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"I've been doing this for couple of years now...but recently I've noticed more and more rude,crude and abusive messages getting more common... Yes it's normal and I dont let it get to me... But come on ... we are all adults... rejection is not nice... but plenty of fish in the sea ... Manners cost nothing ... no need to be dicks or keyboard warriors ... Show some love ... Red " Ah sure look that's the way of the world all gone mad. | |||
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"I've been doing this for couple of years now...but recently I've noticed more and more rude,crude and abusive messages getting more common... Yes it's normal and I dont let it get to me... But come on ... we are all adults... rejection is not nice... but plenty of fish in the sea ... Manners cost nothing ... no need to be dicks or keyboard warriors ... Show some love ... Red " It seams to be happening more and more, looks like people feel entitled to your attention, at the end of the day its up to us as individuals who we interact with and who we play with but some people feel that just becuse we are on here and they see thing on our profile that they would like to try that we are obliged to play with them. | |||
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"I've been doing this for couple of years now...but recently I've noticed more and more rude,crude and abusive messages getting more common... Yes it's normal and I dont let it get to me... But come on ... we are all adults... rejection is not nice... but plenty of fish in the sea ... Manners cost nothing ... no need to be dicks or keyboard warriors ... Show some love ... Red " I think people just want instant gratification and when they get it denied they take offense as if they have lost something the owned...your right manners cost nothing but are priceless in reality,some people are hormone rich and poor in respect I just let the abuse roll like a wave,keyboard barriers hate water spilling on the p.c  | |||
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"I've been doing this for couple of years now...but recently I've noticed more and more rude,crude and abusive messages getting more common... Yes it's normal and I dont let it get to me... But come on ... we are all adults... rejection is not nice... but plenty of fish in the sea ... Manners cost nothing ... no need to be dicks or keyboard warriors ... Show some love ... Red It seams to be happening more and more, looks like people feel entitled to your attention, at the end of the day its up to us as individuals who we interact with and who we play with but some people feel that just becuse we are on here and they see thing on our profile that they would like to try that we are obliged to play with them. " You're assuming they bothered reading your profile  I had 30+ meet requests yesterday from men who hadn't read mine | |||
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"Social media doesnt help... We all want a bit of attention but I would certainly not go up to a man and say " wanna fuck me bare and cream pie my pussy ?" "That plus I'm sure some people would actually say yes there and then | |||
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 . It dose make you wonder why some times why we stay ? It's because of all the amazing people we have met and became great friends with and other to cum   .
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"Yeah been on here a while in numerous different forms (solo, cpl page and now solo again), and noticed it’s gradually getting worse. Of Course it was a lot better being part of a cpl, but us single guys don’t do ourselves any favours. Place makes me feel like i should start contacting people apologising for other guys first! "  | |||
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"Thick skin and filters help alot. Every couple of days I feel like posting about dos and donts on the forum,and having some manners." There is already enough did and fonts there,they are just morans that have no respect for people | |||
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"Thick skin and filters help alot. Every couple of days I feel like posting about dos and donts on the forum,and having some manners." Not all read the forum
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"Thick skin and filters help alot. Every couple of days I feel like posting about dos and donts on the forum,and having some manners." Can admin post a sticky thread so that it always remains at the top? Would be useful if it contained forum etiquette etc.. | |||
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"I've been doing this for couple of years now...but recently I've noticed more and more rude,crude and abusive messages getting more common... Yes it's normal and I dont let it get to me... But come on ... we are all adults... rejection is not nice... but plenty of fish in the sea ... Manners cost nothing ... no need to be dicks or keyboard warriors ... Show some love ... Red " ....l always think to myself how would these guys that send these crude & abusive Messages to ladies feel if other guys were saying the same things to their own sister or daughter.... | |||
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"Weekends are the worst times for it. It use to upset me now I just block and know I made the right decision by not meeting them in the first place. It can be hard when you get a load of abuse in a short period of time but like I said they aren't the people I'd want to meet anyhow. " Yup... Full moon is another time to avoid. I warned a friend about it when she joined some time ago, and she laughed, thinking I was joking. Couple of weeks later and she was telling me she had always thought that the full moon bringing out the nutters thing was a myth, but sure enough, her mailbox had blown up with rapaciously demanding messages that turned nasty when she didn't reply or said no thanks. | |||
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"Just set your age filters high, the older lads are much more grateful and happy to get a message even if it's just a no thanks. "Gratefull u say id say we just accept that we are not everyones cup of tea | |||
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"Just set your age filters high, the older lads are much more grateful and happy to get a message even if it's just a no thanks. "More respectful than greatfull, | |||
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"Weekends are the worst times for it. It use to upset me now I just block and know I made the right decision by not meeting them in the first place. It can be hard when you get a load of abuse in a short period of time but like I said they aren't the people I'd want to meet anyhow. Yup... Full moon is another time to avoid. I warned a friend about it when she joined some time ago, and she laughed, thinking I was joking. Couple of weeks later and she was telling me she had always thought that the full moon bringing out the nutters thing was a myth, but sure enough, her mailbox had blown up with rapaciously demanding messages that turned nasty when she didn't reply or said no thanks. " I never noticed that but will definitely keep an eye on that. Maybe that's why a while ago I got a load of abuse in 48 hours I must admit I almost quit that time. | |||
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"Just set your age filters high, the older lads are much more grateful and happy to get a message even if it's just a no thanks. "I've actually had the opposite experience. For me it's guys 39+ who are incredibly disrespectful and borderline abusive. And in quite a few cases 45+ have just been horribly creepy. Younger guys tend to be a lot better. | |||
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"I've always been an advocate for single guys,being treated respectfully. But there are soo many bad apples it's sad..." Don’t give up hope, lots of nice guys on here too | |||
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"Just set your age filters high, the older lads are much more grateful and happy to get a message even if it's just a no thanks.
I've actually had the opposite experience. For me it's guys 39+ who are incredibly disrespectful and borderline abusive. And in quite a few cases 45+ have just been horribly creepy.
Younger guys tend to be a lot better. "U have being attracting the wrong kind of older creep there is a few older gentelmen here that would turn u on when they get their creep on | |||
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"I think a high per cent age of the abusive guys are just not taking the site serious and even if they got a yes to a hotel or coffee meet they wouldn't turn up. " Unfortunately I agree. Most of the abuse I get isn't from guys looking for meets, but those who are horny in that moment and desperately looking for someone (anyone!) to cam, kik or wankchat with them. They spot a female online, and woe betide the single woman who dares to say no... Suddenly you're being called a stuck up cunt who is only on here because you can't 'get a man' in real life, and should be grateful for any scraps of attention thrown online. I think in future I'll just reply 'OMG it's you! Well I never expected to see you on here' just to scare the shit out of them  | |||
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"Oh yeah the all time favourite "stuck up cunt who cant get a real man in life " comment ... maybe I just like to fuck alot of different men and couples ... wait that makes me whore ... Cant win can I "...no it dont..it makes you FREE sexy....and it's beautiful... | |||
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