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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx

Does been on fab mean we accept different standards then in the real world. Wanna fuck, can i fill you juicy pussy, want to see my hard cock are just some of the gems of 1st messages. Acceptable 1st messages or should the senders try harder ???

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By *hocko87Man
over a year ago

dublin

i would never use those terms want a fuck . They are idiots that chat like that . i chat like a gent .You have to have respect for everyone .

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"Does been on fab mean we accept different standards then in the real world. Wanna fuck, can i fill you juicy pussy, want to see my hard cock are just some of the gems of 1st messages. Acceptable 1st messages or should the senders try harder ??? "
I find if I'm hard when I try it just comes out all wrong.

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By *r tayt2Man
over a year ago

Trim

Ah think a bit harder would do no harm

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By *ildmovementMan
over a year ago

Dublin

That’s totally unacceptable!!!! Not try at but harder! With comments like that as an introduction I would say try a different site not Fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had this conversation only this morning when someone sent a one line opening message looking to know would I wank him off with my feet. If he met me out socially would he have opened with this line.

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By *sLittleRedRidingHoodWoman
over a year ago

Magical Forrest

Never settle for mediocre.

Never settle for anything less then you deserve or your worth.

Just because you are on a swinger site doesnt mean you should accept anyone who shows his dick.

That's my two cents on the matter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s such a shame that guys do open with limes like that, as said perfectly I doubt you’d open a social meet with that so why start a fab conversation like that?

What I find tricky is sending a detailed enough message that makes me stand out, offers information about me, and isn’t too long haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What senders want to send is entirely up to them

We cant tell someone how to run their profile or how to send messages

Where we do have control is how we respond to them,and with that the delete,ignore or block options speak volumes

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By *ipmannMan
over a year ago

Cahir

This may sound like double standards given my profile picture but the rule of thumb for me personally would be treat someone here as you would in a social setting.

Realistically if your in a bar or coffee shop your opening line is unlikely to be borderline rude... cheeky flirty funny maybe but no need for ignorance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does been on fab mean we accept different standards then in the real world. Wanna fuck, can i fill you juicy pussy, want to see my hard cock are just some of the gems of 1st messages. Acceptable 1st messages or should the senders try harder ??? "

That’s a ‘wtf! message’ not acceptable 1st message, in my opinion. I’m sure this won’t be acceptable standards anywhere. That’s not lack of creativity sending a message. That’s weird

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"Does been on fab mean we accept different standards then in the real world. Wanna fuck, can i fill you juicy pussy, want to see my hard cock are just some of the gems of 1st messages. Acceptable 1st messages or should the senders try harder ???

That’s a ‘wtf! message’ not acceptable 1st message, in my opinion. I’m sure this won’t be acceptable standards anywhere. That’s not lack of creativity sending a message. That’s weird "

That accounts for quite alot of messages actually

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"I had this conversation only this morning when someone sent a one line opening message looking to know would I wank him off with my feet. If he met me out socially would he have opened with this line."

No of course not, these gems tend to lack the proverbial balls when the screen is removed

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"Does been on fab mean we accept different standards then in the real world. Wanna fuck, can i fill you juicy pussy, want to see my hard cock are just some of the gems of 1st messages. Acceptable 1st messages or should the senders try harder ??? I find if I'm hard when I try it just comes out all wrong."

Oh im sure you always come just perfectly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never understood those kind of messages. better off approaching people on fab like you would approach them in the real world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does been on fab mean we accept different standards then in the real world. Wanna fuck, can i fill you juicy pussy, want to see my hard cock are just some of the gems of 1st messages. Acceptable 1st messages or should the senders try harder ???

That’s a ‘wtf! message’ not acceptable 1st message, in my opinion. I’m sure this won’t be acceptable standards anywhere. That’s not lack of creativity sending a message. That’s weird

That accounts for quite alot of messages actually "

I’m sorry to hear that, I get those messages too. sometimes I feel individuals sending that type of message, mistake the person they’re messaging with a sexdoll We meet people every day and we have a lot of conversations-I can only picture this message in real life and how awful the outcome would be.

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"Does been on fab mean we accept different standards then in the real world. Wanna fuck, can i fill you juicy pussy, want to see my hard cock are just some of the gems of 1st messages. Acceptable 1st messages or should the senders try harder ???

