FabSwingers.com forum: soft swing

By *ovedupstill OP Couple
over a year ago

mullinwire

seems to be very few couple in ireland that are happy to do the whole soft play thing.

everyone just seems to want to fuck someone else.

are we wrong?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No we are the same and they are very few around by the looks of things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are happy to meet soft swing couples.

but is it because were a full swing couple that they do not want to meet us.

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By *ovedupstill OP Couple
over a year ago

mullinwire

the thing with full swappers doing soft is that we wouldnt want to feel like we are depriving anyone of anything. lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey ppl I feel sometimes ppl actually miss the point of soft swing!! I feel it's for couples to break themselves in easily! Me myself I love nothing more than to please a woman and of thats soft swing so be it! I find with soft swing couples if you treat them with respect and obey the couples rules through time full swing may come part of that trust! Does this make sense?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes you could be right. it would be a waste of a full swingers time turning up to play half the game.

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By *ovedupstill OP Couple
over a year ago

mullinwire

"Hey ppl I feel sometimes ppl actually miss the point of soft swing!! I feel it's for couples to break themselves in easily! Me myself I love nothing more than to please a woman and of thats soft swing so be it! I find with soft swing couples if you treat them with respect and obey the couples rules through time full swing may come part of that trust! Does this make sense?

no its not the point of soft swing at all, as neither of us have ANY interest in having full sex with anyone else.

i have no interest in seeing Em sat on another mans cock and she has the same feelings for me banging some other woman.

where the enjoyment comes for us is seeing each other having oral with others (she loves sucking cock while i love licking pussy) so no matter how long we do this, and tbf its looking short lived already by the seeming lack of understanding or of our boundaires or enjoyment, there is absolutely no way it will go any further (have already said that the day either one of us feels we need to have sex with someone else is the day we finish with each other).

ateotd, IF you cant have sexy fun WITHOUT the need to stick your bits into someone elses bits then no amount of foreplay is going to make up for that, and you arent for us. the act of having sex is something we like for ourselves, and we like doing it with another couplse doing it, but not with other people, if that makes sense.

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By *ovedupstill OP Couple
over a year ago

mullinwire

"yes you could be right. it would be a waste of a full swingers time turning up to play half the game.

see, thats where i dont understand.

you have sex with each other, as we do, so why is soft play (where all we dont do is have sex with other people) playing half a game?

have had sex with other people and no one ever feels different, yet its a blowjob that is different, the technique or pressure used. have never had 2 blowjobs the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"yes you could be right. it would be a waste of a full swingers time turning up to play half the game.

see, thats where i dont understand.

you have sex with each other, as we do, so why is soft play (where all we dont do is have sex with other people) playing half a game?

have had sex with other people and no one ever feels different, yet its a blowjob that is different, the technique or pressure used. have never had 2 blowjobs the same."
you are right and i think you are talking a lot of since in all your posts as we are the same

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By *ovedupstill OP Couple
over a year ago

mullinwire

"yes you could be right. it would be a waste of a full swingers time turning up to play half the game.

see, thats where i dont understand.

you have sex with each other, as we do, so why is soft play (where all we dont do is have sex with other people) playing half a game?

have had sex with other people and no one ever feels different, yet its a blowjob that is different, the technique or pressure used. have never had 2 blowjobs the same.you are right and i think you are talking a lot of since in all your posts as we are the same"

just a shame you live the wrong end of the country lol.

still, there is always teh chance of a holiday lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so what yous are saying is a full swap couple can not meet a soft swap couple.

we have met couples that like anal but were do not . did not stop us from meeting them.

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By *unterslickCouple
over a year ago

tullamore

"we are happy to meet soft swing couples.

but is it because were a full swing couple that they do not want to meet us."

snap lol,,

and i do see the point of soft swappers as well,but each to their own point of view,,

we wouldnt mind a soft swap every now and then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can i ask this question... and, I swear to god, im not askking this to provoke anyone at all...

Soft Swing.. ie.. as has been described.. they will play / lick / rub others parts etc etc, but wont engage in full sex with someone else...

So, I just wanna know... is this purely for a 'conscience' thing.. ie, you havent 'fucked' another person.. therefore you havent 'given' yourself to someone ?

If so, surely the very act of other sort of sexual activities with another person without full sex is still 'giving' yourelf ?

Again, im really interested in this a 'conscience' thing and honestly swear to god not trying to provoke any kind of negative response as always happens on these forums when someone asks a question.

We would class ourselves as Full Swap, but theres times when we havent went the whole 9 yards and had full sex with couples, but, i still wouldnt describe it as 'soft swap'...

Wonder wot the definition is for Soft Swap ?

Anyhow, happy hunting for whatever your looking, and look forward to adult discussion on your topic... which was a good post

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By *ovedupstill OP Couple
over a year ago

mullinwire

dont think it has anything to do with a feeling of giving yourself or not, but more as to what turns us on and doesnt.

suffice to say i have no interest in having sex with anyone, and neither does Em. sex between ourselves is the best either of us have ever experienced so feel no need to add to it, or anything.

we started swinging primarily because she wanted to know what it was like being with another woman, and has since found that it doesnt do as much for her as she thought, or at least hasnt met a woman that 'does' it for her.

we both enjoy watching each other perform oral, and i love seeing her make men cum, as well as she loves hearing me pleasure a woman, so full sex has never ven been considered part of our play.

as for meeting full swap people, true story, organised a meet with a couple, and right up to the moment they were meant to be getting i nthe car to come they were fine about things, then suddenly they asked if we full swapped (anyone that can read would see we didnt) and so called it off.

we certainly feel that we can organise things with a full swap couple, and thye would be happy to play to our boundaries, but if someone gives them the choice of full play they would make an excuse to get out of a meet with us. maybe wrong, but that really is how we feel.

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By *ovedupstill OP Couple
over a year ago

mullinwire

"so what yous are saying is a full swap couple can not meet a soft swap couple.

we have met couples that like anal but were do not . did not stop us from meeting them."

not what we are saying at all, just reckon that if the choice was a soft play couple, or a full play couple, a full play couple would choose the other full couple.

i mean, its easier for full couples to hold back than it is for soft couples to go further.

is it just about fucking, or being fucked by, someone else???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, youve stated well in your profile what u gus r looking for and on the forums, so no better place to find it than here

I do agree with what your saying, it shouldnt always be about fucking.. for us, a lot of the time, the social build up is as good a craic as the sex bit.

Happy hunting, there will be loads out there contacting u guys soon

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