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"I wish!! My local updates are full of that kind of thing.. Men moaning about fakes, timewasters, people who don't reply, people who use mail filters who can't be contacted, calling particular people who have blocked them names, and generally just being whiny and negative.... And then they wonder why they don't get meets. " This is definitely a peeve of ours - people with really negative status messages ... It gives such a poor impression  | |||
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"I wish!! My local updates are full of that kind of thing.. Men moaning about fakes, timewasters, people who don't reply, people who use mail filters who can't be contacted, calling particular people who have blocked them names, and generally just being whiny and negative.... And then they wonder why they don't get meets. This is definitely a peeve of ours - people with really negative status messages ... It gives such a poor impression " | |||
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"Yes I get all that and you are right. Posting negative messages like that don't really serve any purpose. I guess that my status messages yesterday were seen as criticising the Site rather than members of the Site. And the Site did not like it. I am convinced that the status was deleted automatically." You do realise that if someone reports your profile, admin can remove offensive content? If someone reported your status messages as being offensive or against site rules, it's likely that admin deleted them... No algorithm needed... You were simply reported. Possibly by the same person you were calling a fake. | |||
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"Yes I get all that and you are right. Posting negative messages like that don't really serve any purpose. I guess that my status messages yesterday were seen as criticising the Site rather than members of the Site. And the Site did not like it. I am convinced that the status was deleted automatically. You do realise that if someone reports your profile, admin can remove offensive content? If someone reported your status messages as being offensive or against site rules, it's likely that admin deleted them... No algorithm needed... You were simply reported. Possibly by the same person you were calling a fake. " Possible...but I was not calling anybody a fake. I was simply asking the fab community "How do you spot a fake profile" | |||
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"I wish!! My local updates are full of that kind of thing.. Men moaning about fakes, timewasters, people who don't reply, people who use mail filters who can't be contacted, calling particular people who have blocked them names, and generally just being whiny and negative.... And then they wonder why they don't get meets. " ... personally l have no problem with getting no replies...have no problem with people having certain filters up ,they're there for a reason by those members..their profile..their choice ..no problem at all...100% respect to both .. always...and NEVER would an abusive text be sent by me to anyone who didn't reply ..not my style ..if a lady wants to reply she will..if not ..she won't.. simple as that...but the one thing that did get to me was the way timewasting string a longers would act and think it's ok to do so ..but l still wouldn't post stuff complaining...l would just block them... different people act in different ways in different situations and if they want to just string guys along promising to meet and then deny they ever said such.. off they go and do it..it's just that l won't be the guy they'll be doing it to anymore..a guy can only take so much of that before he hits the stop button...to me it's all about respect..l fully realise and respect not everyone on this site is everyone's cuppa tea and not every shoe fits but if a lady knows from the start that she has no intention of meeting..just say so ..don't string a guy along for her amusement and attention... | |||
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"I used to get frustrated and post negative status messages about fakes, timewasters, internet pics and all the other shite you come across on here. But at the end of the day, it gets you nowhere , will not help you getting laid , will make U look like a whiner. You would be far better putting something positive on your profile and positive on your update. I have got several meets based purely on a funny/ positive update. To my knowledge I’ve never got a meet for whining about fakes and timewasters. Do the math guys." defo this | |||
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"... but if a lady knows from the start that she has no intention of meeting..just say so ..don't string a guy along for her amusement and attention..." Unfortunately some won't ever admit that, for various reasons, but the clues are often there if you look closely enough. You'd be surprised by the amount of men and couples who mail me (sometimes off the back of forum threads) and after a bit of chit chat ask to meet... They never looked at my profile and just took it as read that I must be interested just because I replied. Having to then repeat what's already stated on my profile becomes a bit tedious. | |||
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"I asked "How do you spot a fake profile" in my status yesterday. An hour later it had dissapeard. So I changed the question but leaving the word "Fake" in it. One hour later it had dissapeard. I did this 4 or 5 times, even addressing admin in the question. And every time the status message dissapeard. Is fab using some sort of algerithem that automatically delets negative messages in profiles. Just wondering....." --------------------- I made a similar observation before based on the pics on display and posted as a status update that... Judging by the background furniture, some of the pics here look like they've been taken from a 70's porn shoot Am paraphrasing here of course 
but like you, that status update (and the two that followed) were all removed....