That’s a ‘wtf! message’ not acceptable 1st message, in my opinion. I’m sure this won’t be acceptable standards anywhere. That’s not lack of creativity sending a message. That’s weird

That accounts for quite alot of messages actually

I’m sorry to hear that, I get those messages too. sometimes I feel individuals sending that type of message, mistake the person they’re messaging with a sexdoll We meet people every day and we have a lot of conversations-I can only picture this message in real life and how awful the outcome would be. "

Personally i tend to respond best to just decent behaviour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does been on fab mean we accept different standards then in the real world. Wanna fuck, can i fill you juicy pussy, want to see my hard cock are just some of the gems of 1st messages. Acceptable 1st messages or should the senders try harder ??? "

Those kind of one liners are just crude. I have no interest in meeting someone who cannot hold a decent conversation. So my report would be, must try harder. Nothing good comes easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree. I do wish women would be a bit more imaginative than their standard “wanna fuck?” first messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No.

I apply the same standards I have in the real world to interacting with people on fabs.

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"I agree. I do wish women would be a bit more imaginative than their standard “wanna fuck?” first messages"

My imagination is stagnent im afraid

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By *P_80Man
over a year ago

Waterford

The way I look at it is, if I wouldn't say it to a woman in public then I wouldn't say it to a woman on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What senders want to send is entirely up to them

We cant tell someone how to run their profile or how to send messages

Where we do have control is how we respond to them,and with that the delete,ignore or block options speak volumes "

Completely.

People's responses only become acceptable when someone accepts it and responds. There must be a lot accepting theses because so many seem to get away with it, over the years it's never slowed down.

Accept only what you're worth. If people don't reply to a nice message or stop conversation then I block and move on as I know my worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Does been on fab mean we accept different standards then in the real world. Wanna fuck, can i fill you juicy pussy, want to see my hard cock are just some of the gems of 1st messages. Acceptable 1st messages or should the senders try harder ??? "

Wouldn't send anything like that to any lady on Fab ..l think it's a total insult to a lady ...this may be the site it is but no way should a lady open a message to that kind of stuff...my tuppence worth on the subject anyway ..

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin

It's nice to be nice.

Don't always manage it but I'm trying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never say anything on here that I wouldn't say to someone's face directly. I like to think that I am well mannered and in no way crass.... Not saying that I can't be utterly filthy but ONLY in a very mutual fashion.

I don't understand how anyone could possibly think that a "Wanna fuck" or "I'll ride you sideways and every which way like you have never been ridden before" message could ever get any form of a positive response.

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By *ohndunboyneMan
over a year ago

Dunboyne & Dublin


"I never say anything on here that I wouldn't say to someone's face directly. I like to think that I am well mannered and in no way crass.... Not saying that I can't be utterly filthy but ONLY in a very mutual fashion.

I don't understand how anyone could possibly think that a "Wanna fuck" or "I'll ride you sideways and every which way like you have never been ridden before" message could ever get any form of a positive response. "

I do wonder though.

It must be successful somewhere somehow, for some, or it would not be continually used, no?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never settle for mediocre.

Never settle for anything less then you deserve or your worth.

Just because you are on a swinger site doesnt mean you should accept anyone who shows his dick.

That's my two cents on the matter.

"

Exactly this

The sense of entitlement on here is shocking at times

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By *rsmiley69Man
over a year ago

Cavan Monaghan

I’d be happy just to meet for a coffee, I’m easily pleased

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm often left shaking my head at some guys here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm often left shaking my head at some guys here "

I would think it is a daily occurrence!? Lol

Guys, present company included, are idiots on a GOOD day..... It is in our nature to behave like fucktards but what sets us apart is when we fight that and at least TRY to not act like single celled idiots

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx

Glad to see a strong voice saying this isn't my norm. Sex doesn't equate no effort, in fact it equates the oppisite. If im going to be that intimate with another human im going to insist on standards and respect.

Sometimes i just ignore and move on and sometimes i say "no not for me and your message is the reason why "

Ive had disgustingly crude messages in my time. I wonder the sensibility and intelligence of the people sending them. Would they say it in real life ?? Probably not, in my opinion people aren't so brave when not behind a screen.

Not to be entirely negitive ive had some wonderful messages and chats with men ive gone on to meet and had fantastic experiences with. It pays to be a decent human ...even here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad to see a strong voice saying this isn't my norm. Sex doesn't equate no effort, in fact it equates the oppisite. If im going to be that intimate with another human im going to insist on standards and respect.

