s me to a “T”"

Nice pics

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Confidence (both in & out of the bedroom) can hold a conversation, no one likes an awkward silence goodlooking, dominant (preferable but not a necessity lol) not a lot is it?

That’s me to a “T”

Nice pics "

Thanks xx... you too

Mmmmxx

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central


"Confidence (both in & out of the bedroom) can hold a conversation, no one likes an awkward silence goodlooking, dominant (preferable but not a necessity lol) not a lot is it?

So your looking for 3 men

It’s not impossible to find one guy with those traits

Oh I know, we just haven’t met

"

Oh those puppy eyes get me every time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

a woman seat....

smile

eyes

ass

thighs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What is the quickest way to get you into bed? Is it charm, flirting, looks, body or the possibilities of what you might get up to?

Before everyone says it’s all about personality for them let’s take it that the person trying to get you into bed ticks the personality box!

To start the ball rolling, for me, you don’t need the body of an Adonis but must have a nice face (nice is subjective and varies btw!)"

In my case its a long way Mrs Bash

Definitely more than a sexy body. Charming gent, with cheeky eyes and sexy smile, must be a great kisser , well mannered, respectful and with a good sense of humour, and absolutely required having similar interests/ hobbies to talk about on a break between a fun and meal

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find a spare mars bar helps!

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By *artinaAndrewCouple
over a year ago

mountmellick


"He's got to make me feel a wanten woman. Lust turns me on big time and I will reciprocate big time.

Soon as the door closes it's got to be all go ... kissing up against the wall ... hands all over each other.

When it works it's damn hott!!"

Totally agree with this, if you can see the hunger in his eyes for you, it's a done deal...... Tina xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sexy eyes and a sense of humor get me all the time...

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sexy eyes and a sense of humor get me all the time..."

Knock, knock...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy eyes and a sense of humor get me all the time...

Knock, knock... "

Whos there?

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Someone I can talk to and have a laugh with. And someone who is confident and a good kisser then I am definitely heading in the bedroom direction

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sexy eyes and a sense of humor get me all the time...

Knock, knock...

Whos there?"

Voodoo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy eyes and a sense of humor get me all the time...

Knock, knock...

Whos there?

Voodoo"

Voodoo who?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone confident but not cocky has to share my dark sense of humour. Oh and nice broad shoulders would be the added bonus. The main thing is not to be a total fuckwit. Mischievous come fuck me eye's seal's the deal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sexy eyes and a sense of humor get me all the time...

Knock, knock...

Whos there?

Voodoo

Voodoo who?"

Voodoo you think you are asking so many questions? Now get your kit off you’ve pulled

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexy eyes and a sense of humor get me all the time...

Knock, knock...

Whos there?

Voodoo

Voodoo who?

Voodoo you think you are asking so many questions? Now get your kit off you’ve pulled "

Thank christ you have nice eyes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Sexy eyes and a sense of humor get me all the time...

Knock, knock...

Whos there?

Voodoo

Voodoo who?

Voodoo you think you are asking so many questions? Now get your kit off you’ve pulled

Thank christ you have nice eyes "

Either way, kit off

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin

Shared sexual interests (the kinkier the better) or at least be willing to experiment and explore with me, is what makes me interested in someone that has the personality I like.

Bash & SSS, apologies for the interruption.... !

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

If he’s confident and sure of himself sexually and willing to put himself in my space and take me.. even a kiss.. then it’s a goer for me.

If he’s too reticent and gentle then I’m like meh..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit on me when I'm ovulating

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By *he SophisticatsCouple
over a year ago

Casa Del Fun

A kebab tray and she’s hooked!

I’m a little more refined (add some garlic sauce and you can have us both!)

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

Cake...yup just cake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cleaveage does it for me, i find kissing is the best way to get a lady lot and horny

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Eyes for me and I do love a woman who enjoys kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good kissing is a huge turn on. Can’t believe I left that one out & eyes that give me fanny flutter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"eyes that give me fanny flutter lol "

All I can picture now is rapidly blinking so me eyelashes give a flutter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cake...yup just cake. "

Oh god and if willing to share his cake

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By *acie desyn 3131Couple
over a year ago

meath

I suppose we are all about the looks initially..but as ya get to know peoples personalities u can grow to find them very attractive regardless... hes gotta have the cheeky glint in his eye tho..works all the time

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Laughter.... I can literally be laughed into bed! Not with jokes... But clever witticisms will definitely loosen the auld knicker elastic and dampen my gusset

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By *oguish1Man
over a year ago

Carrigrohane

Just ask

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By *ingleStud85Man
over a year ago

Donegal

Being able to break the ice is Key, There may be some women in view i'd love to bed but if there is no 'in' established, it's hard to focus on them.

But Sometimes on a night out, non-verbal cues do the job in breaking the ice, like a fixed knowing stare as the air between us fills with pheromones, Or a girl introducing herself by dipping her finger in in my pint of Guinness and inviting me to suck...that did the job

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

If i already like them then it dont take much.

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor

This sounds bad but i always look at finger nails straight away. Bad nails im away early. If nails arentnwell maintained nothinf else is..

But after that make me laugh, good conversation and gentle beushes, touches in public make me weak

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas

you just have to ask

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Good kissing is a huge turn on. Can’t believe I left that one out & eyes that give me fanny flutter lol "

It so hard to meet a good kisser

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a flutter on a fanny once and won!

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By *unnyfookMan
over a year ago

Naas


"Had a flutter on a fanny once and won! "

But have you ever had a fanny flutter on you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a flutter on a fanny once and won! "

ahaha very good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Good hygeine is also a simple one but I'm fairly straightforward when it comes to sex. Physical attraction is there and the balls rolling. Nothing complicated.

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By *yeswideshuT18Couple
over a year ago

Hillsborough

A genuine lovely personality everytime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A trail of breadcrumbs can also work

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination


"A trail of breadcrumbs can also work "

Soda, White or Gluten free?

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

south Central

Soda and Vodka will also work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Handcuffs and chloroform

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By *penminded28500Man
over a year ago

derry

Smile,figure and easy going and im anybodies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A trail of breadcrumbs can also work

Soda, White or Gluten free? "

Any of the above

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I need a naughty mind willing to explore. And i am lucky enough to say i found them.

Anither way is to invite me... Once again been lucky enough to be invited by beautiful, smart and of course naughty couples and women

I really am a lucky bastard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I need a naughty mind willing to explore. And i am lucky enough to say i found them.

Anither way is to invite me... Once again been lucky enough to be invited by beautiful, smart and of course naughty couples and women

I really am a lucky bastard "

Love the d/s related pics

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By *man79Man
over a year ago

newry dundalk. warrenpoint

Tiredness

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By *ontbesillywrapyourwillyMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

Hot women.

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