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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Just thought I would share this with you all.

I am straight. Tried bi before but it never did much for me so I stick to guys.

Well....I got chatting to a female over the last few weeks. She was intelligent, chat was interesting, saucy and flirty but not tacky or pushy.

We chatted and things became quite heated and very sexy yesterday morning and I actually felt like meeting her for fun. I also suggested a male friend of mine come along to watch and, if she felt comfortable, possibly join in. She agreed though did say if he didnt float her boat, could she just watch him and me. All ok so far...happy days!

The meet was set up for Monday and I suggested a hotel but she was very keen for us to go to hers. Alarm bells tinkled in the back of my mind. Why would a single woman be happy to have 2 people she had never met before in her house?

Maybe I was being silly but something didnt ring true here and my gut feeling is rarely wrong.

So I asked her to take a face pic of herself right now and send to me and I would do the same. It would be more natural than the ones on fab. She firstly accussed me of not trusting her but I told her I just wanted to see her as she was now.

She messaged me after a bit to say she had uploaded a few more pics. All her pics were private. I looked and they were really sexy, not one showed her face AND her hair was different. Not just colourwise but thickness and texture. I commented on this and she replied that she had found a great hairdresser. Lol

Next thing, I got a message from a woman in England telling me that Cathy*** had copied her pics and she was messaging all of the ladies on the friends list to tell them.

I screen shot the message and sent it to Cathy*** asking what was going on. The profile disappeared.

So, I really am shocked that someone could could have me almost convinced that I meet them for a bi experience when I never thought I would be interested in trying it again.

She, or he, was really, really good. I am not generally an easy person to dupe as I hold my cards close to my chest and am cautious by nature but she/he/they were exceptional. Lol

So as they say.....some people are not always as they see.

I do wonder what would have happened Monday if I hadnt caught on something was iffy.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

It's aswell you had your wits about you ,some less savvy ladies may have walked into a dangerous situation !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's aswell you had your wits about you ,some less savvy ladies may have walked into a dangerous situation !"

Thats why I put this post up. Some possibly dangerous people about. She/he whoever they were knew what they were doing and were very very good. My male friend was convinced she was ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always trust your gut instinct...the little voice is usually right.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Always trust your gut instinct...the little voice is usually right. "

You are 100% right. I ignored it once or twice in the past and regretted it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always trust your gut instinct...the little voice is usually right. "

Fact....

It’s never wrong!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's why a social is always a good place to start. Somewhere safe for all parties concerned

There really is some absolute idiots out there up to no good

Glad you found them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my job ( not to boast about my skills on it ) always tell the guys I train as you get experience follow your gut feelings if something gives you even a tiny tingle that might be wrong then follow that feeling and back off .

OP glad you were smart enough , I had situations here with "couples" all flowing great till I asked to go on kik for a quick video hello (and with the video call I explain its not for cam fun its just say hi ,see that I am who I say I am ) , or a pic holding a note with something I picked , then all insults start .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On my job ( not to boast about my skills on it ) always tell the guys I train as you get experience follow your gut feelings if something gives you even a tiny tingle that might be wrong then follow that feeling and back off .

OP glad you were smart enough , I had situations here with "couples" all flowing great till I asked to go on kik for a quick video hello (and with the video call I explain its not for cam fun its just say hi ,see that I am who I say I am ) , or a pic holding a note with something I picked , then all insults start ."

i'm not making a dig at single guys or you for that matter but some couples would take offense at a single guy not believing they are genuine but we can see your point for doing it especially considering some "couples" aren't reall couples at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting. Did “she” have any veris ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"On my job ( not to boast about my skills on it ) always tell the guys I train as you get experience follow your gut feelings if something gives you even a tiny tingle that might be wrong then follow that feeling and back off .

OP glad you were smart enough , I had situations here with "couples" all flowing great till I asked to go on kik for a quick video hello (and with the video call I explain its not for cam fun its just say hi ,see that I am who I say I am ) , or a pic holding a note with something I picked , then all insults start .

i'm not making a dig at single guys or you for that matter but some couples would take offense at a single guy not believing they are genuine but we can see your point for doing it especially considering some "couples" aren't reall couples at all. "

I don't take it as a dig at me at all but we all know in fabs not all is what it looks like , I had a couple profile ( yes at the time we were a couple ) and set up fun with couples and last minute the female part of the couple couldnt attend , so even now as a single guy I rather a real couple get upset with me for asking them this , after all if they are real and intend to meet whats the harm prove each others .

I had people here that I was chatting with that asked me the same , are you the guy in the pics ? Prove it , I did and now we are great friends

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

So glad you had your wits about you. Makes you wonder what they were up to. .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always always keep your wits about you and never ignore red flags, no matter how seductive the chat may be. I think many people are far too trusting of what others tell them.

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By *ocko123Man
over a year ago

Derry

Lucky you!

Having chatted to you, I can verify your natural and conspicuous caution. Why would people do such a thing?? It’s all been said about ‘gut’ instinct already. It’s just your open and honest approach. Unfortunately not universally shared. But.. don’t become cynical.. just continue to be cautious... Risk Assess! x

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"Always always keep your wits about you and never ignore red flags, no matter how seductive the chat may be. I think many people are far too trusting of what others tell them."

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Thanks for sharing this.

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By *ocko123Man
over a year ago

Derry

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By *ocko123Man
over a year ago

Derry


"Thanks for sharing this.

"
Indeed! Lessons for all in this...!

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By *aughtyglintWoman
over a year ago

Any

Had a situation on our couples profile back when we joined first and it went on for weeks even had us feeling sorry for “her” even though she had done everything in her power to come between us. Eventually copped that the pics were all belong to other people when she was stupid enough to take pics of a profile we were friends with. My gut said single male and I wish I had listened to it. Would have saved myself a lot of arguments

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a situation on our couples profile back when we joined first and it went on for weeks even had us feeling sorry for “her” even though she had done everything in her power to come between us. Eventually copped that the pics were all belong to other people when she was stupid enough to take pics of a profile we were friends with. My gut said single male and I wish I had listened to it. Would have saved myself a lot of arguments "

Once again gut feelings always right

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