Sometimes i just ignore and move on and sometimes i say "no not for me and your message is the reason why "

Ive had disgustingly crude messages in my time. I wonder the sensibility and intelligence of the people sending them. Would they say it in real life ?? Probably not, in my opinion people aren't so brave when not behind a screen.

Not to be entirely negitive ive had some wonderful messages and chats with men ive gone on to meet and had fantastic experiences with. It pays to be a decent human ...even here "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Glad to see a strong voice saying this isn't my norm. Sex doesn't equate no effort, in fact it equates the oppisite. If im going to be that intimate with another human im going to insist on standards and respect.

Sometimes i just ignore and move on and sometimes i say "no not for me and your message is the reason why "

Ive had disgustingly crude messages in my time. I wonder the sensibility and intelligence of the people sending them. Would they say it in real life ?? Probably not, in my opinion people aren't so brave when not behind a screen.

Not to be entirely negitive ive had some wonderful messages and chats with men ive gone on to meet and had fantastic experiences with. It pays to be a decent human ...even here "

Hear hear.... It pays to be a decent human being. If everybody recited those words... Made them a Fab mantra.... Before contacting someone then this place might be more tolerable for EVERYONE!

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By *eanbelfastMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"Never settle for mediocre.

Never settle for anything less then you deserve or your worth.

Just because you are on a swinger site doesnt mean you should accept anyone who shows his dick.

That's my two cents on the matter.

"

This! Set your own standards and follow them. The disappointing thing must be how some guys manners and standards slip because they are behind a screen. That said it may be float someone's boat. Be a gentleman at heart with a wicked grin and naughty mind.

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By *hy_bangor_bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

Bangor


"Does been on fab mean we accept different standards then in the real world. Wanna fuck, can i fill you juicy pussy, want to see my hard cock are just some of the gems of 1st messages. Acceptable 1st messages or should the senders try harder ??? "

None of them are acceptable!

Would you use them in a pub or club?

Just because Fab is what it is didn't mean it's anyone divine right to think they are entitled to anything on here.

Charm will get you everywhere in life!

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By *intage AmigosCouple (MM)
over a year ago

Northsider...D69


"Never settle for mediocre.

Never settle for anything less then you deserve or your worth.

Just because you are on a swinger site doesnt mean you should accept anyone who shows his dick.

That's my two cents on the matter.

"

perfectly put ... swingers are people too ... we are not pervs or deviants because we like sex &use Fab to meet like minded people.

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"Glad to see a strong voice saying this isn't my norm. Sex doesn't equate no effort, in fact it equates the oppisite. If im going to be that intimate with another human im going to insist on standards and respect.

Sometimes i just ignore and move on and sometimes i say "no not for me and your message is the reason why "

Ive had disgustingly crude messages in my time. I wonder the sensibility and intelligence of the people sending them. Would they say it in real life ?? Probably not, in my opinion people aren't so brave when not behind a screen.

Not to be entirely negitive ive had some wonderful messages and chats with men ive gone on to meet and had fantastic experiences with. It pays to be a decent human ...even here

Hear hear.... It pays to be a decent human being. If everybody recited those words... Made them a Fab mantra.... Before contacting someone then this place might be more tolerable for EVERYONE! "

Decency equals fun for all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had this conversation only this morning when someone sent a one line opening message looking to know would I wank him off with my feet. If he met me out socially would he have opened with this line."

That's the point! They behave like idiots. Would they ever think to say it face to face without an intro in the club, pub or another public place?! I don't think so. They think it's fab online and they are anonymous until decide to share the face pic so they can send whatever they want and then surprise and moaning on the forum or update "Why I can't meet..."

Is this really hard to think twice and count to 10 before sending that kind of message?!

Who the hell they are to treat us women like a thing not as a human being!

Good day all!

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By *oserMan
over a year ago

where the wild roses grow


"I had this conversation only this morning when someone sent a one line opening message looking to know would I wank him off with my feet. If he met me out socially would he have opened with this line.

That's the point! They behave like idiots. Would they ever think to say it face to face without an intro in the club, pub or another public place?! I don't think so. They think it's fab online and they are anonymous until decide to share the face pic so they can send whatever they want and then surprise and moaning on the forum or update "Why I can't meet..."

Is this really hard to think twice and count to 10 before sending that kind of message?!

Who the hell they are to treat us women like a thing not as a human being!

Good day all!

"

You need a good seeing to

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I don't really see why people get so worked up or even offended by these message. They're great filters, tells you immediately who not to meet and for the guys on here it cuts down on competition. So what's the problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I had this conversation only this morning when someone sent a one line opening message looking to know would I wank him off with my feet. If he met me out socially would he have opened with this line.

