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Partnered People - Keep Hold of Your Phones

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By *urydiceRising OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

This is why I do not play with partnered unless the other knows.... Just got texts from a partner who seems to have found her (I'm assuming) husband's phone and is pretending to be him to find out where he met me. I've never met him, and would never, for this very reason. I've only chatted to this man - mostly about being honest with his spouse about what he's doing. So word to the wise - keep your phones close (especially the second one your spouse doesn't know exists). You put the people you're in contact with at risk in ways that we shouldn't be put at risk. And it was going to be such a lovely day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have gotten the same in the past, pretended to be the male asking for more face pics etc.... When I didn't play ball she got abusive and threatened to "out" me .... I had never met him either.

Mrs x

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center

I reckon if my partner found my phone she would have a shit haemorrhage from laughing at all the knock backs

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city

Yeah, it could quickly escalate. But oh well.

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"This is why I do not play with partnered unless the other knows.... Just got texts from a partner who seems to have found her (I'm assuming) husband's phone and is pretending to be him to find out where he met me. I've never met him, and would never, for this very reason. I've only chatted to this man - mostly about being honest with his spouse about what he's doing. So word to the wise - keep your phones close (especially the second one your spouse doesn't know exists). You put the people you're in contact with at risk in ways that we shouldn't be put at risk. And it was going to be such a lovely day. "

Thinking you’re confused as to who the real “victim” is in such a scenario.

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By *asterIrelandMan
over a year ago

Tipperary


"This is why I do not play with partnered unless the other knows.... Just got texts from a partner who seems to have found her (I'm assuming) husband's phone and is pretending to be him to find out where he met me. I've never met him, and would never, for this very reason. I've only chatted to this man - mostly about being honest with his spouse about what he's doing. So word to the wise - keep your phones close (especially the second one your spouse doesn't know exists). You put the people you're in contact with at risk in ways that we shouldn't be put at risk. And it was going to be such a lovely day. "

No problem for me... I am single and noone has access to my phone...

Having said that... How stupid it is to go after someone rather than their own partners?

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By *urydiceRising OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin


"

Thinking you’re confused as to who the real “victim” is in such a scenario.

"

I'm not claiming victimhood in the least.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thinking you’re confused as to who the real “victim” is in such a scenario.

I'm not claiming victimhood in the least. "

....l may be way out here but I think the lady means the Wife of that guy...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is why I do not play with partnered unless the other knows.... Just got texts from a partner who seems to have found her (I'm assuming) husband's phone and is pretending to be him to find out where he met me. I've never met him, and would never, for this very reason. I've only chatted to this man - mostly about being honest with his spouse about what he's doing. So word to the wise - keep your phones close (especially the second one your spouse doesn't know exists). You put the people you're in contact with at risk in ways that we shouldn't be put at risk. And it was going to be such a lovely day. "

One of your verifications may be compromised

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clear all of your data and history daily ,don't save password s on your account

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By *-4pleasureCouple
over a year ago

Belfast


"

Thinking you’re confused as to who the real “victim” is in such a scenario.

I'm not claiming victimhood in the least.

....l may be way out here but I think the lady means the Wife of that guy... "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and yet another reason to not get involved with married folks. the drama etc is not worth it

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By *etergemmaCouple
over a year ago

South Dublin Area


"and yet another reason to not get involved with married folks. the drama etc is not worth it "
Absolutely

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Golden rule : not meeting attached individuals

Here for fun ... not drama ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Golden rule : not meeting attached individuals

Here for fun ... not drama ...

"

agreed. unfortunately a lot of them aren't honest about their martial status. to be honest if they can't be honest to their partners that they are playing off side how can you expect them to be honest with a person on the internet?

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By *evil_u_knowMan
over a year ago

city


"

Thinking you’re confused as to who the real “victim” is in such a scenario.

I'm not claiming victimhood in the least. "

You are a victim in a way, however there is nothing we can do for you, no new idenity and new phone number for you, sorry.

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By *ondalingerMan
over a year ago

City center


"Golden rule : not meeting attached individuals

Here for fun ... not drama ...

agreed. unfortunately a lot of them aren't honest about their martial status. to be honest if they can't be honest to their partners that they are playing off side how can you expect them to be honest with a person on the internet?"
emm playing offside requires not being honest

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By *aidRXTV/TS
over a year ago

ashbourne

Same.... this is fun for me.... getting involved in a scene from Corrie or Eastenders due to someone not being honest with their partner isnt worth it for me personally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Golden rule : not meeting attached individuals

Here for fun ... not drama ...

"

.... absolutely...met a married lady from a different site once upon a time ... definitely not worth the potential fallout ...to me anyway... for all l knew her hubby could be a fucking hitman ..the world is full of single... separated ..divorced ladies ..and if there's not enough in those 3 departments to try and meet ,well then it's time to move into something else...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's Fun Times here at the end of the day ...life enough shite in it without getting more on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Golden rule : not meeting attached individuals

Here for fun ... not drama ...

"

This!!!!!!

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By *urydiceRising OP   Woman
over a year ago

Dublin

I wasn't involved with the guy in the least. I'm not changing anything, clearing anything or doing anything other than suggesting to those who are married/attached/partnered that think they're being discreet that if they don't keep their phones secure, their spouses/attachments/partners will do what this one did with me.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

Jesus! Have these people not heard of Secure Folder?

It's one of the main reasons I spent £400 on a Samsung Galaxy S8

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By *eisurepleasureMan
over a year ago

belfast

You can lock your phone with a pin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You can lock your phone with a pin "

...yup...spot on ..

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By *inkycouplehereCouple
over a year ago

belfast


"Golden rule : not meeting attached individuals

Here for fun ... not drama ...

This!!!!!!"

As above.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Thinking you’re confused as to who the real “victim” is in such a scenario.

"

Yup

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By *ltered EgoMan
over a year ago

not a million miles from the airport.


"Clear all of your data and history daily ,don't save password s on your account"

2 words

Incognito tab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Clear all of your data and history daily ,don't save password s on your account

2 words

Incognito tab"

Still recoverable data with the right tools....

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