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By *unLovingCriminal OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere

Would you meet somebody who has cancelled or changed plans last minute regardless of excuse?or give them a second chance?

Personally I don't give second chances usually but exceptions can be made rarely..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes and I have met someone who had to cancel last minute. Sometimes shit happens thats out of our control and cancelling cant be helped. If someone has a valid reason I'd be ok with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes and I have met someone who had to cancel last minute. Sometimes shit happens thats out of our control and cancelling cant be helped. If someone has a valid reason I'd be ok with it. "

Had to cancel a meet last minute as a couple here before.. Felt shitty and felt life a time waster.. Yes shit happens

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By *adylaceWoman
over a year ago

Waterford City

If they cancel then yes. We all have lives outside of fab and shit happens. If they’re a no show. No second chance. Manners cost nothing.

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By *unLovingCriminal OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere

Yes I guess if there's a valid reason cancelling and rescheduling can't be helped and shows respect as opposed to just not bothering to even to cancel...complete lack of respect would be 100% turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there was a valid reason then yes. We all have a life outside Fab that comes first and must be respected. I unfortunately have had to cancel meets and I was given a second chance so I would be as understanding.

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By *ingerrrrWoman
over a year ago

Meath

Mostly no.. it’s usually one chance with me.

If they’d mentioned beforehand that they might have an issue then I’m ok with that. But if they no show or don’t reply to messages before I leave to go meet then that’s it for me.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

If they cancel with a valid reason then yes bit If they don't bother to even cancel and don't show then hell no..

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah, i will give people as many chances as they need.

If someone says to me "Meet on the weekend?" and weekend comes and they message "Cant do the weekend", thats 100% fine with me. They can do it 50 weekends in a row, I wont mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly no.. it’s usually one chance with me.

If they’d mentioned beforehand that they might have an issue then I’m ok with that. But if they no show or don’t reply to messages before I leave to go meet then that’s it for me.

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Lucky I've never had a no show but if I had then definitely they definitely would not a second chance.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog


"Mostly no.. it’s usually one chance with me.

If they’d mentioned beforehand that they might have an issue then I’m ok with that. But if they no show or don’t reply to messages before I leave to go meet then that’s it for me.

Lucky I've never had a no show but if I had then definitely they definitely would not a second chance. "

I've had a fair few no show's just let me sit there like a idiot and not even reply to my messages then they message me a week later as if it was alright...so that's why if stopped giving second chances

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By *unLovingCriminal OP   Man
over a year ago

Somewhere


"Mostly no.. it’s usually one chance with me.

If they’d mentioned beforehand that they might have an issue then I’m ok with that. But if they no show or don’t reply to messages before I leave to go meet then that’s it for me.

Lucky I've never had a no show but if I had then definitely they definitely would not a second chance.

I've had a fair few no show's just let me sit there like a idiot and not even reply to my messages then they message me a week later as if it was alright...so that's why if stopped giving second chances"

Oh I'd be blocking them straight away if that was the case they wouldn't even have the chance to message again that's so disrespectful to not even cancel but look not all people have the cop on to message that's the problem with people expecting instant gratification on this site I never expect much from people leaves less room for disappointment haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly no.. it’s usually one chance with me.

If they’d mentioned beforehand that they might have an issue then I’m ok with that. But if they no show or don’t reply to messages before I leave to go meet then that’s it for me.

Lucky I've never had a no show but if I had then definitely they definitely would not a second chance.

I've had a fair few no show's just let me sit there like a idiot and not even reply to my messages then they message me a week later as if it was alright...so that's why if stopped giving second chances"

I'm sorry but that's just way beyond Rude and disrespectful. I hear many times here "Hey its Fab its what happens" but sorry no I wouldn't accept that as no matter what people still have feelings.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

If they cancel beforehand with some notice than I wouldn't have an issue and give them another chance. If they were a no show then no second second chances. Of someone who you have been chatting to a lot suddenly goes quiet on the day and stops responding to messages then I will cancel as they are obviously going to not show. But at least I will contact them to say the meet is off beforehand. But they won't get a second chance as they were going to just not show anyhow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal life often gets in the way of playtime .....if I felt it was genuine absolutely would have no issue giving a second chance and rescheduling .....however a no show with no contact would be a definite no to a second chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never had a no show yet, though wish 1 or 2 had of been a no show.

If a no show with no contact to let me know there wouldnt be a second chance but if they let me know and it was a valid reason, I would give another chance.

Just the one mind!

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By *ittlePinkUnicornWoman
over a year ago

Belfast

Cancelled, yes I'd give another chance.

No show, no, it takes 20 secs to send a text that you can't make it.

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By *herieWoman
over a year ago

The Burbs

If they cancelled maybe.

A no show. No second chances.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cancelled yes, we all have lives outside fab, or at least one would hope so. We've had to cancel in the past at short notice and people have accepted it in good faith, as have we when it's been the other way round. Not bothering to turn up is a totally different matter, no second chances there.

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

As said above by a few we all have things pop up in our lives that mean we have to put our fab lives on hold .Its not the end of the world and usually we would have a back up plan just incase.,but not always .It can happen to the best of us and we realise that so normally we just reschedule if they have a valid excuse .No shows get no second chances tho EVER

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Would you meet somebody who has cancelled or changed plans last minute regardless of excuse?or give them a second chance?

Personally I don't give second chances usually but exceptions can be made rarely.."

It depends. If the cancellation is reasonable then it will be a second chance.

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary

I always tend to give a second chance.

Life is complicated for everyone so last minute issues can always happen.

Of course, it also depends "how they cancel"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If some one contacts me beforehand with a reasonable excuse,it would never be a problem, though I've been lucky not to experience the situation so far with the handful of meets I've had!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes ..second chance given if the excuse is a good one ....like mentioned already we all have real life's and here a bit of fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We gave someone a 2nd chance... chatted right up to the day of meet, then he disappeared ...

Only to resurface a couple of months later looking for a 3rd chance... no way...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If when they cancel they reschedule then I have as that seems genuine and it's not about being plan B or not interested. If they just cancel then no second chance and normally an instant block. Harsh but hey it's a harsh place this fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mostly no.. it’s usually one chance with me.

If they’d mentioned beforehand that they might have an issue then I’m ok with that. But if they no show or don’t reply to messages before I leave to go meet then that’s it for me.

Lucky I've never had a no show but if I had then definitely they definitely would not a second chance.

I've had a fair few no show's just let me sit there like a idiot and not even reply to my messages then they message me a week later as if it was alright...so that's why if stopped giving second chances"

Had a few like that and a hotel bill to pay. Hence why I don't do hotel meets anymore unless they book it. Then it's halves when I'm there, but as I've said it's been years since I've done a hotel meet, most ladies won't book.

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog

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By *ogladyWoman
over a year ago

The bog


"Mostly no.. it’s usually one chance with me.

If they’d mentioned beforehand that they might have an issue then I’m ok with that. But if they no show or don’t reply to messages before I leave to go meet then that’s it for me.

Lucky I've never had a no show but if I had then definitely they definitely would not a second chance.

I've had a fair few no show's just let me sit there like a idiot and not even reply to my messages then they message me a week later as if it was alright...so that's why if stopped giving second chances

Had a few like that and a hotel bill to pay. Hence why I don't do hotel meets anymore unless they book it. Then it's halves when I'm there, but as I've said it's been years since I've done a hotel meet, most ladies won't book."

That's why I'm wary of booking hotel cause I've been sttod up so many times I'd be Landed with the bill and no fun..so now I normally meet for a social first and if we click I'd arrange for my place to be free or his place..save money and afford more condoms win win..lol

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