That's the point! They behave like idiots. Would they ever think to say it face to face without an intro in the club, pub or another public place?! I don't think so. They think it's fab online and they are anonymous until decide to share the face pic so they can send whatever they want and then surprise and moaning on the forum or update "Why I can't meet..."

Is this really hard to think twice and count to 10 before sending that kind of message?!

Who the hell they are to treat us women like a thing not as a human being!

Good day all!

"

Well said totally agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't really see why people get so worked up or even offended by these message. They're great filters, tells you immediately who not to meet and for the guys on here it cuts down on competition. So what's the problem? "

Exactly, the men with half a clue stand out instantly .

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By *oseredWoman
over a year ago

Dublin

If I respond possitively then the message is acceptable. If it's unacceptable I use it as a easy way to filter out the idiots. Saves me a lot of time. Some people obviously get some little kick from being crude and rude but will get bored if they didn't get any feedback from it. If you don't like a message just bloke and move on. One less fool to contend with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If I respond possitively then the message is acceptable. If it's unacceptable I use it as a easy way to filter out the idiots. Saves me a lot of time. Some people obviously get some little kick from being crude and rude but will get bored if they didn't get any feedback from it. If you don't like a message just bloke and move on. One less fool to contend with."

Or boke and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A message that really get on my goat is when the guy offers to help you out. As if he is doing you a favour. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A message that really get on my goat is when the guy offers to help you out. As if he is doing you a favour. lol

"

Oòoooh love those ones.

Great Adonis, how I want to be your slave, thank you for your kind attention

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A message that really get on my goat is when the guy offers to help you out. As if he is doing you a favour. lol

Oòoooh love those ones.

Great Adonis, how I want to be your slave, thank you for your kind attention "

Haha I know seriously lol

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By *ouble Trouble 1000Couple
over a year ago

ireland

As DH says it's a great filter ,if they haven't the intelligence to send something more appropriate then they get blocked -couples and singles alike !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep - Instant block ; as per a couples first message to me to send them my what’s app number. No. Block.

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By *j47Man
over a year ago

limerick


"Does been on fab mean we accept different standards then in the real world. Wanna fuck, can i fill you juicy pussy, want to see my hard cock are just some of the gems of 1st messages. Acceptable 1st messages or should the senders try harder ??? "

I totally agree with u the women of fab need to try harder thinking Ill jump on anything that offers a sniff of pussy they have it all wrong and really should try harder

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of the behaviour from men on this site is quite frankly shocking. What kind of language is it to use on an introductory message. Would you walk up to a lady in a bar & just take your cock out or just say as your opening line "Want to fuck" it really is shameful behaviour

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin

The white nights are out in force today. I do agree that there is no call to be rude or offensive but part of the charm of fab is that you get to be a bit more flirtatious than maybe you would be to a complete stranger in a bar. Not necessarily a bad thing. No need to be crude but as it is a sex site I'm Ok with a flirtatious sexual opening message. Am I one of the few and wrong ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The white nights are out in force today. I do agree that there is no call to be rude or offensive but part of the charm of fab is that you get to be a bit more flirtatious than maybe you would be to a complete stranger in a bar. Not necessarily a bad thing. No need to be crude but as it is a sex site I'm Ok with a flirtatious sexual opening message. Am I one of the few and wrong ?"

What do you consider a flirtatious sexual opening message? Cause it seems to differ among the men on this site.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"The white nights are out in force today. I do agree that there is no call to be rude or offensive but part of the charm of fab is that you get to be a bit more flirtatious than maybe you would be to a complete stranger in a bar. Not necessarily a bad thing. No need to be crude but as it is a sex site I'm Ok with a flirtatious sexual opening message. Am I one of the few and wrong ?

What do you consider a flirtatious sexual opening message? Cause it seems to differ among the men on this site. "

Firstly, please forgive the above spelling for "knights". What I would consider as an acceptable message would be one that leaves the recipient in no doubt that I find her/them very attractive and that I'm most definitely interested. No closeup cock pics attached to the mail or use of crude offensive language but certainly bordering on cheeky.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The white nights are out in force today. I do agree that there is no call to be rude or offensive but part of the charm of fab is that you get to be a bit more flirtatious than maybe you would be to a complete stranger in a bar. Not necessarily a bad thing. No need to be crude but as it is a sex site I'm Ok with a flirtatious sexual opening message. Am I one of the few and wrong ?