I guess there's certain themes and subjects that are not meant to be brought up | |||
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"... but if a lady knows from the start that she has no intention of meeting..just say so ..don't string a guy along for her amusement and attention... Unfortunately some won't ever admit that, for various reasons, but the clues are often there if you look closely enough. You'd be surprised by the amount of men and couples who mail me (sometimes off the back of forum threads) and after a bit of chit chat ask to meet... They never looked at my profile and just took it as read that I must be interested just because I replied. Having to then repeat what's already stated on my profile becomes a bit tedious. " To go a bit further and maybe some encouragement to guys on here; I’ve been messaging a woman a fair bit younger than me for over 2,years. Not going anywhere . She left fab, came back and I resumed messaging her. Months passed. I didn’t think she was interested, she thought I was a bit of a player ( I’m not). Stalemate. Till Saturday just gone. Out of the blue she asked for a coffee meet . We met. Coffee became drinks. Became food . Became couldn’t keep hands off each other. Became ardent kissing and touching. Became meet arranged. Becoming something good . She’s gorgeous . She likes me . Two years of not even gradual build up but a surprise invite for coffee based she says on some positive things in my profile and 1 or 2 pics which particularly took her fancy | |||
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"I asked "How do you spot a fake profile" in my status yesterday. An hour later it had dissapeard. So I changed the question but leaving the word "Fake" in it. One hour later it had dissapeard. I did this 4 or 5 times, even addressing admin in the question. And every time the status message dissapeard. Is fab using some sort of algerithem that automatically delets negative messages in profiles. Just wondering..... --------------------- I made a similar observation before based on the pics on display and posted as a status update that... Judging by the background furniture, some of the pics here look like they've been taken from a 70's porn shoot Am paraphrasing here of course
but like you, that status update (and the two that followed) were all removed....
I guess there's certain themes and subjects that are not meant to be brought up "Yes, that is what I was trying to establish lol. | |||
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"... but if a lady knows from the start that she has no intention of meeting..just say so ..don't string a guy along for her amusement and attention... Unfortunately some won't ever admit that, for various reasons, but the clues are often there if you look closely enough. You'd be surprised by the amount of men and couples who mail me (sometimes off the back of forum threads) and after a bit of chit chat ask to meet... They never looked at my profile and just took it as read that I must be interested just because I replied. Having to then repeat what's already stated on my profile becomes a bit tedious. To go a bit further and maybe some encouragement to guys on here; I’ve been messaging a woman a fair bit younger than me for over 2,years. Not going anywhere . She left fab, came back and I resumed messaging her. Months passed. I didn’t think she was interested, she thought I was a bit of a player ( I’m not). Stalemate. Till Saturday just gone. Out of the blue she asked for a coffee meet . We met. Coffee became drinks. Became food . Became couldn’t keep hands off each other. Became ardent kissing and touching. Became meet arranged. Becoming something good . She’s gorgeous . She likes me . Two years of not even gradual build up but a surprise invite for coffee based she says on some positive things in my profile and 1 or 2 pics which particularly took her fancy" The exact same (or similar) happend to me a while back.  | |||
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"I think admin has a algorithm. I posted a funny update about fake cock pictures from Google. They removed it twice. Just out of curiosity I put it up a third time but spelled fake and Google as f_ake and g_oogle and it wasn't removed." ------------------ Pesky algorithms thought they could outsmart us simple Fab folk 
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"I asked "How do you spot a fake profile" in my status yesterday. An hour later it had dissapeard. So I changed the question but leaving the word "Fake" in it. One hour later it had dissapeard. I did this 4 or 5 times, even addressing admin in the question. And every time the status message dissapeard. Is fab using some sort of algerithem that automatically delets negative messages in profiles. Just wondering..... --------------------- I made a similar observation before based on the pics on display and posted as a status update that... Judging by the background furniture, some of the pics here look like they've been taken from a 70's porn shoot Am paraphrasing here of course
but like you, that status update (and the two that followed) were all removed....
I guess there's certain themes and subjects that are not meant to be brought up
Yes, that is what I was trying to establish lol. "'It's not in the interests of fab' will be a comment sent followed by a naughty step, 1st, 2nd or even 3rd one. No rules may have broken, but it's not in their interest so sometimes it's not if you've been bad, just not in their interest. | |||
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"hate them. no time for negative moaning status updates about this, that and the other. anyone who puts them we note and know how to proceed if they mail us. no time for the people who take the fun out of what is meant to be a fun site. " agreed .. on the plus side it helps with filtering  | |||
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"hate them. no time for negative moaning status updates about this, that and the other. anyone who puts them we note and know how to proceed if they mail us. no time for the people who take the fun out of what is meant to be a fun site. " .... Absolutely spot on ..everyday life brings its own crap .. people log in here to have fun .. enjoy a bit of banter & craic..and yes for that time logged in here to forget about the other crap for a while ..so who wants to hear or see people giving out about things ...it just drains the feel good factor that should be here ...we know the timewasters occupy this territory..both male & female ...we know people have their own criteria on their profiles and have their filters up ..it's their profile..they can put whatever they want on it....and they're there for their reasons...the ladies on this site decide who they want to meet ..who they want to chat to ..who they want to play with..and all the complaining & negetivity isn't gonna change that..if they're interested .. they're interested..if not..they're not...and that's just the way it is here | |||
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"hate them. no time for negative moaning status updates about this, that and the other. anyone who puts them we note and know how to proceed if they mail us. no time for the people who take the fun out of what is meant to be a fun site. " Couldn't have said it better myself -whinging bastids !! | |||
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