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By *he big dog OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

I'm slowly but surly giving up on this site iv been here a while now and got no closer to a meet or even a coffee iv done every approach from mister nice good to mister bad iv sent no cock pics or sent out of order mails is there something I'm missing that could make this a better experience for me

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"I'm slowly but surly giving up on this site iv been here a while now and got no closer to a meet or even a coffee iv done every approach from mister nice good to mister bad iv sent no cock pics or sent out of order mails is there something I'm missing that could make this a better experience for me "

Go to a meet and greet

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

I got my first veri by webcam, second by someone who took and chance and met me and third and multiple others by a meet and greet which I got an invite for due to the other two veris. Whole thing took about a month. Try something similar.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Flesh out the bio a little bit

Add some public pics

Try and get to an MnG as the previous poster said

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By *he big dog OP   Man
over a year ago

dublin

Only real way I can get to a meet and greet is if one was held during the week as I work most weekends and late nights cause I'm bartender

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Some folk do hold daytime or midweek Socials. Keep an eye on the forums for one near you.

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

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By *easingTimMan
over a year ago

Loughlinstown

Great attitude there Mister LIVE ON THE EDGE, GET ONE GO AT LIFE!

Seriously, if you're a single male, there's no secrets here.

You have to make more of an effort through an interesting profile, pics, ice-breakers

and being cheeky-charming

There's also Social, meet and greets, Vanilla club events on regularly

so no single guy has any excuses here not to get veris and meet people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe it's coz he thinks he's batman

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin

Ye op it’s not easy on here I’ve done all of the above to I barely get reply’s let alone meets I’ve gone of the idea of having meets I’m just here for the banter it’s good Craic on treads but I am going to try get to social at some stage,so your not alone I mean the ratio men to women is crazy 300-1 I’d safely say

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor


"Ye op it’s not easy on here I’ve done all of the above to I barely get reply’s let alone meets I’ve gone of the idea of having meets I’m just here for the banter it’s good Craic on treads but I am going to try get to social at some stage,so your not alone I mean the ratio men to women is crazy 300-1 I’d safely say "

When I do the "see who's near" search its always about 60 guys, 6 couple's and possibly 2 or 3 bi ladies in my radius. Men out number women by serious numbers.

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By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Yeah but look hey it takes patience on here for 5 mths before there was any traction but chatting a few now meeting a few all good .stick with it

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By *ajRallying555Man
over a year ago

Galway .Limerick

Hi. It all about Patience alright. I work the weekends as well. The Joys

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By *avidc2019Man
over a year ago

dublin


"Ye op it’s not easy on here I’ve done all of the above to I barely get reply’s let alone meets I’ve gone of the idea of having meets I’m just here for the banter it’s good Craic on treads but I am going to try get to social at some stage,so your not alone I mean the ratio men to women is crazy 300-1 I’d safely say

When I do the "see who's near" search its always about 60 guys, 6 couple's and possibly 2 or 3 bi ladies in my radius. Men out number women by serious numbers. "
Bigtime it’s hard to stand out from the crowd when there’s some much on offer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great attitude there Mister LIVE ON THE EDGE, GET ONE GO AT LIFE!

Seriously, if you're a single male, there's no secrets here.

You have to make more of an effort through an interesting profile, pics, ice-breakers

and being cheeky-charming

There's also Social, meet and greets, Vanilla club events on regularly

so no single guy has any excuses here not to get veris and meet people "

Yes exactly

To OP, why don't you go to UK for a weekend and visit clubs. UK is Fabs biggest userbase. Go to the club's, and during the day put out meet requests in your UK postcode and invite people to a social or play at your hotel. You will get verified from both. When back here, organise to go to socials, clubs (Dublin and Cork) etc and just do it.

Have a good profile (text and pictures), send a good respectful email (doesn't have to be a short story), delete sent email so your not obsessing over it.

F

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And stop playing an act (mister nice, mister bad)......just be yourself

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