What do you consider a flirtatious sexual opening message? Cause it seems to differ among the men on this site. Firstly, please forgive the above spelling for "knights". What I would consider as an acceptable message would be one that leaves the recipient in no doubt that I find her/them very attractive and that I'm most definitely interested. No closeup cock pics attached to the mail or use of crude offensive language but certainly bordering on cheeky."

pity some of the other makes don't have that attitude.

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"I don't really see why people get so worked up or even offended by these message. They're great filters, tells you immediately who not to meet and for the guys on here it cuts down on competition. So what's the problem? "

Thats my point but nothing wrong with discussing it with friends on the forum that was set up to discuss all these topics

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"A message that really get on my goat is when the guy offers to help you out. As if he is doing you a favour. lol

"

I've an amazing vibrator .. im grand thanks

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"The white nights are out in force today. I do agree that there is no call to be rude or offensive but part of the charm of fab is that you get to be a bit more flirtatious than maybe you would be to a complete stranger in a bar. Not necessarily a bad thing. No need to be crude but as it is a sex site I'm Ok with a flirtatious sexual opening message. Am I one of the few and wrong ?"

Nope definitly not ... been flirtatious is wonderful..I'm a devil for it, been crude is just a sign of idiocy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it a bit over the top the comments from people asking if its acceptable to send want to ride or messages like that.When the people making the comments have there boobs,pussy,ass and cocks dangling all over the place would those people go out in public like that. I personally think what's said in message should be taken with a pinch of salt as this is not the real world and resembles it in no way. I have received lots of want to ride or messages like that and found some quite funny and I was in no way upset by said messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A touch of class is never out of place and makes a big difference

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By *ubeMan
over a year ago

Drogheda

I have given up on sending a hello to any of the women on here, as no one wants to reply so I don’t see the point. I’m just here to use the forum and kill some time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A touch of class is never out of place and makes a big difference"

Id settle for a furtive feel!

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


" I find it a bit over the top the comments from people asking if its acceptable to send want to ride or messages like that.When the people making the comments have there boobs,pussy,ass and cocks dangling all over the place would those people go out in public like that. I personally think what's said in message should be taken with a pinch of salt as this is not the real world and resembles it in no way. I have received lots of want to ride or messages like that and found some quite funny and I was in no way upset by said messages. "

We all have different standereds i suppose, different exoectations. Whats right for you is just that, right for you. Whats right for me or anyone else commenting is goinf to be different. Does that mean we don't discuss a topic because it dosent bother you???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I find it a bit over the top the comments from people asking if its acceptable to send want to ride or messages like that.When the people making the comments have there boobs,pussy,ass and cocks dangling all over the place would those people go out in public like that. I personally think what's said in message should be taken with a pinch of salt as this is not the real world and resembles it in no way. I have received lots of want to ride or messages like that and found some quite funny and I was in no way upset by said messages.

We all have different standereds i suppose, different exoectations. Whats right for you is just that, right for you. Whats right for me or anyone else commenting is goinf to be different. Does that mean we don't discuss a topic because it dosent bother you??? "

Have no problem with discussing anything but how can you and others talk about standards when they have boobs,pussy,ass,cocks hanging out. Would you go out in the real world with everything hanging out.I do believe you would get arrested for indecent exposure not so sure you get arrested for asking someone for a ride.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I find it a bit over the top the comments from people asking if its acceptable to send want to ride or messages like that.When the people making the comments have there boobs,pussy,ass and cocks dangling all over the place would those people go out in public like that. I personally think what's said in message should be taken with a pinch of salt as this is not the real world and resembles it in no way. I have received lots of want to ride or messages like that and found some quite funny and I was in no way upset by said messages.

We all have different standereds i suppose, different exoectations. Whats right for you is just that, right for you. Whats right for me or anyone else commenting is goinf to be different. Does that mean we don't discuss a topic because it dosent bother you??? Have no problem with discussing anything but how can you and others talk about standards when they have boobs,pussy,ass,cocks hanging out. Would you go out in the real world with everything hanging out.I do believe you would get arrested for indecent exposure not so sure you get arrested for asking someone for a ride."

Standards of what anyone will accept is surely theirs either on or off Fab. The OP was originally only asking what people found acceptable. Nothing wrong in people expressing their views whatever they maybe.

