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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I understand that it's giving and receiving pleasure but why would you give a bj (until he cums) to a man? It means missing out on a whole ride? Am I the only greedy, selfish one here or do I miss something? I understand when it's your partner or a dear fwb but for a random meet? Not saying no oral at all, just as much to get the steam train going....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you miss out on a ride. There could be no trouble having and keeping an erection with you doghunter

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By *penminded28500Man
over a year ago

derry

Good thing i can stay hard and go multiple times

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Good thing i can stay hard and go multiple times "

Most can multiple times but it's no good if it's a 10 minutes a go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I understand that it's giving and receiving pleasure but why would you give a bj (until he cums) to a man? It means missing out on a whole ride? Am I the only greedy, selfish one here or do I miss something? I understand when it's your partner or a dear fwb but for a random meet? Not saying no oral at all, just as much to get the steam train going...."

With you on this one greedy girl want the ride x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men are selfish , they will ask for a bj and try to cum in your mouth with no warning . Then some guff about being too turned on and how it’s a shame they tend to only be able to cum the once so ..... was nice meeting ya and Yada yada .. same cnuts have the cheek to pester you for another meet as well ......completely ignoring the fact that you got absolutely nothing from the meet by way of reciprocal pleasure .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good thing i can stay hard and go multiple times

Most can multiple times but it's no good if it's a 10 minutes a go. "

I had the snip many many yrs ago...disadvantage no cum to talk about but on the plus side after that 1st cum &short recovery time...well then I'm up all night...& happy for the ride to go on & on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I said this before in the past but bjs do absolutely noting for me in fact I actually dislike them.

Ever since I got cut bjs just dont do anything for me. Most meets do be surprised an shocked that I dont actually want one.

Some are like thank fuck others do be its part of the sexual flow an it gets it going. Correct if im wrong on that.

So I most likely the only one in ireland that hates bjs lol

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By *penminded28500Man
over a year ago

derry


"Good thing i can stay hard and go multiple times

Most can multiple times but it's no good if it's a 10 minutes a go. "

That would be a shame if thats all they lasted 2nd time around

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By *oreThanOnceMan
over a year ago

Dublin


"Men are selfish , they will ask for a bj and try to cum in your mouth with no warning . Then some guff about being too turned on and how it’s a shame they tend to only be able to cum the once so ..... was nice meeting ya and Yada yada .. same cnuts have the cheek to pester you for another meet as well ......completely ignoring the fact that you got absolutely nothing from the meet by way of reciprocal pleasure . "

Some men are selfish, as some women are selfish too.

Not everyone is selfish and I was lucky enough to meet very good partners on Fab.

Depending on what is going on in someone's life and many other things, a man could ejaculate pretty quick and unplanned.

The adrenaline rush during a first play meet and the pressure to "perform" will have an impact too.

For me works the opposite way, it takes me forever to cum.

I only plan to cum at the end of the play, when everyone is tired and we had enough sexual play.

It takes a lot of mental control to do so, but believe it or not, sometimes the woman wants me to cum when she wants and not when I want to.

It is part of our sexual play and common sense is always crucial.

I encourage every woman to whom I plan to play, to bring any implements that might bring her to orgasm, as I find pleasure in satisfying my partner.

But then, I am not into quick meaningless fuck play and the orgasms are not always the final destination.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its hard to cum while getting a bj, especially when you have a condom on. Buts its a great way to get you started

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happy to let you get started that way OP ;P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are selfish , they will ask for a bj and try to cum in your mouth with no warning . Then some guff about being too turned on and how it’s a shame they tend to only be able to cum the once so ..... was nice meeting ya and Yada yada .. same cnuts have the cheek to pester you for another meet as well ......completely ignoring the fact that you got absolutely nothing from the meet by way of reciprocal pleasure . "

I have never had that experience in my life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ffff in jacuzzi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffff in jacuzzi "

Hahaha I was wondering where my answer gone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffff in jacuzzi

Hahaha I was wondering where my answer gone "

I was so confused by your answer

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By *ig Red300Woman
over a year ago

limerick


"Men are selfish , they will ask for a bj and try to cum in your mouth with no warning . Then some guff about being too turned on and how it’s a shame they tend to only be able to cum the once so ..... was nice meeting ya and Yada yada .. same cnuts have the cheek to pester you for another meet as well ......completely ignoring the fact that you got absolutely nothing from the meet by way of reciprocal pleasure .

Some men are selfish, as some women are selfish too.

Not everyone is selfish and I was lucky enough to meet very good partners on Fab.

Depending on what is going on in someone's life and many other things, a man could ejaculate pretty quick and unplanned.

The adrenaline rush during a first play meet and the pressure to "perform" will have an impact too.

For me works the opposite way, it takes me forever to cum.

I only plan to cum at the end of the play, when everyone is tired and we had enough sexual play.

It takes a lot of mental control to do so, but believe it or not, sometimes the woman wants me to cum when she wants and not when I want to.

It is part of our sexual play and common sense is always crucial.

I encourage every woman to whom I plan to play, to bring any implements that might bring her to orgasm, as I find pleasure in satisfying my partner.