The question had nothing to do with peoples profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I find it a bit over the top the comments from people asking if its acceptable to send want to ride or messages like that.When the people making the comments have there boobs,pussy,ass and cocks dangling all over the place would those people go out in public like that. I personally think what's said in message should be taken with a pinch of salt as this is not the real world and resembles it in no way. I have received lots of want to ride or messages like that and found some quite funny and I was in no way upset by said messages.

We all have different standereds i suppose, different exoectations. Whats right for you is just that, right for you. Whats right for me or anyone else commenting is goinf to be different. Does that mean we don't discuss a topic because it dosent bother you??? Have no problem with discussing anything but how can you and others talk about standards when they have boobs,pussy,ass,cocks hanging out. Would you go out in the real world with everything hanging out.I do believe you would get arrested for indecent exposure not so sure you get arrested for asking someone for a ride.

Standards of what anyone will accept is surely theirs either on or off Fab. The OP was originally only asking what people found acceptable. Nothing wrong in people expressing their views whatever they maybe.

The question had nothing to do with peoples profiles.

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I'm not so sure its about asking what's acceptable more like do as I say not as I do.

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

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" I find it a bit over the top the comments from people asking if its acceptable to send want to ride or messages like that.When the people making the comments have there boobs,pussy,ass and cocks dangling all over the place would those people go out in public like that. I personally think what's said in message should be taken with a pinch of salt as this is not the real world and resembles it in no way. I have received lots of want to ride or messages like that and found some quite funny and I was in no way upset by said messages.

We all have different standereds i suppose, different exoectations. Whats right for you is just that, right for you. Whats right for me or anyone else commenting is goinf to be different. Does that mean we don't discuss a topic because it dosent bother you??? Have no problem with discussing anything but how can you and others talk about standards when they have boobs,pussy,ass,cocks hanging out. Would you go out in the real world with everything hanging out.I do believe you would get arrested for indecent exposure not so sure you get arrested for asking someone for a ride."

Unlike your good self i choose to publish my pics and my profile. Im confident about my pics, my body, my sexuality, my ability to get what i want and maintain an air if dignity and intelligence. I feel no reason to hide away. As for my standards i set mine, its not up to you to judge or decide. Uour argument might be more plausable if you'd an actual active profile

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

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" I find it a bit over the top the comments from people asking if its acceptable to send want to ride or messages like that.When the people making the comments have there boobs,pussy,ass and cocks dangling all over the place would those people go out in public like that. I personally think what's said in message should be taken with a pinch of salt as this is not the real world and resembles it in no way. I have received lots of want to ride or messages like that and found some quite funny and I was in no way upset by said messages.

We all have different standereds i suppose, different exoectations. Whats right for you is just that, right for you. Whats right for me or anyone else commenting is goinf to be different. Does that mean we don't discuss a topic because it dosent bother you??? Have no problem with discussing anything but how can you and others talk about standards when they have boobs,pussy,ass,cocks hanging out. Would you go out in the real world with everything hanging out.I do believe you would get arrested for indecent exposure not so sure you get arrested for asking someone for a ride.

Standards of what anyone will accept is surely theirs either on or off Fab. The OP was originally only asking what people found acceptable. Nothing wrong in people expressing their views whatever they maybe.

The question had nothing to do with peoples profiles.

I'm not so sure its about asking what's acceptable more like do as I say not as I do."

Im afraid you've misread, misunderstood the orginal question. The above poster is correct. Maybe take time to reread and understand what i asked and how i responded.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


" I find it a bit over the top the comments from people asking if its acceptable to send want to ride or messages like that.When the people making the comments have there boobs,pussy,ass and cocks dangling all over the place would those people go out in public like that. I personally think what's said in message should be taken with a pinch of salt as this is not the real world and resembles it in no way. I have received lots of want to ride or messages like that and found some quite funny and I was in no way upset by said messages.

We all have different standereds i suppose, different exoectations. Whats right for you is just that, right for you. Whats right for me or anyone else commenting is goinf to be different. Does that mean we don't discuss a topic because it dosent bother you??? Have no problem with discussing anything but how can you and others talk about standards when they have boobs,pussy,ass,cocks hanging out. Would you go out in the real world with everything hanging out.I do believe you would get arrested for indecent exposure not so sure you get arrested for asking someone for a ride.

Unlike your good self i choose to publish my pics and my profile. Im confident about my pics, my body, my sexuality, my ability to get what i want and maintain an air if dignity and intelligence. I feel no reason to hide away. As for my standards i set mine, its not up to you to judge or decide. Uour argument might be more plausable if you'd an actual active profile "

well said

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


" I find it a bit over the top the comments from people asking if its acceptable to send want to ride or messages like that.When the people making the comments have there boobs,pussy,ass and cocks dangling all over the place would those people go out in public like that. I personally think what's said in message should be taken with a pinch of salt as this is not the real world and resembles it in no way. I have received lots of want to ride or messages like that and found some quite funny and I was in no way upset by said messages.

We all have different standereds i suppose, different exoectations. Whats right for you is just that, right for you. Whats right for me or anyone else commenting is goinf to be different. Does that mean we don't discuss a topic because it dosent bother you??? Have no problem with discussing anything but how can you and others talk about standards when they have boobs,pussy,ass,cocks hanging out. Would you go out in the real world with everything hanging out.I do believe you would get arrested for indecent exposure not so sure you get arrested for asking someone for a ride.

Unlike your good self i choose to publish my pics and my profile. Im confident about my pics, my body, my sexuality, my ability to get what i want and maintain an air if dignity and intelligence. I feel no reason to hide away. As for my standards i set mine, its not up to you to judge or decide. Uour argument might be more plausable if you'd an actual active profile "

well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I find it a bit over the top the comments from people asking if its acceptable to send want to ride or messages like that.When the people making the comments have there boobs,pussy,ass and cocks dangling all over the place would those people go out in public like that. I personally think what's said in message should be taken with a pinch of salt as this is not the real world and resembles it in no way. I have received lots of want to ride or messages like that and found some quite funny and I was in no way upset by said messages.

We all have different standereds i suppose, different exoectations. Whats right for you is just that, right for you. Whats right for me or anyone else commenting is goinf to be different. Does that mean we don't discuss a topic because it dosent bother you??? Have no problem with discussing anything but how can you and others talk about standards when they have boobs,pussy,ass,cocks hanging out. Would you go out in the real world with everything hanging out.I do believe you would get arrested for indecent exposure not so sure you get arrested for asking someone for a ride.

Unlike your good self i choose to publish my pics and my profile. Im confident about my pics, my body, my sexuality, my ability to get what i want and maintain an air if dignity and intelligence. I feel no reason to hide away. As for my standards i set mine, its not up to you to judge or decide. Uour argument might be more plausable if you'd an actual active profile "

So your are judging me because I don't put picture's on my profile so again it's do as I say not as I do.

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

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" I find it a bit over the top the comments from people asking if its acceptable to send want to ride or messages like that.When the people making the comments have there boobs,pussy,ass and cocks dangling all over the place would those people go out in public like that. I personally think what's said in message should be taken with a pinch of salt as this is not the real world and resembles it in no way. I have received lots of want to ride or messages like that and found some quite funny and I was in no way upset by said messages.

We all have different standereds i suppose, different exoectations. Whats right for you is just that, right for you. Whats right for me or anyone else commenting is goinf to be different. Does that mean we don't discuss a topic because it dosent bother you??? Have no problem with discussing anything but how can you and others talk about standards when they have boobs,pussy,ass,cocks hanging out. Would you go out in the real world with everything hanging out.I do believe you would get arrested for indecent exposure not so sure you get arrested for asking someone for a ride.

Unlike your good self i choose to publish my pics and my profile. Im confident about my pics, my body, my sexuality, my ability to get what i want and maintain an air if dignity and intelligence. I feel no reason to hide away. As for my standards i set mine, its not up to you to judge or decide. Uour argument might be more plausable if you'd an actual active profile So your are judging me because I don't put picture's on my profile so again it's do as I say not as I do."

My dear your argument is childish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I find it a bit over the top the comments from people asking if its acceptable to send want to ride or messages like that.When the people making the comments have there boobs,pussy,ass and cocks dangling all over the place would those people go out in public like that. I personally think what's said in message should be taken with a pinch of salt as this is not the real world and resembles it in no way. I have received lots of want to ride or messages like that and found some quite funny and I was in no way upset by said messages.

We all have different standereds i suppose, different exoectations. Whats right for you is just that, right for you. Whats right for me or anyone else commenting is goinf to be different. Does that mean we don't discuss a topic because it dosent bother you??? Have no problem with discussing anything but how can you and others talk about standards when they have boobs,pussy,ass,cocks hanging out. Would you go out in the real world with everything hanging out.I do believe you would get arrested for indecent exposure not so sure you get arrested for asking someone for a ride.