But then, I am not into quick meaningless fuck play and the orgasms are not always the final destination. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ffff in jacuzzi

Hahaha I was wondering where my answer gone

I was so confused by your answer "

Paulo... My specialty hahahaha

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Men are selfish , they will ask for a bj and try to cum in your mouth with no warning . Then some guff about being too turned on and how it’s a shame they tend to only be able to cum the once so ..... was nice meeting ya and Yada yada .. same cnuts have the cheek to pester you for another meet as well ......completely ignoring the fact that you got absolutely nothing from the meet by way of reciprocal pleasure .

I have never had that experience in my life"

Me neither, because there's no chance I even go there. However I experienced the quick ride which is as much disappointing especially when the second round is as disappointing as the first one. Third one didn't/wouldn't happen because I'm deflated at that stage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are selfish , they will ask for a bj and try to cum in your mouth with no warning . Then some guff about being too turned on and how it’s a shame they tend to only be able to cum the once so ..... was nice meeting ya and Yada yada .. same cnuts have the cheek to pester you for another meet as well ......completely ignoring the fact that you got absolutely nothing from the meet by way of reciprocal pleasure .

I have never had that experience in my life

Me neither, because there's no chance I even go there. However I experienced the quick ride which is as much disappointing especially when the second round is as disappointing as the first one. Third one didn't/wouldn't happen because I'm deflated at that stage. "
Probably not the only thing that's deflated at that stage.

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

some girls just need to let off a bit of steam and let a nice cock bang off the back of their throat until a guy unloads.

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By *rinibooWoman
over a year ago

clare

I have had a few meets have given blow jobs they have cum fast barely time to get undressed and that’s it . Nothing for me .

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By *elfastDMan
over a year ago

belfast


"I understand that it's giving and receiving pleasure but why would you give a bj (until he cums) to a man? It means missing out on a whole ride? Am I the only greedy, selfish one here or do I miss something? I understand when it's your partner or a dear fwb but for a random meet? Not saying no oral at all, just as much to get the steam train going...."

A woman after my own heart DH

No, I meant cock, a woman after my own cock!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had a few meets have given blow jobs they have cum fast barely time to get undressed and that’s it . Nothing for me . "

Yep , same as that hun , and I know many other women here who have had the same happen to them .

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By *ick manMan
over a year ago

longford

I’d far sooner give the lady lots of foreplay and make her cum first and as someone said earlier if they bring there toys all the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have had a few meets have given blow jobs they have cum fast barely time to get undressed and that’s it . Nothing for me .

Yep , same as that hun , and I know many other women here who have had the same happen to them . "
rest assured that wont happen with me

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

I don't get this.

Give the bj until he comes, then have him down on you until you cum, or sit on his face so he can't get away, until you cum, then fuck, as your musk has rejuvenated him.

Simples.

That's how I think it should work.

No?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry OP, isn’t that just part of the evening smorgasbord??? As base as it sounds i rather enjoy spreading “the love” on an evening.... i know some of the profiles here are a little colourful, are you getting distracted by the shiney ones and getting pandas??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are selfish , they will ask for a bj and try to cum in your mouth with no warning . Then some guff about being too turned on and how it’s a shame they tend to only be able to cum the once so ..... was nice meeting ya and Yada yada .. same cnuts have the cheek to pester you for another meet as well ......completely ignoring the fact that you got absolutely nothing from the meet by way of reciprocal pleasure . "

Most men aren't like that ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men are selfish , they will ask for a bj and try to cum in your mouth with no warning . Then some guff about being too turned on and how it’s a shame they tend to only be able to cum the once so ..... was nice meeting ya and Yada yada .. same cnuts have the cheek to pester you for another meet as well ......completely ignoring the fact that you got absolutely nothing from the meet by way of reciprocal pleasure . "

..not all men are selfish...with some men sex is all about the lady and her being Pleasured and him pleasuring her and it's in that the guy gets his satisfaction ..the satisfaction of him Getting the opportunity to pleasure and please the lady ..believe it or not ...

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"Sorry OP, isn’t that just part of the evening smorgasbord??? As base as it sounds i rather enjoy spreading “the love” on an evening.... i know some of the profiles here are a little colourful, are you getting distracted by the shiney ones and getting pandas?? "

I'm an experienced hunter and I don't go after Pandas, I can't even remember when the last one crossed my path.

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"I don't get this.

Give the bj until he comes, then have him down on you until you cum, or sit on his face so he can't get away, until you cum, then fuck, as your musk has rejuvenated him.

Simples.

That's how I think it should work.

No?"

That only works if you love receiving oral yourself but if you're not mad about it like myself, it's not a great plan.

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By *hiaboutMan
over a year ago

johnstown

Ah look hey most guys will be quiet happy with a good bj but ladies need to be assertive and not giv so easy .say what ye want an need girls make the guy earn his pleasure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A control measure to mitigate that risk is having an extra cock in attendance Lilred

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By *oghunter33 OP   Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of


"A control measure to mitigate that risk is having an extra cock in attendance Lilred "

You're very wise woman!

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