Unlike your good self i choose to publish my pics and my profile. Im confident about my pics, my body, my sexuality, my ability to get what i want and maintain an air if dignity and intelligence. I feel no reason to hide away. As for my standards i set mine, its not up to you to judge or decide. Uour argument might be more plausable if you'd an actual active profile So your are judging me because I don't put picture's on my profile so again it's do as I say not as I do.

My dear your argument is childish. "

Why my dear.

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere

We don't have to accept anything. But messages like that makes me reach for the block button. I think most messages like that come from guys using their little heads not the one that holds the brain.

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

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"We don't have to accept anything. But messages like that makes me reach for the block button. I think most messages like that come from guys using their little heads not the one that holds the brain. "

Now i have to agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have to accept anything. But messages like that makes me reach for the block button. I think most messages like that come from guys using their little heads not the one that holds the brain. "
What did you expect when you joined messages about the weather or messages from people looking for sex.Because it's an adult sex site and you have to expect messages from people looking for sex.Just like you have to expect to see pussy,boobs,ass and cock pics. But none of the above would be appropriate in the real world.

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By *ommando4Man
over a year ago

South Co. Dublin


"We don't have to accept anything. But messages like that makes me reach for the block button. I think most messages like that come from guys using their little heads not the one that holds the brain. What did you expect when you joined messages about the weather or messages from people looking for sex.Because it's an adult sex site and you have to expect messages from people looking for sex.Just like you have to expect to see pussy,boobs,ass and cock pics. But none of the above would be appropriate in the real world. "
Fab is the real world....just an alternative real but still real nontheless

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have to accept anything. But messages like that makes me reach for the block button. I think most messages like that come from guys using their little heads not the one that holds the brain. What did you expect when you joined messages about the weather or messages from people looking for sex.Because it's an adult sex site and you have to expect messages from people looking for sex.Just like you have to expect to see pussy,boobs,ass and cock pics. But none of the above would be appropriate in the real world. Fab is the real world....just an alternative real but still real nontheless"
No it's just a place where all of life's weirdos come to hide from the real world.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have to accept anything. But messages like that makes me reach for the block button. I think most messages like that come from guys using their little heads not the one that holds the brain. What did you expect when you joined messages about the weather or messages from people looking for sex.Because it's an adult sex site and you have to expect messages from people looking for sex.Just like you have to expect to see pussy,boobs,ass and cock pics. But none of the above would be appropriate in the real world. Fab is the real world....just an alternative real but still real nontheless No it's just a place where all of life's weirdos come to hide from the real world. "

Not hide from the real world, take a break from it...and you're right in a way, there are different rules in Fab, but there are rules..

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By *he rover returned OP   Woman
over a year ago

xxx


"We don't have to accept anything. But messages like that makes me reach for the block button. I think most messages like that come from guys using their little heads not the one that holds the brain. What did you expect when you joined messages about the weather or messages from people looking for sex.Because it's an adult sex site and you have to expect messages from people looking for sex.Just like you have to expect to see pussy,boobs,ass and cock pics. But none of the above would be appropriate in the real world. Fab is the real world....just an alternative real but still real nontheless"

Very real

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had to use the block button myself, surprisingly, which i didn’t think I would. But I think yes, I am putting pictures up of myself that I would not have on social media, but that doesn’t mean that i want to shag everyone that has a keyboard and a camera ??

But i think its a good shout to open it up casual and try to introduce yourself. Like the first few lines of a CV lol

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By *igBlondeDommeWoman
over a year ago

middle of nowhere


"We don't have to accept anything. But messages like that makes me reach for the block button. I think most messages like that come from guys using their little heads not the one that holds the brain. What did you expect when you joined messages about the weather or messages from people looking for sex.Because it's an adult sex site and you have to expect messages from people looking for sex.Just like you have to expect to see pussy,boobs,ass and cock pics. But none of the above would be appropriate in the real world. Fab is the real world....just an alternative real but still real nontheless No it's just a place where all of life's weirdos come to hide from the real world. "

And here YOU are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We don't have to accept anything. But messages like that makes me reach for the block button. I think most messages like that come from guys using their little heads not the one that holds the brain. What did you expect when you joined messages about the weather or messages from people looking for sex.Because it's an adult sex site and you have to expect messages from people looking for sex.Just like you have to expect to see pussy,boobs,ass and cock pics. But none of the above would be appropriate in the real world. Fab is the real world....just an alternative real but still real nontheless No it's just a place where all of life's weirdos come to hide from the real world.

And here YOU are. "

We'll if you can't beat 'em join 'em.

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